I didn't mean anything by my comment, but I don't think it warranted the kind of response I got. I love her to death and her weight isn't a concern to me. I just figured a different snack would have been better.
I will preface the next event again. Last weekend I had a friend come in from out of town. She spent the weekend with us except for one day. We all had a lot of fun and I got to see her much more than I usually do in a short span of time.
Now on to this weekend. I work at home on Fridays and she wanted to come see me at home, but she would need to...
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>>17220872
Now onto today. She usually takes her sister to dance lessons in a town that's midway between both of us. I'll go with so we can hang out in the area for a few hours together. Today, her parents would also be going, and they would be going to some stores together. She still wanted me to go but I felt a little uncomfortable and told her I'd see her tomorrow since we already made plans to. She get's really upset with me. She's saying I must have not wanted to see her and that I should want to since I haven't seen her in a while. But like I said 4 days in a row last weekend. We maybe get 4 days in 2 weeks usually. She goes on about how I must have thought she was stupid because she knows how to deal with her parents and that it wouldn't have been an issue.
She went on further to say I clearly just wanted to stay at home and play video games and that because the sex we had last weekend (It was kind of weird situation where we only had a little while to do it, in the end it wasn't too great for both of us and was short. We don't have sex super often and is obviously something we want more of, but it can lead to some quickies sometimes). She basically went on how because it wasn't great that now she's feel bad about herself, and that now she feels like she spends more time angry at me.

>>17220877
I am trying to understand her as much as possible. But I really feel like the response I got was unwarranted. I know a relationship will always have it's arguments, but to me there events weren't really something that should have caused this much of an issue. I feel like the bad guy here and that it's all my fault, but my logical side says there's nothing blatantly horrible that i've done. So now I'm in this weird conflicted place and I don't know what to do.
As a brief note:...
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>>17220786
Push yourself to do literally anything, stay active. It's going to kill you inside, but you have to push through it. Other options include therapy and medication. They don't work for everyone, but they might work for you. In my experience, you have to learn to live with it and try to fight it.

Just getting into some kind of routine has helped me more than anything

You have to force yourself to do things. At the very least you should shower and change your clothes and get chores done. You'll feel a little better when you're not just sitting in dirty clothes and a messy room with chores hanging over your head.

The best non-medicinal way to treat depression is to make sure you have enough of the following:
>sleep
>healthy food and enough water
>social activity
>exercise
>sunlight
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>>17220785
You a dude right?

>>17220794
No I'm a girl

>>17220785
>I need help breaking up with him so I can enjoy life again.
We can't solve your problems for you. Either you're going to grow some balls and stick up for yourself or you're going to get drawn back into his narcissistic shit. People like him choose weak people like you because you're easy to manipulate. And when you do go back to him, at some point, he's going to do something that will truly hurt you to the core. Stop being weak and block him on everything....
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turn a man

anyone??

>>17220774
Abduct her. Relationships are overrated

These women get a little thrill out of harmless flirting with a younger man. This doesn't mean they want to hire one for it

>>17220765
As a male escort all i have to say OP don't just take women you can make even more with men i mean if you are whoring ur self out why not rit? M80

>>17220780
definitely, if men are willing to dish out, I'm down. I've had some gay men at my coffee shop come onto me as well. its my job to just talk it through, but Im no stranger to being hit on by men as well

>>17220772
well i wouldn't try to make any of the women at my place of work my clients. where can i go to find wealthier women in need? I live in the Bay Area in California

>>17220763
Why do people call you a pedo?

>>17220777
It started 20 years ago, people have always called me names.

I suppose it's so they can be horrible to me.

It doesn't make any difference though. I get molested anyway, so they get to do what they want whether I am or not, so... that's ok then.

I do watch pornography and try to be as safe as I can which isn't always that easy.

google "really really older women that are definitely ok to see nude"?

Like intrusive thoughts?

You will know if he/she is a marriage prospect. (or at least long term relationship prospect)

>>17220721
PRO: Do not have to leave the house for sex
CON: You cannot leave after sex

PRO: Sex with your SO.
CON: Cannot bring random hookups home.

>>17220743
This.

When going over to your SO's place, you most likely pickup after yourself. When you live together you might do it as much and it might irritate your SO. Obviously this could go either way but when you live with anyone you see how they live and keep themselves. If you can't handle it or they can't then it's not gonna work in the end.

I'm beta, but all these threads are cringe. Move on, you're like 18?

>>17220686
Tried moving on dated other girls but it's not the same. It's not the same feeling.

>>17220682
Was it your first gf OP?

let the cops know about her?

>>17220620
What would I even say to the cops? I'm a 21 year old male, so it would be really hard not to look fucking suspicious as fuck.

>>17220624
Also let me add, if I talked to ANYONE about this who can identify me easily - its most certainly going to be a lawyer if someone is trying to frame me. That's most likely an irrational fear at this point, and hopefully I wont hear any more form this person.

Is it illegal to discuss the topic of holocaust denial in the UK, and raise awareness for it?

>>17220526
From the US
Need an inhaler and can't afford the brands here.
What's the law for ordering online without a Rx and do you recommend anything in particular.

>>17220546
I believe it is against the law, but it happens all the time anyway. Maybe some of it gets stopped during shipping, but they can't search anything.

I don't know if this helps, but here are some links I found on the subject:
http://motherboard.vice.com/read/why-i-had-to-buy-my-wifes-inhaler-on-the-dark-web
https://www.reddit.com/r/Asthma/comments/3u6399/any_advice_where_i_can_buy_inhalers_online/
There are plenty of online pharmacies, you can find them easily enough with a quick search.

hump

shameless bump pls help

bump for interest

Please, objectively define "normal."

>>17220494
Like the majority of the population

It's neither okay nor not okay. It's a state of being defined by others. The important question isn't whether it makes you inferior, it's whether you feel inferior because of your lack of normality. If not, there isn't a problem. If so, you should either get over that inferiority or give in.

Really depends on the therapists. I had an experience as a kid and she told me and my parents my nightmares were caused by 9/11...we went home never went back and I grew the fck up and got over it.

My wife on the other hand has emotion control problems (previously) and went to talk to one and she said it worked amazing for her just to be able to talk to someone like that.

A lot of people just treat therapy as a way to just vent at someone for 45 minutes before going home and changing nothing about themselves.

>but i learned so much about myself!
Congratulations, how have you used that newfound knowledge?
>well I, uhh...

So basically OP, can you do the work? Because all therapy can give you is the tools, but you still need to do the work. If your therapist asks you to change your routine, can you do that? If they ask you to change the way you deal with your anxiety,...
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It can really go both ways and I'd say it depends heavily on your relationship with your therapist.

I've only had one therapist my entire life (for 5 years) so I don't have much experience there, but I can tell you that even if you find therapy helpful it will take time until you start seeing major improvements over whatever you're trying to overcome.

I mean it depends on how down you feel, not to mention that it's always good to have someone who you can vent to and provides you feedback, but don't expect results within the first few...
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You could join the army and get a degree later or you could study and join the Officer Training Corps.

To me it seems like you're probably won't be too dedicated to studying a degree, but at the same time you haven't experience life in the military yet so . There's more out there than just degrees, and you can always go to university later in life. So don't let your parents force you to go to university, but at the same time realise you might end up not wanting to dedicate yourself to the military.

>>17220418
If you want to join army than do it. In the worst case scenario you will drop from army after the first N years.

>prepare myself for service
Army is all about endurance. Both mental and psychical.
But you should check yourself the concrete requirements and or entry tests and see for yourself if you can pass them.

Do it OP, don't let other hinder your dreams!

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Ex-Army Medic

Got accepted into an awesome college but couldn't afford it and my parents said they wouldn't pay. Fine no issue. I left for boot a month after I graduated. One of the best decisions of my life.

Your life is your own. Do what makes YOU happy. And make sure you pick a MOS/job in the army that you can see yourself doing for a few years. Hold out until a slot opens if you have to.

The only prep I would say run. RUN A LOT. Get good at running. Pushups/Situps are easy to increase/max and boot does a good job at getting you there. Running...
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>>17220346

Why is the Food Scientist position better for your career than the less interesting work?

I think the first choice. Save money and you can buy home/car and vacation elsewhere. I live in an area where rent is high, I wouldn't like to spend a large of paycheck just to live. I'd like to do other things.
Also job security is important.

>>17220363

"it's in the bakery side of the industry which I'm not very interested in". The Nutrition Scientist position is more research based and just interests me more than baking science.

"The Food Science position is undoubtedly better for my career as it's more hands on and involves commercialization of new product" - this is a highly desired and important aspect of R&D positions in the food manufacturing industry.