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long story short:
was getting close with a girl. first she put lots of interest in me. Somehow it started to turn and I gave more effort than she did. Until she's gone pretty cold, but not in ignoring way. Cold in a "if he writes I'll answer, but I won't start"
Asked her out and had lunch.
in the evening a friend of mine called me and told me that she was talking to her roomfriend that she just wants to be friends with me.
She did not tell me that, but like I said, it feels like it. She does not put effort in me. I got confused, cause I was wondering why she did not refuse to eat lunch with me, although she knows that I'm sexually interested in her.
so what to do? it feels like she's playing with me and wants to keep me on fire just pro forma.
Should I ignore her fully? Should I just go cold too and let her do effort and just react to it?
>>17245506
>I got confused, cause I was wondering why she did not refuse to eat lunch with me
Well it doesn't sound like you've actually asked her out on a date, so as far as she's concerned, it was just two friends grabbing lunch
>although she knows that I'm sexually interested in her.
How do you know this?
>>17245506
Yes, she's using you.
Shes probably waiting for an ex to come crawling back to her
I don't want a kid, but I have an impregnation fetish. Just a general semen fetish, but more impregnation. I use the patch BC but my boyfriend still is iffy about it. Is there another way?
Sorry if I sound disgusting.
Why the patch? Just due to it's relative ineffectiveness? What's stopping you from just taking birth control and botching that up?
>>17245486
I cannot remember to take pills, and I cannot risk that. I also have a phobia of needles, but I might just use that instead.
I just know that he doesn't trust BC at all, regardless of the type.
Maybe if I change, his thinking will change too.
>>17245496
>I cannot remember to take pills
>I cannot be trusted to maintain birth control effectively
>I have an impregnation fetish and want my boyfriend to cum inside me
>I swear I don't want a baby though, tee tee
Yeah, if I was your boyfriend, I'd be running for the hills right about now
Got a summer job but I have a one week vacation planned about a month after I start working. Should I tell my boss right away or wait until I get settled in a bit?
>>17245474
Immediately. Ideally before you even start.
You should have told them this in the interview. Don't be surprised if they ditch you, btw
>>17245474
>>17245481
I always do this when I start a new job, even if it's a lie. When I'm offered a position and they really want me I say something along the lines of "I wasn't expecting to start working this early I have a trip planned" and get some nice, early paid vacation.
But yeah OP, tell them before you start working.
oi /adv! i need some advice for hiding weed when i'm outside, carrying it. could you guys please give me some sneaky ideas?
1. Put your weed inside a backpack.
2. Put the backpack on your back.
- Female Version -
1. Put your weed in your purse.
2. Carry your purse
You cant get any sneakier than the rectum.
Under ordinary circumstances, >>17245479 will suffice.
>>17245471
Why would you do that?
Hi! I'm X and I want to tell you about one thing that happened to me, so you could help me to take revenge (Nothing of physical hurt). I'm not from an english-speaker country, so don't judge my english.
At the beginning of school year I met Y, a pretty girl, and she started concentrating on me and speak to me, and some fellas told me that maybe she likes me. I didn't like her until December or January. Then we started dating but not like a romantic date, just like friends. I never had the value to say nothing about that, or try nothing.
In spite of saying to you that I'm 15 years old and still I have given not even my first kiss... In fact, I still have not even any girlfriend in my life. And I'm not ugly, fat, or anything like that. I'm normal, well, I'm intellectually gifted, not like A Beautiful Mind, or Good Will Hunting, but pretty pretty smart.
Well, so, in February, I told her that I like her and... Nothing. She sent me directly to the Friendzone. And, about two weeks ago, we met to see a film at my house and... She brought a boy naves Z with her. I opened the door and I saw them and:
Y: Hi, X! I bring Z with me, doesn't matter, Yah?
X: Ahh, no, well, no, doesn't matter.
We were seeing Children Of Men and then... They started hooking up. And I didn't say nothing but it really hurts to me. After they went away, I swear for my fist, that I gave a punch to a wall and did a hole in it.
And now I want to avenge, I only want some ideas, please. Thanks.
>>17245460
You know what? Let it go. Seriously.
It hurts and we all know that. Most of us have been there and have likely had the wrong reaction to it. I'm telling you, from experience, don't go and do something stupid. Relax and take some time off.
They started fucking in front of you in your house? That's what you say? Please confirm.
>>17245498
No, men, just kissing and that shit.
But I just laught pretty hard with your comment.
I'm at a fork in the road and idk what the fuck to do.
I've been in college for 2 years working on a nursing degree and have nothing to show for it but some college credits and a ton of financial and academic stress.
I live in southeast TX and there's a TON of industrial work in this area that pays great. Anyways, one of my friends works for an industrial contractor (Martin Marietta) and told me he could get me a job operating a concrete mixer truck for about $22/hr, full benefits, "rain out" job so if it rains you just stay home and still get paid for 8 hrs, paid vacation and holidays, as much overtime as you want, etc.
And then on the other hand I have 2 and a half YEARS of school left for my nursing degree, where a fresh grad nurse can expect to make about $25/hr in this area.
I'm really torn, the concrete job is honestly so fucking tempting. The only thing holding me back is that it wouldn't exactly be the fulfilling, lifesaving, gratifying thing I wanted to do with nursing.
TLDR: $22/hr job now with great benefits, or continue college meme for 2 and a half more years for $25/hr
also note that with either path, I want to start my own business once marijuana is medically/recreationally legalized in TX, so would I be better of just taking the concrete job while I wait?
>>17245459
Why can't you work the mixer job and go to school at the same time?
>>17245512
wouldn't be able to attend clinical hours with a full time schedule
>>17245459
Industrial jobs are disappearing. Construction work dies during recessions. There are signs that the economy never truly recovered and is heading for another bad run. Finish school. Search for a part-time construction job that fits around clinical hours.
I'm sitting in a Burger King in a small Wisconsin town. Two women sitting across from me have described Twitter as "the sewer of the internet or at least close to it." One believes Trump "always surrounds himself with smart people."
How can I eat my onion rings in piece?
offer them your onion rings and tell them to have a nice day
>>17245434
Now one of them is saying George W. Bush was a much better president than he's given credit for.
>>17245437
I will never surrender my onion rings. They are my constitutional right.
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>>17245430
You might have better luck, if you make the form anonymous. Having to login and reveal ones identity, is kind of a deal-breaker. There's a reason we hang out anonymously.
>>17245430
What's this study about? Is this for a class? What are you hoping to find? Where are you from?
Also
>Requires us to sign in with our google account
Heck no. I write on an anonymous forum for a reason.
>>17245442
I just now realized that my identity will not be revealed. (Google told me.)
My apologies!
Hi /adv/, I need help with a dilemma.
Theres this girl (classmate), I cant stop thnking about her and I really like her. We've been at some parties together with our mutual friends, most of the party we didnt talk(chatted for just a while), but in the end we slept in the same bed. I know she likes me too, I just dont how much. Next week theres another party with her. Do I tell her here how I feel, that I love her etc. or is it better to ask her out somewhere first(walk or smth)? We're both 18.
Sorry for my english, im from yurop. Pic unrelated.
>>17245423
Don't tell her you love her you sperg.
Just ask her out.
>>17245423
There's a party, you'll be drinking, and you know she likes you (in one way or another). Have you considered waiting for her to get a little tipsy, find the right time, and move in for a kiss?
It's quite a common misunderstanding, that you have to **tell** her how you feel. Just show her!
If she's awkward about it, tell her that it was stupid of you to drink that much. Sure, blaming it on the alcohol isn't exactly brave, but I've found that it can get a laugh out of an otherwise tricky situation.
>>17245431
Yeah but its fucking weird and akward just asking her for a walk. Its a small town with couple of villages nearby, not much other options to go.
>>17245436
thats actually not a bad idea. It'd be better if we were alone, right?
disclaimer: this is my first time on 4chan so i dont know how everything works exactly, just trying to maybe vent a little and get feedback.
im 16, white, and i feel like my life is pretty shitty. yeah i know others have it worse probably but to each their own. Here goes, ever since i was really young my parents have always had problems. they got married at a young age and i was born when they were in their early 20's and my brother around 4 years later. they never finished school and we have always lived in 2 bedroom apartments. money has always been an issue but we manage to pull through. i know my father had problems of his own when he was younger and because of it he's somewhat messed up in the head, psychological problems. he was abandoned by his parents and some other things, i dont know exactly. Parents always argue and sometimes get pretty violent, physical violence. they always get separated for a while but then they get back together, I'll never understand why but maybe money issues or something. police have showed up where i live multiple times. I'm getting tired or living like this, I can't have a normal life or go out with friends out of fear that something might happen while I'm away. I've lived like this practically all my life and my brother all his life for sure. my younger brother is practically a shut in that plays video games all day and has no respect for anyone always screaming and yelling to get what he wants. its gotten pretty bad in recent years and its really affecting me. my grades are slowly dropping and i feel depressed all the time. some of my friends notice and always ask if im okay and i always brush it off as just being tired or stayed up too late or something like that. problems have really been escalating recently and we might get kicked out from where we live from neighbors calling police over loud arguments. i really need to do something before i explode or go crazy. idk if i should drop out and find a job or kms, confused advi?
First off: 18+ website.
Now for my advice: You have your whole life ahead of you and TRUST me these are the most pivotal years of your life, from now till you hit you early 20's. DO NOT LET ANYTHING GET IN THE WAY OF YOU GETTING A GOOD LIFE FOR YOURSELF.
Study, make good choices and work hard.
I had a similar childhood (I'm 23, btw), although in my case it seems it was not as aggressive. In your scenario I was your younger brother, and my big bro was the one handling most issues. In my case, things worked themselves out as they grew older and mellower and now even though they still have their differences they rarely get into big fights and it never passes from the verbal. It will also help that as time passes you and your brother will physically overpower your parents so you two should serve as a deterrent to actual fights pretty soon. Sooner than you may think.
Just try to hang in there four a couple more years as your body matures and your parents' deteriorate. If, in the end, they don't end up mellowing out just be an adult and deal with the situation with the police.
Again, you have your whole life ahead of you and you need to make good decisions starting now, don't let your parents' problems sabotage your life.
>>17245419
Well your supposed to be 18 to post on this site
>>17245457
Thank you, I'm sorry yeah I shouldn't be posting on this site but I don't know who to turn to honestly. I'll take your words to heart and be as positive as possible and try to live out my life. Thank you again, I hate to sound needy or asking for attention but really thank you
Hey /adv/, can a 22 year old sue his/her father for unpaid child support while living independently? He divorced my mom when i was 6 and started a new family that he also could not support financially and is living with my grandma (he's 50.) He's made very little effort to raise me and has a pattern for unreliability; even confessing over the phone numerous times that I'm owed a lot of child support. I'm barely getting by in life while living on my own and aimed to be a full-time student, but my mom is unstable to live with and has abusive tendencies. Am I eligible for compensation?
You're a disgusting person.
>>17245403
debatable and irreverent.
That money is for your mother, not you.
So no.
Sex related dilemma:
So here's the deal. Got a girlfriend of a few years, she's great, love her lots, blah blah.
Obviously when we first got together we fucked all the time and we fucked less as time went on. Normal for people as they get older and more used to each other; I'm not worried about that.
Lately though, as in, within the past few months, I've been underperforming in the bedroom, but not in the way you might think. See, SHE has no problems in the bedroom at all, she always cums, often multiple times, and always ends up happy. I don't have any problem getting hard, and I don't need any advice on how to please her.
My issue is that lately sex is becoming so physically exhausting that I can't continue doing it until I cum too, and I almost always just end up saying, "Gotta stop. Too tired." and she feels sorry for me.
We used to be able to fuck for hours, and now I feel like giving up after 30 minutes. Last few times we fucked she came multiple times but then I just had to roll over and hyperventilate.
The last time I remember actually fucking until cumming, I had to leave the room right after and go throw up because of the physical exertion.
What's my deal? Am I just not getting enough water? Am I out of shape? My girlfriend has put on some weight so moving her around and lifting her is harder work than it used to be, so should I tell her to work on it? Should I just fap less or something?
I got no dick problems, and whenever I give up, I'm still hard as a rock and wishing I could keep going, so I can't just pop some penis pills and call it a day, because that's clearly not the issue.
Thoughts?
cardio
>>17245349
Try positions when girl is on top.
Also it seems like you are getting weak / old / pathetic, do
>>17245392
aka run / walk / swim.
You have poor stamina
It might be your diet, a medical condition(rare but possible), sedentarism, etc
I suggest going to a doctor if you think it could be a health problem, if not, a nutritionist will solve your problem
just took a depression test and got these results. how fucked am i?
>>17245295
Where did you take it?
>>17245295
How about you go to a doctor instead of using an online test that holds little to know value?
>>17245299
http://www.depressedtest.com/
A complete weasel and a great drinking buddy owes me some money. How do I ask for it back without coming off like an annoying nag?
Depends how much money it is. If it's money you NEED, if he's fucking with your rent/bills, get up in his face as much as you need to. He knows better. He didn't forget.
If it's a small amount of money, just never lend/cover his drinks again until he pays you back. Next time you go out together, just say "drinks are on you, you still owe me," something like that.
>>17245250
Ask for him to pay for rounds of beer. Say it with a smile and a laugh
>>17245264
>>17245265
Well, it's about three beers' worth, so that'll work splendid.
Shit, y'all actually solved my problems, in 5 minutes flat.
So I broke up with my girlfriend of three years about a month ago and I can't stand the loneliness. I want to meet someone but have absolutely no idea how. I'm not old enough to go to bars, I can't just meet people on the street without looking like a desperate creep, and I refuse to look for someone online. Does anyone have any advice? i need to find someone, I can't stop thinking about her and it's killing me, especially since I'm the one who broke up with her.
Do you have any interests?
A friend of mine met a girl playing a videogame, and it is probably easy to find someone with similar interests. You won't look like a creep, just don't try too hard.
>>17245375
I have interests but they're not particularly social, writing, video games, music. Even when I'm with friends, we don't go out, we just kind of smoke and listen to stuff.
>>17245493
whats wrong with online dating?
