Not at all

Yes. People who say it isn't just like to pretend they're unique in their suffering.

>>17240110 the "oh my gawd im sooo depressed" kind
Otherwise No

>>17240064
Pretty much ye.

Looks are an important first impression. I remember years ago, I passed over so many girls profiles and even ignored their messages based on looks. I'm not shallow like that in real life, but on a medium like okcupid I think it's easier for a lot of people to become a lot more shallow and judgemental. Are you just an uggo?

Not Op
But I could use some critiques
anyone care to help a bro out?

How do you know she's prim and proper? Are you talking about style or personality or both?

Aristocrats hang with other aristocrats. You'll find these girls at ivy league schools and debutante balls. IE.. you will never find them because you're not one of them.

>>17240030
Both pretty much. I've seen polite women of course, but they were either hipsters or sluts, and I'm just really turned off by that. I don't know why but I can't help it.

So you and your friends categorize women based solely on a 10/10 attractiveness scale? No wonder you can't recognize why you feel that way about her. Because people are more than what they look like.

>>17240023
That was just to show that its not like shes stunning and way out of my league shes not popular by any means and i shouldnt have any problems asking her out.

>>17240004
If you can't approach her she's out of your league. There isn't is "prettier is higher," "uglier is lower" for leagues. You also have to account for social skills, status, wealth, intelligence, blah.

None of that matters, you not being able to approach her means you're on a lower social skills league than her because any awkward nerd can drum up the courage to ask out the girl he likes, you're an outlier.

Be honest, are you an autist? Or do you have another...
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>>17239970
This is either bait or you're a future cuckold.

Talking to other girls and even sexting one before you guys started dating isn't cheating. It's reasonable for her to be jealous and annoyed as a result, but you shouldn't have to do anything to "earn her trust back", this is her problem.

>>17239993
It's not bait, but I had told her that I was planning on dating her at the point that these things happened, it was just that I wanted to wait until we saw each other in person again. Not only that, but she's been cheated on before, so it's a little bit of that insecurity showing.

Bump. She's currently sleeping, so I'd like to know if there's anything I should do before she wakes up.

>>17239918
You have a responsibility on the street aswell so i would say don't give it much thought and just try to improve by learning.
Here in germany no one has ever died in a emergency vehicle, officially ofcourse, because otherwise they would have to fully clean the vehicle afterwards so they just say the person died in the hospital.

>>17239918
Fellow EMT and oldfag. You're fine. Quit freaking out. Mvc head crush injury? Cpr in progress ? Guy was gone before you'd get there or be pronounced in the ER and you know it.

I once had to do cpr on a fat fuck who had 10 minutes of cpr in progress at his home. Me, the station chief, and 5 other paramedics had to get this poor bastard down 2 flights of stairs. He was already cyanosis when we got there. I had to ride in the back with my paramedic partner and do compressions for 15 minutes while she...
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Here EMT can pronounce patients dead on the scene. As was the case here. It's just I can't stop thinking what if this guy needed us. That hangs on me. If there ever was a cpr to mess up on it guess this was best case. I'm timid to drive now. I won't make that same mistake but how do I lose this timid feeling?

>>17239903
Is she into kinky shit? Is she asking for better dirty talk? Does she have triggers? Ask your fucking girl if you're worried, communication is important.

Ask her.

If she doesn't mind it doesn't matter.

I used to have the same problem, but turns out it wasn't a problem.

>>17239913
She hasn't specifically asked but I just feel really boring going through the same 5 phrases over and over. I asked her what I could say and she didn't have anything specific for me..

The only thing she DOESN'T want is to be called a "slut". Whore is okay.. I think something happened in high school with teasing

>>17239891
I also have fairly consistent derealization all the time but the past few months it's gotten really intense. Especially with that deja vu feeling thing. It sometimes feels as if I'm a completely different person living a completely different life than my own.
I also don't regularly take any meds for anxiety since it's normally not that bad although I have been taking alprazolam the past two months, mostly when I have a bad week. Been a week since i took any.

>>17239891
Also feel free to just vent because I know this shits frustrating as hell and it helps.

>>17239891
Bump

Femanon here
Grow your hair out
Cover that forehead
You still have potential

>>17239887
Buy a wig
Acquire eyebrows
Work out
Plant yourself in the sun and water occasionally so you don't have such a ghostly complexion.

Trying smiling, that face drives even the nerdiest of girls away

>>17239846
Have you considered therapy?

I ask because these are thoughts associated with common mental health issues, often resulting from traumatic incidents. But also because I know people from backgrounds with more urgent problems than their emotional well being internalize a lot of shame and dismissal of their mental states. My girlfriend is first generation Croatian-American and her parents were still in "escape war and genocide" mode when they raised her and even she, who has known peace and economic...
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>>17240200
Thank you. I will look into therapy.

I'm sorry to hear about what has happened to you. If you don't mind my asking, were you a child soldier?

Therapy is a good suggestion. You may also want to look into the works of rapper Emmanuel Jal. He escaped being a child soldier too, and speaks of it often; you may find some comfort there.

>Sorry for the writing style and for the silly post. It's probably pretty cringe-inducing, and my English could be better.
Your English is quite good. I wouldn't have known you weren't a native speaker if you hadn't...
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>>17239834
See a marriage counselor.

>>17239834
Wife sounds depressed and insecure as hell. Honestly, she can't just up and decide she gets full custody though. Anyway, you guys should probably see a marriage counselor asap, if she refuses, you should see a counselor alone and then possibly a divorce lawyer so you know your rights.

Do you truly love her?
If not, prepare the money for a good lawyer, one that will help with getting custody...when ready bring up the divorce. Before you do so mention how you will always provide and be there for her and the kids (just the kids if you realize you care nothing for her)
But this depends on one thing...does this cw love you? Does she want to be with you..this needs to be known first. All is lost if she doesn't.

I thought no because then big efamous people would have already been traced and they would have closed their own po box from the harassment..do i have to file a certain po box?

Seems stupid to me I thought this was the point of a po box.

>>17239817
Tracing a po box of a business to a person requires a few layers of digging

1)business name registered with the state? Your real name can be found as the owner. From there it's just a matter of looking you up online and putting pieces together.
2)trace personal name / address from po box? It's illegal to give out personal or even business information of po box holders. That being said, process of elimination from #1 can still be done
3)stalking via po box. It's not hard to look up the...
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>>17239842
My business isn't registered in the state I just sell hand made things online it's nothing big not even average it's just a side "job"

>>17239808
I've been told to my face that I'm forgettable. Feels bad. The fucking worst is like a few days ago I got a pic from college friends making stupid faces. With text saying shit like YOOOOO man waddup we gotta hang soon. They obviously hang on the regular. Literally don't invite me. Idk what to do. I've always been that guy.

from my experience are you a rather annoying person. be honest with yourself, are you a rather disagreeable person on average? it's really a chore being around people who are annoying.

>>17239855
Completely the opposite, and Im being as objective as I can possibly be,saying that.

Among my friend group, Im one of the quietest, and one of the more respectful. Add in some clever one liners, maybe some sarcasm in my voice, and you have me. And I'm very agreeable, and I participate in quite a bit of activities they suggest.

I guess you could say im similar to a silent protagonist, except i speak more frequently if that makes sense

>>17239796
Heh, you're in denial all right. If you have to jack off every time something small makes your wee wee jump, you've got issues. If it's causing discomfort and you refuse to stop, that's pretty close to addiction. 3-6 times a day definitely isn't normal. I'd look into treatment OP.

>>17239796
Isn't it late for a 12 year old to be posting?

Well what do you want to hear? The only way to stop masturbating is to stop masturbating.

Next time you get the horny feeling, just bear with it, don't edge at all, don't hump the bed, don't seek out more visuals that make you horny, just ride out the discomfort for a few weeks.

>>17239785
Seconding this

I'm autistic I need answers

>>17239785
ASAP

Girls use tinder the same reason guys do. Hookups.


Their pussy will try up if you fucking fast if you speil some shit about hey no rush to meet let's get to know each other first winky face

Let me say it again, girls use tinder the same reason guys do, hookups.

They want to fuck. They either will fuck you or they won't, don't waste your time going back and forth.

Your tinder ahould go like this

You: getting or cheesy pickup line to get attention
Her:...
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>>17239902
autist