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I have to live for the first time with 3 other guys and I was wondering about stuff.
Do I keep everything that doesn't require refrigerating in my room?
>>17241539
Also, give me some general advice on living with roommates /adv.
>>17241543
Be considerate, pick up after yourself, and you can keep your food products in the kitchen area, unless your roommate are prone to eating food that isn't there, then you might want to get crafty and start hiding it.
I have a bad habit of taking my socks off in the living room, and piling them under the coffee table until laundry day (once a week), and sometimes if there's a sports game on, and I'm home alone, I'll fall asleep on the couch after it's over.
>>17241539
Keep your stuff in the kitchen, unless as the other anon said, they start eating it.
Be tidy, be considerate. Pick up after yourself. Clean, but don't be the only one cleaning. Don't bring people over without asking your roommates first. Split things evenly. Don't stay cooped up in your room, talk to your roommates.
How do I fix my dick? I think I've masturbated too much over the years and now I can't get hard enough to penetrate a girl. Getting that solid "rock hard" boner just seems like an impossible task for me. I can get hard when I masturbate, but it's not solid, it goes down if I stop stroking for +2 seconds. Should I visit a doctor? I have had plenty of girlfriends but I've always just fingered them and stuff, never had PIV sex. I just want to fuck, but I can't. Anyone who's had this same problem? How do I fix my dick?
Are you dehydrated, try drinking alota water through put the day
You also could just be outta shape, do you smoke? Also I think you have a mental thing about actually having PIV, you may have also mentally turned yourself off from beating it so much that your body is just not with it when you could just relieve yourself without any pressure
Also just sitting there pumping your stack alot is not really getting blood flow down there , you are lacking in the whole body getting blood circulating down there, could be why your rod goes soft so quick, it all works on blood flow dude
How should I deal with this situation?
It seems like every time I'm about to become independent, my father explodes into a violent rage and tears me back down into a depressive state.
This week, I just was hired for a new job that pays decently enough. I had been working myself out of a rut and was finally becoming able to function normally. I was going to be able to pay my bills and save money.
But like clockwork, my father randomly exploded one day and began verbally abusing me and threatening physical violence. My sibling also joins in and verbally abuses me. They both gang up on me and try to tear me down. I feel surrounded by enemies in my own home.
Now I find myself back where I started, too depressed to leave my room or even eat food. I have been certifiably underweight all of my life, yet my parent constantly tells me to eat less food. I can't seem to stop thinking about the recent confrontation and it's affecting what little work I'm able to get done. I feel depressed.
This has happened so many times over the years and it just keeps getting worse. My childhood was also filled with domestic violence and verbal abuse. It feels like I can't escape. Every time I get a little bit of money, my father takes all of it for what I owe him. I don't even have a driver's license because my father refuses to let me practice with his car. He constantly tells me I should be grateful for everything he's done for me and it always seems like he takes his anger out on me no matter what I do or how hard I try.
I feel trapped and alone with no exit in sight. What should I do?
>>17241495
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, anon.
The clear answer is that you need to move the fuck out. Out of that city, and ideally out of the state. You need to find a way to hide that money, and save up enough so that you can leave. Do you have any friends that would lend you their car to help you drive? If it gets desperate enough, I would buy a one way ticket and arrange to get to a shelter in another state.
All the best.
>>17241504
If you're going to run away, you should tell the police beforehand to let them know you're not missing.
>>17241495
My dad does the same thing
>"Lazy mother fucker! When I grew up in walked down to the dmv and got my drivers license all by myself self! I'm a real man who hits little kids!"
Yes he got his id before 9-11 when all you needed was a birth certificate. Now they ask for 7 documents you can't get without having an id in the first place or help with your parents.
Ok /adv/ i need help i was doing some naughty things with my girlfriend (just hand and mouth with no clothes no full penetration) shes a virgin and im a virgin and we were just foolling around i eventually came 90% in her mouth and the other 10% idk i think it may have gotten on the bed but im not surewe know it didnt go directly into her vagina but were still not sure is there a possiblility that she got preggers?
>>17241484
She is definitely pregnant
>>17241484
Yes, she's pregnant. She's swallowed the come, it's now in her stomach. The baby has been planted. Enjoy fatherhood, anon.
>>17241484
If there is any More than 80% sperm in her mouth the chance of her being pregnant is close to 100%.... sorry man, goodluck
Long story short, my parents can't and don't particularly want to help me with anything anymore. They'll give me a place to stay, but I'd really rather not live with them.
I make $10/hr and get about 28 hours per week on average, I could probably get a few more hours, and I've been saving up since November. I also really want to go back to college, even a community college would do fine, ideally by this fall. I will also need to pay for my own health insurance, car insurance, food, etc.
And I have no idea where to start. How do I find a good apartment or a roommate? Is it even possible for me to go back to college with so little money?
>>17241475
You have very nearly ruined your life, sort it out now or forever be a loser.
>>17241475
Start looking up ads for places to stay, check them out, and meet your potential roommates if you can. Go to a community college and apply for as many scholarships or aid as you can. Do your best and ideally transfer to your state university when you can. Do you have to drive? You'd save a lot by ditching it for a bike or public transportation, but only if practical. Get more hours or get a second job. I hope you like beans and rice, because that's all you'll be eating for a while.
Good luck, anon.
>>17241478
It's not like I picked fights with my parents or anything. My dad is retiring early and my mom is bipolar and decides to freak out at me every other day.
>>17241485
How do I find a roommate, is that something an apartment owner will do? I do have to drive, public transport doesn't exist around here and all the apartments are too far away to bike from. My car is also 13 years old, so that probably won't help things.
Hi /adv/, what's the most comfiest math field and why?
>>17241470
/Sci
>>17241470
Stats. Nice and cushy finance jobs.
>>17241473
If I asked that on /sci/, they would send me here, and this is in fact the advice board.
Do my lips look like they've had injections or been plumped? Do you like them? I would really appreciate answers please I won't be offended :)
>>17241431
There's something *off* about the top lip, I think the top lip is definitely too big.
>>17241431
You need lip balm, stat. The shadow on your top lip makes it look like you have fuckboy stubble.
>>17241431
No you're just asian
How can I stop feeling that my race is inferior. I am Asian (femanon) and I see all these posts about how desperate Asian chicks are for white dick on boards like /trv/ and alike
>>17241391
Probably can't. Embrace yourself for what you are.
>>17241391
Anon, these are men who have never touched a girl in their life. These are men who would probably come in their pants if a woman even held their hand. Don't listen to their shit. Their opinions aren't ones you should value.
>>17241398
I thought /trv/ had the highest number of "normies" among all 4chan boards
Hi, my problem is that i am bloated and gassy all time have checked up myself by a doctor there is nothing pathological found so doctor have suggested me to stay away from some vegetables and stuff can anyone here tell me any good herbal or non herbal stuff to get rid of it
>>17241389
IBS? Indigestion? What kind of things are you eating? Describe a typical day of food for you.
>>17241389
Drink a small cup of bleach, chase with plenty water. It will be mostly neutralised by your stomach acid but still be alkaline enough to kill all the bacteria making the gas.
Your next shit will be watery but after that it's like starting fresh, no gas. Worked fine for me and I used to almost inflate and get horrendous cramps. I'd go for a shit and blow air for a few minutes before I drank bleach.
>>17241402
Egg and bread in morning
Wheat bread with some vegetables and meat
And some juice or a milkshake before bed
Are there girls like Sunny in real life? You know, gentle, femenine, cheerful (but not vulgar)...
Also, how to catch one?
Vid related:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQwohRcEcsk
>>17241342
Move to Utah and find a Mormon.
>>17241363
B-but mate, that's a bit far...
>>17241342
Why would she be interested in you? What do you have to offer that other guys don't?
>graduated this past spring with a bachelors in comsci
>just this past week i began taking classes for IT certification
>one of the tasks in class was presenting a project
>mouth ended up not moving fast enough for brain
>tripped over words everywhere
>realize that this may cost me a really good paying job
>this has cost me "socially centered" jobs (ie: retail/nanny/ect) and ruined relationships before
>tried speech training classes before but no luck as its not technically a speech impediment. all they did was kill my self confidence
what do?
>>17241325
See a psychologist. This is psychological, you don't need a speech pathologist.
>>17241334
How would a psychologist help? They can't really "slow down" my brain can they? I thought they just talked about mother issues and helped with ptsd and schizo and shit like that.
>bumping with a little more info since itd be rude to bump with nothing
I'm not a "people person" which is why I chose computers from an early age. I'm hardly emotional at all with dealing with people but, for me, it's a point of pride. Because, like when I was working retail, I would be the only one on a team spending time fixing problems instead of my teammates who would go into hysterics and just rile up angry customers even more.
But when it comes to having to talk to people directly and in-depth, my brain seems stuck in a "machine/logical mode" and the body can't keep up. If that makes any sense. At best, I can keep things brief without too many incidents but then I come off as shy or quiet (or sometimes mentally slow or ill) when that couldn't be further from the truth.
If every single neighbor you have has an annoying dog that barks all day starting early in the morning, walks around and pisses in your yard, and they all neglect them and let them be annoying as fuck for hours on end could you just leave random meatballs full of anti freeze all over the road and throw them in people's lawns would they start dying?
Yes they would. But that's a bad idea.
look up the noise laws for your area. If there is still bad noise pollution outside of those hours, call the police. That's their job, to enforce the law.
>>17241288
I reported it numerous times and it's been going on for years I've tried calling the cops and everything
The dogs literally got loose in my yard and almost bit my friend on my porch and they still ignored it
Met this girl while I was in England and we got to know each other before I left back to the states. We've now been talking for almost 5 months, and getting closer and closer. There are times when she freaks out and says we are getting too close and she starts to withdraw and become more guarded. She asks for a break and s few days later comes back like nothing happened. The last couple of days have been quite volatile and we've been extremely critical of each other. Yesterday I told her that I felt something for her and I wanted her. She pretty much laughed it off and was quite mean to me but she maintained she wanted to stay as friends. I don't really know if I should just leave or try to work on it with her. She sends mixed signals and she tells me she can't imagine her life without me but when we get too close she becomes quite heartless and tried to push me away. Any suggestions or thoughts?
>>17241271
For once there's a challenging woman related question on /adv/. Lets try to break down the situation a little more, so both of you like each other, you just are the kind of person who is emotionally open while she is not. You've gotten more attached (not a bad thing) and have reached a boiling point where you have or are near the full blownsies and you want something to happen. You're holding on to the positive side of her mixed emotions and hoping that she reaches the same level of affection to where the feelings can mutually be expressed. So this is all up to her, you cannot know which way she is leaning, she probably only leans towards no due to distance, but it could be other factors (previous heart break). So the way I see it is you're ready to go, she is not but has those growing feelings, if she likes you she cannot control those feelings very well and I guess you must wait until the feelings overcome the negatives of the situation in her head. Just be patient, but I realize in the meantime it is painful and you could be crushed by the reality that she could maybe never accept her feelings. Hold it out as long as you can, don't pressure her or say anymore about it, until you can't handle it anymore. That's all I can think of? Sorry.
>>17241291
Op here, tl;dr
>>17241315
tl;dr: she's taking a huge dick from someone else and knows your weenie can't do anything for her. She also doesn't like the feeling of falling in love with someone who isn't attractive and alpha.
My girlfriend does this, nearly nonstop.
Her fingers are always scabbed or have skin peeling, her nails never grow. She's on medication for anxiety, and she sees a psyche.
I've tried to help, I started pointing out when she does it by grabbing her hand and trying to hold it. Sometimes she lets me, other times she's like "baby, I just gotta do it" and pulls away to resume picking like a mad man.
I really want to help her, she wants to have pretty nails to show off, but everytime she paints them they've barely finished drying by the time she picks all the polish off.
Is the anxiety medication working? Because it doesn't sound like it is.
>>17241212
Could be a placebo, but she believes it helps her, I don't personally see it though.
Seemed to be a lot more emotional when she was taking it at the start a few months ago, on her period it's even more apparent it's not working as intended, but I just blame it on PMS and try to be as understanding as I can.
>>17241206
It's a common nervous habit (Look at the fingers of the next 20 people you pass - I promise at least one will be a biter), and almost impossible to break.
Some people just outgrow it with age, some reduce it as their stress levels drop, but many just keep on through life.
As bad habits go, it's a fairly benign one, and perhaps best just ignored.
Adv i don't know where else to ask
>want to wear a corset it's so badass
Questions
1) my head circumference is 24 inches/60 cm, what waist circumference will be proportional for me? And I'm 5'2 feet tall.
2) when i draw my belly my waist is 27,5 inches/70 cm. Do I need a corset to keep it like that constantly or working out my stomach muscles will do?
>I'm female
Oops, when I maximally draw my belly waist actually gets to 24 inches, when relaxed it's about 29 inches.
>>17241202
Actually, a corset will weaken your stomach muscles by doing their work for them.
Is this an S&M thing, where you want the sensation of being restrained and sexualized? Begin by only wearing it in sexual settings, and then let your dom order you to wear it in other contexts.
>>17241202
Are you trying to corset train? Because it's really terrible for your organs. Go exercise instead.
