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if a girl is 4'11" 105 lbs is she fat?
>>16680091
depends on how much muscle and fat she has.
>>16680093
she eats mcdonalds/pizza/cinnamon rolls all day and looks on tumblr
Does it matter to you is the real question
I got scammed. I sold a camera lens through marktplaats (Dutch craigslist) and the money never arrived. We met in person and I saw him complete the transfer with his iPhone app but three days later the money hasn't gone through: €1500
It was my girlfriend's camera lens and probably her only valuable possession. We are low on money hence me trying to sell it.
I feel so violated and stupid and trying to stave of panic attacks. I've reported it to the guy's bank, I have his name and a photo of his driver's license and will make a police...
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Pretysure you can call/contact marktplaats and tell them what happened. If youve made the transaction thru there, they should enforce the payment and/or compensate you atleast
>>16680090
He said it likes Craigslist which means nothing posted on there could be free in theirs eyes and said met in person to pay so that means the websites doesn't enforce anything
>>16680108
Then the payment company.
>Friend breaks up with boyfriend.
>2 months later she starts coming on to several guys, me being one of the more serious ones
>texts me about how I'm the only one that understands her
>"idc I'll never sleep if it means I can talk to you, you're worth everything."
>feels good even tho I know theres a possibility its fluff
>do this for a two weeks.
>literally...
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Yes lead you on hard but she sounds retarded so pursue someone more normal and close the book on her.
>>16680055
Probably this. You were just one of the many rebound guys. Its her fault move on and dont fuck crazies
>>16680046
Her best friend likes you. She cant date you anymore. They probably had a talk about guys they liked and she agreed to give you up to her best friend.
That being said tell her its cool. Tell her you feel used and abused as an emotional tampon. Let her know that its your fault and you understand that when she was down, you enabled her to squeeze dry as a replacement. That you wont do it again.
Then stop looking to her for attention. Hang out with the girl who likes you. If the friend wants to hang treat her...
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>me a freshmen in college
>take an engineering course because i'd like to
>worth
>having a problem to understand every lessons per session
>study.jpg
>fail.jpg
>give me some advice/adv/.
Don't do engineering
>>16680056
b-but i liked it.
>>16680067
Which field. Which uni
I'm not sure what to do next.
Yesterday I dated a girl I knew a couple months ago. This is not our first date and she even introduced me her parents already.
During the date I told her "I like you" (you know, in plan "I want to be your boyfriend) and she just get nervous and never answered me.
We finished the date and she never replied to that. What should I do next? We will go out tomorrow but I'm kinda nervous.
Should I ask her how she feels? should I give her more time to think?
are you Spanish?
>>16679991
Just give her time to think, and pay attention to how she acts on this new date. Maybe ask her at the very end of the date if she still hasn't brought it up.
>>16680141
Yep, Colombian. I apologise if my english is bad.
Can a relationship with a compulsive liar work out?
Dated this girl for 4 years, big lies and small lies everywhere, made up stories, made up shit, telling me she did stuff when she did not, and vice versa, just a cluster fuck of meaningless lies, some lies had truth to them some were completely made up.
Either way after all this time i suggested she may have a compulsive lying disorder, she actaully seemed pretty happy to finally figure out what the fuck made her lie about such stupid shit. She claims she is working on it and right now she is literally doing whatever...
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>>16679912
>Can a relationship with a compulsive liar work out?
Only if you genuinely enjoy being lied to. Otherwise...no. No it can't. And that's the truth.
Fucking run. Just run
>>16679917
The thing is she has only ever lied about her past, and as much as i hate her for this stupid shit, sometimes i feel happy with her, and push it aside, she's never done anything whilst in a relationship with me (like 95% confident here) I just feel if i can push aside that she may be bullshitting about her past whilst i am with her things can be okay.
What should I do?
>come home
>wife says she wants to talk to me
>says it's about her son
>says she wants him to go to religious school
>tell her no
>they are not good
>she insists
>says it's her son anyways, and she was only being nice by asking me first
>get mad
>yell...
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Tell her the priest will rape his ass.
We warned you about single mothers. Reap what you sow.
>>16679903
we were best friends in highschool, but she went wild in college. I felt I had to help her adjust to being normal and raise her son.
I'll skip the >tfw bullshit because I have more pride. But not enough that I won't make the thread.
In short, I find the prospect of getting any kind of sexual relationship with a girl impossible. Is it really as difficult as it seems?
To go the lengthy route. I'm not ugly, my bombshell matches on tinder tell me that much. Though I'm not charming, my success rates tells me that. 1 in maybe 15 girls(Probably one in ten when I really try) I get to a stage where they give me their number and then get to a stage where they say a meet up is possible....
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>>16679858
Everybody goes through dry spells. I went through a several-year dry spell.
Is there any super-stressful shit going on in your life right now that could be influencing how you come across to people?
>>16679924
I wouldn't say super stressful, but there is some stress.
I'm doing a degree I don't enjoy and its taking away time from doing the shit I love. Though that kind of stuff never stopped me in the past, I got girls during times of depression and, in one case, when I had to catch crazy slipping grades.
>>16679939
Do you find yourself talking to girls or to people in general about your problems a lot? Sometimes if I'm preoccupied with stuff, I'll gab about it and not realise it til I notice the person is bored.
How come you don't enjoy your degree? Is there any way you can make more time for the things you love? Shift your schedule around or something? If not this semester, then over the summer?
what's some romantic shit i can do for the girl i like?
>>16679845
tell her to suck you off in the rain
Make your intentions clear and take her out on a date instead of doing favours for her and expecting her to return your affections for it like the Nice Guy you are.
>>16679845
finger her butthole while youre fucking her
Going on a date tomorrow and still have no idea what my plan is. She's vegan and currently has a boot on her foot, so I'm kind of limited. Ah, also she's really thin, so probably no outdoors for long periods past sun set.
So far I have either:
Grab food/hangout
Elevator picnic
P.S. Chick isn't new, dater her a while back and she just moved back into town. A bit of rekindling, hence my want for a unique date
Take her to a doctor, she sounds unhealthy.
>>16679836
>Elevator picnic
wtf is that
Why no outdoor for long periods past sunset? I mean, you could bring a jacket, she could feel cold and you could be a genlteman. As long as you're not a pushy m'lady (which I'm assuming you're not otherwise you wouldn't have had a date) it'll give you a lot of points.
>>16679844
You obviously don't live where it gets actually cold. Here in Wisconsin it's like -10 out right now. Being outside for extended periods of time blows even in full winter attire.
Any advice on dumping a guy?
>>16679817
have sex with his best friend
>>16679817
A bit of context, OP.
>>16679817
do it in person if possible, only jerks break up over text
think of what you want to say beforehand because shit's probably gonna get emotional
do him a courtesy and tell him why you're breaking up with him. if he's acting like a jackass or is immature or whatever, he can't fix that stuff about himself if he doesn't know what's wrong
give him back any of his stuff that is still at your place and set a day to come and collect anything of yours that is at his place
after...
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I resently discovered that not only I'm not an ugly fuck, but that actually I'm quite handsome. It's been overwhelming, to say the least. It's not like I had absolutely zero confidence, I just always assumed I was a 5/10 with highly above average intelligence, so I always figured my intelligence compensated for my looks. But then I started noticing girls staring at me when I'm walking, I've even seen some biting their lip and staring at my ass. Random 7-8/10 girls start conversations with me, and are very flirty. Hell, they even laugh at my jokes....
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>>16679779
>pic unrelated
I wanted to use this:
Grow a pair
>>16679787
/thread?
kek, how? It's overbearing because I have never been treated like a hot guy in jr. and highschool. It's all new to me.
Is she lying to muah?
stop over thinking
>>16679772
You're not her are you?
I think you need to find other fields.
i smell like shit
i dont know why, every doctor ive been to has no idea whats wrong with me
recently, everyone around me can smell me and they make it very apparent
i shower twice a day and scrub everywhere, way more than most people
i wear deodorant, cologne, wash my clothes literally every day but i still get the same comments that i smell like poop
no, i dont shit my pants
i like this girl shes 5 years older than me
im so shallow and shes really ugly but she has a nice body i guess
shes everything i hate
republican, christian, rude as fuck to...
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What do you eat? How fit are you?
I had a similar problem until I started using wet paper towels, and not only clean your orifice but also the surroundings. I wish you the best of luck.
>>16679751
a lot of subway lately
ya i swim a lot makes me feel better about myself
>talking to girl from my old high school
>she just turned legal and says she wants to date me
>I don't remember her and only have her profiles online
>she has an old Instagram and a new one
>in the old Instagram she looks pretty good and really attractive
>in her newer pics she looks really not that great and has most of her face out of the pics
Do girls randomly just get...
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Fuck it I'll post pics the top pics are the old ones and bottom ones are newer
i know what you mean and i think its less girls getting ugly and more that youve been exposed to more attractive women since leaving high school and your tastes changed.
also a lot of things can change how a person looks in a picture, from angle to lighting to how much makeup she has on. if she was anything like the girls i knew in middle school/high school, she caked that shit on so thick.
they're called filters u poor poor boy
