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Could you guys suggest me nice games to play while high? Preferably PC games, any genre, but today I feel more like funny/wierd ones.
Pic related, it relates to stuff.
>>17243111
Russian Roulette. By yourself.
>>17243123
This.
With any magazine fed handgun
>>17243123
Seems enjoyable
Is being friends with your ex a good idea? When mine broke up with me and tried to play the "let's be friends" card, I told him flat out that I hated that idea because I don't think it ever works and he got pissed at me.
I've asked other people for the opinions and a lot of them seem to think I've screwed up because, in their reasoning, if you had something special with a person and still cared about the good memories and what they meant to you, you'd be an idiot to throw away any potential for friendship. Mind you, I was the one who was dumped.
Thoughts? Has it ever worked successfully? Did I really fuck up?
>>17243099
>Is being friends with your ex a good idea
Hell no!
I was recently introduced to a girl over text a few days ago and we immediately hit it off. We're so much like each other to the extent that she's basically me but a girl or something.
Anyway we're both 18 and haven't met up yet and distance isn't a problem cause we live like 10 mins away from each other. Even though we talk great on text, I'm a pretty nervous guy and I'm worried that when I do meet her we'll be lost for words and that it'll be awkward.
I really appreciate any advice. Thanks.
>>17242999
>I'm a pretty nervous guy and I'm worried that when I do meet her we'll be lost for words and that it'll be awkward
Don't stress over it, sometimes a moment of silence is better than talking about inane shit, especially if you're not complete strangers. Also remember that you don't have to lead the conversation 100% of the time, let her talk and ask you questions.
if you have as much in common as you think then you have nothing to worry about
>>17243681
I guess I'm just worried that I'm gonna stumble my words a lot cause it's something I do.
i'm very nervous about this but my boyfriend is coming to my home town to meet my family for the first time. i've never introduced a boyfriend to my family before, mostly because my mom has very high standards and expectations when it comes to boyfriends and friends of mine... (which is why i try to keep my activities a secret)
we're going out to eat somewhere for dinner... but what is the common etiquette about this? does my mom pay for the dinner or does he pay his own tab? i really don't know? what can i do to make this run smoothly?
i'm mostly anxious about my mom getting mad or pissed off at him somehow... i just want to be able to warn my bf sufficiently and help him out.
please help, the last time my mom disapproved of an ex of mine, she literally took my money out of my bank account and held it hostage and generally made my life at home miserable.
i do plan to move out when i get a job, but i don't know when i'll be exactly hired though i am searching as hard as i can...
>>17242924
she doesn't have my bank account access anymore by the way, but i'm afraid she'll do equally drastic things to prevent me from being able to meet my boyfriend, like locking me out of my house. (which she has done before)
>>17242924
bump please, i'm so nervous, i don't even know which restaurant to take us out to
>>17242924
Tell him after he introduces himself to her to pull his dick out.
>got into a misunderstanding with girl I liked
>we used to be friends
>blocked me on FB, the works
>told her friends about it and now they hate me too
>she went away for training camp, won't be seeing her for months
>another guy friend of hers also likes her
>saw them in a photo in my friend's FB together
>getting teased my all my ex-friends
>heard the other day the guy's sending her stuff at her place or something
I utterly don't know how to feel. I'm floored.
>>17242917
How did you fuck up enough to get her to block you and all her friends to hate you?
>>17243000
I was getting weird likes from her FB account appearing on my feed. Links to somewhat porn articles.
Stupidly enough, I told her about it through FB than in person. Sent screenshots. She told me I was a pervert.
I tried explaining to her several times but she wouldn't listen.
>>17243030
Awwww I see, simple mistake. It's ogre man, pick up some improvement hobbies to keep you busy, and im sorry.
I'm accustomed to success so if I fail at something, it beats the fuck out of me. This disappoints friends and family.
How can I take my failures seriously without being hard on myself?
You must recognize that you've reached a point in your life in which your innate talent can no longer carry you.
Your success must come with effort. Work hard and practice hard, and do not be afraid to ask for help.
Are you a student? Many students have a hard time adjusting the first time they fail something, but they get over it and learn that they need to study and work to succeed.
>>17242898
I am a student yes.
I don't deal well with failure at all but I like your advice. I'm new to things like driving and I haven't been the most consistent with it. Playing the drums and grilling meat is easier.
>>17242868
Don't fail.
To preface, I'm essentially a nihilist, nothing has any meaning, we're all fucked, etc. I.E no supernatural for me.
here's the problem, I have, for the past year or so held this obsession with a concept that I can't describe. It's not God, a lot of the stuff about God sounds similar though. Not the morals or the persona or the power, just this one aspect specifically allocated by some Catholic and Islamic sects, the correlation with light and the sun. The concept I've been chasing so to speak doesn't really have a name, which is why it's so maddening. The best I can put it is, imagine the end of a summer day, you're looking across a field of grass that stretches to the horizon. The sun is right above said horizon, like it's setting. Photographers call this the golden hour I think, everything is almost hazy because of how much intense yellow light there is. So much so that you can barely see. It's like the whole world is yellow gold with hints of orange, blue and green. Under it all is this intense feeling of profound peace, like a major chord, extremely low, is thrumming throughout the whole world.
Here are some songs that almost hit what I'm talking about.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yBuCxZUSvNU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0CE-tbWx0uE
This is driving me insane, I don't know what it is but I feel like I need to know.
>>17242824
Stop doing drugs
>>17243546
I've never even been drunk before, let alone anything mind altering.
>>17242824
*tips fedora*
So im about to graduate high in the upcoming days. This has caused me to realize something, im alone. I have a few friends but nothing special. I dont have a group to do anything. While everyone is planning to do something big for beach week, im stuck doing nothing. Its not that im an antisocial freak, its just that no one has the freedom or enjoys the things that i like (dancing in clubs or just doing road trips). Whats the best way to meet people that just want to enjoy their youth?
>>17242784
Bumping because I graduated today and I'm in the same boat.
>>17242880
I don't understand soc. It's just threads of people posting their nudes?
how to make a move on my coworker?
>work in a restaurant/cafe type place
>22, work most days as im full time until college starts again
>coworker is 25, masters student and only works on weekends
>we always get on really well whenever we work together, always talk about music and other non work things
>haven't ever hung out outside of work
>work bbq coming up where i will get to spend some time with her
what should i do /adv/? i like her a lot and want to fuck her/go on a date with her but don't know how to go about it at a work event
>>17242681
bump
Bumping coz in similar situation
>>17242681
>>17243773
You either grow some balls and ask her out or you don't because dating coworkers is a terrible idea. Why the fuck do we always get these questions?
Any doctors lurking? My tongue turns purple/blue when I pinch it between my lips like >pic related
Why is the circulation so easily cut off? Am I going to die?
>>17242675
Also it's numb immediately afterwards for ~10 seconds
>>17242675
is this bait or did you upload the wrong picture?
Doctor hehe and i have no fucking clue. A tongue with easily cut off circulation? Sounds like youre pinching too hard. Maybe you have some decreased sensation? Sorry dude just stop doing it
Me and my girlfriend have no way of seeing eachother because of her overprotective dad. Neither of us have a car and she lives a few miles away so I couldn't walk to meet her. The only time I'm able to see her is at school which has ended. Our only way of communicating is over text messaging and calling (which we rarely ever call)
Can any of you think of some way we could get together?
>>17242656
You must be 18 to post on this board
>>17242666
Trips says the truth
>>17242656
shit kid get a bike and ride over there, a few miles is only like 30 minutes. back in my day I had to walk we didn't have money for bikes.
I wish yesterday never happned
>be me
>day before graduation in my new school(HATE THE SCHOOL), we have rehearsal
>I find out that we are only allowed to bring 5 people
>tfw family is 4
>I get home
>Parents tell me they've invited a office friend
>I lose my shit telling them that my old friends should be coming, not some random fuck
>literallywanttodie.jpeg
>long story short, I get my friends invited
>only two friends, lets call one KazakBro and the other was 'her' (the one with the strongest case of oneitis)
>she's incredibly excited to come and see me graduate
GRADUATION DAY
>Im on stage and shit
>feelsprettygood.png
>notice KazakBro whisper to 'her' then turn frozen
(he knows I like 'her' and he always tries his best to keep us close, so seeing this got me wondering wtf was going on)
>Ceremony over
>I run over to my friends
>Hug both of them
>'her' hug nearly led me to tears
>after about 25 mins of socializing in the hall with my friends and new school classmates, we go to a restaurant
>DankItalianRestaurant.jpeg
>have smalltalk with parents and family
(Im focused on chatting with my friends)
>we order our food
>when it arrives, we tuck in
>feast.webm
>realise KazakBro is talking about random people dating
>confused, I ask 'wait what are we on about?'
>he responds with 'yeah, man alot of people are dating now'
>starts listing people
>quickly lists 'her' and some random fucker
>I choke on my lasagna
>play it off
>'Im fine, it was just a bit hot'
>'her' grabs a napkin and cleans some sauce off my face
>look into 'her' eyes
>omfg I could die at that moment and I wouldnt mind
>realise that she's ''''''taken''''''
>play it cool for about 25min
>KazakBro has to leave, I offer to walk him up to the car park
( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ON5k2Uj3yI to set the feels)
>On the way I ask 'was that true'
>KazakBro Confirms
>TheTruthHurts.jpeg
>begin to physically feel sick
>Dizzy, nauseous
>drop him off and start to head back to the restaurant
<<Will continue>>
>>17242637
Holy shit you sound like an insufferable faggot.
>>17242637
More
your tears sustain me.
>>17242637
So basically fucking nothing has happened to you.
Man up and move on. There are a shit load of women in the world, find a new one
From my homeboard, it's considered wasteful to dedicate a whole thread to one person's question, so let's make this a social media advice thread.
>My problem 1/2
I know this place is usually filled with actual problems in life, but I'm having issues with something that I can't seem to find an answer to. Hoping there's some experts who lurk here.
I've been off Facebook since last Halloween, and it's bittersweet. I don't have to see stupid drama that's in my hobby's community (I homeboard /cgl/, /vg/ and /a/), but I'm also out of communication with people that were, I suppose more than acquaintance but less than a friend and it's difficult to connect with others I've met irl since texting and emailing are dead besides older family members. It's also difficult to organize things such as meetups or groups for outfits, etc. I've decided the pros outweigh the cons of not having a Facebook and that I've wanted to join again to reconnect. Sorry for the long context.
I hope this doesn't sound special snowflake, but I don't want to create a profile using my irl name. I have a handle I've been using for years and that's my prefered way until I meet someone irl. For a while before, I used the proxy and language hack to have my handle as my name but the higher ups quickly banned me until I provided my ID showing what my real name is to get unbanned.
I also enjoy simplicity and don't want to have a profile AND THEN a page. I've tried it and it was useless since people on my page would just add my profile and they wouldn't need to view my page because I'd update them both.
Essentially, I just want a page with my prefered name, without having a profile connected since I prefer advertising myself has a business for commissions and posting what would be an artistic portfolio, but still being able to connect people with messager (which you can do on a page).
Make 2 accounts?
> 2/2
Now for the "what is Google" people, from what I searched there was a point in time where Facebook did exactly what I wanted here, but has since been changed so that instead of making your profile a page, it just copies your profile and makes it into a page, which is something I mentioned not wanting to deal with above
Any advice is appreciated, and I know the world doesn't revolve around my problem (especially since I've lurked here before and know what people are actually dealing with), but I'm just seeing if anyone here knows any solutions to get as close as possible to my end goal here.
Op here. Bumping the thread by mentioning a fact of Facebook I forgot to put in my summary: unless changed since Oct 2015, you have to have your legal birth name as your fb name for a profile.
what to do when you have a budding friendship with your best friends girlfriend and possibly having feelings towards her?
>>17242590
Stop right fucking now, you dumbass. The saying bros over hoes applies. If they break up, maybe go in for the rebound. Do NOT fuck this up for him.
>>17242597
I know this obviously.I would not try to take her. But I cannot help having feelings for a girl, and they are both good friends of mine now. It feels like a weird situation.
Stop being selfish, you don't even deserve friends.
My first girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me over the phone last night.
I'm honestly not to upset, but she has been non-stop texting me today to talk to her, I've ignored ever single text.
should I talk to her and almost certainly get back together with her, or Ignore her texts and let her deal with her actions?
Don't cave, anon. If you're not upset, it means you didn't give that much of a shit in the first place. Enjoy the single life. Fuck some sluts.
>>17242574
You've won the game.
She cares about you more than you care about her.
Or she's just bored and wants to experience emotion so she'll text you to feel bad.
>>17242580
I mean, I do love her. I think, but she told me she hasn't been happy and has been lying to her self for awhile.
I told her I'm sorry you didn't want to work things out and to take care.
