'Generic retail jobs' are more likely to fit around your uni work, plus they'd give you more of an opportunity to expand your skillset than something that's more related to what you're studying. And if you want/need a job, you can't really afford to be picky

>>17246020
Alright... Thank you.

Aside from the usual Target, Albertsons, Safeway, do you know of any retail chains where I could apply for a job? (I just finished applying for Target and Albertsons)

>>17246039
Not really, considering I'm not from the US

>>17245895
That's your inner slave master great great great grandpa in you. It is alright.

I don't know if this makes me a sjw or whatever but, your race has nothing to do with liking what you like.
Flaunt it or don't enjoy what you enjoy.

>>17245895
>i have interests that aren't stereotypical

My class in highschool only had me and 2 other white kids. Im like 36% black (40% for college admission). Most of the people in the band were weebs and as a matter of fact they ran an anime club on friday. Just be yourself -- i spend time reading hindu books and watching Ramayan.

Too much time online.

It's time to leave the house for something more than the mandatory food run.

>>17245879
I go to work and such,
And i have a dnd session with my friends.
I do leave my house, but its usually necessary responsibilites
If i was outside i wouldn't be drawing at my computer as much. and i wouldn't be able to get better at it
plus all my interests involve being alone inside.

>>17245885
Well then you'll only ever be able to relate to people that do the same.

Also should I text her today?

I don't really see what's wrong with it in this day and age if you don't have much of a chance to see her in person

>>17245893
The awkwardness/maybe creepyness I guess.

>>17245736
Older women are always flirty with young guys because its funny to see if they get embarassed

Since you're a bank teller I guess you could try to befriend them if they're regular customers or something because you don't want to become the boyfriend of a married woman with three kids. Surely bad for your career.

>>17245883
I figured im nothin too special but at least two of them seem interested but youre right i dont wanna pursue if it'll get me in a shitload of trouble. Its tempting af though some of these ladies aged well

Im already friends or pretty cool with them but being at work its never much more than small talk. Im trying to figure out how i can bring it next level without sounding strange. "Wanna hang out sometime" probably aint gonna fly. Definitely not trying to date either if they have a family but...
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>>17246015
You better grill them on if they have a family or not since you may actually go through with it.

If you want to spit some game do it on a dating site. Just not worth it. Im telling you playing it safe is the best because at worst you can buy a hooker with all the money you made not losing your job.

>>17245717
Is it on the very bottom of your testicle? It could just be the epididymis. It feels about pea sized at the bottom of the testicle.

Get it checked out REGARDLESS, but don't stress too much in the mean time, just make sure you get in to see a doctor.

not a doctor but I think most testicular cancer affects the actual ball, not the scrote. if the lump is in the skin then you're probably not in any super serious danger

>>17245808
Its actually near the top, it might not even be the testicle, it feels like it is right at/below the surface. I can't really tell because like I said, I had cancer previously in my pelvis as a baby. They blasted baby me with radiation and all that jazz back in the early 90s... So my testicles are basically the testicles of a one year old baby... Small, weird, underdeveloped, undescended, etc... I am fairly certain the bump isn't on a testicle though, but it is still on the scrotum.

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nobody can help at all?

Nice try FBI bookpolice.

Libgen.io
Have fun

>>17245289
You will need to more specific. Are you unable to do any kind of work or just physical labour?

>>17245595
I'm sick enough that were I to work, I wouldn't be able to go full time. Maybe 3 days a week at a push. But I'd still need help sometimes when it gets bad.

You should probably go see a gynecologist. It seems like you have a massive case of being a giant pussy. Though I doubt they'll be able to diagnose you because unfortunately what you have doesn't exist.

You don't have some rare disease. You're just a pussy and you need more people like me telling you how it is and not coddling you. It seems as though your parents are on the right track with wanting you out of the house...

>>17244337
You're anxious because it holds the realization that there's more out there and you'll change. You're afraid of change and, perhaps, growth.

Trust me anon, it gets better, a lot better, as long as you pUT effort into it and structure your life so that it has positive people in it and you fill it with good worldly experiances. I'm not saying you have to be all yoga n shit. Go. Drink. Sing with friends. Have cigars, flirt. Travel abroad. Make something. Inspire others. Teach others....
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If it bothers you you should be doing something about it.

You could be working hard to make money to donate to research, campaigning to increase government funding of research (of which there is very little for anti-aging research) or doing research yourself. But instead almost everyone just sits on their hands acting as if we are incapable and helpless despite all our scientific advances.

I'm studying the science behind it and donating to stuff like http://lifespan.io for the time being.

Imagine if everyone in the world gave just $10 a year to medical research to fight aging. $70 billion a year is sure to achieve something.

I give $200 a month and I'd be happy to increase that to at least $10k a year if governments taxed for it.

>>17244317
I feel so sorry for her. I hope she finds the strength one day to leave your loser ass. She can do much better than the likes of you.

How about stop being a cheating fuck for starters? Just an idea

Chastisement aside, you need to get your shit in order. Unless she wants an open relationship, you're being a selfish fuck and stringing her AND her kid along. Sounds like she wants this to work you just want a fuck able surrogate for your mom.

Man up or pussy out OP

>>17244328
>>17244329
When does /adv/ started getting a lot of whiteknights and sjw? If the girl is fine by that, OP doesn't need to change. Besides, her girlfriend already has a kid from another man. She's lucky that there's a guy who loves her even though he already has a kid. It's not OP's fault of her being a slut.

>>17243718
If you're pale Asians will love your skin. I think Asian girls like white guys, but it also depends on your appearance (although I have seen, in Taipei, really pretty girls going after ugly ass dudes just because they are foreigners).

>>17243718
Just because you're a white guy doesn't mean Asian girls will be clambering over your dick. Are you ugly? Also, be aware that you will never be able to assimilate into South Korea or Japan, so if you're looking to settle down, look elsewhere.

OP here
posted my pic here a while ago and people told me i look fine ( did it cause i was concerned about it)
Also i do sports so have a good body and am 6'2 heigh

I dont want to settle there i would like to do a vacation but i travel alone

>>17242486
Everyone is selfish, learn to embrace it. I'd deal drugs from my parent's house if they allowed it, just to make money. Money lets you have everything you need, so you can focus on what you want.

That is why everyone wants it. I want to buy my own house. I want a car. I want to take a holiday every 3 months to a different country.
All of this needs money.

I don't have any problem with it because I understand everyone else is thinking how I am, some are just more determined to reach...
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>>17242486

You grew up in a wealthy family, didn't you?

>>17242701
I can't bring myself to want to embrace it, or want to do things that takes advantage of others. I've lived in fantasy so much and for so long it's made me very numb to these things and bad at them.

>>17242703
Not at all. More like I never really wanted much in my life.

>>17237378
I know that if she would just give me a chance I would show her that everything is okay and that we haven't changed as much as she thinks we have, but she won't even try.

It's hard really loving someone and not being able to show them.

We were doing fine just two weeks ago. Why break up all of a sudden? If long distance was too hard I understand, but we made a promise. Was I just a crutch to lean on until I wasn't within arm's reach?

>>17236925
>this is a major character flaw,but i compare myself to other girls
Don't worry so much about it.
I'm not exactly great with people, but from all I've seen, every girl struggles with this sometimes.
Even the most beautiful, intelligent, and interesting, who have no "better option" to be afraid of!

>>17237028
That's great, man. Don't...
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>>17246233
If you really like her, ask her out and risk rejection.
If you just want her because you're lonely, find someone you actually like.

>>17246264
>OP
Right now I really just want to get to know her better, then decide whether or not I'll ask her out.
Also, I said I was comfortable with being single, but I'm not really lonely

>>17246287
I wasn't sure if you were "comfortable being single" or legitimately comfortable being single.
And isn't dating how you get to know someone? Personalities always seem a bit different online so you should really just ask her out before you build up a specific image of her.

Is it best to be just like everyone else? Should I get a tattoo to show how unique and special I am, but maybe some Chinese symbol so I fit in with everybody?

For real?
Meditation helped me a ton. I finally understand the concept of "forgiveness", which before I thought was a cuck response, but now I see is about accepting what's happened and moving forward by letting go of your attachment to the past. It doesn't mean you forget what happened, only that it cannot be changed and the only option is to deal with the situation as it is now.

>>17246086
I never understood meditation. You just sit cross-legged and chant "ohm" repeatedly?