>>17167387
Perhaps you could look into some sort of "self help", like meditation and OTC drugs.
Nice picture btw, I've been in Pattaya but Kowloon seems like a whole different level.

>>17167433
>"self help", like meditation and OTC drugs
it would put a lot at risk on multiple levels. there's monthly drug screenings as well randomly.

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>>17167445
I would really like to know how are they screening for people who meditate. As for OTC, they are usually OTC for a reason, they are light drugs/food supplements it's not likely that you will get tested for any of them.

>>17167376
Just tell her that you arent compatible and you had a bad time during the date.

>>17167376

You just tell her, also how the fuck can you be this much of a pushover on the first date?

>>17167376
All of this happened over the of a coffee date? Kys.

your dad is cumming in your nose when you sleep

>>17167374
you trying to be funny boy?

>>17167388

Tell her you dont really hate niggers, you just like the word.

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What on Earth possessed you to do that?

I had no idea that she was mixed until after I said it. I was persistent and sincere about my apology, so I think I might be good

I was going to respond with socializing with people, but then I remembered that people only truly care about themselves and stab you in the back when the moment comes. So even if you surround yourself with people you're alone.

Connect with something meaningful. People, art, religion, science. The world is your oyster.

By learning to enjoy your own solitary company. If you can be a good friend to yourself, and put in effort into your own life, we'll being and happiness, then even when you are alone you will not be lonely.

>>17167256
read a book

>>17167290
This

>yesterday
>friday
>all day

Get a job you faggot.

>>17167249
Check /o/

ANYTHING can be fixed by yourself you just need the know how and tools

>sqeaking noises

Buy a can of WD40 and spray that shit everywhere under your truck, focusing on all parts of the suspension. Literally spray it till its empty.

>>17167406
Are you stupid?

>>17167394
/o/ just wants to circle jerk about their shitty 1980s "project" cars.

>>17167245
you're fucked m7

Whatever you do don't go through with it until you're ready.
This is literally how I got married man, don't feel pressured to act on it.
One saving grace here could be getting engaged but only getting married when the time is right.
Its a lot easier than getting a divorce.
That, or explain to her that you meant it but you don't feel ready for such a commitment at a young age and you guys should wait a bit before discussing it again.

I'm 23 years old and facing a divorce after drunkenly asking someone I had been dating for 6 months...
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>>17167245
Wow, you sure have dragged yourself into this situation for absolutely no reason. You really should not have done that.

Tell her that after you sobered up, you spoke to your best friend, your parents, and siblings, and have decided you should take it slower because a lot of people get divorced if they don't act careful. Reassure her that you do have these feelings for her, but upon sobering up, you've recognized caution is a good idea.

What kinds of things are you disagreeing on? Are you mad they didn't like your new undercut and septum piercing or is this actually legitimate

Sounds like the apple does not fall far from the tree

>my parents are jerks they think they're right all the time!

>I hate my parents they never think I'm right

Get over yourself. You owe everything to your parents. Go get a job and move out. I promise after a few years your relationship will increase ten fold.

>>17167227
I dont have and undercut or piercings, thank you.
Right now we're disagreeing on how to help my brother who still lives with them with his anxiety attacks and lack of sleep.
They think its a good idea to just let him take various kinds of pills against it until it all goes away, and i think he should go see a shrink to help his problem from the root.
But what i suggested is not what the doctor told them, even though i have a friend who's had the exact same problem and seeing a shrink helped her.
It's...
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>>17167212
What is this? Salad fingers wanting to kill himself?

my spoon is too big

Hello there young child, I'm here to inquire about your spooooooooooooooooooons

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>>17167205
Well I'm still working on getting out of my ex-soviet shithole so you are way ahead of me, keep it up Anon.

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>>17167205
ACHTUNG JUDEN! GEHEN SIE IN DAS BRAUSEBAD!

There's a couple of thing I didn't understand in your post mate.

>living overseas, middle class, earning more than the average graduate despite not having any qualifications
>family can't afford an education for me and my sister
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>>17167323
The story of a bit of a tl;dr version so I apologize if things seem confusing. We are middle class but with our heads just above the water. Enough to sustain ourselves but not enough to afford more expensive things like college, holidays or a second car.

>I know it's not the most exciting thing to spend your hard earned cash on however it doesn't sound like you have any other option.
Definitely, man. I help out as much as I can with shopping, expenses, rent, etc but it isn't much. My salary is slightly above our rent and with our daily expenses, saving isn't easy. I'm learning programming to invest into my skillset and perhaps think of ways I could make money on the side in the near future.

>What about going in to a joint venture with him?
I wouldn't be of much help there due to time & my inexperience in the field he's in. He tends to jump from one project to another. I really feel bad for him as many of the projects have toppled & he's been screwed over by partners many times. He says things are going well at the moment but I really don't know. He gets excited about new ventures very quickly, and sounds confident about what's to come. Things are really unstable, and I just want him to find some sort of ground to stand on.

>you're not actually allowed to be there, right?
To simplify things, I could get my passport if I managed to get back inside my country safely. I could then apply for a passport and come back here on a student visa. Bribery is very common both here and in my country so the only thing I need enough money.

>>17167183
Yes you can... But... Give yourself time to heal. Take it slow with the next one and keep your heart guarded for a while. Slowly let down that guard but don't be mean about it. Explain to the next one what happened and that this time you want to move slow. Again., don't close her out and be mean just try not to fall in love too fast and put all your hopes and dreams on her for a while.

>>17167202
Pretty much this. Time will heal all wounds, however it can leave some real hard scars too, that will keep others out.

You really just gotta come to terms with what happened. I know for me it took like 3 years to reeeeeeally get over it and then another 2 to feel like I could be in a relationship again. Things do get better, but you WILL get hurt again, just accept it, as the road to love is a bumpy one.

>>17167202
>>17167265
Right now I can't even have muster to have any interest in a girl

I've been working with a girl that is objectively beautiful and every man would be interested in having her, but I can't even feel sexual interest in her and I'm afraid it will be like this for a long time

I want to believe you're right and I'll snap out of it as soon as possible

>>17167166
I like taking care of myself, which includes also using make up and beauty treatments.
It is relaxing, it is time I take for myself.
Once or twice a week, I love spending ha hours putting products on my face to make my skin smooth, my eyebrows look nice, or whatever.
If your girlfriend likes taking care of herself, you shouldn't mind it.
You can ask her to use less make up, but honestly it's her business. You shouldn't ask her to not do what she likes to do because you don't understand/like it.

>>17167178
Caking makeup on your face is not "taking care of yourself," it's actually really bad for your skin.

>>17167186
It's nothing to do with you and not your decision. If you can't stand women who put make up on, don't date them. Otherwise, leave them to it. Otherwise, drop your preachy shit about make up.

You don't. If you do it right, others will think you two are an item before you yourselves realize it.

>>17167118
My friend goes on like 4 dates or so and just asks if they are boyfriend girlfriend and how she feels about the relationship.

'What's your schedule like this week?'

This one line is gold, it's the absolute perfect line.

You gotta chase girls, if you just sit there nobody comes to you.

So many men message girls, the girls don't bother doing the same.

>>17167155
I am not looking to get that far because I am too much of a beta faggot (if I wasn't I wouldn't be using a dating site). I just want more views and likes to my profile

>>17167181
That's fucking dumb kid