So i was leaving the grocery store here in Norway, About to pass trough the exit when a guy calls out to me. I felt rude for just passing them by and i walked over to the table.
"Would you like to donate money to help aid children and teens that got assaulted" was the headline here.
I saw what he was doing when i talked to him.
That reenacted sad look on his face.
head leaning down and hands resting on each other.
He handed my this paper where i sign my name etc. Minimum pay a month is 200NOK
(Roughly 24 dollars a month)
I'm a student and i can't actually afford this as i have other shit to cover each month.
Still paying down pc parts, phone bill, rent, food. This is not like me at all.
Has this happened to anyone else out there?
Hopefully i can cancel this shit and avoid a binding contract.
>>17164926
its a donation mate you arent being forced to pay anything. i worked in telefundraising and we'd get verbal promises to pay, recorded, and send them copies with the 'bill' but no one ever actually paid.
>>17164926
Call the company, claim you didn't know what it was, wave around some paragraphs claiming it is illegal, threaten to sue them, unless they remove you from the list.
>>17164969
But if i gave them my VISA card number don't they automatically pull money from my bank account? or do i just get a regular notification/bill in the mail?
To believe i actually let down my guard to the point where i was led like a sheep into some bullshit like this is unbelievable.
It was close to 10pm closing time at the store and i was tired. I will never do anything like this ever again.
How do I stop caring THAT MUCH about people opinion and stop remembering stuff from the past that was really awkward.I feel like I will go insane from all the stuff I recall.I sometimes have to hold myself to not scream or mumble even though I realise that its completely pointless and just harms me in the long term to achieve something better.
>>17164897
there arent any real guides to how to reprogram our brains. we all think about the things. sometimes im trying to sleep (most times really) and ir emember something really cringy i did when i was fucking 12 and i dont even talk to those people anymore but i sit there and worry about whether or not they remember that.
but heres the thing. i dont think about what OTHER people have done that are cringy. how often do you?
the chances of other people sitting around thinking about what you did are extremely...
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>Go to a friends timeline OP,
>Go back to around 2008-2010.
>Proceed to gaze in amaze over all of the cringy facebook updates.
Everyone has had their awkward moments OP, it's in the past. Forget about them and move on.
>>17164903
Yes I too have hard time falling asleep because of that and I realise that its completely pointless and all that but still doesn't stop showing.I know completely that it doesn't matter and I shouldn't worry about it but yet its there.I've read that if you "solve" them as if relise why that happened and to learn from it they will disappear but the thoughts are still here...
How can I become better at roleplaying?
I'm in a white listed server on a sandbox game (Ark, Rust, H1Z1 JS) but I'm not very good at roleplaying a character, how do I become better at this?
I can teach you
>>17164860
Dress down, smear yourself in olive oil.
Proceed to crawl on your floors whilst pretending you're a snail
First of all come up with a back story. What's your character'sname? How old is your character? Occupation, birth place, home, likes, dislikes, appearance. Does he/ she have any scars and from what? I'm having the same problem only I play WoW. Just recently got into it. All I know is there's a story behind every character, without one, your just walking around with no purpose. Character must have a purpose!
>be on and off with the same girl for the past year and a half
>never officially together but we both said we loved each other
>over spring break she completely blows me off
>pretty confident she was trying to hookup with someone else
>she literally blocked my number and we don't talk for a 2 months
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>I love you
>let's fuck without love
This will not end well.
You should never deny your feelings like that. If you truly care about this girl then I'd fuck off, cus she doesn't sound any more passionate than you.
>>17164865
This probably won't end well knowing our past. I feel like she's saying it's going to be purely sexual but that is just her covering her own ass because we both still care
>>17164866
I really do care about her and I'd like to think she cares about me. I feel like we are both trying to use sex as a tool to get over each other and I think I know in my heart already that this isn't going to work
I'm currently a community college student who is planning to transfer to a 4-year university for an engineering degree.
Currently, my options are
>UC San Diego for nano engineering
>UC Irvine for mechanical engineering
UCSD is a much better school in terms of their engineering program as a whole(17th vs 37th ranked engineering program in US). They also get a lot more funding for projects/research and the location probably provides more internship/networking opportunities.
On the other hand, I hear that chemical engineering(same department as nanoengineering) is hard as fuck, and the degree seems like it'll be in such a niche field that it would make it hard to get a starter position without graduate degree.
Mechanical engineering is what I originally intended because it seemed like it had more career opportunities, but I'm perfectly okay with another degree as long as I end up with a marketable degree.
Can any current engineering student or people working in the workforce help me with this decision?
>he fell for the college meme
>>17164829
>he fell for the 'he fell for the college meme' meme
>>17164801
Rankings aren't that big of a deal unless you're in a top 10 school. You need to decide for yourself which one you're more passionate about. If you're not passionate about the field you wont excel and eventually you'll hate it
>>17164829
enjoy being a NEET for the rest of your life
Quick way to get banned without bothering anyone too much?
I'm addicted to shitposting and feel like I could need a break.
Self discipline, son.
>>17164735
I don't haz it:(
I got banned from /mu/ for saying Sky Ferreira looks kind of stoned.
So it's all pretty caprecious. I don't know how to get banned, and and I don't know how NOT to get banned.
what's the truth behind clinical psychologists, are they charlatans?
>>17164711
I think they do cognitive behaviour therapy that the psychiatrist prescribes?
I'm not sure.
>>17164711
borderline/depression/sperg here, I have a lot to share, so my apologies for the wall of text.
I wouldn't call them charlatans, but some aren't that good. many are competent, but even a fairly good therapist will have areas where they excel and areas where they don't, just like any other person in a job. if you happen to need help in an area they're not good at, they can seem incompetent.
they are best if you don't go to them expecting "answers" in the sense of, you...
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You're much better off speaking to psychiatrists, as they've been to medical school and are much less politically entangled than psychologists.
Psychological studies published even in reputable journals can rarely if ever be fully duplicated, and the field as a whole has become extremely politically biased and often pushes an agenda.
If you need treatment, see a doctor.
I conditioned myself to believe girls won't ever like me when I was a loser in high school. Now I'm better looking, but this idea is still hardwired in my head, so I've never had a gf at age 24.
>always wonder whether girls like me or not
>always sperg out in front of them
>train myself to think that they're always just being friendly
>they're just being friendly
>no girl in this world will ever...
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I know that feel. If it makes you feel any better relationships are a massive waste of time.
>>17164624
>I'll never get a girlfriend
>because i choose not to
stop acting like life dealt you this really tragic hand. you choose not to pursue girls
I lost my virginity at 20.
I'm by no means a chad cassanova pua master but, once I heard a pua lecture that at least had a 1/3 of truth to it.
To paraphrase "They always say 'jus' b urself' but, that's not good enough, what is the self anyway. not going to get into some psychological or philosophical bullshit here but, rather I'm here to tell you that you need to be a better version of yourself and project that onto others. Know that you'd slightly above average in something? Fuck it tell him you're above average at it....
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Long story short, I've been officially dating my current boyfriend for four weeks, but I was friends with him for about a month before that where we spent a lot of time together. He's a good guy and I like his personality, but I just don't feel romantically about him.
I tried to work with it, but then other things started coming up that I don't like such as finding all of his ex's stuff still in his house (though he claims she doesn't live there anymore), he picks at his skin constantly until he winds up with open sores that turn into scars,...
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You can't not seem like a giant bitch over this. Tell him everything you just told us and then dump him. Do not offer to be friends and cut off all contact.
All guys fart. Long term relationships are about coming to terms with that fact.
>>17164521
It's only been a month, he can take it.
Get out before you get attached and find someone exciting.
I don't think you're a giant bitch over taking care of your needs. Your needs do not involve him in particular.
Thoughts on getting involved with someone already in a relationship?
Not looking for any sort of love just some fun for a bit. The opportunity is there just worried about the messiness of the whole thing.
If it did happen it would end up just being a fling here and there every couple months.
if you're only looking for sex there shouldn't be any problem other than the possibility that the cucked faggot goes insane and attacks you or destroys your property. Not a very chance of that happening though.
>>17164491
You're a piece of shit.
This is a SFW board DAMMIT.
>get drunk with girl who has mentioned a bf before, but hasn't really said good things
>she kisses me so I assume they broke up
>she sits up and says she has a bf
>I was still very drunk and can't remember if we carried on or not
I feel awful for letting this happen. I'm not looking for a relationship of any kind whatsoever. Any advice on how to make things as right as can be and also clear myself of this guilt.
It sounds like you're not being clear as to whether you knew you were assisting her in cheating or not.
>>17164443
Ah yeah sorry. For the most part I didn't think I was assisting her, but I honestly can't remember if we carried on after she said she had a bf. Either way, I feel terrible about the whole thing
>>17164446
Don't let it bother you too much.
I mean I wouldn't condone knowingly helping someone cheat and I probably wouldn't do it myself. But it sounds like you were pretty drunk and the chick probably failed to explain. Not to mention she failed to walk away from the situation so its mostly on her.
So this one guy keeps hitting on my gf for years, recently she agreed to meet him and kept lying to me about it. She admitted they kissed. I broke up with her. Should I tell this guy's wife? Sadly I don't have any hard proof to present her with. (my phone on which I had photos of texts he sent her got uterly destroyed when I had an accident some time ago...).
Pic unrelated
>>17164404
you should tell him, even if he claims to not believe you, he will at least take in into consideration and be on the look out.
>>17164404
Why not?
>>17164427
I don't know his wife, that's why I'm not sure if I should do it. Some may say it's none of my business..
Hey /adv/, me and my s/o found out that she is pregnant, we both don't want it and just want to induce a miscarriage. have any of you been through the same? what are some good methods for miscarriage early in the pregnancy?
>>17164403
There's something called an abortion..
>>17164418
well yeah, but we're still really early in and we just want to see if there's any cheap methods besides he abortion clinic, if all else fails then yes to standard abortion but for now we just wanted to see if there are any other methods.
Like i tell everyone else that post stuff like this, its not the childs fault that you two dumb fucks didnt use some kind of protection/caution. I hope you both feel so depressed from now on after this.
I've been with my gf for over 2 years now.
It was going all smooth until about 2 months ago I disscovered that she was a huge slut during college (doesnt matter how I disscovered it, in this case, and she has slept with around 25~ dudes so yeah ).
now to actual advice phase, when I asked her about it she started crying, and I told her I'd forgive her but since she was loving being a slut, she'd have to be my slut as well. that evening we had first anal sex, as time passed I started abusing her guiltiness and did a lot of stuff I probably wouldnt do to a...
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>>17164377
Most girls have heaps of hookups the first few years of college. Get the fuck over it
>>17164377
you are mistaken OP. your gf does like all this shit just not when you do it
>>17164377
start selling her ass
What color would you say my eyes are?
>>17164367
Looks Hazel
I always must ask for opinions on mine when an Eye thread pops up.
>>17164367
Looks like that eye that appears at the end of the x files theme
>>17164371
Your eye color is: punchable.