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What is causing me to have all these red spots on just one side of my face? Also, when i go outside, it looks way worse, on both sides even. Most of the marks i cant even see inside, with normal lighting. I guess, what helped you guys rid yourself of post acne red marks?
>>17232041
Do you sleep on your side? It's probably the side down on the pillow. Maybe wash your face before bed and wash your pillowcases.
>>17232041
stop popping your pimples
When was the last time you washed your bedding? You should probably do it more often than you do.
I'll try to keep this brief. I'm a good enough looking guy. I'm conversational. I'm funny in most mediums.That typically gets me a few dates here and there, women asking me more than vice versa.
But it seems after the first, second date if I'm lucky, they lose interest. I can talk about things, but it always seems like they either don't know what to talk about, or I don't know what. I can lead a conversation just fine, but I have a hard time getting them into it.
I ask them about themselves, they can talk for hours and I can keep...
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I'll be honest here. I always have plenty to talk about myself in dates but in the end I always end up talking about her instead all evening. It doesn't matter that I got my engineering degree at the age of 20 while working at an awesome industry with multiple hobbies that I still managed to find time for during the weekends, all while eating healthy and working out, and am now starting my masters degree in an awesome field. I don't think a woman has ever asked what field I'm getting the masters in, either. I always end up talking about shopping and parents...
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>>17232035
the problem isn't that your life is boring, it's that you make your life sound boring
you should change up on how you go on a date a little, make each date more interesting, unique, different, memorable.
give her a good time, that will help
black raptor out!
Just let them talk about themselves and ask good questions/tell jokes when appropriate.
I never volunteer shit about myself unless it's directly related to what they're talking about or they ask.
Yo. Recently diagnosed with PCOS which causes my lack of or extremely irregular period. Doctor suggested Provera 10 mg for 10 days (to take every few months) to bring back the period. (also suggested lolo birth control and the nuvaring). I was on alesse bcp for 3 years and it affected my mood + weight and I'm hesitant about starting to take birth control again. Wondering if anyone with PCOS/irregular periods has had any issues with Provera or if you can suggest something that has worked best for you? Just weighing my options! Thanks!
>>17231928
Provera worked for me. I didn't want the on birth control so I never went back on it. I still suffer from pcos but just let my body do what it wants really. I get a very very light period each month but sometimes if I'm stressed I won't get it that month. I only ever did a year of peovera. I also suggest looking into herb called Vitex. I found it helped me with my mood swings and hormones.
>>17231958
I never wanted to be on birth control... But it is the best for pcos. I do think back an wonder if I had of just done the birth control maybe i wouldn't have pcos anymore.
pcos. because even god hates women. T_T
Getting pretty depressed now, women walk all over me, even the nice ones.
I'm a sensitive guy.
Not 'cry all the time sensitive' but, I do have feelings and for that I seem to get walked all over. Every damn time. What the hell am I doing wrong?
>>17231900
What do you mean, "walk all over me"?
>>17231903
Cheat on me, drop me like a hat when the relationships were strong ones (always great sex so not that), use me just as a tool to get back at people but never honest about it, every time it turns out I've been lied to about something...
A-am I cursed?
I'd like to add that I've dated a diverse range of different people from all backgrounds etc, so it's not that either...
I've never been unfaithful in my life, I'm generous, well mannered, not ugly... cursed.
How do I bring myself to date women at my level of attraction?
I'm a little below average looking. Maybe 4/10. I just can't bring myself to date women below average looking like me. I just don't find them attractive, and that makes me feel like I'm a hypocrite because I'm ugly myself and I'm expecting to get with a good looking girl. I try so hard to lower my standards but I can't.
And I'm not gonna lie, part of it is because all guys in my social circles are pretty date good looking women, and they tell me they're just...
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>>17231876
>they tell me they're just waiting on me to pull a hottie.
Yeah but they're not blind and they can see that you're too ugly to pull one.
>>17231876
What is it about you that's ugly? If that's how you really feel then you should be putting in tons of effort to fix what you can.
>>17231890
5'4", face drenched in acne scars, very unsymmetrical face, resting face looks like I'm about to punch a bitch in the throat. Pretty much just my face (which i think is the most attractive thing in a person physically) and height. I'm pretty fit and dress nice, which helps a bit I guess.
Okay /adv/
I need to finish my Master Thesis for the 20th of June
I've already got 55-58 pages approximately. I need 100 in total. Is it manageable to write the 40 left in, let's say, 10 days, so I have 2 days for final corrections ? I've already all the necessary notes to put in the work but I've also got some additional reading for some specific parts.
Kinda related pic, this is what I was doing a few weeks ago instead of working
If you're hoping to get something half-decent done, you're fucked.
>>17231870
You better eat, breathe, and sleep that paper, boy.
Work on it like it's your job. Posting here asking if it's possible wastes time.
I fell for a girl , Thought she fell for me. Been sleeping / seeing her since Feb. Another guy comes into the picture whom she fell in love with three years ago but he did not feel the same way.(HAS'NT SEEN HER SINCE) Basically overnight persuades her that she should chase after him. Then she just texted me telling me she doesn't think we should see each other like we have been since February.
She tells me the truth straight out and apologized saying she is so sorry and she did catch feelings for me but she always falls for the wrong guys . She wants to be friends...
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>>17231830
To keep this short, she's indecisive and seemingly sketchy. In my experience the best way to deal with this is to break all contact with her and carry on with your life. Don't give her a meeting. Don't stay friends. Delete her off everything and find someone that's interested in your time. Its pretty simple anon
>>17231877
I do appreciate her honesty but definitely agree with how sketchy her actions have been. Mainly because I feel like if things don't work out with the guy she may try and come back to me. I know I can not allow it to be that easy, the fucked up part about this is that I can honestly say that I was 100 % happy being single until i met her.
>>17231830
best thing you can do is forgedddboutit. cos if you dont it will continue to eat you up inside.
she only really saw you as a friend. you were in the friendzone you got cucked. best thing for you to do is just move on and delete them from you life and thoughts.
Is it strange for my best friend to be an online friend who lives in another country and he is of a different gender than me?
>>17231747
If you've never met up with him IRL it is a bit weird.
>>17231803
We have never met irl. He doesn't seem to want to meet me when I will be his country for vacation this summer, in the sense that he is too nervous to explain to his parents as to why he will go outside (he lives with them)
>>17231898
I'm sorry that's just hilarious.
So recently my girlfriend dumped me and she still wants to be friends. I'm alright with it because we have very similar interests and there's never any awkward moments between us. The problem is I'm still not over her or the breakup. Each time I see her I feel empty. Even hearing her name brings me down. I tried to forget about her but she's stuck in my mind. I erased all contact with her but still get depressed after I remember what she did.
Am I doing the right thing by trying to forget her and find others or other activity/hobbies Or should I stay...
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>>17231708
How recent?
>>17231716
About a week ago
>>17231708
I cut all contact with my ex after she dumped me and I must say it's one of the best decisions I've made.
be honest ladies (and fags i guess), is a 5.7 in. dick with 1.4 in. girth pathetic, or does it suffice? don't feel as if you need to spare my feelings for whatever reason, i want honesty. pic unrelated
>>17231642
I've only had one dick. Get a girl who's only had your dick. Then, she wont know any better. Like me.
And honestly, doesnt matter if you give great oral.
>>17231642
could I have that in circumference please?
>>17231684
about 4 and a half inches
"I'm not ready for a relationship right now, I think I need a bit of time for myself"
I know this is bullshit. She's basically saying she's not interested in me right? Should I even bother responding to this?
It just pains me that women always do this. She was the one that asked me out. She asked me out after she had broken up with her boyfriend.
>>17231639
Just say you understand and leave it at that. I always make an effort to communicate clearly, it's the mature thing to do.
She might be realizing that she's not over her ex and it's not fair to you, or that she's using you as rebound and doesn't want to keep leading you on.
>>17231667
i'm extremely terrified of commitment.
first of all, i love my boyfriend a lot. i'm not sure if he's "the one", i'm not even sure such a thing exists... but he is good to me and he loves me dearly. he's introduced me to all his friends and family and raves about me all the time to them.
he's been really pushing to meet my family and friends which i have been putting off because
>1. my mom already hates him without ever meeting him because he's not the 6', model-tier handsome, rich, harvard...
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Sounds like you're anxiety has more to do with the fear of all eyes being on you and social anxiety, than a fear of commitment. You aren't scared of being with him....you're scared of the social expectations of the relationship...ie meeting people or being on display. Just my take on it. I'd recommend seeing a therapist and having them help pinpoint what it really is. Even if it is a fear of commitment, that typically is due to an insecurity within YOURSELF...but instead of trying to work through that you are projecting it onto your boyfriend and trying to...
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>>17231624
Are you terrified of commitment, or terrified of how others will perceive your choice of man that you committed to?
Now, you really shouldn't care about what your mother and family think, because ultimately they should only care about whether or not you are happy - so if your bf isn't abusive or controlling (or some other major negative) and it doesn't seem like he is, then it's purely about whether he makes you happy.
So, does he make you happy? Is he a genuinely nice person?
As...
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>>17231648
that could be it, ive never been really good with a lot of people around me. i can put up a good impression for the first 5 minutes, but i'd try to make an excuse to leave or fade afterwards. my boyfriend is obviously a lot more social and normal than i am, and i guess that's what makes me insecure. i have no idea how to keep up with his energy around people and i'm afraid i'm bringing him down and that he'll someday resent me for it.
i've never been to a therapist, but i guess...
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Where do I find someone to give me a prostate massage?
>>17231601
Wait till you're 40 and you can pay a professional for it
>>17231601
>>17231601
Pay an escort. Or make the girl believe she's not being judged in bed. Girls are the kinkiest sluts when they are comfortable with you and know you're not judging them.
>>17231614
Where do I look for a professional?
Dear Alphonse you were witnessed
>>17231590
Sucking off another namefag? I'd imagine that is a regular occurrence, hardly worth an unrelated thread.
>>17231618
Then don't reply
>>17231633
Read the rules of the board.
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Which military branch should I try to enlist in and why?
Too old for the Marine Corps and Coast Guard.
Airforce. Army's for dipshits, and the Marines are for dipshits who think they're better than the army dipshits
>>17231537
lol, look at this guy.
Airforce is easy mode, but you will always get called out on it whenever around soldiers or Marines. Do whatever you want.
>>17231537
What about the navy?
