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Long story short
>be me
>22 year old male
>can't drive
>call uber
>QT 22 year old grill
>instantly click with her even though I'm shy
>can't stop thinking about her
Should I try contacting her? I technically have her uber cellphone, might be able to get her name on FB, don't know.
She also leaves kinda near, I...
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>>17168445
pls respond
>>17168445
Just try asking her out on a coffee, what's the worst possible consequence?
Just do it.
Don't show how scared you are, NEVER show how scared you are. Play it cool and just ask her out man.
Easier said than done, but you'll feel great after you ask, yes, or no.
Okay guys i have an hour so i'd appreciate if u responded quickly.
I'll cut to the chase
>meet QT redhead
>she works at a place i used to work
>heard alot of good stuff about me since she's friends with my ex-boss
>is my ex-gf's friends though
>When i tell her that i'm the guy she heard alot about she approaches me, shakes my hand and introduces herself
>i...
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So ask her out on a date then.
I don't get the issue. You're either okay with it or you aren't, that's not something to get advice on. And she's either okay with it or isn't, you shall find out. And your ex is either okay with it or she isn't, which really shouldn't matter to you at all anymore, and isn't your business.
>>17168453
Forgot to mention i'm not on good terms with my ex right now, and she gossiped about me alot since we broke up. That's my concern, i don't want to end up in very weird situation again.
>>17168466
So you're afraid of your ex?
Be me
Be the underdog of your class
Ask out the hottest girl
She says sure surprisingly
You date her for 14 months
Be happiest person alive
She dumps you because you didn't take it past 3rd base fast enough
She gets a new boyfriend 1 week later
She gets pregnant after 3 months
Her new boyfriend dumps her
She's now a pregnant 17 year old
On a scale of 1-10 how hard should I be laughing
>>17168430
0, she left you
You should be giving zero shits about it
10 for laughing at yourself for being so salty about it still.
>>17168430
>You date her for 14 months
>Be happiest person alive
>She dumps you because you didn't take it past 3rd base fast enough
>She gets a new boyfriend 1 week later
Way she dumped you is an excuse. You were too happy to be there and put her too high on a pedestal. That's the worse thing you can do because you get to the point that all you care about is her just "being there", not what she brings to the table. Got to make women work, no matter what kind of hottie is, that girl is 17. She's still trying to find herself and you should do the same, if you're 17 don't get too serious until you're like 24ish. Women go through there hoe stages 17 to 24, where they crave alot of attention and flaunt their newly formed tight ass and perky breast of to guys if they have it.
Please bear with me:
>have big crush on best friend's sister for years
>she's 18 and I'm 21
>confirm that feelings for each other are mutual after some flirting followed by drunk texting on Thanksgiving last year
>ask her out
>she says yes
>thought date went really well
>good food, good conversation, lots of laughing, all sorts of green lights...
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>>17168412
Yeah, but not because it would lead you to your crush, but just to fuck
She clearly isn't interested. Or at least by what you tell it seems that way.
Go to a bar and hook up. Crushes are always sweet and shit but they're delusional.
>>17168412
>2) I feel like doing this could help my crush see me as a sexual person rather than as 'Another Older Brother,' which is something that she's mentioned to my best friend before
You're delusional if you think this'll actually happen.
It itches and hurts like crazy. Sorry for shitty picture it's so hard to take
>>17168353
>hurts like crazy
>red and inflamed
Infected
>>17168353
Doesn't look infected but it's definitely on it's way. It's obviously swollen.
>>17168359
So a follow up question: what do I do to make it not infected?
I want loves
:3 yes
Oh!!!! So cute kitty!!!!!
>>17168323
I am friend to all cats.
I'm in love with a girl, but I feel as if I'm not good enough for her and she has better options to settle. Should I still try to get her?
>I feel as if I'm not good enough for her and she has better options to settle
Self-fulfilling prophecy.
What kind of pathetic thought process is this? Grow a pair m8.
>>17168321
yeah even if i get her my mind would fuck up as time goes on
>>17168325
i see her as better than me socially and she is also beautiful, i think she could get a better guy than me if she wanted
I'm terrified of public bathrooms, especially now with all this hateful debate going on about trans people. Which is not ideal because I have to pee a lot. Feel like spironolactone being a diuretic is a cruel irony.
Am I just crazy? I've had really weird encounters in both men's and women's bathrooms and after each one I tend to actively hate myself for a long while. Sometimes I wish I could stay home all of the time and never have to face anyone or deal with their stupid fucking bathrooms.
>>17168215
Yes you're crazy. Move to Canada.
what's your question exactly, "am I crazy?"
Do I need to say it?
>>17168227
My question is how can I get over this anxiety and how am I supposed to deal with people who decide to confront me in bathrooms?
Would it be weird to go clubbing alone as a girl?
>>17168199
Not weird but maybe dangerous :( speaking as another girl I don't think it's smart unfortunately
If you have to ask you're not experienced enough.
>>17168199
not weird,but >>17168271
why would one seriously cosider going clubbing alone, instead of having fun with friends?
is talking to girls through facebook an effective way to get a gf? it just seems so simple and you immediately get to know whether they have bf's or not, or whether their taste in stuff goes along with yours. i'm an aspie so i'd probably pass out if I ever tried talking to a girl irl.
If I don't know you, or if it's obvious you're just trying to talk to me to get in my pants, I'll ignore you.
>>17168164
which is less embarrassing in facebook than it is irl rite?
>>17168168
Not necessarily. I'll be telling my friends about the freak who tried chatting me up and possibly showing them the messages
>been talking/dating this 10/10 would wife, insanely rich chick for a bit
>about to make us official
>suddenly she says she wants kids and to settle down soonish (couple of years)
What do lads? I don't want to pay child support and a woman kids like that makes me think she's fucking crazy. We haven't had sex yet, she's very traditional in terms of dating.
Also she comes from a hella rich family, her dad makes 500k a year or some shit. I deliver pizzas...
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>>17168160
(No experience with this situation)
Tell her your not ready for kids yet but you will keep an open mind and tell her when you are ready.
>>17168160
She's being honest with you about her wants. I think you're overreacting familia, but if you don't want to settle down any time soon then tell her. Of course it might mean the end of the relationship.
I'm also really concerned with the fact that she makes so much fucking money and I don't. I come from a poor family and she doesn't.
I don't want her family to look down on mine as lesser people.
Jello /adv/, so I like many was stupid with credit cards, would it be so bad to take a loan pay those off, and use the rest towards savings and just have the one loan payment which can't be as bad as the credit card raping me with interest at the moment? We are talking under 10k
Can you consolidate it? Also don't take out a loan for it, chances are you'll end up paying even more since the interest rates are probably higher
I haven't talked with a consolation place yet, just exploring options, I will check that out.
>>17168119
>would it be so bad to take a loan pay those off
If you have other debts then taking out a loan to consolidate all debts into one, including the credit card, wouldn't be so bad.
If you want to take out a loan just for the card, you'll need to calculate exactly how much you'll benefit, i.e. interest rates, term, etc. Don't just assume it's better. Your bank's website might have a calculator.
Check to see if there's a better card type...
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Ive been hanging out with a girl for a couple weeks. Brought up to her that i like her and want to be serious. She said she liked me too but said nothing else. I smoked some weed with her yesterday morning then 3 hours later she post on facebook thats she's dating some other guy. Another poster calling her out. I text her lol gg and then 1 day later she texts me and i havent replied.
Is there any way i can swing a fwb or side deal??
I know what kind of girl she is now.
>tell a girl you want to be serious
>she doesn't make any indication that she agrees
And you still think she owes you a relationship?
>>17168109
She said wasnt seeing anyone else and we still went on a date after that convo. I spoke up and said if shes not ready thats cool, when she didnt say anything.
>>17168148
That doesn't change any of what I said.
So basically this guy who is this rich as fuck businessman wants to have sex with me in exchange for money and trips to wherever i want to go.
He’s been on good morning america and he’s been featured in the new york times (I’m obviously not gay so i won’t fuck him) and he keeps trying to have “dinner” with me. I was basically trying to get business connections (looking for internships and whatnot) which eventually led to this guy. Im 21 and an "alright" looking guy and I’m good with reaching out to people but i mustve said something wrong for...
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Tell him that you're flattered but not interested in that. Keep it polite, and don't tell anyone.
>>17168044
i would be feel weird as fuck and decline. interesting that you say he has been on the tv, he must be really fucking rich. this is creepy.
>>17168044
How much money are we talking about?
Feeling super stressed about life right now, I am graduating from high school in a couple weeks and turning 18 in a few months. I dont have any responsibilities and i am told by my parents that i am a lazy piece of shit and im gonna get hit by life hard. I think sometimes that life is too short, even though im young. Starting to feel really lonely since i broke up with someone that i really care about a few months ago and i haven't been able to get over her. Should i go see a therapist or something? I have no idea what to do and i am actually scared of turning 18 and growing up.
>>17168021
Underageb&
>>17168040
Rip
Do what all troubled youngsters do, join the military. I'm sure your parents will respect you then.
