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am i overly bitter or something? Every time I even see people that give each other "the look" when they like each other, every time I see people holding hands and being all lovey dovey, every time I see people hug and kiss their friends. Any display of love or intimacy (especially in movies and whatnot) I cannot help but cringe.
I'm 19 year old college bro, i've never had a girl friend cause I was fat most of high school (currently losing a lot of it by cutting calories and shit, so far so good), and I've never hated women or anything. I just...
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>>17246016
You sound like a 5 year old that never grew up
It's called envy, dude.
I feel worse when i look on happy couples too, a fate of a kissless virgin
>I'm bitter that I'll be alone forever and I'm not afraid to show it
Should I care about how many guys a girl has been with?
Should this concern me at all? Even if the number is high like say 10?
>10
>high
desu in this day and age that's normal
ive only had sex with one person, my bf, but I feel like that's extremely rate
>>17245973
It is high.
Also this thread is guaranteed 200 replies
I'm about to start a job at a hospital as an anesthesia technician. I'm very excited but the physician I'll be working under is my girlfriend's father.
How do I not fuck this up? How can I make a good impression on him and show him that I'm not a shitbag or a dumbass?
These are Seinfeld problems man
>>17245972
Stop being so negative--you're already imagining the worst. Live in the present, and just focus on being calm, doing the job correctly, and take it one day at a time! GL with the new job!
>>17246050
Nah he's not imagining the worst yet.
OP, what if one of your patients died under anesthesia, and your girlfriend's father is convinced it's your fault because you administered it wrong? What if the patient has children and they all grow up blaming you?
Would it be a bad idea to fuck a pregnant girl? I met her online, she's 7 months along but she's a qt. She wants my dick and I want to splurge all over her baby belly.
Careful, you could impregnate her again and end up paying child support for both babies
probably
>>17245784
Or he could end up getting both pregnant. Don't do it OP.
Is it possible to get rid of a vibe that makes everyone hate you? I've always had it since I was a kid people would tell me not to come hang out with them and shit. If I hear good news like a girl getting engaged and I ask oh who's the lucky guy I just get a weird look and nervous answer but if someone asks they just smile and answer normally. If I go hang out with people everyone is passive aggressive against me and treats me like an outsider and hate me.
What do I do? I have currently 0 people to talk to and I'm in the middle of nowhere with no way to...
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Some things in life you cannot change no matter how hard you try, just accept it for what it is and try to find happiness with it being part of your life.
You're not giving us much to work with here if you want advice. Do you at least have some idea of why people treat you like that?
>>17245806
A side question attempting not to disturb. I really like your GIF. Do you use it often?
Me and this girl have been 'checking it'. We're both 18 and virgins, she used to call me everyday for 2-ish weeks. During the second week we went on 2 dates. We made out, grinded/dry humped and I sucked on her tits in the changing rooms of a shopping mall. This is the furthest me and her have been sexually (unless she lied).
3rd week we didn't talk as much, but on one conversation over the phone she said she loved me (first time hearing that from her). Later that night she got angry at how she was the one always calling me and how I rarely called...
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>>17245744
2/2 cont.
I don't have proof of her and another guy other than last Saturday night her and her old friends hung out at her place while their parents were out. She called me during this time but it was very on-off (called and talked for 15 mins, then had to hang up for a bit then called back). During the start of this there was supposedly 5 people at her house, I think 2 of them were guys. She called one time and said she was in bed and about to go sleep in 10 mins, I can hear a girls voice in the background....
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fucking hell op, TLDR lad, wow
I'm not fucking reading that
Has anyone here successfully went from shy, low self confidence to one hundred percent comfortable and outgoing around people?
I used to be the latter, until an incident in my life, so I know that I can go back to it.
any tips?
Depends what was the accident?
Also be yourself, not everyone has to be a superstar.
>>17245716
My best bud living with me ended up killing himself. I got depressed and stopped being a people person. Got shy and low self esteem.
I used to be super bubbly, confident and outgoing
>I used to be super bubbly
gee, I wonder why someone who lived with you would want to kill themselves
So I graduated high school today. Tomorrow is my first day of being a NEET, ever. For about three months though as I start school in the fall. What can I do so I don't feel so miserable? I had surgery on my leg and it's not fully healed so I can't get a job. I can still walk around fine though. Just not for 4-8 hours a day straight.
Learn a language, read books, play video games, hang out with friend (though I'm guessing you don't have any)
Simple as this
>don't let days go to waste
>split time between your friends and girlfriend
Few tips
>shower every morning
>eat healthy
>get a cup of coffee every morning and make friends with the bartender at the closest bar
>get a beer in the early afternoon with your buddy and make plans for the night
>get buzzed every night but get wasted...
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>>17245702
> hang out with friend (though I'm guessing you don't have any)
I do have friends but they're all gonna be busy as fuck with work. We only hang out in the weekends so most days I'm gonna be trapped inside. Will be probably try to learn a computer language (Python maybe)
>>17245712
Good tips, thanks mane.
>tfw drinking age is 21 in america
That's an annoying question, but does your first maybe childhood love stay in your heart for years? Is it special?
Some anime and manga picture it going, and i don't think it's pure fiction.
Because in childhood we don't hide who we are inside and affections are genuine. It was easier to click with each other. Yeah, when you have the feeling that you're thinking the same it's just.
Either this, or i have no idea why i still remember him. I could date another person but it won't be the same. It may be better, but it will be different,...
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I don't think children are capable of love in the sense of adult romantic relationships, and I think it's abnormal for an adult to hang on to these feelings.
>>17245690
Did you actually compare the two?
Some adult romantic relationships are shallow, superficial and immature so i don't see a problem.
Childhood romance may be immature but at least you are liked for who you are.
>>17245710
You're barely even a person when you're a kid
>be 23
>got first job
>want to buy/rent a place in the "near" future
So, as I just started I obviously can't get a loan or even a rent warranty that some companies give you for renting.
What should I do? Save as much as I can every month? In a bank account? Standard or something special? Or should I wait until I have the requirements to ask for the loan (+1 or 2 years of continuous stable employment).
Also is worth nothing that the salary is about twice the minimal wage (code monkey job), saying the actual number won't help much cause a thousand bucks in different places means different possibilities.
I'm totally clueless about this, up until now I was just a student.
>>17245667
Some property management companies require tenants to earn three times rent.
I don't get it, why do you need a loan if you just want to rent?
>>17245667
myself I would start saving up and wait 2 or 3 years before going for a loan/mortgage
to be honest with ya i'm 33 iv worked in some real shity paying jobs and not have enough to save up for a place of my own its hard saving up
Here is a photo of my friend. This puppy and its deceased sibling was left alone 3 days ago under balcony of my apartment. Our neighbor fed him with cow milk and water for 3 days -his sibling died today and I even learned their presence today.
Tomorrow I will take him to a local animal shelter. But i doubt he can survive the night.
> Weather is hot here,
> I put him in a box with lots of clothes,
> He has water enough for night,
> I tried to feed...
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try /an/
>>17245636
Get off the internet and take him now. If it's closed go to the police station.
Alternatively, masturbate into his mouth and let him suckle on your semen of sustenance.
>>17245649
this desu except for the second part
