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Why are there more normie chicks than dudes? However when a girl ain't a normie she is typically one of the best people you could meet, why is this /adv/?
Congratulations, this is the shittiest /r9k/ rant I have seen today on /adv/.
>>17240486
>Why are there more normie chicks than dudes?
A great deal of attention has been given to properly socializing young girls in the past several hundred years: the definition of "proper socialization" has changed, but not the idea that resources need to be devoted to doing so. The concept is older than feminism as we know it, though they've spent no small time analyzing it, and are happy to use it for their own ends.
Not so much attention has been given to socializing boys. This was not malicious: it was sort of generally assumed that this problem took care of itself. The Scouting movement was probably the last time anyone paid much attention to it, and that's over 100 years old.
The thing is, for a long time this arrangement actually worked for boys. It's only in the last 50-60 years that it started failing in any significant numbers, and only in the last 20-30 that it sped up to this kind of pace. There are still no clear answers yet as to why, though there are plenty of hypotheses.
>However when a girl ain't a normie she is typically one of the best people you could meet
That depends heavily on a number of things, most of which you can't know. There are lots of awesome non-normie girls: I married one, and have many more in my extended social circle. But if your experience is skewed enough that you can mistake this for universal, you've had a little luck on your side.
>>17240953
This guy gets it
>be me
>daughter is 15
>starts hanging with bumblrwhale in her school classes
>badinfluence.jpg
>the two of them bully my son (13) to the point he cries
>constantly skyping each other
>i confiscate her laptop and phone
>she runs away after school to bumblrwhale’s house
>bring her back home kicking and screaming
>wife makes me give her back laptop/phone
>bumblrwhale and my daughter start cutting themselves
>my daughter dyes her hair and starts eating like a cow to be like bumblrwhale
>the fuk do I do?
>tl:dr
>bumblrwhale is bad influence on my daughter?
>what do?
Take pictures of her cuts, show them to your wife, tell your wife to stop being a bitch, and teach your daughter what happens to mentally unstable people who self-harm by scaring her into thinking you're going to take her to a mental hospital if she doesn't cut that shit out.
Then sit down and drink a beer and imagine you're in a better place. A world that isn't full of this bullshit.
>>17240490
wife knows about the cuts, tried scaring her by using my druggo sister as example
>"you just hate my friends, I hate you!"
take her laptop and phone and "child-lock" it from tumblr and other websites
also cutting herself? make her go to school therapist and tell her strictly that she aint allowed to visit that phat lard anytime soon
Hi guys. I'm from Russia. I'm in a long-term depression. I have absolutely no idea what to do. Now just I go to work, play PS4, look damn Naruto. Every day I fall asleep until 4 in the morning with the thought of suicide. The psychologist told to change my life, but I suspect that he's an idiot. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
My English skills are weak. I want something new. So here I am. Before that sat on 2ch.hk its a russian board. HELP ME PLEASE
Your psychologist does sound like an idiot.
I'd say just keep doing what you're doing, OP. It seems to be working for you.
Read some books, find a music interest, eat healthy, generally do anything constructive or cultured to distract yourself. That's what I do at least.
So if anyone thought that I need a girlfriend- I already have. happiness is not about sex, but she is very good.
OP
Kept in touch with teacher from high school. Is it OK for me to tell him that I learned French as I have a French online friend whom I later visited in France?
Yeah, I don't see why it wouldn't be ok.
What? Was your teacher a French teacher?
>>17240434
No he is not. I didn't study any foreign languages in high school
Sup /adv/.
So, I'm pretty much a Chinese ex-weeaboo, long given up watching anime and keep that shit on the down low. I'm not too skinny and I exercise regularly.
My problem is, when I visit anime shops I get really excited when I see figures I really like, I get pretty hot.Not even lewd shit, just cute girls from shows I used to watch.
Anyways, I start sweating and BO comes with it, but it's definitely worse from the type of BO I get when I'm out running. Seriously fuckin' smells.
Anyone know what the hell is up with that?
Go to /sci/, maybe they can help. Otherwise, let our lord and savior Terry Crews bless you with his 24 hour odor blocking power. Godspeed.
>>17240422
I'm already using this brand of Nivea Men, haven't seen Old Spice here yet.
You sure 'bout /sci/? I dunno about these guys, but I'll try a thread there.
I work in a hospital. The best thing in the world is to carry a pack of Sage Bath Wipes.
They are literally gifts from the heavens. Google them. I would incur a pic but in phone.
Share good and bad stories because im wondering if its worth trying out.
>>17240397
From my experience it's only good for hooking up and it will only be good for that if you've got at least an 8/10 body and/or face. This is all assuming you're a male btw.
I matched with someone from my small 12 person class in a school with 30,000+. Didn't even know it was her until she told me. I liked her but she turned me down after the most mixed signals on earth. At least she still likes my IG photos.
I only used it for a week got bored, lots of spam. But this was a year ago.
>>17240405
So are you saying it is better or worse for people below 8?
/adv/, i think i have a huge fucking problem. I guess auto-erotism is a quite normal thing and everybody does it, me included. The problem is that i don't really fap. I basically smash my dick against the floor, like if i'm having sex with it. Will this have any consequences on my sex life? I have yet to lose my virginity so i don't know.
As long as you don't damage your sausage it's alright. Also a good idea might be to keep that to yourself and only yourself.
>>17240392
Well i'm certainly not starting a conversation by saying "hey you know i smash my dick against the floor instead of fapping". I'm saying it here because this is an anonymous image beard and i basically never come here.
>>17240399
I get you senpai, I'm just saying. Otherwise we all have that weird shit we get a kick out of, it's nothing to be ashamed of. That would definitely be a hilarious conversation though.
Hey /adv/, I gotta be up in a few hours, but I'm so enraged I can't sleep.
>Me and Ex were together 3 years
>Everything was fine, until she dropped off the face of the earth
>Resurfaced 2-3 months ago
>Turns out she was dating another guy
>But they broke up
>We've been talking since
>Said she wants to get back together
>Said I'll think about it
>Been a few months, seems like she is sincere
>Decide to give it another go
>Roommate fucking despises her
>But I convinced him to let her hang with me at our place for a while
>Everything seems fine, we talk and shit, have sex etc
>Then today she said she is driving across state to see her parents, and that she will see me next week, tells me to text her to keep her from boredom
>I try but she ignores
>Went to send her a snap
>Turns out she blocked me today
>Logged into her account, I am definitely on blocked, and her story has her face with the message "I love him" and a bunch of hearts and shiet
I am truly rattled that someone could do something like this. Why the fuck was she stringing me a long and putting so much effort into getting back with me for MONTHS, if she is seeing another guy? Why would everything seem perfectly fine when we hung out, then today she just blocks me and disappears again with presumably a different guy? This just seems like a massively fucked up thing to do to someone.
This was my first actual relationship. Is this more or less how all women are? I have no idea what she was trying to accomplish, but it seems like she was just toying with me, and trying to hurt me. I would never do something like this to anyone, how is this okay? I'm so fucking confused right now.
It's not your fault, first off. She's the deranged one, it's all her doing. But sometimes it's just how it goes and you just gotta accept it man, I'm sorry. I wish the best for you, don't do anything you'd regret either.
Sorry OP. Not all women but certain kinds.
Similar thing happened to me, met a girl who was still in a relationship, and as the old saying goes. Once a cheater always a cheater.
>>17240389
Do you think telling someone to kill themselves is something I'd regret?
Because that is the message I left her.
>>17240391
My friend told me most girls are cheaters nowadays. Is this true? He says him, and everyone he knows has been cheated on by girls numerous times. I don't know, because I've only been with her, from 18 to 21.
A GIRL MAY OR MAY NOT COME
WHATS THE FASTEST WAY TO DO IT EFFECTIVELY???
NEED HELP!
EVERYTHING IS A MESS
Pics?
C'mon, it can't be that bad... can it?
torch it, it'll be lit af senpai
First pick everything up and put it away, and throw useless stuff and garbage in the trash. Then, clean surfaces like tables and counters and appliances. Then, vacuum. After that, mop.
Me and my ex are friends just benefits, but i feel a deep feeling of jealousy towards girls and other guys she fucks
How do i stop being so jealous and get pass that? Wat do?
thanks in advance
Maybe you should re-think of your policy of friends with benefits if it doesn't suit you.
>>17240468
What do you mean it doesn't suit me? It suits me just fine, i just want to know how to get rid of the jealousy
>>17240297
the only way to stop that is to cut the fwb bullshit
so you've most likely heard of this case if you use any social media and how terrible it was, but am I a bad person if I am not really shaken by it? Even couldn't bring myself to read the victim's letter because it all seemed so melodramatic (as are many things posted by buzzfeed). Not defending the rapist at all, it was messed up he got the short sentence he did. I just don't see what all the hubbub is about now that he's locked up and socially fucked for the rest of his life.
I guess what i'm trying to say is, am I a bad person if I didn't really care about this? I feel like I should have but I just don't
>>17240268
The letter was cringeworthy evanescence-tier shit.
>>17240277
thank you! I'm so glad I wasn't the only one who thought it wasn't that great! God I thought I was a terrible, heartless person. I have total sympathy for rape victims, but it just seemed like a bit much yknow?
>>17240285
People are mad that his status as a rich white boy got him out of any kind of reasonable sentence, that's all. It's indignation at the injustice of the system. You don't have to feel upset or anything.
Is it rude to ask for a girls medical records before you fuck?
Yes.
>>17240227
Literally yes.
Although I can understand why.
Just be safe and use protection, christ.
>>17240227
No, at least it shouldn't be.
Hey /adv/. Lately I've been experiencing some existential issues and a friend brought me here saying that maybe you guys could shed some light on my issues. So I'm going to a private boarding school (I'm not a fag, just shitty public school system in hometown) and my life isn't at all bad in anyway, my parents are really successful and I live a great and fulfilling lifestyle with lots of good friends and extraordinary opportunities, but I can't help but constantly contemplate stuff like life after death, the meaning of life in general, the theory of an afterlife or a greater being who created the universe etc. etc. I don't know if it's just puberty (15, yes, still a faggot but I'm desperate for help) or if I'm not alone, but I'm stuck in a rut here and I need some guidance. Anything is appreciated, hate is fine too because I'm a newfag and a child nonetheless. Thanks.
Underage band
>>17240210
Also underageb&
>>17240212
>>17240214
Underage yes, in need of guidance also. Thanks.
I've share my first and last name, my occupation, my home town, cell number, and a face photo via email with someone on Craigslist via email. How fucked am I, and what do I do to protect my privacy?
Why would they care about you at all?
>>17240164
Chances are this craigslist person is an idiot.
That being said, practice layers of ambiguity and false information from now on when needed
Indeed I am. I more or less forgot the internet isn't a safe space, and was desperate to find love. I'm usually more guarded but got dammit I fucked up.
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year and six months, but we've never really done much sexual stuff together (Abused, feels she is ready for it now) This weekend we plan on it, but not full on sex. Basically anything else goes, tips anybody? Kinda nervous, she is too.
pic unrelated
Lol what the fuck ? What do you even do with a woman for that much time without having sex ?
Touch her, pull down her pants and fuck her
>>17240132
she was abused, and she just didn't feel ready/comfortable with it.
>>17240132
Shit advice.
Anyways just do what feels right and makes you both comfortable. First times are always anxiety inducing, but when you get into the heat of things it will work out fine. She may realize she's comfortable with more than she thought or maybe the opposite.
Either way, once you start kissing it will go naturally from there on
