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I only have suicidal thoughts in English, never in my native language. Also when i'm sad i think much more in English than Portuguese.
Do you people also do this?
Yeah, mexican here.
>>17238511
that's really interesting.
>>17238511
what's the word for "suicide" in huehue?
Hey guys, I'm moving into my own place at the end of the month, and I only have bedroom furniture. I need a tv, couch, silverware, plateware, the works.
I'd love some good ideas about what to get/where to get it on the cheap. To spice things up a bit, dubs and 69 decides one thing I must buy.
Checked local used sites like Kijiji and Craigslist.
Ikea is pretty good for things like desks, end tables and rugs. Silverware you can get at Walmart or Ikea. Make sure to price match.
TVs, check the box stores or online. You likely have deal forums (Canada has redflagdeals for instance) to help alert you to upcoming or recurring sales.
If you dont have a car, Car2Go is a good service to help you move stuff.
>need a TV and couch
No you don't.
Buy this for your eating since you're starting out:
http://www.walmart.com/ip/Gibson-Home-Essential-Total-Kitchen-83-Piece-Combo-Set/36885755
Go to a charity/second hand/thrift store.
I need advice from the nerds of /adv
I'm currently getting a larger education in the field of IT, and will soon be attending the university with it aswell (most likely IT and economy)
I live in Europe, Denmark to be specific.
When I'm done at the university, I have a dream of getting a work at Google, in America.
Does anyone have experiences here? What are my chances?
Thanks
>>17238451
>When I'm done at the university, I have a dream of getting a work at Google, in America.
google has campuses in tons of countries in europe. germany is the one i know of but i'm pretty sure you don't need to go to america.
it's hard to get into google, but if you're good at what you do you have a pretty good shot. just have a bunch of sideprojects on your offtime that show skill and inventiveness.
>>17238462
I have ton og family In America, and always wanted to stay for longer than 2-4 weeks visiting.
But yeah, I do a lot of programming in my spare time.
Thanks!
>live in a country with better wages and a higher standard of living than the US.
>want to immigrate to the US anyway
google is pretty picky about whom they hire, I don't think you're smart enough to make the cut.
How do you break a fetish?
>>17238441
try it out and see how it goes.
>>17238446
I think you are missing my point. I have a fetish I want to stop getting off to.
you can't
next question
whats up /adv/
I need some advice.
This summer i won't be doing nothing, so i want to lose weight. but thats the problem
>hate running
>cant do one push up
I just ride my bike every morning, but i dont think thats good enough, what else can i do to lose weight without running or exercising, not just that i want to stay motivated, but i cant, when i see other people run who are in shape im just like wow, ill never reach that point. and im lose my motivation. which m trying to say...
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Bike riding is actually pretty good for losing weight. If you're not losing weight as it is, you need to do it more, stop eating so much shit, or both.
>>17238405
>what else can i do to lose weight without running or exercising
eat the same 3 meals every day and nothing else. they can be whatever you want as long as its 300-500 calories beneath your TDEE (what you need to maintain your weight). it should be the same meals because otherwise you're hassling around every day trying to find the calories in everything you're cooking
if that is too hard for you or the idea of eating the same thing everyday doesn't appeal...
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>>17238412
i dont eat as much and i drink a lot of more water
So I've been with my fiance for over 2 years now and everything is perfect.
Only thing is....
Just after hearing we will be getting married the fiance's ex magically shows up and starts creating rumors. Have never met her before and the fiance stopped talking to her when we started dating. We have the same group of friends so she's been telling everyone I'm pregnant and forcing him into marriage. She's making youtube videos saying he's only marrying because she left him feeling insecure as a man, because she cheated on him with a girl,...
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>>17238355
Go file charges against her. Don't threaten it, do it. It's against the law to slander someone in such a way. When she puts that shit out to the public, as is the case with Youtube, she can and will be held accountable for damages. Anyone can find that shit and use it against you. So man up and throw charges in her face. Harassment AND libel/slander.
That'll shut her up real quick. And it'll be hilarious.
Invite her to the wedding. She's obviously jealous and angry that he chose you instead of her. Rub it in her face.
Link the YouTube video
Hey /adv/, I need to know how to remove mold from an air mattress. I've already sprayed it with Tilex and wiped it down with Clorox wipes but it's still there.
get a new air mattress
That kinda looks more like sweat stains, rather than mold.
>>17238362
It's black/grayish specks, so I think it's mold. But you may be right.
Well, I fucked up this time /adv/.
Hung out all day Tuesday with this girl who has a boyfriend. We got kind of drunk, and she really started going for it. Like undoing my belt going for it.
I told her no, because I knew her boyfriend, and it would be unfair to everyone involved, and I decision we would both completely regret the next day.
Also she was drunk and I'm not getting close to that whole rape thing.
She got pretty angry, and got a cab and went home. She told me later she got in a huge fight with bf, presumably because she was ignoring...
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>>17238317
You did not fuck up at all. You did the right thing. Proud of you OP
>>17238317
you're a good person OP.
the slut is mad cause she offered her body to a dude and got turned down which probably doesn't happen often.
>>17238321
>>17238325
Thanks guys, I really needed the validation. Kind of makes me feel like a huge pussy for not taking the sex that I really did want in all honesty.
Just not on these terms.
It's been a year of seeing this girl and we try to make plans together; but after everything has been done we walk around the city for an hour then go
>what now?
I'm getting less interested in sex and end up going home every time to draw or play animal crossing lol
She's really pretty but I dunno if it's worth being bored all the time. Am I being an asshole for being bored? Or complacent?
I'm worried.
Anything you might have to say will help.
>>17238300
Why haven't you made an effort to do something different than just walk around?
is the ONLY reason you're losing interest because you two don't do anything fun together? Or are there more reasons like she's a bitch or a prude or what?
>>17238315
I usually offer to read to her, we go for drives, we even spent a few months in Asia together.
But here in North America it's just not stimulating.
We run out of things to do very fast when I'm not doing anything, really.
>>17238337
Are both of you poor? Generally being not-bored involves having the money to afford to do stuff. Do you ever go to movies? Amusement parks? Short "daycations" to nearby cities with fun bars or clubs or night life?
ITT clingy girlfriend
I'm used to relationships where I'm the center of the world, pretty much. My past relationships, I always came first, they always wanted to be with me, they always wanted me around, they talked to me everyday, they would even get moody if I didn't say anything. If friends were around, they would involve me too, or if they would go out with their friends, they would tell me so. It's not like I demanded to know where they were at, it just naturally happened, like "hey tonight I'm going out drinking with my buddies see...
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Comment got too long but I feel like if anything, I'm just his personal therapist when he gets cutting urges and feels suicidal, because he's too ashamed to talk about his problems with his friends.
>>17238299
must be nice for him to have an oblivious side chick.
People who attract the opposite sex (being any gender) to the point where the other person obsessed is BAD.
Insecure people are the ones who are clingy, intense and value you for being something they've decided in their own head.
A person who does not do this is more confident in the self.
It looks like this makes you uncomfortable because you've been put in the vulnerable position this time.
Is it possible to maintain a longterm relationship with a person that you have NOTHING in common other than sex?
No.
>>17238243
Well, I did it for 2 years and half.
Sex was the only peacefull part. Rest was hell on earth.
>>17238243
i ask that myself sometimes. my boyfriend is the complete opposite of me both in interests and attitude. literally like day and night... i'm the hopeful, positive one, he's the cynical pessimist... i love my nerdy fantasy stuff, he prefers sports and cop/gangster type stuff...
we try to show each other our interests though, and i think the fact we try to keep an open mind is what keeps us going. we also try to be considerate of each other and support each other when we can.
been about a year...
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I am like 5'7 and thin af (55kg)
I am eating absolutely ok (not much but I am ok with it)
How can I gain more weight without eating shit (MC Donalds...) or wasting tons of money.
18 year old student Btw
I am kinda sitting the whole time on my chair and do nothing which really expend energy.
Start lifting. You don't want fat, you want muscle.
>>17238240
Exercise. You may get slightly thinner in the beginning, but muscles weigh quite a lot, so you'll gain weight in time.
>>17238240
read the sticky on /fit/ you faggot.
to gain weight you need to eat more calories than you expend. it's just a numbers game.
you should lift but don't listen to the autist that suggests that the weight difference between muscle and fat is somehow a means to effectively gain weight. that's literally fucking retarded.
eat more food = gain weight. you may as well lift/be active while you do so you don't look like shit.
I found this screen shotted on my girlfriends computer.
What would this combination do? I tried reverse image searching on google but I couldn't find anything.
>>17238237
She may be trying to treat herself for depression/anxiety naturally. That's what Tianeptine and Saint Johns Wort do. Phenethylamine effects happy hormones, like dopamine and serotonin. Polygala is used in Chinese medicine for it's ability to improve memory and protect against cognitive ailments.
>>17238237
>>17238250
Oh, and Lithium Orotate is a natural dietary supplement, like SJWE and Tianeptine, that's used to manage stress and support a positive mood.
>>17238250
lithium too
i've been fucking my gf raw for over a year and a half. she isn't on any contraceptive because she's a baby when it comes to hormonal bc side-effects. she's also too chicken shit to follow through with a copper IUD.
initially we went back to condoms but we would still occasionally fuck raw for fun. now? we fuck raw all the time and then have a short discussion about how risky this behavior is after the fact, rinse and repeat. our contraception method is me pulling out and it seems to have worked fine so far.
we had a few "pregnancy scares"...
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Getting pregnant is easy. If you cum in her womb with full force, a single dose is enough to get her pregnant. Sperm can live inside a female for two weeks.
If she has some disorder that makes it hard for her to get pregnant, that's a different case
>>17238208
so how would you explain my situation?
raw sex at a frequency of four times a week for half a year. no hormonal contraceptive, pull out method employed.
is the idea that pregnancy is fucking easy just a myth akin to rates of HIV contraction?
If you do withdrawal PERFECTLY every single time (this includes peeing beforehand), your chances of her becoming pregnant within a year are 4%. That's 1 out of every 25 women who use this method.
Now if you do it imperfectly (which you should just assume everyone does because everyone will make mistakes), your chances rise to 22%. So basically 1 out of every 5.
This may SEEM small to some, but remember, this is pregnancy we are talking about. You are playing with fire m8.
http://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/unintendedpregnancy/pdf/contraceptive_methods_508.pdf
Is it a red flag if your girlfriend has been in multiple gang bangs?
We've been dating for 7 months now and we're both in our late twenties. She ended her 3 year relationship last year after her ex decided to move back to Canada.
So anyway, this girl's libido is high as fuck and I love it. We didn't talk about our past sexual experiences until last night, which is when she told me she had been in at least 6 gang bangs in her late teens and early twenties. Says her libido was even higher back then. It kinda bothered me for some reason. I don't...
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I mean, its sounds like she's a free bird and knows how to fly high. Just have fun and don't get cucked! You don't plan on marrying her...right?
>>17238189
lol
>>17238199
She's been amazing so far but I don't think of marriage until we've been together at least 2-3 years.
