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Filling fell out at work and there's a nerve exposed. I have no insurance, and its Friday night after midnight.
What the fuck am I supposed to do?
Went to the ER and I think I'm going to regret it. They can only give me something for the pain until I can get to a dentist.
Fuck this life.
>>17217853
I'm sorry bird person, I have failed you
>>17217865
How so?
Thankfully, the doc said it wasn't infected or abscessed, which is not bad I guess. Getting prescriptions that I don't think I can afford to help with pain and swelling.
I'm a reasonably attractive chick, what's the easiest way I can make money online? Considering that I refuse to cam or show my face.
I seriously never thought I'd resort to this kind of whoreish degenerate behavior but I'm doing my PhD in biochem and the debt from being in school forever is a burden. Since I plan to remain in academia, I won't make decent money for a while (if ever).
>>17217515
>how can I be a whore without being a whore?
FUCK OFF WHORE
>>17217515
>I'd resort to this kind of whoreish degenerate behavior
I love you
>>17217515
If you refuse to show your face or body....literally what is the purpose of saying that you are a girl and that you are attractive? You can't use either of those qualities with those restrictions.
But then again this is probably b8, so I guess I'm wasting my time...
So I'm 18 and I had a bit of a crush on my sister's friend, who I thought was 15 (since my sister's 15, i assumed she was the same age). Well it turns out she's actually 13. How do I stop feeling so damn guilty about having this crush?
>>17217441
I think that depends on the laws of where you live
dat 13 yr old babyfat ass got u in heat
its cool man look but dont touch
>>17217447
Well obviously I'm not gonna do anything, that's just wrong. I just feel really guilty for liking her though.
Why is introversion basically exclusive to males?
Females in General are born extroverts
That's not true
>>17217376
In general terms, yes it is.
>>17217379
no it's not /r9k/
I've been undesirable and unlikable since a few bad things happened to me when I was in Elementary school. I have hobbies and interests but I can't share them in a way that engages people or makes me sound cool. Socially, I come across as boring, with few redeeming qualities.
In middle school (after the bad stuff), I found out my best friend didn't really like me. Had no friends. Then I moved, actively initiated a friendship with someone I thought was cool, then after ~2 years of doing everything together found out they only hung out with me out of pity....
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>>17217278
>The consensus was that this isn't something professionals treat, since it isn't a psychological disorder.
No one here is qualified to say what is or isn't a symptom of a psychological disorder. You need to stop heeding medical advice from 4chan and start seeking medical advice from medical professionals.
Go to a therapist. There are people who specialize in everything you're struggling with.
>>17217294
No the consensus was on a different website, in a small hub populated by clinical psychologists. They said that being unlikable is not something psychologists can treat (being unlikable is not a mental illness), and I know the only consistent problem I've had through my life is being unlikable.
>>17217294
Also, I've tried seeing one psychologist who didn't know what to do with me. The experience was traumatic, she was always jumping to offensive conclusions about me. It lowered my self-esteem because even she saw me as incompetent. As an example when filling out a questionnaire, one question was about workplace functioning. She put the pencil down on "very low" without even asking, just looking at me with a sad face, even though I've been employed since 16 and have always been told by my bosses...
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1) how come getting women feels like being a homeless begging for money on the streets?
2) why is the dating game so fucked up?
3) how come most women wont approach or iniate?
4) how can i get women off my mind and stop hating them?
1. Because.
2. Because.
3. Because.
4. Alcohol.
I'm a chick and its hard for us too
>>17217242
>hating women
Stop this /r9k/. Put things into perspective. If you were a girl, would you want to be with you? I highly doubt it, you sound fucking awful.
>Literally never outright hooked up with a girl before
>One just matched with me that lives really close by
>Says she broke up with her bf and really wants to hookup
>Said tonight
Oh fuck. We added each other on snapchat, and she is legit. What do? I want to bang, but I'm not quite comfortable just outright meeting a girl I've talked to for 20 minutes to fuck.
>>17217224
do it anywys. worse case scenario you have a 'not comfortable' orgasm.
You're gonna get a split reaction no matter what.
It's really up to you man. Just know that if she broke up with her boyfriend, this is just a dumb after game consequence of love. She's going to fuck you which is great but the bottom line is that you're a rebound. She probably could give a fuck less down the road as the boyfriend either crawls back into her life or walks away, all the while, you get to deal with the burden of the end of her relationship and the various revenge dicks she's probably gonna ride. Especially if you two found each other...
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>>17217225
but I can have a comfortable orgasm with my hand. I just got this weird anxiety about putting my penis into a girl I don't know at all.
has anyone been to any kind of AA meeting? what're they like? I'm thinking of going to one tonight for an addiction is rather not say. never been. I've heard there's free food and good stories, but that's about it
>>17217149
i've been to an NA meeting. it was interesting to say the least. you gotta learn about the 12 steps and be all religious. the dudes I met were talking about how to score methadone at a hospital since they can't shoot up anymore.
I hope you like cigarettes, because at AA and NA that is all people do is smoke them.
only been to an AA meeting because the courts told me to
it was lame and all i did was pass. Whats the point if you honestly dont want to stop?
watch fight club
>meet chick
>kind of hot
>gives me tons of atention
>"ok!"
>message a lot
>2 weeks in realize my mistake
>severe mental illness, depression, just crazy
>want out
How the fuck do I get out of this? We don't cross paths, but she knows where I live.
>>17216956
Seriously as many an anon as there >>17217010
Arrange a meet up in a public space , preferably with any of her stuff you have.
Try to record or have someone discreetly record the events for legal purposes in case she flips shit.
She will show back up at your place, when she does record these events as well, be friendly and honest with her that these cameras are only for legal purposes, in case she breaks or damages anything. If she persists after this restraining order...
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>>17217010
where do you meet these girls, OP?
>>17217028
would it be awful if I just cut all contact and block her on every medium?
>>17217928
online... yeah
How do you build self esteem?
> Everything I do I fail at.
> Every friend I let down.
> I'm not good enough to do a job.
> I'm not worth the time people spend talking to me.
It's easy to know why I think I'm a failure, but it's not easy to do anything about it because every time I something my all, I make it worse.
You need a dildo to fuck your ass good with
Start slowly building a skill. Preferably in something you have an in. Also probably something where you can see visible results. For example, building shit. Eventually you'll notice you're getting better and other people will as well.
>>17216997
get /fit/
works everytime
I am a black male and dating is next to impossible. My area has a high white and hispanic population so obviously I am limited in my choices. I honestly like all races of women as long as they aren't obese or ghetto.
However, I am finding that women are either really hesitant to date black dudes OR they really want to date black guys but its fetish tier... What a awful situation.
Like the dating realm when you are black is complete ass. What am I doing wrong? Ontop of that, I am not like a "GIGA NIGGA" black guy which leaves me disadvantaged in this...
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>>17216773
mexican chicks dig black guys why don't you go for them
Get your shit together, be confident, grow bbc. Women don't date black because black usually means trouble and instability. Prove them wrong.
If you have general beta features get rid of those. If you are manlet, tough luck but that has nothing to do with being black.
>>17216773
get job, start acting like a grown up with a steady life.
girls will come in due course
so im preparing for my first fight next week, im 19 6'1 and 200 pounds. ive been watching a bunch of self defense videos and practicing with a punching bag too but what else can I do to prepare myself before hand?
>inb4 dont fight
>inb4 why are you fighting there isnt anything else that will end this so its my only choice
im not going to pussy out either.
any tips from some experienced fighters?
Holy shit stop making threads you stupid cuck.
>>17216640
what? I think you have me confused for somoene else. ive never posted on this board before. i just want tips
>>17216636
Fight dirty. Bite, pull hair, aim for the groin and eyes. Just win. If someone wants to physically hurt you then IMO you have all the more reason to make hell for them
Let's have a bad advice thread
>If he/she cheats with you, he/she will also cheat you
So he/she will for the rest of his/her life ONLY cheat until he/she dies and NEVER have a normal relationship because he/she cheated with you? Okay, whatever you say boss.
>>17216524
The point is that if someone have cheated once, they are (probably) more likely to do it again, compared to someone who have never cheated before.
>>17216537
I agree. That is a good advice.
>>17216524
My girl has cheated in the past. But she didn't cheat on me and she promised me she will never do it ever again. I believe her.
If she did do it, I would leave her. It would sting for a bit but I would find a better girl. There's no need to be insecure about whether she might cheat on you. If she does she's a whore and not worth being with in he first place
hi everyone, I wanna ask if you have asperger syndrome and how do you feel about it? How does it feel having no emotions? Did you ever wanted to hurt a person because it would look funny?
Or do you like seeing others in pain?
What if someone you know died, would you cry or rather laugh because you simply dont care at all?
Thanks in advance :)
I do not have the diagnosis, but I'm on the border of having autism and/or asperger. I'm a few point below the line of actual diagnosis of autism. It's a mess I never got to the bottom with.
> How does it feel having no emotions?
It feels pretty empty. I feel like there is something wrong with me, but at the same time I know nothing else because I have always felt like this. Sometimes I wonder how people feel and why they act the way they do, but I really can't get my head around it. Other times I feel like a normal...
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FYI: asperger syndrome it not real.
I don't think you get what it is, though. It's not the case that we "have no emotions". It's just that understanding what causes certain emotions, especially in other people, doesn't come naturally to us. I'd understand that I was upset because my brother beat me at videogames or whatever, but I WOULDN'T understand that me gloating when I won would make HIM feel bad, even when it was explained to me.
That's when I was really young, though. What is it like for me today? Mainly, I just can't pick up very many social clues,...
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so I am about ready to spill the beans on the fact my ex has a new boyfriend shes been dating for 6 months and she has been fucking me the entire time
i mentioned him finding out to her last night and she said "i dont want him to come hurt me" and "hes gonna come after you too"
should I be worried? i mean, this guy is pretty small and id only be worried about him using weapons or actually hurting my ex in that case id definitely have to fight him at that point
wat do
what's your reason for telling the ex?
>>17216269
You're a piece of shit. Stop fucking your ex, she is the one cucking you both.
I went to her graduation a couple weeks ago and gave her a hug in front of him and she said he got mad at her for that. when i was invited there by her way before this fag showed up.
