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I've failed over a semester's worth of college classes in total and just got done with my dad yelling at me about if I even capable of feeling embarassed or caring that I've fucked up this much, or if I'm just that dumb. I just wanted to say that he should give up and Im not worth the effort. I dont have any aspirations and just want to lie down and die at this point. How do I even fix myself?
>>17220421
You sound depressed and burned out. Maybe take a year off to work on yourself and reevaluate what you want in life?
>>17220421
Why did you fail at so many classes?
Studying more and better is probably a good start.
>>17220426
I already tried to take time off to just work and think about things, my parents completely refused to let me take a break. I'm almost supposed to be finished with college too. Its not happening.
>>17220436
I cant focus on anything in a class. Even if I take notes I still cant focus and sometimes sleep without even realizing it. For my math classes I even went and did all of my work with tutors there to explain everything since I wont understand it in...
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I came to conclusion that I don't know if I'll ever have a gf. It's not because I'd be depreciating myself or blaming my social anxiety or the fact that I'm probably below average looking. It's that that I can't express my feelings to someone or make the first move when I really like someone. I never knew how to do that, maybe it's because I never seen my dad to say anything romantic to my mother therefore I think of it as something unnatural...but that's probably shit.
I met the best girl I could ever meet about four months...
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k.
You're not asking for advice, so here's some encouragement: Go for it! Ask her out on a date, that should get you started.
>>17220420
Stop assuming you know what someone else is thinking or how they are going to react. Pursue what you want instead of doing nothing because of a shitty defeatist attitude.
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Dude here
How to make sex exciting when she doesnt wanna give or even receive oral
>>17220260
Do things other than oral? If oral is the epitome of exciting for you, then you're pretty vanilla
Chicks who enjoy drugs:
Would you date a sober guy?
Not a controlling dude, more like someone who doesn't mind that you do and your friends do it, but he doesn't want to partake in it either.
Seriously, what is the point of recreational sex? It's not even remotely as enjoyable as fapping. It's literally impossible for another person to ever be able to pleasure you as well as your own hand. Why does anybody waste their time, energy, and money on women when fapping is completely free and so much better?
>>17220037
>yes goy, keep fapping. Never breed. Never continue the white race. Give up on women.
>>17220041
Who says I'm white, pigskin?
>>17220049
>damage control, the goys are on to us
My girlfriend is really good friends with her ex boyfriend and they just spent the entire day together going to some event. I trust her but the pride side of me is making me think the worst. How do I bring up that I wasn't really comfortable because I'm afraid he's going to try and make moves on her without sounding like an asshole.
inb4 she's cheating on me.
Has he tried making moves on her after they broke up? I would be uncomfortable only if he's done it before otherwise just trust her
>>17217011
he professed he wanted to get back together with her like a week before we got together, but she shot him down. They dated for a couple of years.
Like i said i trust her, but I don't trust him to not try anything and we never really talked about the prospect of him making moves before she and him left. I don't want to be that guy that flips a shit every time she hangs out with him, but it still bothers me.
Idk am i being selfish? It'd be nice if she acknowledged that it was cool that...
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c'mon /adv/. I don't really have anyone to talk about this to.
Be me, 30, relatively good shape, have girlfriend. No longer have to work because retired.
Now what do I do with myself? I don't have to work anymore, but I'm not really talented at anything. Tried music but I'm not really cut out for it I think. What do I do with myself?
How comfortably retired are you?
You might find something you enjoy and start a side business in the field, for fun as much as anything. I have a lot of car guy friends who are filthy rich but run auto shops because they enjoy doing it.
How did you make enough money to retire?
>>17216797
you dont have to be good at a hobby. and no one ever is at first.
when i first started filmmaking it was really fucking bad. now its just marginally 'okay'.
but i enjoy it so why not.
So how/why did the last thread >>17194724 get archived early? Anyway, I'll start, again.
D,
That's the first time i've ever asked someone how their day's been.
First time i've actually wanted to know.
You're pretty goddamn special.
M.
M,
Just please reply. I don't care what the answer is at this point. I just want a Yes or No. Not any of this unresponsive shit.
Obviously you like me as a friend at minimum. So, why can't you reply like you always have. I don't know if you see me as more, I doubt that you do, but I can still see the possibility of that being the case.
You know I have feelings for you, I did not bother to hide them. I straight up asked you out already, and said that it was supposed to be just us.
I would look forward to the classes that we had together,...
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>>17200557
>>17200561
Nice symmetry here.
I wish we were the same D and M.
>>17200601
I wish.
Help /adv/
I'm traveling in New York city, and im at a hostel. No-one else is in my room, and I don't know what to do by myself
I just walked around, trying to find something to eat. And everyone is a sit down restaurant, where you need to have at least 2 people or you look out of place and like a loner. I literally just went to McDonald's and ate by myself
I came back to my hostel, and I did see cute girls outside the hostel, who look like they are going out... But here I am posting on 4chan from my room
What do I say to the other people...
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Where in NYC?
>>17194177
Manhattan, near columbia university and near central park
>travel to one of the most expensive cities in the world
>spend your holiday shitposting on a Kamchatkan kabuki board
>Be me
>Pretty attractive, 8/10 maybe
>Dress nice 24/7
>No, not like a white knight
>Mild autism, nobody knows, I'm very high functioning with no real social defects
>Have major flaw
>Only fall for girls online
>No hoes here are worth my time
>Very picky, won't date a smoker, slut, druggie,...
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sorry for the greentext format, i posted it to /b/ and they told me to post it here so i just copy pasted it
>>17222159
Don't fall for people you don't know.
You like online people because you can't "see" their flaws and you imagine them as perfect as you want. Get to know them well before committing.
Wait a few months and visit a few times before committing to someone.
No op
Your so good looking and great go outside and talk to a chick
See you also have your priorities all wrong
It's not why she's cheating on me its
Why am I tolerating all this bs
>be a doctor-shopping ambien addict that routinely winds up with 100+ pills a month and takes all of them in that period, if not to get high, then to actually treat a real sleep disorder
>realize this situation is untenable
>tell my side doctors to stop prescribing ambien, plan to get by just on what main doctor provides
>last friday
>get caught by insurance
>Doctor tells pharmacist to shred...
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You lost a lot of trust, but legitimate withdrawal should be enough for your doctor to act.
What the doctor does is up to them though. But it seems you have no options, so just go and find out.
>>17222090
How awful is it? Did you get intradose withdrawals while you were on ambien?
I can't even imagine what taking that shit during the day might be like.
>>17222165
It's basically the worst. First you get bad anxiety, everything makes you worry, then shakes, memory confusion, and then seizures. On top of insomnia, of course.
No. Though the first symptom is anxiety, and I have anxiety all the time, so I can't speak to that.
I enjoyed it, but I don't want to talk about it because that'll get me thinking "okay, how do I get enough pills to get high" and I don't want to think like that anymore.
Hey /adv/
I met this guy on internet 3 weeks ago,he's really nice and intelligent, he's not handsome,but I deeply care about him.Like me,he has some depression and anxiety problems,but in my case,I try my best to enjoy life even If I feel really sad.Him,in the other hand,"doesn't care about anything" (That's what he says).
Recently,he's been acting different,he's always saying how beautiful I am and that he loves me.
But here is the problem:
I don't trust this guy,I think he's a softboy,in one occasion,he...
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Before I had my existential crisis, I would routinely troll the internet for girls with a "woe is me" story, start a long-distance relationship with them for about a month after winning them over and gaining their trust by complimenting them (including things that are obviously flaws), eventually ask for pics of their panties and nudes, and then I would block them. I would then take those panty shots / nudes and sell them for about $50 a pic if it was high quality.
tl;dr: Don't trust anyone on the internet if they admit to having psychiatric issues.
>>17222084
r u french?
>>17222084
>I met this guy on internet 3 weeks ago
turn that goddamn thing off for a few days
so hello, its my first time on this board
well, its been like 1 and half week, since my grandma got "sick"
the thing is, she was most lively 70 yo old i know, and now, after told 1 and half week, she's all apathetic, tired, eating like nothing, lying and sleeping most of the days
its about liver, she have ascites, gets nausea when she eats, she was at hospital 2 times allready for some surveys, and her next visit is 15 june, at this point im scared if she'll be able to even go there
should i go with her to private docter?
how...
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>>17221944
first of all, chill.
you're useless if you're trying to make decisions from a place of internalised terror.
the fact is at 70, there is lots of things that can happen that compromise healthy states.
It could be an infection she can't fight without drugs. It could be something less or something more.
your first job is to address the immediate symptoms, and to stay calm.
i can tell you're close, and this is a sucky time to hear it, but the fact is we are all...
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You can contact an hospital and ask how much it would cost to have an evaluation before committing to take an appointment. Meanwhile you should write a detailed list of all the symptoms.
>>17221956
i know that everyone dies, but its still different when it is close like this, especially when its sudden
now, at this point im not sure if she'll get to visit doctor on 15 june, cuz she eats like nothing, looking weaker and weaker, more tired each day, maybe im overreacting, but i hope i do
Post a smile so your cute faster can be judged better.
How tall are you? I can really matter to some girls.
How do you sit and walk? Sit and standing up straight with shoulders back shows confidence, sitting/standing hunched or drawn inward can show shyness and submissiveness (only bad if you don't want to be viewed as such, depends on what kind of girl you want to bag)
Careful in groups! If you are less handsome then your buddies you will make them stand out better and you yourself will just be backdrop, this applies to girls too.
Don't be afraid to relax...
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wash your hair
>>17221848
Just fuck my shit up familia
Hey /adv/, I'm thinking of hiring a hooker but from what I've heard of the chances of getting STDs I feel that it's more trouble than it's worth.
What are risks of getting an STD from a hooker and can you really get them from touching or kissng and is the condom the only way to prevent them?
Your chances of contracting an STD from hooker are lower than from a girl in the general population
>>17221836
Really?, If thats true then my friend dosen't know shit since he told me that the oppostite is true.
>>17221882
Your friend's a fuckwit. Sex workers are more conscious of the risk of STDs than the general population, so they're more likely to practice safe sex and get tested more often.
Soooo, I'm feeling like garbage right now. There's this girl, I reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally like her, she knows, I told her everything. She's the most amazing girl I've ever known, and, well, I'm in the friendzone and I don't know what to do.
As I said, she knows I like her. She likes to go out with me, talks to me all day everyday, she laughs about everything I say, she jokes about everything (including having sex with me or just sleeping with me), she hugs me, she holds my hand and she really loves me (as a friend, baka)...
That+my life being...
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>>17221802
It's simple. Gather the necessary equipment and move to Nigeria. They were the first African country to thrust a satellite through our gay white atmosphere. The Nig-Nog Bam-A-Lam Space Front (NNBALSF) will affix rods, transmitters and dazzling LEDs to your lanky frame and shoot you into orbit around the Stacy. Then you will have an ample viewing point from which to jerk of while Chad plunders her vaginal cunt while she spasms in a never ending pool of his ejaculate.
It will cost you little with Nigerian...
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It sounds like you're being too available. Your availability is something that women have to work towards to earn it. They enjoy the challenge of going for a man that seems just out of reach. For women, the easier it is to have sex with her, the lower her value. For men the less available you are, the more attractive you become. Stop talking to her as much.
>>17221816
This is amazing, thanks Anon.
>>17221828
This sounds like a really logical and good advice, thanks man.
