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How to not talk all the time?
I say too much always. Doing it now. I don't like small talk, I don't give a fuck about what a good deal someone got on cantaloupes because they were going to buy honeydew but those didn't look very good but they still wanted melon so etc etc blah blah. That's so boring to me. I know that my shit is likewise boring to other people, and, worse, I tend to want to talk about serious things. When I do talk about personal things, I tend to overshare.
How do I stop doing this? Or more specifically: how do I stop WANTING...
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>>17167630
Try to say whatever you want to say in your head before you say it out loud. The full sentence. Then think about how the person you're talking to is going to respond to that. If the response is going to be something like "oh.", or if you say it in your head and it sounds fucking dumb, then don't say it out loud.
You probably have to just slow down and think about whether the thing you're going to say is worth it. Just take it slow and think before you spew meaningless faff all over somebody.
Before talking, think about wether what you are saying contributes anything to the conversation or wants to be heard.
Also, That pic always bothered me when growing up. I wasn't raised properly and I only caught on pretty late when everyone would give me weird looks when I started telling them how I wasn't feeling great and being kind of open to everyone about my problens because I thought they were asking honestly. Still bothers me because I still think people are really cold.
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>>17167651
I'm not arguing that these aren't good bits of advice, and thanks. Really planning what to say would help me a lot.
It's just kinda tough because if I think about it there isn't much that IS worth saying. I've maybe had 5-8 conversations in my life that I felt really engaged in. It's kinda easy for me to go on and on when the other person's speech seems equally fucking stupid to me. I get that I'm the...
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I'm pretty open sexually, so have no problem with my bf looking at porn and stuff- it doesn't affect our sex life and I have books that are just as foul (if not worse).
Thing is, I was using his computer because mine was down and ended up seeing he checks out loli porn. I didn't say anything, but I feel really awkward about it and don't know how to take it.
I know they aren't actual children and I mostly registered them as 'cartoon' when I saw it, but its still nagging me a little.
Am I ruffled for no reason? Pic related,...
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>asking if loli is strange on a mongolian pedo club board
>>17167607
nope. i like shoota and its cuz im part pedo.
one thing to consider is that more people are 'part pedo' then you think. it isnt really its own sexuality.
i like young boys. but i also like guys my age. a lot. i also like guys older than me. i just like guys. and nature doesn't have a magic switch that says 'stop liking them when they are XX age' in your brain.
especially in terms of men where the development isn't all that different. as opposed to women wiht...
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>>17167607
I hope you don't think what you posted qualifies as loli porn. If you're willing to take this from a guy who also looks at loli porn sometimes: I'm not at all attracted to children. If he doesn't look at loli porn exclusively, I wouldn't worry about it.
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I was failing one of my classes in university; was failing everything, assignments and tests but when it came to the final exam, i killed it, got 98% and passed the course. Now the problem is that i got extra time to write this exam, so after everyone else finished the exam, i was still writing it. The proff fucked up and uploaded the solutions while i was still writing the exam.
I wrote this exam a month ago and now my school is accusing me of cheating on this multiple choice exam based on 2 reasons:
1. i was failing and suddenly got a really good grade
2....
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I don't really understand how'd you got yourself into this situation but just go there, explain how you explained here and take the bills with you.
You're some rich-ass motherfucker that you can afford 1500 bucks for tutors tho...damn.
pic related is all you will need to say
>>17167612
im offended that my school had no faith in me
>>17167665
thanks, i appreciate it!
i posted about this here months ago, but its relevant once again.
I can't even fucking have girls over here because my roommate has a shelf when you first walk in that is filled with pokemon memoribila. its the first thing you see. He also put a gigantic pokemon store display on top of the fridge that is completely useless and takes up needed space. On top of this, he installed a bidet (we're in US literally nobody uses these) not only is it unsanitary with the quality of water here, but its breaking the lease agreement and could get us evicted and everyone who uses my bathroom makes fun of it and thinks its weird. aside from this, he also has these really weird scented ass wipes that are tailored to men who use. Theres all kinds of other weird shit, he refuses to washes his dishes, hes on this weird ass diet and the apartment sometimes stinks like him, his girlfriend is an 18 year old in highschool who i basically have banned from here within the first few weeks of us living together, and we got 3 1/2 months left on the least. He also has all n64 games laying all over and is constantly talking about how much their worth and price differences on ebay and posting pics of them on fb.
Yes, I am disgusting, i have my own messes. But this place would be spotless if he didn't have all this shit out, because i'd actually be bringing girls over and more friends in general to chill. I don't leave pubes on the toilet seat, I dont let my bidet get covered in piss and not clean it, i wash my dishes as I use them and vacuum regularly.
Now, I got this girl who wants to come over here and party all day. I can't, my house is trashed. Shes 19 and still lives at home. This girl is a straight up freak. If this girl were to come over here and it was presentable i'd have her doing lines of molly off my dick within the first 2 or 3 hours of her being here.
I can't get out of this lease and im stuck on it til september, this is horrible. How do I cope til than?
>>17167595
>men who use
*men who use scented wipes in their ass
>>17167595
Start by secretly ruining his shit one-by-one. N64 game layong about? Chucked! Pokemon cutout still in fridge? Soak it with water until it disintegrates. Diet is gross? Tamper with food.
He confronts you? Intimidate him then tell him to bring his girl around so you can teach her what a real man can do to her.
You sound like an asshole.
I'm not saying this guy isn't hard to live with, I believe you.
I just don't think pokemon toys and dude wipes are that big of a deal. I'm a reasonably well adjusted chick, and I wouldn't really care about those things. Theres not such a big distinction between kids stuff and adult stuff these days, so for me an adult guy having some nerdy shit like pokemon isn't much weirder than car models or some other crap I don't give a fuck about. And the wipes? I know a lot of people who use them. I use them...
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I started talking to a girl I met online a couple years back. I'm a kissless neet, so it was surprising to me how she was so intrigued by me. She's a really honest and direct person and I kinda started to have feelings for her. However, for the last week she seemed super busy with work and barely got time to talk. Now all that chemistry we had is gone. I don't even know what to say to her, everything seems forced. Unfortunately I'm a much better listener than a talker myself. I thought about asking her out somewhere but I would just disappoint her irl. She...
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Yes.
>>17167584
id let it go. something isn't beautiful because it lasts. you had a nice time and it felt great and hopefully it gave you the kick in the pants you need to apply this sort of thing to meeting real people. but she explicitly stated she isnt really into you. you were essentially a convenient way to stroke her ego. a date where she didnt have to do anything.
lets work on getting you to go outside.
if you want it to work out you have to work for that, so I suggest you just ask her out and be honest in asking. Tell her you are intrigued by her and that you felt there was a connection in the past so you'd like to make that connection a reality and try to when you meet her. If it still feels uncomfortable and forced on the date, well some things can't be forced but there's many other women you'll meet and can ask out in the future
I am not a smoker, but I occasionally like to have a cigarette or cigar as it is super relaxing
Any recommendations?
I know smoking is not good for me, so don't lecture me
I am thinking about buying a pic of American Spirit
My only recommendation is
>don't
You will be a regular smoker in no time. Keep bumming from friends now and then.
>>17167589
its been a while sense I've done it
>>17167579
Camel crushes
This is going to sound weird but it keeps happening again and again and again.
Now it's getting warmer people in my neighborhood are starting to mow their lawns. Literally every time someone begins to mow their yard I start to feel incredibly nauseous, dizzy, and sick to my stomach like I'm going to vomit. Every time I have felt this way it has started about 5-10 minutes after I hear mowing. I never felt like this any other time.
The only thing that makes it better is if I lay down and block out all noise.
Am I crazy? Or can the sound of a mower...
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Seriously, could it just be a crazy coincidence or can the lower rumble of a mower actually make someone physically sick.
People can be influenced by some EM wavelengths, and sound waves can sometimes screw with vision, etc, but you'd have to be in just the right place.
What you're describing sounds more like it's all in your head. Sorry!
Some forms of epilepsy can be triggered by sounds.
Go to the hardware store and get the best pair of ear protectors you can find, or get a nice pair of noise-cancelling headphones for your mp3 player.
