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How do you deal with transgender women being more feminine and pretty than you
They always looks like dudes, no matter what,
>>17169170
They really don't
>>17169163
They changed. You can too, and you've got an advantage over them in that area.
Someone started this board on /b/, I've decided to take it here because /soc/ has you people on it:
>Why don't you have a gf yet?
>>685535478
I don't know how.
I'm not really sure I want one anyway. Yeah, I'd love to have a girl to hook up with but I'm pretty happy on my own. She's not going to want to do anything I want to do, or like anything I like and even if she did like I said I'm cool by myself.
I do need some pussy though, and I'm...
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Because I'm delusional. I believe she's the one, when she's most likely not.
I'm a fuck up, a dick, or a boring asshole to most woman and I'm fucking fine with that. Looking for the one that's gonna accept me for who I am is gonna be like looking for a needle in a haystack
because I'm fat lol, i had this girl who literally (and sincerely) declared her love for me, but i'm so disgusted with myself that I don't see me with anybody for that reason, so I rejected her.
I'm going backpacking with a cute girl. How do I find a way to destroy her tent so that we need to share one for the night?
>>17168867
Poopoo in it.
That's rapey you creepy fuck
Okay guys I'm gonna greentext my problems
This is the hardest situation I have ever fucking been in so please help
>been with boyfriend since we were 14
>now 18, pretty good relationship, about to move in together
>chilling at my friends house
>oh yeah anon he cheated on you with his ex
>"a month after you got together"
>"just kissed"
>go...
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You're a woman right? You'll be fine.
Someone will be your sugar daddy sooner or later.
>>17168489
I don't want a sugar daddy :(
People do change but I'd say this is ultimately down to how you feel. Do you think he has changed? Can he change? If not, then fuck off from him and find someone better. If yes, then take your chances.
You know what to do!
Be mine
I'm yourds
Be true
This girl i love has a boyfriend with a relationship im pretty sure is gonna fail. She likes me quite a bit. But i get hella fucking jealous of him. Do i fucking wait for their relationship to end.. fyi theyve never met pure internet relationship ..
My neighbour got her house because her brother came into a lot of money and gave it to her.
She spends her child benefits and dole money/jobseekers allowance on partying and she palms her child off to anyone she knows because the verbally assaults them when they say no.
Pretty sure she's in the adult entertainment industry because she said she's a "model" but she does nothing but drink and take drugs so I'm guessing she's an escort or an amateur porn actress.
For fuck sake, why can't my neighbours be a cute elderly couple...
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This shit is so stressful.
JUST DO IT
http://www.clickhole.com/video/fathers-reaction-his-son-coming-out-perfect-4409
Try this
>>17168457
Stop being a white retard with nothing better to do than sit on the internet and complain about your stupid fucking first world problems
Hitler was right
I want to fly her out from Germany to California. But not sure how to deal with paying for her flight.
I wanna book her tickets to come over.
What do?
come on guise
IF YOU NEVER MET THIS GIRL IN REAL LIFE DO NOT PAY FOR SHIT
>>17169118
Why?
Where did you meet your partner and how?
I've been going to various spots and I've been tricked into going to places because I was told I was going to me somebody. (That was a load of bollocks).
How do?
>>17168166
I'm talking partners and relationships. etc.
>>17168166
My gf and I met from working together. Pretty lucky too since we're both gay girls
Used to work together in different departments, met properly at uni though.
Is it wrong to push people out of your life because you don't want to become more like them?
I always feel like I'm being terribly judgemental when I do this. I worry deeply a lot that other people are going to do the same thing to me and it eats me up inside.
i've been debating this myself
one of my very good friends basically has made no effort to make his life better whatsoever and keeps fucking up. he now has pretty much no one except me. he feels sorry for himself more than anything and won't just pick himself up by the bootstraps. i'm realizing more and more that he only cares about himself.
i've been debating for awhile whether to drop him. i think i am going to. because being around him drags me down. i don't have time for that shit. i'm in college and trying to work hard and make my...
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Surround yourself with people you like, and who like you, get rid of everyone else, and don't feel guilty about it. If you are incapable of doing this, figure out why and fix it.
>>17170325
>>17170327
I think I'm actually on the opposite end. Wallowing in self loathing, like your friend. Thinking bad thoughts about others is just how I express it.
At work there are tons of people that I absolutely refuse to deal with because of thoughts I have about them. Most are petty, irrational and terribly maladaptive but I cling to them as some sort of "defense" against outside stress. My substance use makes it harder for me to actively...
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Why am I not eating? I'm 21, tall, not depressed.... just can't eat. it's been like 2 weeks now and don't know how I'm even still alive. It's causing me a lot of damage and I can't handle my job but I just cannot eat.
this happens to me too, anon
i don't know why it happens, but you need to force yourself to eat. eat small things frequently. soon you'll get back into the swing of it.
good luck
>>17170185
>Why am I not eating? I'm 21, tall, not depressed.... just can't eat.
Anorexia nervosa is one of the classic eating disorders we hear about among models. and there are a couple of other eating disorders with their own suffixes.
But just plain "anorexia" -no suffixes- also happens sometimes. It sounds like this is what you may have, though we are not qualified to diagnose. My wife gets this in winter: I'm under standing orders to not allow her to eat...
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See a doctor and he'll give you an appetite enhancer.
I'm dealing with this little scar on my leg.
And it really looks bad. I need help /adv/.
Prevent exposure from the sun (a band-aid suffices for this), and put ointment on it. You might want to pluck the hairs immediately surrounding the area/area covered by the bandaid.
There is one thing you can apply to this scar
>time
Cigarette scars wont heal and scars that required sewing
Chad here, just kidding it's a frequent joke at my school that I may shoot it up, regardless not why I turn to you for help.
As almost everyone on this site I am shit at speaking to girls, but in my 10th year of high school (sophomore for ameriafags) I really hit it off with this girl, lets call her Katie. Any who Katie and I really worked well together but I never really felt she wanted to date which was fine with me despite the fact she was giving me all the signals. we went to the movie one night with a group of friends and we did the whole cliche yawn, put arm around...
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but behold there was none we just chatted as normal.
now go easy on me here guys cause I know I fucked up big time, I knew she was into me and was ready to date and what did I do.
Nada, to pleb for my own good.
kicking myself over that now.
moving on, life continues everything is happy.
find out she's on the verge of suicide and cuts herself.
know you can care for someone, like I care for my beta bros and make sure they get home after a party or something but I knew at this point I love her and am ready to even face death, change my whole outlook on life,...
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She just drops off the face off the earth.
sure I attend school with her but totally different classes and the few times I see her she either does not say much or is chilling with a low level chad (spoken to the guy once where he described a 2 hour skype call with another guy, actually I take back what I said about chad more beta than myself)
getting a lot of
"k"
"dunno"
"mmmhmm"
hour long conversations are brought down to seconds
bring it up, ask if shes okay and whether the depression is coming back
not even a "i'm...
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Life starts looking good again
year 12 now (senior)
/F/it, find a new job in IT which pays good, got a CERT 3 in IT with them and grades are up on high B's low A's
now dating russian girl but hearts not really in it cause Katie.
Decide i have to forget and move on
unfriend
block all her profile links on my router and change the admin password to some 50 letter thing
finally ready to forget
spoiler alert: this does not work
keep seeing her and feeling like shit
russian girl turns out to be gay and leaves me
dont really care never really...
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You guys are the one pointing out how learning new languages are useless.
>>17168926
http://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/17157189/
I am not even the one who said that! (and no, I wasn't samefagging)
You post the same thing 500+ times. That's why. Not hard to understand why people get annoyed.
>>17169886
DO NOT REPLY
OP is a mentally challenged child obsessed with a question she posts daily - why do people study useless" languages. She gets intelligent responses, ignores them and then posts the same question the next day - sometimes alternating with this one, asking why we get annoyed with her.
She ius mentally challenged, and attempting to reason with her will accomplish nothing. Move on to the next query.
>>17169900
Thanks!
Now I know!
So pretty much, I feel like a dumbfuck everytime i do something practical. I'm a teen and ive recently got a new job at a butchery. I can do 99% of my job but I keep consistently making "common sense" fuck ups that annoy the shit out of my boss, no less myself. this is only an example of of a scenario where i get some responsibility and make seemingly simple, but often crucial messups that make me look like a moron in the truest sense of the word. Am i being too hard on myself? I want to change because eventually i want to be someone people can rely on to get...
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I've always felt very similar, my entire adult life. Fixating on tiny things I do wrong, as opposed to those I do right. I have a feeling everyone feels this way, but it shines out in different places. It's what makes us unique, anon. You'll find you excel at certain things you find easy and routine, that others struggle with, and vice versa. Keep your head up. You're doing fine.
pls respond
>>17169842
have you found satisfying work/lifestyle?
Tonnes of shit has just happened in my life and I feel like dying every day. I have three best friends who are very loyal, and without them I would have killed myself by now.
I'm going for a mental health assessment at the hospital on the 6th June. This means I may eventually be diagnosed with a disorder. I hate people who self-diagnose and they've been in my life all my life. This is why I'm taking this step.
>one girl went to the headteachers' office back in school after putting a pencil across her arm and pretended to cut...
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>>17169802
They'll probably asses you as a female teen-ager. Maybe with some mild form of schizophrenia. Only they know what they'll say you have.
>>17169822
Yep, I'm a crybaby.
