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What does it mean when literally everything is irritating and grating to you? For no apparent reason absolutely everything I've had to deal with today, from making coffee to walking the dogs and dealing with my family has all just been nails to a chalkboard. Everything is grating, annoying and grinding me to pieces and all I want to do is scream, destroy everything and lock myself to lay down in a dark room forever.
I am tired, everything is annoying and I want to die.
How do you make the feeling stop? What causes it?
it usually means I'm low on sleep, dehydrated and/or hungry. sometimes all 3
>>17243811
I've slept, I've eaten, I've had water and coffee. I'm still in the mood to throw my phone across the room because of a typo and to have an emotional breakdown over a cracked phone screen.
I recommend turning off the computer, standing up, taking a deep breath, stretching for several minutes and cleaning your room. Try meditating if possible. Even five minutes is good.
Some little shit was talking mad shit during a game of league of legend. He said a bunch of things threatened to kill me and begged me to commit suicide. So to scare him i messaged him and told him im an attorney and im going to take him to court for what he said. Where do i stand legally and can companies give out personal information so i can find him and sue him. Not really looking for legal advice, just curious
OP a fag, move along
>>17243796
verbally harassing me over the internet? im going to take you to court
>>17243796
lol
>"Just ask her out"
Ok, i get it, i have to ask her out. The problem is: HOW and WHEN? You make it sound fucking easy but i honestly have difficulties in finding the proper moment to do so. I always wait for the right moment to ask, but it never comes. Also i have no idea on how to ask her without sounding like a pervert or a desperate. Any help?
Chad thundercock apporach: Wanna go out and fuck or not? Which is anywhere anytime
My favorite which is "Hey, Im going to the mall. I dont wanna go alone wanna tag along?" Usually use that for starter conversation or when the conversation is going to boring Avenue
>>17243787
You want to grab a drink / hang out on saturday?
or
I'm doing XY on Thursdays, feel free to join me.
When you're already talking to a girl, asking her out is actually really easy.
>>17243787
Does it matter? Outside of extreme autism methods, if she's going to reject you, she's going to reject you.
There's nothing you can do to game her into liking you, OP. That shit in movies where the guy does something spectacular and all of a sudden, the hot girl falls for his beta ass? They lied to you.
What the fuck do I do if weed is literally ruining my life? If I don't smoke it I can't sleep and I always do stupid irrational shit. It's not an addiction I've had these issues my whole life and no medication has ever helped except for marijuana. If I don't smoke weed I literally just lay in my bed with my eyes closed for like 7 hours straight with no sleep. I can't even survive with a small amount of weed I need like a gram right before bed and I need way more than that throughout the day.
I'm 24 with no savings whatsoever. I always do wreckless shit to get weed I already got a dui over it. I resorted to selling it just so I can have my medicine and I feel like I'm risking my entire future just so I can feel normal and have a full nights sleep. I'm literally ruining my life over something that I should be able to just plant in my backyard.
>>17243784
Yet, they say its not an addictive drug. Slap of the fucking knee. Basically lock yourself in your room and start detoxification buddy ol pal
>>17243784
>It's not an addiction
Good, then stop.
>If I don't smoke it I can't sleep
Don't sleep then.
>>17243792
You guys are dumb as fuck I had these problems ever since I was a kid and weeds the only thing that fixes it
Are you honestly saying I should just struggle my entire life instead of consume a plant? I'm asking how to get it cheap or free not how to quit
Girl from Aus here. I have a part-time job at a German company and there are some German coworkers here. They seem chill and we are doing a lot of small talk.
I can speak German pretty well for an Aussie, mainly because I have a German online friend who helped me. I even visited him irl. Is it ok if I reveal to them how I learned German? Is mentioning having an online friene unprofessional? What if they ask how we met? (not that there are a lot of Germans in Aus)
Im confused Australia or Austria?
>>17243685
Australia
>>17243672
Just do what I do. Say you have a German friend. Don't mention that he's an online friend.
Is 18 and 27 a weird age difference for fuck buddies?
Had a 18yo fb at 25
If it works in bed why worry?
>>17243664
It just feels a little weird how I'm fucking a girl that graduates high school tomorrow, while everyone else my age is fucking people their own age.
Also kinda scared of developing feelings since a relationship with her wouldn't work. But the pussy and head is bomb as fuck.
sounds great. now its time for you to give me some advice, how do i set this situation up?
Girlfriend posts pictures like this. This isn't to bad right ? I don't know I can just be dumb about this kind of stuff sometimes.
I don't know, post more and I'll tell you.
Posts to whom?
Her ex? Bad.
On the internet? She's attentionwhoring because she feels neglected. Dick her more.
>>17243645
I know your not being completely serious lol but like this. She wanted to put this one of both of us up. I cut myself out
I'm well hung and GF is crappy at BJ.
What is that magic spray used by football medics that once applied on skin numbs the area down?
Phenol or something like that, isn't it?
Is it available in strawberry/cherry flavour?
>>17243614
Pretty sure you aren't supposed to ingest topical anesthetics.
>>17243614
Xylocain or lignocain are local anaesthetic available in spray form, but i didn't understood your point why you want to numb yourself it would make bj more crappy you won't be able to feel anything not just pain
>>17243614
And they do not come in flavours fo sho
Who is on the right here adv?
>Sister is stripper. Keeps it classy
>Makes money and provides for me and my niece and nephew and her bf.
>He finds picture of her kissing a customer on the cheek.
>Says she's cheating,gets his dad mom and sister to come take most of his shit and dip.
>For context she was very drunk and got violent but no cops.
I think and told them they both were wrong in what they did and how they reacted but shitbman idk my sister didn't cheat on my book.
Pic unrelated
She's a literal whore
>is fine dating someone who shows off her body to make money
>isn't fine that the person kisses someone on the cheek
>>17243601
She doesent suck cock or fuck anyone else though. I don't agree with her job but what can I do
>be 22
>beta
>get tinder
>no matches for a week
>feelsbad.jpg
>a week later
>5 matches
>haven't talked to any of them
>realized that I am beta and can't talk to girls
>considering suicide
What do?
talk to them.
stop overthinking things
ask this board how to talk to them, after telling people what you want from these girls.
>>17243583
Not op but i'm in the same boat. I'm looking for a relationship but wouldn't mind just a hook up
Should I be more attentive to my roommate's dog?
I always feel bad when I get home, because she's mostly his responsibility, and I don't want to play with her that much. Every once in a while, I take her for a walk, and I spend a few minutes scratching her head and saying hello, but then I shut my door for most of the night until bed. So from 5-12 PM, she's just sitting on the couch moping.
I mean, clearly, I should, but she interrupts my work and tries to jump on my bed. She always wants to be petted, so she tries to squeeze her way between my arms or whatever.
I'm not doing damage to her or anything, right? She's okay for a few hours with intermittent pats on the head and such?
So what if the dog wants to jump on your bed? It's a fucking dog.
The right thing to do is leave your door open so he doesn't feel lonely, if he comes in just maybe rub him a bit, he might lay on your bed and go to sleep
Consider this. Dogs sit at home all day doing nothing but sleeping and eating, so when someone comes home its like an event because finally theyre not alone, so of course theyre much happier. But when you lock yourself in your room and he can't even get to you, you might as well not be home.
Tl;dr the dog has feelings, keep your door open and let him on your bed, he's not going to destroy it
You're not liable since it's not your dog. If you want to out of your own volition then go ahead.
/Why dont girls like me general
>>17243537
You look like you live in an alleyway. Start with that.
>>17243537
Cause you're ugly. Your fashion sense is like you combined a cholo and 1990s Italian mechanic
>>17243537
Because you're a manlet
Is it possible to move to a city really far away without saving tons of money? I'm not good at talking to people so finding roommates will be hard, I have no car, and I have no skills at all so I'd be making close to nothing
Need first month's rent + deposit to be civilized.
You can live in your car or a hostel though for a while
>>17243533
Do some people let you pay the deposit later on?
>in college, decides to not take summer classes
>looking to get my first summer job
>apply and went a group interview [spoiler]at my local Chipotle[/spoiler]
>manager asks for prior work experiences. I got non except for some volunteering work whereas the other person in group cranks out that he worked at his mother's gift shop, uncle's grocery import company and etc
>manager says he will interview some other people and perhaps will call us back for secondary interviews in a couple days
>interview ends soon after; feels like I got bodied by this other guy
>promptly got a rejection email in less than 24h after the interview.
How can anybody like me ever get their first job if everybody is (practically) only hiring people with prior experiences?
What kind of job and how did people of /adv/ get their first job(full-time/part-time/seasonal)?
How can I improve my chances? [spoiler]Am I suppose to make up/lie about my experiences?[/spoiler]
>How can anybody like me ever get their first job if everybody is (practically) only hiring people with prior experiences?
And that's the ten million dollar question of this generation. Networking, nepotism and luck.
>>17243470
You have to really sell the experiences you have. You need a script of high energy responses to interview questions. I like to practice by singing them.
>>17243470
I've hired a lot of first time workers in positions like this (a long time ago, I used to manage retail).
The trick is, you don't need to have this in-depth resume of all of the places you've worked before, just relatable experience. Have you been in a club, on a sports team, or part of a volunteering group (which you already said you have)? Okay, you have relevant experience working as part of a team.
The thing about these big chains is that they're designed to pretty quickly teach you the basics and make sure that no one is fucking up on a larger scale. Everyone's going to make some mistakes, even the guy who has worked in 3-4 different places.
What you want to pass on is that you're willing to learn and be a part of a team. Never be too scared to elaborate on your life experience with specific examples, and qualifiers. For example, "Well, I don't have exact previous work experience, but I assist in the setup of a local homeless outreach program by working with others to bag up supplies for those in need on weekends, and I love being a part of a team working toward a larger goal."
Boom. The other guy may say he stocked greeting cards or something, but it's not that different. It's all about attitude.
Good luck anon. I'll keep checking in.
I'm 24, halfway to 25. This is very near the age I wanted to be married at and I wanted children within only a year or two after that. But not only am I not married, I'm, as of fairly recently, no longer with the person I thought I would eventually marry. I'm not going to talk bad about my ex, there was no cheating, nothing like that, we just didn't work out. I'm not over them or ready to start dating other people let alone jump into a long term relationship, and I'm unwilling to rush into marriage or children once I do because I take that level of commitment very seriously.
I'm also at a particularly isolating point in my life. I've recently lost my closest friend due to him developing unrequited feelings for me, most of my other friends are friends of my ex first and mine second or people I've grown apart from over the years so I seldom talk to them anymore. I'm struggling to make new friends plus I have some degree of social anxiety and difficulty transitioning from acquaintanceship into friendship. Most of the people I work with are much older than me so even though I talk to them and like them, they're not the kind of people I want to befriend anyway.
My life is far, far off track from where I want it to be and the goals I have for myself but I don't really know how to go about achieving them.
You set yourself for disappointment. Instead of taking things as they come you decided to set goals that make zero sense other than "I just want things to be like this or that" and then expected for life to change at your whim. It doesn't work like that. You're supposed to take things as they come, plans never work as thought.
Don't hurry to marry and make a life, wait for the right person to come and work it out with her. Only when you're 1000% certain she's the one, marry. Otherwise just let things happen.
>>17243505
My goals in life are marriage, family, a wide social circle of friends, and home ownership. I would like to have time with my husband before I rush into children and 2-3 children before any of the risks associated with having children later in life goes up. It makes sense to be married by at least 30 the latest because of that, and I've always felt like mid-late 20s, around 26 or 26, would be an ideal range to shoot for.
These are the things that matter to me. Some people want a fancy car, some people want to travel, some people want to be a published author. If you want something you don't "just let things happen", you pursue it and if the plans get messed up along the way, you figure out how to adjust for that if they're still what you want. And they are still what I want.
>Don't hurry to marry and make a life
>Only when you're 1000% certain she's the one, marry.
I specifically said I wouldn't marry or have children if I was anything less than dead certain. I take marriage enormously seriously.
>>17243527
>a wide social circle of friends
Should be wide social circle/wide circle of friends.
>around 26 or 26
Should be 26 or 27.
