Damn. You got yourself into some sticky shit.
Its entirely up to you, you can try having a LDR and see how that goes, break up with her whenever you feel like it isn't working out or maybe let her move in with you if she doesn't have any problems with that. Worst case is that she uses you for your money or cheats during your LDR.

>>17170727
Another thing is that the fans of the bands I manage are kind of "obsessive" to put it nicely, and mostly young emotional girls. I don't want to have our relationship put under a microscope and picked apart and have her dealing with a lot of bullshit she shouldn't. and people being judgemental because I'm seven years older than her I guess. I don't want to hurt her but I don't know if it'll work

>>17170703
Hey, I fucked up, I actually do want to try something even if there is a bit of distance

VR is a gimmick and a waste of money, so anything but the Vive.

Hookers and blow

HTC vive so you can watch vr porn and don't have to worry about getting STDs from hookers

If he has no loyalty to his friend he's not worth dating or fucking.

Are you attracted to him? If so you need make sure the boundary is set in stone. Sometimes you have to be direct with people to disengage them. If you feel him getting more aggressive you need to tell him you're not interested or tell your boyfriend about it so he can tell him to go fuck off because he's not really a friend of his at all.

>>17170693
He definitely is loyal to his friend, I don't think he'd ever try anything and I don't know what his intents are, if there are any.

An example of my confusion is, one day I was wearing a crop top and he asked if my boobs have gotten bigger. Or he will say that a dress looks really good on me, or that my boyfriend and I have "model potential."

I've never thought of him more than a best friend, but he is good looking. I respect my relationship enough though to not cross that boundary

>>17170693
This
Don't think he'll be loyal to you if he isn't loyal to your best friend.
Has his girlfriend (or ex now, I guess) always been there with him when he was around you before they broke up?

A girl who was interested in you and versed in seduction would agree to your suggestion. But it's hard to say. She could just be weird.

Yea thats what I thinking, I feek like fucked up some how and it sucks because the only thing I can do is wait.

>>17170665
>So I went out on a "date" with my crush and her friend.
Pfft. That wasn't a date bro.
She paid for the food as a friend.
You trying to reimburse her will only come off as you being uncomfortable with someone picking up the tab.
Leave it alone or you will come off as weird.

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What do you think is the source of your irritability?

Try doing things mindfully, that is, pay attention to what you are doing at that exact moment. Might help with anxiety.

>>17170675
There literally is no real source. The source is arbitrary and changes every day.

This one day I was hanging out with a friend and helping her bake a pie. It was my job to peel the apples and halfway through my work I started feeling so fucking ashamed because I was sure I was somehow doing it wrong, that I can't even fucking peel fruit right, and my friend asked me if I'm allergic to apples since my face got completely red.

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>>17170662
This sounds like me, I get mad for the smallest reason. Sometimes I get outraged for meaningless shit, minor inconveniences.

Don't know whether there's something actually mentally wrong with me, or if I'm just a very irritable personality type.

Maybe you're very stressed/depressed/anxious anon. I know a lot of problems can turn people into shitheads.

What about porn?
The stuff about later rounds is normal though.

>>17170649
seriously, is it normal to have sex five times a day? wtf. can you get anything else done at all?

>>17170655
this

Don't, you'll fuck everything up.

There are other women out there, like literally billions of them, even if she isn't blood she's still supposed to be family.

>>17170683
you're right, thanks

>>17170683
Yea this, dont let your hormones control you

Fuck May. Fuck your friends. Fuck the King.

Get all your friends together including her and fucking talk it out. She can't hold a grudge on you for a harmless joke.

>>17170650
Yeah, see that's what I think too.
But is it worth losing all my friends over? Hell are they even my friends? Shits cray.

>I was livid.
>Clearly lied to me.
So break up.

Post a picture of her so I can get a clearer understanding of the situation.

Leave her ass for a nice 6 or 7 who will appreciate you.

Sounds like you're doing everything right so that can't be the whole story.

>>17170563
>Advice welcome on how to keep a girl interested/pining after you in a relationship.

Be a good partner. Stop acting like a douche.

/thread

>>17170572
Obviously relationships end for a lot of reasons, but I've had it explicitly told to me I was too "wishy-washy" and inconsistent when I went into my "cold" phases by two of them, resulting in the break-up. I dunno, I just feel like I don't want the excitement and mystery of the relationship to die or they'll find their fun elsewhere.

I'll go NC afterwards and some will come back, but my gf the love of my life at the moment (I think she knows) and I don't want to...
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youre acting like her friend lad

do you want to have a relationship or be her friend?

be clear in your intentions

>>17170511
Not OP
How do you text to have a relationship then ?

Girls are lousy entertainers. It's up to you to make something out of the conversation.

>Just cleaning and doing some laundry.
>Cool. Come do mine when you're done.

I've been there for this bitch every fucking second of these last three years and she lets her one week old lust for someone make her throw away someone who would really die for her and do anything to make her happy.. is that what I should say to her?

I am disgusted at the fact that this bullshit has happened for 3 years and nothing further has happened. I am not surprised she is trying to move on and crowd you out with someone else. It sounds like at one stage at the very least, she was willing to perpetuate it in order that you would come to a decision about it. You missed the window, as far as I can tell.

You have to consider for yourself whether your very literal friends-with-benefits scenario is working out. Are you afraid of losing her as a friend? Are you afraid of losing out on the sex? Because from your OP...
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oh and she used to dislike some things I did. she didn't like me not having a job, not working out and being a neet who sits on the computer all day. I've since gotten a job. started hitting the gym and I hate being on the computer now. i feel like I've really changed. I'm 19 in college and have a car and everything. and this other guy is still in high school just turned 17 and doesn't have anything.. he looks like a total and complete faggot.

Generally they advise you to measure your weight while naked and measure it at the same time every day and chart it over several months before figuring anything out.

You won't physically feel the loss of weight, if that's what you're asking.

>>17170558
I'm not trying to lose weight, I just want to know what weight I *actually* am. I don't know if I'm normal weight or not if I'm 54 kg one moment and 57 literally 3 minutes later.

How much is it normal for weight to fluctuate? How do I know if I'm just always dehydrated? Should I be drinking a glass of water before weighing, and just see what it is with the water??????!

>>17170570
Your original post made it seem like you were asking a stupid question. Even in this post you are asking a stupid question. Of course your weight fluctuates daily if you eat, drink, and defecate.

I would like post one million pics of BIGBANG or BEAST or something like that just to troll the fuck out of OP and go SHOULD YOU BE WORRIED but srsly what the fuck is wrong with you white people and your fixation on race to the point it must dictate your porn?

Weeaboos and Koreaboos will cheat on you or drop you the first chance they get if they come into contact with a cute Japanese or Korean guy.

When someone has severe yellow fever partners of other races are just something to keep them temporarily occupied.

>she admitted
Why use the word admit? You admit something when you reveal that you did something wrong. This is not the case. She revealed information about her masturbation habits. I'm not sure why you care. You've probably masturbated to asian girls too. For that matter, you probably masturbated to cartoons or all kind of crazy shit. It doesn't stops anyone from being able to have a meaningful relationship. Even if your girlfriend acquires a taste for asian boys that doesn't mean she automatically loses her tastes for previous...
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>>17170467
>I'm literally alone all day playing shitty games and dreaming of the impossible
why would you want a gf when there's this problem to deal with?
Have you thought of what you would do once you got a gf?

>>17170474
I'd hang out with her, treat her right and do all the fun things i've always wanted to do with someone.

I'm not a neet, I'm a student. I know what I want to do, but literally nothing happens. Wtf

> alone all day playing shitty games and dreaming of the impossible.

Here's your problem

Hang out with people, do interesting stuff, etc

This is coming from a guy who hangs out with people and still doesn't have a gf.

I know how it feels to crave for a gf, but this shouldn't be your main goal.
Because if you're not happy with your life, a gf might make things worth for you.
You will have to be there for her, provide and all, and if you can't even do that to yourself, chances are you won't...
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