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I'd been with my boyfriend for 5 years when i broke up with him back in January. He'd been going through a rough time for about 9 months, since he told me he'd been sexually abused by his grandmother as a child.
At first I felt so relieved to be away from him, but then i started to miss him. He's finally getting help, and we are talking about getting back together. I feel like I should run away from this fast, but i still love him so much. Anyone who have similar experiences or can relate?
>>17245195
yep. had a few gfs like that. not my job to fix them. got out of there.
>>17245199
What was the biggest reason for leaving?
>>17245199
this guy seems sadly right
I had gf with rape trauma, she would behave like a bitch and the play a victim and blame everything on the rape she went through
I thought I can heal her but it became an excuse for totally unacceptable shit. I always like to believe that there is a chance for those poor people but I always learn it the hard way that shit is beyond me
On the side, what do you think anons, do such people can ever get "normal" and make a good relationship? Any stories?
How do I stop being a douche? I'm a big self-important tool with delusions of grandeur.
Marcus Aurelius - meditations
Anything in stoicism really
Well given that narcissism is often a personality trait, you'd need some serious help to stop being a dick
>>17245209
yea usually its a couple ass woopings that bring you back to earth.
Is it possible not to love another person "just because" the timing is not right? You like this person but you have problems at work, or with your family, etc, and somehow you don't feel like loving someone, even though you like him/her.
Or is it true that a person will love you no matter what bla bla? What do you think, /adv/?
Due to family issues and lif problems, I was basically forced to stop talking to the girl I really liked. Worst part was I hurt her and myself in the process, I couldn't with good conscience try bring her into my life when it was going downhill so fast.
I wanted to be with her, part of me still does, but sometimes life gets in the way.
>>17245201
Thanks for sharing your experience :)
>>17245161
Me and my ex had bad timing, although we had a good time for the most part it was just really bad timing. There is a such thing as bad timing I think but I mean that's just life. If you really want to make it work I think you can.
>At bar with the wife
>Meet a cute college girl
>A little young for us but seems into us
>Pile into a lyft together
>Making out in the backseat on the way to our place
>Have another drink
>Move to the bedroom
>Things going fine
>She asks if we have lube
>Tell her...
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>>17245099
Overreacted indeed.
Some people just don't handle guns very well, unfortunately.
>>17245108
This. City folks only see guns when they're getting robbed, or on the news when they're heating about people being killed. A lot of people are super uncomfortable around them, never mind the fact that as a male, (assuming she is unskilled) you could have easily choked her to death with your bare hands or stabbed her with a kitchen knife.
Meet the left's form of gun-cowardice. The right's form is different (tending more toward hoarding as opposed to over-avoidance), but is no less pervasive or destructive.
I'm so in love with my boyfriend/I love him so much that it scares me???
Ive never loved someone as much as I love him. I thought I was in love before other times, I mean maybe I was even, but I never LOVED someone as much as I love him and it scares the shit out of me.. because if anything ever happened to him, or if he left me or anything, I really don't see how I would ever be okay after.
is this unhealthy? should I create a little more distance, or jjust enjoy how I feel? anyone ever feel like this about someone? like when I think of anything...
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>>17245091
oooooh i feel worse for your bf when this ends
>>17245102
-why? and why do you think it will end? weve been official for a year and three months, were going on a vaction together next month.
-also, if someone wants to leave me/cheats on me/whatever, I'm not the type of person who begs to keep them, or creates a big drama and stuff. I just let them go, because I have a lot of dignity. they wouldn't have to deal with how I bad I would feel, only I would.
It's infatuation. It can lead to an unhealthy relationship.
Just want some advice on what is wrong with my tooth, have a fair idea that it's dead. And yes I have already made an appointment for a denstist before anyone suggests it. I was eating a burger and my tooth cracked and a piece broke off, when I got another piece broke off and the picture is what it looks like now. I just want an idea of what to expect when I go to the dentist.
>>17245073
Post more proof it's yours
>>17245073
well theyre either gonna fill it which will be painful. or they will pull it, which may or may not be painful.
>>17245077
Long Story Short, my gf want to dump me, she say Im Not mature enough for Her and shit like that, she's right actually since Im 19 and she 25 But i need something to convince Her in the Short term that i am, just to have a chance to demonstrate Her that i can act mature. Any advice ?
Stop capitalizing random words for emphasize, it makes you seem more immature. Hope this helps
>>17245096
I dont do it in purpose it's my phone keyboard
Did she explain to you what she means by being immature? I mean, it helps for yourself and for people trying to give you advise if you know what is wrong, specifically.
If she just said ''you are immature'' the best way to start to act more mature is to talk about this. Ask why she thinks so and propose solutions to the problems.
I was thinking about getting my lip pierced. I'd have to take it out after 2 years or so but until then I'd take good care of it.
My questions are about the scarring.
Does the piercing always scar? Is there any way to avoid scarring ? Could I fix the scarring after the fact without spending a lot of money ?
Please and thank you xx
>>17245048
If you want to do something as stupid as stick metal through your lip, you'll have to face the inevitable consequences. Scarring will be the least of your worries.
>>17245048
dont do it. unless you want to look trashy as fuck
>>17245063
I don't think a small stud looks too trashy. It's really how you carry it.
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