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How do I deal with being hideous?
>>17236937
Stop sitting behind your computer all day for one
>>17236942
Is that whats making me hideous?
>>17236937
What kind of hideous are we talking here? Are you fat, or do you have shitty features? Balding? Be specific, here.
I rejected a girl three years ago, I'm pretty sure she still has a thing for me. She however has a bf, and he is one of my good friends. We just graduated and will likely never see one another again. I feel immense regret for some reason. What would you do in my situation? She's making it pretty obvious.
Is she still dating him? If so, do your buddy a favor and don't do anything with her. Just assume you're reading too much into whatever she's doing. If she comes to you and openly confesses, then tell your bud so he can have the honors of dumping her.
Tell her that she's a great girl and you regret letting her go. That's it.
>>17236943
All right, she's the only girl that's ever really been into me ( I can only guess since she asked me put before) so it makes me unexperienced with this.
I have a dilemma regarding an ongoing issue in my relationship with my partner of 3 years, she has become all but consumed by social media, any time she isn't busy she is scrolling through facebook/instagram/snapchat or whatever else keeping up to date with celebrities lives and taking screenshots of food/bikini bodies for motivation and what not. The issue i have is there doesn't seem to be an end to it, she will do it nearly the entire time we spend together, we do see each other practically every day so i completely understand spending time on herself but whenever...
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>>17236905
I would like to also add that it wasn't always like this, obviously in the beginning she refrained from using her phone all the time around me as things were new, she also recently lost a bit of weight so she is feeling better about herself therefore spending a lot more time doing her make-up and taking photos for these media outlets, which in itself is fine, but after posting a photo she will literally be checking on it for hours seeing how many likes she gets and replying to the comments of "beautiful xoxo".
>>17236905
She's bored of you. Instead of trying to control her, make her want to pay attention to you.
Stop taking her to the same places. Plan interesting activities for the two of you to do.
Do you compliments her enough?
Not enough for her to get all the power and cuck you.. but enough?
It's an addicting thing. Getting all that positive feedback. More than you could ever get IRL. Be careful, this is when dudes sneak in, you accepted her as a fatty so you must be beneath her (this is how bitches think) and she's never been attractive to hit guys before , now she is and she needs more attention so she sucks a dick.
Make sure it's really just friends. Sorry nigga.
If it really is just girls talking g and shit start spending...
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I hate myself. I hate myself for not being wealthy, for not being charismatic enough, or funny enough, or attractive enough or smart enough. I hate myself for never being good enough for the women I'm attracted to and try to pursue. My lack of success with women makes me feel worthless, disconnected from the rest of humanity, and like I'm not really a man. I don't want to hate myself though. Am I not deserving of reciprocated love or mutual feelings of desire?
What's an unlovable mid-twenties KV student supposed to do?
>>17236899
>Am I not deserving of reciprocated love or mutual feelings of desire?
You are deserving, absolutely.
>My lack of success with women makes me feel worthless, disconnected from the rest of humanity, and like I'm not really a man.
You're a man. Sometimes a man has little or no success in the dating scene for the first two decades he spends trying. Have you been trying for two decades? If not, you're still improving. You're...
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>Am I not deserving of reciprocated love or mutual feelings of desire?
If your standards are unreasonably high, then no, you are not deserving. Put yourself in their shoes. Why should they settle for someone like you? Do you have any standout desirable traits? Or are you the very definition of "just another guy"?
Channel that hate into productive things. Work out, read, learn languages, pick up a sport. Only by improving yourself can you she'd the skin of this person you hate now.
I've recently broken up with my girlfriend of about 10 months, and all I can think about is her. It wasn't mutual, though we both had done bad things. Hers was smoking weed with other guys, and smoking it all the time when I absolutely hate her doing it. I'm obsessing over what she's doing and who she's with, especially late at night when I know stuff happens. She was the only person I ever hung out with, and tonight I hung out with friends for the first time in a while. Now that I'm home and alone, it's hitting me hard and all I can think...
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>>17236898
Dude, you broke up with in her part because she was doing shit you didn't like. Unless you're a complete dipshit, you didn't break up with her to punish her so that she would learn her lesson and come crawling back to you. It was so you didn't have to be with someone who doesn't act like a person you want to be with.
So act like it. It's not your problem anymore, you're free to find a better person who does act in a way you like. So go focus on finding that better person.
>>17236898
You sound like kind of a prick, honestly.
She smoked weed with other guys? And you broke up with her for that?
Perhaps you should work on your own self-esteem before pursuing other women.
>>17236940
I had made it clear to her that I did not want her doing that, and she did often and hid it from me. Sorry if that makes me a prick? I made my morals clear and what I expected.
>>17236810
I've gotten high many times in a hotboxed car, so yes
>>17236810
Definitely. It won't be as fast as smoking yourself, and unless they're hotboxing you won't be getting super high, but you can totally get high from secondhand smoke.
>>17236833
>>17236844
Yeah cuz they hot boxed the car and I aired it out , but I feel wired. I use to mess with it but quit , but I remember this feeling. Not sure if it's all in my head.
I've read it allot , "oh your family will miss you very much they will be devastated ". Is that really true? I feel if you aren't really important or kinda fall flat in comparison to past siblings, your family wouldnt care nearly as much.
>>17236805
They love you a lot more than you would think, death and separation really opens peoples eyes to how they really feel.
>>17236805
>kinda fall flat in comparison to past siblings
You mean if one of your siblings already committed suicide and then you commit suicide too, it won't stand out as much? Yeah, I can see that. But if you're the first or only one to kill yourself, your parents are going to still be devastated. It's pretty much going to give them the ultimate guilt trip, depending on your actions leading up to the act. One of my friends did that specifically to harm her parents and ultimately...
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>>17236814
Your friend was an asshole.
What would you say counts as loosing your virginity.
I'm female who got into a relationship with another girl out of high school. We did have sex, but there was no PiV penetration because, well, there was no penis.
We broke up and I ended up having sex with a guy. Plenty of penis there. Now my question is when can I say I lost my virginity? Did I loose it to my ex gf, or did it not count for loosing my virginity until I had an actual penis inside of me?
it's whatever you want it to be dear
>>17236804
Probably lost it when you pulled the trigger
>>17236804
The actual definition is penis to vaginal penetration, so technically you lost your virginity to your boyfriend. That saif, virginity is just a concept invented by humans and really doesn't matter.
Can I take Windows from my laptop and put it onto a custom PC? Like is there a way to just take all of the folders from system 32 etc and copy my OS onto another PC?
And if not, considering I don't have the money for another copy of Windows right now, is Linux really that bad? I know it used to be, but I've been getting mixed reports.
And thirdly, can I pirate Windows and have it boot up on my new PC? It should work, I don't know why it wouldn't, but I've been waiting almost a year to build it and it's practically bankrupting me,...
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>>17236792
No you can't just copy the system files that wouldn't work.
You clearly have no idea what you're doing and I'm not confident you won't fuck up your computer somehow if I tell you what to do.
Linux has come leaps and bounds. it's actually faster than windows and mac because no bloatware. If you're not a professional who needs certain software that don't run on linux, linux is great. But again, you have no idea what you're doing.
Download VMWare and play around with it first.
If the laptop came equipped with it, then it SHOULD have a key somewhere on it. If not, there are some programs that are able to pull the key from the registry. If you pull the key, then you can enter it in on Microsofts website, and get an installer for the same version of windows that you have (You can choose x64 or x86). Prep a flashdrive with Rufus for booting, slap it on, and install. Peasy.
Advice for a newfag
>>17236779
>>17236784
Best advice /adv/ ever advised.
>>17236779
Lurk in /b and desensitize yourself and then come back after a few months.
How do I get better at communication with my bf and others? I often freeze up and don't say anything, nothing comes out of my mouth and it really hurts my bf because he doesn't know what to do or what I want.
Stay quiet? You don't ever have to force a conversation. Unless your autistic and resort to pointing at what you want, that could be beyond advice.
Don't force it. If you feel lost, hug him.
>>17236806
>>17236822
Oh no, I didn't explain myself properly enough. This is in regards to when something's wrong when I'm bothered by something, not general conversation.
How do i know if something in my house is toxic? Every time I go in my room my nose gets stuffy and I always feel tired and shitty and get chest pains. 9 times out of 10 it happens when the wind is blowing (always is in this shit hole) and the air coming in from my window does it. It makes me feel pissed off as fuck too
>>17236766
>>17236766
waaaaaaah
Probably an allergy? Do you live near an industrial area?
I'm a virgin and I bought a masturbation toy today, one with realistic inside, not the ones that designed for stimulation. After using it twice I realized that I can do about 10 seconds. What's the deal, how do I fail so miserably? Can I say to girls that it is the ultimate compliment and get away with it?
You just need to get used to how it feels and then it will start taking longer. But yeah most girls will take it as a compliment. If they still want more, just give them head. Most prefer that anyways
>>17236877
I guess, after I wrote this I did two times more, and I'm still instantly arriving. But it's too much for me as I only did hand masturbation.
>>17236751
I think disappointing your sex toy is the least of your problems.
I'm about to start my first realish job, like $700 a week or so. What do I do with that money? About 100 of it goes to bills and stuff, but the rest is expendable. So what do I do? Savings, investing, silver bullion?
>>17236700
Silver is a trap, the prices really stay the same so you're not really making money.
you should hire a financial advisor for a session and discuss what investing option is best for your income
>>17236710
Is an advisor worth it?
>>17236724
I don't know, would you rather put your money in the hands of a trained professional, or some anonymous basement dweller on 4chan who masturbates too much?
So im 20 and since i have sex for first time when i was 15 i can't really enjoy sex, i just can't feel pleasure, in most of times i cum in about 40 minutes, even in my first time five years ago, i couldn't feel anything, what do? What's my condition?
>>17236651
Deathgrip, you hold your dick too tightly when you masturbate.
>>17236656
wat do then? would a fleshlight do the trick?
>>17236665
Maybe yes. Just stop masturbating so tightly and get your dick used to a more normal pressure. It will take a while but if you can tough it out it will improve
A vagina can't grip your dick as hard as a hand can. So that's why you don't enjoy it as much.
