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I'm 24, cute girl from okcupid texts me and seems interested, she's 19 though. Since I've tried dating girls my age and older with no success, I was thinking of just cutting right to the chase and fucking her, but would that be wrong?
She is of legal age, if she wants it and you want it then it's not wrong.
>>16680731
It's wrong to lead someone on, making them believe you want a relationship when you actually just want sex. Tell her you are looking for something casual.
>>16680736
I do want a relationship. But starting off with a date just isn't working for me. Everyone here and friends tells I'm doing it wrong and I just need to fuck them first instead of being nice and taking them out somewhere.
So I was coming back from my college's gym a month or two ago and struck up a conversation with a girl who lives nearby and goes here as well. At the end, she asked for my phone number, and we exchanged.
For some reason, she doesn't seemed to have replied to my texts. I'm 95% sure she actually didn't get them (since when I saw her again to ask why she didn't get them, her phone didn't show any texts from me).
I know she still goes here, but since I don't have any other means of contact aside from texting, I'm stuck between...
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>>16680718
Stop being so needy. Women don't like that.
>>16680718
Somehow in the texts you came off as creepy. Therefore she's been ignoring you and deleting them, or has your number on her blocked list.
Move on...
>>16680767
My texts were as such
>Hey (Girl), its Anon. You seem like a fun chick, we should hang out sometime. Think you'll be busy Thursday evening?
The next day, I sent
>This is (Girl), right?
The day after
>Test message, lemme know if you got this
I don't see the creep factor, but I can see how it was needy like what >>16680755 suggested. Yeah...
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Guys i honestly need advice.
Ive been a covering addict since I went to rehab in may '15. Had foot surgery today. I got prescribed pain pills. Alot of them. Opiates, my DOC. I hurt like a MOTHERFUCKER. But im afraid if i start to take them I'll relapse and go back to how i used to be. I had a real fuckin problem. What should i do? Pic is my prescription i got today.
>>16680710
Your being tempted- just don't build it up in your mind. You don't have to be all in. Take a small amount like half a pill to dull the pain. do you live with anyone who you could ask to hold pills for you? They could give you them one at a time?
Nut check time OP either say fuck them and deal with the pain to not have to worry or have someone hold the pills for you
>>16680719
OP here. Yeah im stayin with someone. Family member. I guess I'll hand her the bottle. I just think if i so that itll upset her. Ive been a failure enough i dont want to being that shit back up. And honestly im afraid that if i end up needing one after the right amount of time has passed she wont give it to me.
Are pick up artist legit ?Im talking about SImple pickup and Real Social Dynamics. Is it worth to dig in these things ?
They definitely have some good advice, but you have to have so much free time to do that shit.
Don't dig into anything. Life is too short for that. Give stuff 10 minutes and see what you can do with it.
>>16680702
Yeah, incredible good advice, I suggest you pirate it and then buy a subscription just to confront yourself. Even then if you're clever enough you can understand the various techniques they're using in their Youtube videos and you'll be good.
I'm talking from experience and it really worked on my sense of self worth and you'll feel goddamn better as a whole, not just on pickup.
>>16680886
>but you have to...
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I wish I could find a cute British girl, and I live by Chicago so there has to be some, but they're probably all rich and snobby, just like the Asians. Any hope for me finding a sweet one in the US?
>>16680692
There are stupid threads, and then, there's yours.
go to england
British Girls...rich and snobby...
Mate have you ever been to Britain its a right shitehole.
Half of the girls are riddled in clap and have 4 kids to different men by the age of 18.
Hey guys. I just need someone to talk to. I am a single dad and my daughters mom is already remarried and lives with a piece of shit who still lives with his parents. My daughter who is 7 years old is in danger of failing the 2nd grade. Her mother doesn't help her with her homework because she claims that shes too busy at times taking care of her other two kids, one is 3 and the other one is lke 5. Even though when i asked my daughter why her mom didnt help her with her homework she told me it was because her mom was watching her favorite tv show.
Yesterday i told i...
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i sincerely wish you luck in court.
Just by thinking about your daughter how much you love her should give you some strength.
I feel similar with my little sister (who is 9). I don't have any money - literally - because I study engineering (tried to work besides university but it fucked up my time and failed several courses). But I hope that soon I could somehow detach her from her mother and bring her home. They live in England and my mother is expecting twins now. She doesn't help my little sister in anything. She was visiting during Christmas and it is obvious that she has child depression. I must...
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Well, I love you OP. You go do your best for your daughter and she'll know how hard you try for her no matter what the outcome is.
Maybe you can email her teacher about the home situation and ask what help may be available.
I don't see value in human life anymore, life is so pointless. What does it all add up to? Why do anything if it means nothing. I can't be bothered doing anything anymore. I'm going to probably kill myself soon.
Whats wrong?
Life is about being happy. What do you like?
>>16681242
This.
If nothing makes you happy and you're a lost cause, then you can try making others happy.
>>16681242
Not OP, but I like doing anything tech related, I study at university and when I fail, like today, I am told by my mother that I should die, so she don't have to be ashamed of me. I'm pussy to do an hero and I started to hate her from the bottom of my hearth. I think I have what it takes to finish the uni, but I just sometimes have a streak of bad luck. Help me.
I owe a sociopath (legit diagnosed) some money and i dont know whether or not i should be scared. Basically he sold me something a few weeks back abd was not trusting with me paying part mojey now and part money later in the yeautvi convinced him to do it. Then i found out hes probley ripped me off so i said i wasnt going to pay then i found out hecwas planning to steal the item back from me an he almost managed it but he claims 'if you got a mortgage and stopped paying theyd take your house' and he wants his money so basically should i be scared of this guy like are...
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No they wouldn't. You'd have to remortgage in order to settle the bill.
Guy doesn't know what he's talking about and you're an easy mark.
>>16680659
Easy mark??
>>16680655
>Then i found out hes probley ripped me off so i said i wasnt going to pay
I don't know why you're being so vague, but how exactly did he "rip you off?" He sold you an "item," you still have the item, and you haven't given him the money you agreed on. He's trying to take the item back, and you won't let him. You also won't give him the rest of the money.
So how exactly is HE ripping YOU off? Sociopaths can be dangerous,...
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I basically told her I was interested inmore than being friends and hanging out. And I asked her what she wanted, and how she felt. Pic related is my reply from her. Should I keep pursuing her? Or just accept that we will just be acquaintances and give up? She did say she would still like to be able to go out in a text after this. So I'm really not sure. Plus I'm going in the military about the same time she is going to college, and she knows this. I really wish she wouldn't have said she was in between right now and that she really liked me. It probably gave me some false hope
Did it pass your mind she might be interested in something like friends with benefits type of thing and that's why she'd be down to go out with you.
If someone says they are not interested in anything serious you should believe that just to spare you a lot of heartache. Might as well stick your dick in her though
>>16680484
>Plus I'm going in the military about the same time she is going to college, and she knows this.
So why are you disappointed? Both of you are about to go down two very separate, irreconcilable paths. You cannot maintain a relationship in the military. She doesn't want a relationship, period. There is nothing here for you, aside from a possible hook up situation like the other anon said.
You sound lovestruck though, so that wouldn't be a good idea if you...
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>>16680484
She is going college m8, you know what that means? yes, dick carrousel.
Don't make a big deal about her, just P&D, she is giving you signs that she just want to fuck, so why not?
How to cope with loneliness?
stop being lonely.
Give me your skype op
>>16680324
You don't you need to realize that your whole life you will be alone because people will betray you and use you, you need to learn how to live with yourself.
so a female friend and i just got drunk together and admitted that we kind of like each other
im happily married, i would never leave my wife but i feel kind of gross inside over this
should i
>>16680297
Just divorce faggot, I say the same to dumb cunts who think like you do. Your wife deserves better and I hope that she cucks you. Why did you get married in the first place you dishonest shit?
>>16680302
>>16680302
too much edge for me
>>16680305
>someone disagrees with me
>wow lol edgy
Ok so i was always complimented on my naturally perfect shaped eyebrows until i got high one day and decided to pluck the few tiny, nearly invisible, white hairs on a nose bridge.
Fast-forward year ahead and now i got group of about 15-20 black hairs on a nose bridge.
WHAT-THE-FUCK and how to reverse this.
Also i am a guy and nearly 22 years old. (If that makes any difference)
>>16680193
Just shave it with a razor ever morning, takes literally 3 seconds
Or wax
>>16680196
Yeah but what if "fucking with it" makes it grow thicker, darker and more often? Thats what i am afraid of.
Also what is the reason for this? 21 years old no hair (save few, white nay invisible hairs) on nose bridge and suddenly "aaah fuck it, lets grow some"? WTF man
>>16680205
I'm almost certain it's a myth that plucking/shaving/waxing makes hair grow back thicker
I personally shave my nose bridge about once a week and have noticed no change in hair growth
So this shit is I think growing out of my garlic, is it still ok to eat if I cut it off? What is it even? I tried googling but cant find anything
Much like a potato that is the garlic trying to become a plant. Should be fine to eat unless it is also changing its hue.
Are you that poor, or just too lazy to get new garlic from the store? The time it took u to take this photo, write it up and post it, is the time itd take to get a new one from the store
>>16680178
It's either a shoot or a root.
How to talk friend into being friends with benefits?
You let the alcohol do the talking
She might be spending the night at my place soon, so i thought I should try something. Also I don't drink
Maybe it's a good moment. But you should be drinking.
I got her when she was max 2 months old. She became clingy within the first week then became slightly more distant. After she went into heat we had her spayed and she gradually became more and more clingy again.
At this point she'll follow me from room to room, scratch and howl insanely if I lock her out of my room, she sleeps literally right next to my head EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. When I come home from work she demands to sit on my lap and cuddle. She'll stand up on my lap and rub her cheek against my head.. If I take a shower, a lot of the time she'll sit...
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This has been going on for years and she's five or six years old now. I think it may be too late to train her to behave differently as I've just given up and allowed her to follow me around everywhere and sleep in my bed at night.
Should I just get sound proof headphones and give locking her out of my room at night another go?
>Getting another cat to keep her company only worked in the short term
lol you're an idiot.
Pay her attention. If anything, you need firm behavior changing. This cat will be a life saver for you, so treat it well.
>>16680114
Fuck, I will buy your adorable cat.
