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Alright /adv/ I got a doozy. First time I have ever bothered coming here but I need viewpoints non-bias resolutions.
Heres the deal. I am in love with two girls. Girl A has been in a relationship with me for almost 3 years now and I love her. We talk constantly of our potential future and have even decided upon child names if we end up with children. We are a online dating success story without the use of eharmony or other stupid match sites. We are very compatible an don't really argue too much. Its not a one way road and its been great. I honestly should be a...
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>>17219399
Girl B is a girl i've known since 9th grade. We dated numerous times but she was considered the weird girl and highschool being highschool and me being a cruel little boy, I hurt Girl B numerous times via dating and breaking up due to peer rejection. She never gave up on me an stood strong an held on. We dated again back in 2012-2013 and sadly I ended it for the 6th time due to paranoia cause of my own insecurites, and seeds of doubt from my friends. (told me shes a whore, fucked alot of people in highschool,...
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>>17219399
I should probably mention I am going to be 25 this year, to reference my age and give a sense of time.
I guess its the waiting game for me.
A U.S. Marine punched me in the head, knocking me out, after i touched his medals, Can I file a lawsuit?
I was at the K Mart, and saw a Marine, I called him a baby killer. He ignored me. So then
I touched his medals and said, You get these for killing babies. I spit on him.
Next thing i know, i was on the ground unconscious the next minute.
I did not think he would have the guts to hit me in public, the K Mart, in a public place. The store was empty. Maybe if it was more crowded, he wouldnt have done anything.
I thought they cant freaking hit you...
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If this isn't bait, my only advice is that you're a faggot.
>>17219415
It is. They wouldn't just drop the charges that quickly without OP's consent. Even though he's a faggot who lies on the interweb, and this story isn't even real, he still has as many rights as all of us unfortunately.
I'd like to take a minute to thank all those have have served and are serving for protecting us and giving us the freedoms we are allowed in this country. Even if it means some faggots like OP exist that's okay I guess.
>>17219415
I think it might be a social commentary about police violence in US
How profound
How do I get over being cheated on?
Years ago my girlfriend cheated on me. She did it in a fairly callous way. Text me for about an hour back and forth, said she was getting ready for bed, in bed, watching some TV, going to sleep. Text me goodnight and that she loved me so much and couldn't wait to see me the next day.
Next day we met up as planned, went for dinner, stayed out drinking, she stayed over at my place, we had sex. Talked and cuddled all night. We'd been dating about 8 months at this point.
Months later I found out that she'd actually...
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Do NOT project insecurities from the past over the present.
Yeah, I know, easier said than done.
I've been in a similar boat, while trying not to be the stereotypical controlling bf. It's hard, because a lot of times the people we end up don't hold a sign that says 'cheater', and we try to give them the benefit of the doubt.
There's really nothing to be done about it though. Only through time and actions will you be put at ease, one way or another. Anyone is capable of anything, but we want to be with those who would choose not to, who have a moral and sound judgement through their decisions in life. It's something that takes a...
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>>17219331
Look at it this way:
You do care, because you genuinely want to.. this makes you a good person because you take into consideration her feelings (if you do) and wouldn't hurt her like that. Because you have a bad memory from the past you are afraid of caring, because it might end in betrayal again, but you should still care and feel good about caring because it means you haven't changed for the worse due to the poor relationship experience you had before.
What chew will give me a pure tobacco taste without it being sweetened by liquorice or any other additive. I just want to chew pure tobacco and experience pure tobacco taste.
I believe it's called mouth cancer
>>17219343
who cares
DIP DIP DIP
Anyone know what this is? Just noticed this on my elbow, not sure what it could be
Could be topical exposure to chemical or iritant . Could be odd manifestation of herpes. Could be tissue abrasion . Anything odd go on lately? Investigate the rest of your body for odd spots?
HIV, Early signs of AIDS.
looks a little like keratosis pilaris
Why do I feel very depressed and have no energy when the weather is shit?
Ask seasonal depressive whatever
>>17219233
You have SAD
Because you're a pussy who makes any excuse they can for their problems. Quit being a bitch and literally man the fuck up and do whatever you need to do. Don't be a lazy faggot. Sounds harsh? Maybe but it's what you need a swift kick in the ass to get you moving along. Not some soft handed limp wrist nudge to get you going.
inb4 but it's a real disorder. Please shut the fuck up.
How do I enjoy living life, being an undocumented immigrant?
I'm not really fully "undocumented". Thanks to Obama's 2012 Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals program, I've been able to get a work permit, drivers license, and a SSN. I can legally reside in the country for 2 years, until I renew again (renewed twice already). I was brought to the U.S. as a baby and this is the country I call home. I don't know anything about my actual home country, and I can barely even speak Spanish.
It just really makes me sad that despite living here...
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>>17219220
What about becoming nationalized and passing the citizenship test? Would that supercede the quasi citizen status you have now?
>>17219220
You have to go back.
>>17219241
Only way for me to able to completely legalize myself would be to marry a citizen, and provide proof to USCIS that my wife would suffer a great amount without my presence. It's hard to prove. Besides, I haven't even thought about marriage with my current gf.
i have recently got into a relationship with a girl. she is pretty nice and good looking. here is my problem. she constantly moans to me about her work and doesent really talk about anything else unless i bring it up. its starting to piss me off. what should i do? my ex used to talk shit to me all the time, and i had a word with her about it and she got extremely offended.
>mixture of gamma positive and beta negative
I disregard social norms and mass culture but I'm too lazy to do shit or have dreams and too socially inept to believe i could accomplish them if i had any, so I just go to college to learn what I want and get by working and doing what I want until eventually I go into dent and move back in with my parents what do :)
>>17219283
Debt oh
>>17219283
what? lol. this thread isnt about that. read the thread. the picture is unrelated.
I'm so angry /adv/
I'm angry that I still feel for a certain girl
I'm angry that I can't stop thinking about her
I'm angry that one of my friends is the reason why it hurts so much
I'm angry that I feel inferior to him because of it.
I don't want to feel this anger. I want to let go of the past, but my feelings keep coming back to me.
I'm a 21 y/o virgin and I don't see much hope for getting it squared away in the foreseeable future.
What the fuck do I do?
>>17219212
bump
Replace it with something else, and stop remembering the past so pseudo-fondly.
>>17219212
Could we have some background please?
>Wana meet internt frind for the first tiem
>He said he wants to brng brother along
>Stil hasnt asked broher even though this wsa a month ago
Is this a red flag? Shuld I not meet him? (Am femanon btw)
Yes you shouldn't meet him because he wants to bring his brother
>>17219194
>because he wants to bring his brother
Hos is this strnge? He said he wants to brng his brother as his brothr studies history and knows mor about the historical toursi attractions
Depends
Hey everyone, I need your help. I have enough money to buy a NN3DS (pokemon edition) but BBuy ran out of them a couple of weeks ago. Still I have enough money to buy a WiiU but since they officially revealed the NX, I'm not sure if that would be a good idea. I wanted the 3DS first so I could sell the one I have, but I also wanted a WiiU. Right now I'm not sure which one should I buy. If I buy a WiiU I won't have as many games to play it with at the beginning(just the Mario series game they usually have pre-instaled) but I finally could have one. If I buy a NN3DS...
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>>17219188
Save your money.
>>17219188
Hey dubs, if you want underage advice I'd recommend >>>/v/
>>17219193
>>17219216
You're not being helpfull I'm afraid
I just got fired from my job on the grounds of "lying or being deceptive during my candidacy" because I "misrepresented my having a disability".
Here's what happened.
>got an interview at a state university doing IT repair work (basically going around fixing computers, hardware stuff)
>really needed the job but think i could probably help my chances if i show up in a wheelchair
>the day before, i sit in the chair, and ride around at home. i know it's...
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wtf, i know it was wrong, and i got what i deserved, but can they really fire me for NOT being disabled, /adv/?
What do I do now
Why didn't you just stay in the wheelchair for work? Surely you should have realized they would have questioned the fact you weren't in a wheelchair after attending the interview in one
>>17219158
yeah, but i thought i could convince them that i'm disability fluid, or something
What do I reply a girl that sent me various messages on different days (last sent was like 8 days ago), but you never replied because anxiety?
>>17219129
what are the messages?
>yo i was not getting notifications for your messages weird as fuck. whassup?
you don't. You were too much of a faggot to respond and now that ship has sailed. Be less of a faggot in the future
Why do I enjoy hurting myself
>>17219123
because ur a fag
Because it heals
>>17219123
I'm the same. People think I'm weird though when ever I tell them that I cut myself. I guess they must think I'm some kind of fucking tumblr faggot or something. I'm not, I just like pain.
How do you recover from TOTALLY BLOWING IT with a girl you REALLY liked?
How do you get back up when you trip over?
What did you do?
>>17219116
Killing the Council Club.
