Your family and friends either are jerks or inappropriately tease you.
If you don't need it then don't bother.
Picrelated is tru what anime is this?

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>>17244868
To start off, you are weird, but not crazy. As far as I can tell, there is no reason to believe there is anything deeply wrong with you that needs to be fixed. At some point, you may find a certain girl that makes you feel differently.

That said, how are your relationships with friends and family?
Can you describe in detail how you feel about them, how you met your friends, what you do with them, how often you talk to family, etc?
This can be part of a general avoidant or schizoid style of interaction...
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>>17244868
Bring home a boy from grindr, they'll stop asking. I promise you Anon, they will never ask again.

But don't waste time on it. Find a hairless asian twink if you're into femininity. Plunge your cock deep into his ass, hold around his frail naked body and say "My straight girl loving penis is cumming inside an asian boy!".

You'll feel so powerful.

Your manager can go and fuck himself im the ass. It's pretty rude to assume you are calling in sick witheout actually being sick. I'd consider finding a new job. Sounds like he has zero respect for you as a person

You'll most likely be fired if you don't go in. So you can decide if losing your job is worth the day off or not.

>>17244860
This.

>>17244864
(I'm the poster who wrote this)

>>17244815
yeah probz

Yes, definitely.

If you ever have to think about whether or not you're doing something too much, then you're probably doing it too much.

>>17244807
Oh sorry typo. He said he will tell his older brother about me (he wants to bring his older brother along as his brother is a historymajor and knows more about the historical tourist attractions. I do not know if it is "all talk no action though".

Are you the same Anon from before?
What are you still uneasy about?

>>17244843
Yes
He said he will tell his brother but i am still uneasy - dont know if it is all talk and no action
I will fly there in less than two weeks. Thus has been making me really sad - really thought of him as a friend
>inb4 cest la vie, you are making a mountain out of a molehill

>>17244790
You know they are the right person when you can talk to them for hours on end. With long-term relationships, sex and pure physical attraction isn't enough. There has to be something else under the surface; I knew my fiance was the one when I realized that we could talk and debate about anything- from philosophy to politics and could coherently understand the other person's point of view and perspective.

TL;DR - look for someone you can be good friends with and the relationship shit will come naturally

>>17244790
>How?
myspace while i was stationed in Japan.

>howd you know they were the right one?
didnt. and you never really do. its all roulette.

>only attract fucked up girls
then stop fucking the fucked up ones. you are trying to make hoes into housewifes so to speak. those that have issues are just one night stands. if i found out my wife did have daddy issues or a disorder i wouldnt have married them and slowly...
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>>17244804
I had that with the latest one, i thought that's it but she cheated on me a month before wedding.

>>17244806
You seem sadly right. But I can't stop feeling compassionate for people, even now I feel bad for this crazy bitch I've dropped.

For finding people, maybe internet is the way indeed as you say, so far this was all "accidents" and "random" shit happening to me and I was taking what's life offering me at...
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Define "dirty".

Try to cut the topics down for better suggestions. What are you interested in and what are your goals? Do you want to understand people better or be knowledgeable in a specific area like science, math or history? What do you want to achieve with that? Get pussy?

Reading books to get smart is a Hollywood meme.

You're going to have to narrow it down a bit more.

Maybe /lit/ would have some good suggestions. At least read their introduction- it has a lot of sources for free books.

>>17244735
yes you idiot you literally learned that in any sex ed health class you took after like 5th fucking grade you fucking moron

>>17244735
Short answer: yes.

>>17244735
sex is like basketball, you dribble before you shoot.

>>17244732
First consultant with your primary care physician. Tell him this. He'll refer you to a psychiatrist who will refer you to a loony bin.

>>17244779
Fuck off.

>>17244779

this

you need help

>>17244726
You talk to her about your feelings and you say you want to distance yourself for a while. She understands how you feel and lets you move on. You get over her and find a girlfriend. You eventually try to be friends with her again when you're 100% over her.

>>17244733
The thing is I'm not very good with people and I don't understand with most of them. She is the only one I have. If I'm gonna do this I'm just gonna be all alone.

Should I make a move even though it is really possible that she isn't bi?

>>17244726

I don't want to seem like "hurr durr lesbianism isn't real" because there ARE real lesbians but females are statistically proven as more likely to be bi than males. I considered myself to be solely attracted to females until I met my fiance- we got along so well(we were best friends for about two years) that I eventually found myself loving and appreciating his physical traits as well(though I am still, oddly enough, very unattracted to other men and we spend time oggling girls together, shit...
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>>17244715
It is not appropriate.
If someone is busy doing something, don't approach them. Let them mind their own business.
If they are not too busy (for example on public transport, or waiting their turn for something) you can talk to them, but break the ice with an excuse and a smile, and understand if they're not in a talkative mood (not smiling, short answers, cold in general).

You can meet people at any sort of social event, at your school or at work, doing sports, through your hobbies. No need to bother people.

>>17244724
I don't go to social events. I don't even know where any are. You mean like a bar? You need friends to go to a bar, and I don't have any.

I just want to start a conversation with a girl, but I don't know where it is appropriate I guess, or what to say.

>>17244750
Then make some friends. Use meetup, follow courses about things you're interested in, go to classes, join a sport team, whatever.
There are a thousand appropriate ways to meet people. Bothering them isn't.

Talking is appropriate when the situation is social, I listed you some examples above. It is not appropriate when they're minding their business and you're interrupting them. You can talk to them about literally anything, and the best way to start a conversation is saying hello, smiling...
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I don't know exactly where you would go about meeting people who would be into you romantically.. I'm just letting you know there are people who will have no issue with you being trans. I have never dated a trans person but I definitely would.. Doesn't bother me in the slightest.
I personally am not out in public all that much.. I'm nocturnal for the most part and am not big on bars.. My frequented places are abandoned houses and forests and parks.. Not exactly the best places for meeting new people.. I'd guess online is your best bet or find local...
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>>17244773
Kind of what I thought. I feel like if people want a man they will just date a man, if they want a woman they will date one.

I really don't fit in to either category and I hate being alone.

>>17244793
Online mostly. You could try moving to a gay area, like western MA or a big city, as there are guaranteed to be a bunch of trans people/queers there. Avoid the south.

All the churches in my town have black lives matters and big queen rainbow flags on them.

>>17244793
thats not true at all. im super pretty (female) and i have a thing for mtfs

>>17244660
I think people wrongfully assume they must have somebody as similar to them as possible in order to be happy. They think "oh I have a 'career' so I can't be with someone who just works as a tradesman" or "I go to the gym so my partner needs to be a gym rat too".

But as it turns out a proper emotional connection is what matters most, at least I think so.

Because they spent their entire childhood being told that "having it all" is the baseline for measuring up, against men or against each other, in society.

One could argue that there are parallels to the way the bitter unfuckables consider having sex to be the baseline that they fail to measure up to, only it's played out along more axes and ratcheted up to greater degrees.

So I should give up now and become a baby making machine. Fulfil my evolutionary role, right? Eugh.

>>17244658
I'm the same anon I overthink these things. I never actually did it, but to be honest I've seen like 3 people besides my friends from highschool after graduation and it's been 4 years. Unless you live in a small town and stay there. Just go for it! But just a warning, since you are a virgin it sounds, this is just me, but I know the pressure to lose your virginity, but if you cherish love it's worh waiting to find the right person, of course if that's not you then don't take that advice.

Just do it, if you like the girl who cares if you went to school with her.
The majority of my matches are people who went to school with me and half the dates I went on where girls from school.

I thought I was some hideous beast until tinder, turns out even in school a lot of girls held a candle for me hoping I would notice them.

>>17244658
Are you a male or a female?

If you're a female, men think that if you're on there it means you're looking for casual sex, so be aware of that.

Go into law, just for a year or so, then see how you feel.

>>17244643
Go for the law. This is America, a rich life is an enjoyable life. Whatever your other choice is just do it for a hobby.

>>17244643
Don't talk about law like it's easy to get into. What's your GPA? Unless you're going to HYS or are graduating summa cum laude from a T10, you're going to be unemployed.

>>17244638
How much iron are you eating? Do you eat a lot of organ meats?

>>17244638
What's it smell like?

Im no doctor but apparently if you have internal bleeding, stool will have a "foul" smell (not like regular poop smell. think that + also smell of decaying organic matter e.g. food left out to completely rot.) from the decaying blood in it.

>>17244640
I don't eat organ meats.

I'm not sure about my iron. I don't eat a lot and drink alcohol everyday.

I told this to the dr. And she seemed unconcerned.