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Should I kill myself because the only girls I'm attracted to are ones that would never be attracted to me? The girls that like me aren't enough for me. I just want to date someone that will make all the mundane bullshit tolerable in my life, someone that loves me and that I think are a work of art in every capacity of there's. Otherwise life will continue to be a nihilistic hellhole full of not dating an artistic ideal.
>>17224695
You need to start from the bottom of the barrel.
My advice is to study the life and works of Peter Paul Rubens. I think it would do you a lot of good.
well killing yourself is a bit extreme, but if you really can't take it then do it. girls like that are extremely rare and even if one was attracted to you you would push her away with your self-pity. set some realistic goals and stop waiting for a savior. if you refuse to do that you want things to remain like shit and continue wallowing in self-pity
Is it healthy to hoard money?
It's not unhealthy to hoard money.
Define "hoarding money".
>>17224681
healthy? debatable
beneficial? definitely
hi im being bullied by a blogger
hi there im being bullied by a blogger because i spoke out about a fake film that ripped off alot of people.
his name is D. R. Quintana or david r quintana who blogs for quantum storm e magazine
and now he is legally threatening me, and i dont have money for an attorney and im scared.
http://qstormdirector.blogspot.com/
>>17224648
Turn your computer off. Problem solved.
>>17224648
Hahah how u bein bullied online. Jus close ur eyes. Haha just walk away from the screen. Hahahah just turn it off
M. and my gf have been together for around 6 months, its mostly a LDR because she moved to another country with her folks some time ago but comes here every holiday.
She has white cell deficiency - forgot the medical name, sorry, basically she bleeds really heavily when she gets hurt, is hit much harder by blood loss, bruises easily, etc. - now, she is currently on her period, as in blood loss. A couple days ago she went to take a nap, then when she woke up she got up to go for a glass of water and fainted on the way to the kitchen. No real wounds gotten from the fall. When her folks got home they rushed her to the hospital.
She woke up a few hours later, told me what happened and we talked over kik for a while before she went to sleep(it was pretty late at night). The next day(yesterday), I get a message from her sister who was using my gf's kik; apparently she grew worse during the night and fainted again, then when she woke up she didnt remember alot of things, her parents spent 40 minutes making her remember who they were. At some point she apparently started asking about her ex(with whom she broke up about a year ago) like they were still together, and when her sister told her about me she didn't remember anything.
Any insight on significant memory loss after fainting, or any insight at all?
(feel free to ask for extra details or clarifications)
Whatever happens it sounds like you need to fly out there asap.
>>17224600
Be around her if possible, and skype, call, text, in that order as much as possible.
She'll likely recover significant portions of recent memory over time.
In most of these cases, it's like a hard drive with half the block table erased: the memories are still intact, she just can't access them, but may be able to after being prompted by something other than what she was using to access the memory before the accident.
Do you know what her actual condition is, ie why she has a low WBC count (leukopenia)?
If you don't know, consider asking at some point, many of the causes of that are kind of important for a boyfriend to know.
Honestly, if this had happened one week prior or later, that would have been the first thing I would have done, but I'm right in my exam period right now so I can't leave for another week.
>> Be me, meet girl on okcupid, we date for 4 years and break up
>> I am 22 and have no patience for dating websites anymore; I figure you know why already
What is the do's and don't for talking to women irl? It's hard for me to understand because I both feel obligated to make the first move as a man but also have heard women feel like they are being harassed because guys hit on them.
Just want a nice little romance without any kind of online dating involved. If someone would give me some tips I would be happy to listen.
Also more about me:
- Work as a union construction worker
- ~7/10 looks
- Kind of shy
>>17224566
>7/10 looks
prove it. even if you are right, the kind of attraactive matters. not all men are created equal. or in some cases they are 'seperate but equal'. some men can be a douche. some cant. we need to see what will work for you, so show us what you are.
pro tip: if you are too shy to post a picture here (whatever the excuse) then you are too shy to talk to women in real life. just sayian.
as for girls feeling like they are being harassed, dont worry about it. dont make blatantly sexual comments and ur not harassing. you are just a man talking to a woman trying to walk through life. if they feel 'harassed' then they arent worth your time and deserve the negative feelings they inflict upon themselves. as long as you can 'take a hint' you'll be fine
>>17224566
>cat the mall?
>>17224585
No, I don't mind speaking to them too much I really have always wanted to but didn't wanna be bothering anyone ya know? Here's one picture of my face.
Will drinking coffee and beer frequently fuck up your body?
I only ask because they are opposites.
this guy I work with does this. He canes homebrew nearly every night and then is up at 7 for work and will have about 4 coffee's before 10. He farts and shits like a motherfucker and is a cunt to be around if he's in my office. He shits in the disabled toilet (which is my preference because I can watch myself pee due to mirror placement) and he ruins this.
>>17224540
>homebrew
Just fire the guy.
>>17224531
moderation is key young grasshopper. i personally don't have a problem living without either anymore
I'm moving out of my parents' home today and had an argument with my mom a few hours before I'm set to leave.
The source of conflict is the fact that she, without my knowledge, shoved a pack of toothbrushes into my checked bags. I'm upset because I elected not to pack toothbrushes to make space for other things and because my current one if almost dead.
We've had arguments about her buying me things in the past. I take pride in caring for myself and saving enough money to take care of necessities and emergencies: car parts, insurance, rent, etc. She buys me goods from companies she knows I have ethical issues with--Amazon--or sends me large amounts of cash, sometimes weeks worth of groceries.
I'm 27 years old now. We've been arguing about this for almost ten years. She recently told me that accepting gifts is "all about me". I almost snapped back that it should be if the gifts are for me.
I'm extremely pissed off because, unlike my lazy ass siblings who rely on her to pay rent, I vacuumed/cleaned my room, boxed my remaining belongings to store until I'm settled and have been honoring her request that I stay on good terms with my dad for the last few days I'm here.
What the fuck? She won't even let me pack my own bags. What the fuck is wrong with her? I'm 27 years old. Why is she surprised when I'm mad that she shoved toothbrushes and who knows what else into my bags before an already stressful trip across the country?
How should I handle this?
Dude it's just toothbrushes. She was just taking care of you like a lovely mother would do. Don't hold a grudge trying to prove you are more capable than your siblings, parents will always want the best for you.
Don't hold the grudge and apologize, you'll regret this if tomorrow she has an accident and the last shit you did was argue about toothbrushes
She's just being a mom. If they're not scum, they will always want to support you, even when you don't need it. She's also gonna miss you when you leave. Just grin and bear it cause you can't stop a mom from being a mom. I know cause I went through the same thing you're going through.
>>17224485
I miss old Benoit. Why did he have to make his exit so violent, messy and psychotic? It completely tainted an entire career of amazing wrestling matches, and now they are all fucking banned so you can't even find them anywhere.
As for your mum, she babies you. Are you the youngest? Because that would be the nutshell in one.
How do you give yourself the illusion of achieving/having achieved something in life?
play wow
>>17224467
>pick something
>do it
>repeat until you're good at it
Farm likes on facebook
>be a basic bitch
>like funny pictures
>pander to your friends political opinions
>stage photos
What does it mean If someone sends you the song Love Yourself by Justin Bieber? Is it good or bad?
I don't know that song and I'm sure my life wouldn't be improved if I did, but since it's title is "Love yourself" I'm guessing he/she is telling you to go fuck yourself.
they probably want you to shit cum out your butthole.
they want to give your mother a skin head, and smoke the opps you snitch to.
How or where do I get sleeping pills and xanax without prescription?
Or any benzos and opiates will do.
Why?
>>17224521
I suppose OP is addicted to prescription drugs or he wants to take his own life.
Paypal + Ebay
guys i need help
im a bi male, but im mostly into girls except when im high( for some reason i dont know). after watching more gay porn than i used to my dick literallly started to precum at the sight of gay porn
i have romantic and sexual feelings for girls but with with guys i mostly have sexual thoughts and they are like in 1 every 50 guys i see. i think i want to be a bottom but i cant go out and fuck a guy where i live i have to know him or go to a gay bar and i dont want to do that
is my sexuality changing or is it the constant exposure to porn that is changing me?
for some reason anal sex turns me on so much more than regular sex
It's the porn, maybe you just want try anal sex, that would explain your attraction to dicks, buy a dildo
>>17224410
Just compromise and get pegged by a girl.
>>17224443
can't they are expensive as shit where i live and it's impossible to hide because my room gets cleaned once a week
>>17224446
that's the thing, pegging doesnt turn me on, getting fucked by a guy turns me on
so is porn changing my view of the world right?
What do I talk to girls about? I need some easy, go to subjects or lines I can use.
I've lost 40 pounds and now girls smile at me and walk near me waiting for me to approach but I don't know what to say. I don't know how to keep it going after "Hi, how are you?" and a smile. I've never practiced because I was shy in high school and girls would talk to me instead of the other way around. I fell for the NEET meme right after high school which fucked with my head, but now I'm working and have much more confidence and better social skills.
I still feel uncomfortable when I talk to girls unless I know them and I feel like I come off stiff or nervous and they don't like it. Help please
mainly pooping. Ask them if they pooped that day and if so how was it.
Also ask them if you can watch them pooping. Just admit its one of your fetishes and let them know you really enjoy it.
Talk about that time you saved a sea turtle from drowning.
How can I tell if a woman is flirting with me, or into me?
>>17224305
When in doubt, ask them out.
I've had girls I thought were really into me, turn out rejecting me. And girls I thought wanted nothing to do with me, end up liking me.
If you hang back and see how they act around other people compared to you, you might get an idea of their feelings for you. Bear in mind that women can have crushes on multiple guys at once, just like guys do with girls, so even if she likes you, she could like other guys and be giving them signs as well. Up to you if you want to deal with that kind of pressure or competition, really.
>>17224305
i've noticed over the years that eye contact is a big clue. took me a while to realize that the ones that weren't looking were the ones more often than not that said no.
More advice pls.
What's been given so far is good though, thanks guys
My best friend told me she's always had feelings for me. The problem is I've had a girlfriend for a year.
I rejected her and she was quite upset but she didn't stop being my friend. Afterwards things got kind of awkward between us. She doesn't want to be around my girlfriend anymore and whenever we're together she can't even look me in the eye anymore.
Eventually I confronted her and told her I just wanted to go back to normal and she told me we can't because she'll always love me and she wants me to pick her over my girlfriend.
I'm in quite a pickle. It's not that I dislike her or anything, she's very pretty and we get along well but I like my girlfriend a lot too. She's a really nice girl and I don't want to betray her.
What should I do?
Tell your best friend that you're ready to be her friend when she's in a place where she can happily be your friend and not want to be your girlfriend. Until then, it's better for both of you to not be in touch with each other.
You can pretty it up but she's going to hate you. And anything else you can do will only make it easier on yourself and harder and more extensive for her.
Imagine this scenario:
You break up with your gf to be with her instead.
After a month or 2 your new gf breaks up with you.
Now you lost both of them most likely.
Stick with your current girlfriend, and let the other girl know you are happily taken and she can't change that.
However you would still love to be friends with her.
Just make it clear for her, don't be a pussy OP.
Good luck.
You have to choose.
I was once in your gf's shoes. My SO had a best friend that was a girl for years, and she tried to break us up in the same fashion. Your gf can feel the tension and probably knows something is up. The sooner you pick the better it is for everyone.
My SO obviously picked me, but he completely cut her off because she wasn't a friend in his eyes for doing what she did. No friend would put another friend in that position.
Hey /adv/, i want to get advice about health related problem. So problem is i always forgot everything, like i never remember what i said, i forgot everyfuckin exam times at school, sometimes cant remember my rooms door number (even im at front of it), but not only that. Im always tired and im skinny as fuck even i eat tons of meal and my sex drive getting pretty low lately. Sometimes i feel like im vegetable, cuz cant remember anyshit, always sleepy, tired, etc.
So what the fuck is wrong with me? Im thinking to do some running or swimming. Btw im 26 years old, but i dont know whats wrong with me lately. Some people told me to get some blood test but i dont know, last time it was clear. What i should do?
> health related problem
Go see a doctor. I agree with your friends, get a blood test - it might reveal something. And if you're really worried about your memory generally, take a dementia test. I'm 27 and I took one when I was 25 because my memory is fucking awful. You're not going to find the solution on here friend, only a qualified doctor can help you, and a blood test sounds like a good start.
>dementia test
Never heard that before, thanks i will look it up. Also what kind blood test i should go for? Which doctor i should visit? I really dont know how these thing work.
>>17224288
>Never heard that before, thanks i will look it up
It's a geberal test for dementia/memory problems. They test your short term and long term memory by asking you questions. For example, in mine the guy told me to remember 3 words, and then like after the 20 minute assessment (or however long, I don't remember exactly) he asked if I remembered them. Shit like that.
> Also what kind blood test i should go for?
Your doctor will tell you. Tell them what you've said here - that your memory is bad, you're always feeling tired and you're struggling to put on weight.
>Which doctor i should visit?
Your GP?
