Clothes, cleaning supplies, appliances and furniture, hobbies, going out, insurance, car if you have one, transport if you don't, savings for emergencies.

>>16441254
is there a decent way I can actually calculate all of that?
I'll have roommates but still

>>16441268
Well it depends on how much you spend on those things. You'd know better than I do. I'd suggest making sure there's a decent buffer in your income in case you have underestimated how much you need to spend

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The rest of it.

I think about this chick all day every day. I tried to get really close to one of her best friends and then her best friend ended up fucking falling in love with me (we fuck a lot, she really wants to be dating). I'm totally incapable having any feelings for any girl except this one. It has hugely gotten in the way of my life. I just want to be with her.

>>16441249
>>16441255
Avoid this drama lama little shit.
You don't need nor have have to be an enabler in co-dependence.

Well you have 2 choices, either you reply, either you don't. Make something kinda big just like she did to show she mean something to you, dont write k

>>16441215
Date a non sperg asian? He'll be good at math and would know Karate.

>>16441222
But I like this one...

Is he a self diagnosed sperg?

There's really not much else to say lol

>>16441186
Change topics bud.

"Let's hope so. [Something else]"

Now's a good chance to show that you don't only have to make small talk about work

There are literally infinite conversation topics. Ask her about herself, sports, animals, art, music, film, games, people you know, politics...

>>16441163
Chances are no doctor will do it

>>16441166
Really? Fuckin why?

Should you get neutered?
You can wear a condom instead, if you're not on crack or completely wasted on a regular basis.

Um, fuck her?

ur a kek

Fuck her

First, let me ask you an honest question, and answer honestly; are you here for actual advice, or are you here wanting to hear that it's okay to bang her?

>>16441039

it is ok to bang her

rules are for betas

>>16441043
It's not a rule, it's a principle.

For me personally, I did it once and I felt pretty shitty. The guy tracked me down, and I thought we were gonna throw down, but he just explained what I did to him. It felt really shitty.

I would never do it. "If she's willing to cheat with you, she'll do it with anyone" is a bullshit argument you use mentally to validate your decisions.

Shameless bump

>>16441000
>I've also read that not having regular human contact fucks with your mind
That doesn't mean physical contact, it means interaction with a real human. The opposite of solitary confinement

>>16441059
This

>>16440989
>Attraction is definitely ruled out
Are you sure of this?

Did she smell drunk? Did she slur her words?

>>16440989
Maybe she was looking at you all night and when you stepped out for a cig she finally saw an opportunity to approach away from everyone else.

Who cares why she did it, OP, just enjoy that she came up and talked to you. Fucking text her!

There's no consistency in what girls find attractive. If a boy gives a girl a certain score, all other boys will generally rate within 2 points of that score. For example, if I give a girl 7, all other boys will probably rate between 5 and 9. Of course there are exceptions for people with strange fetishes, but this is generally the case.

Girls on the other hand seem to all like completely different things. One girl's 0 is another girl's 10. I personally think I'm probably about a 3 out of 10, but I've had some girls tell me I'm very attractive,...
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>>16440954
Yes and I dunno why you'd want to, but who cares if you're happy. It's your life.

some people will think it's weird and judge

some people will think it's normal and natural

some people will be like niiiiiiiiiiiiiiice dude

none of those people are in the relationship so who gives a fuck what they think

>>16440954
No, most won't. However, problems will arise due to the differences in life experience, education, and short term goals. You're looking for a career after college, she just wants to party and get smashed, for example.

So wreck her cunt, mouth and ass as much as himay possible before you guys realize that it isn't going to work

Do you want a relationship with this dude? If you do try to get more one on one sober time and make something out of it.

Do you want to never deal with this so it fades away to obscurity? Just never mention it, bring it up, or acknowledge it happened.

Do you just want to be friends? Text him something to send him to the friendzone like "Sorry about last night, I was drinking way too much and don't want things to be weird. You're a nice guy, but I'm not looking for anything right now."

>>16440953
How do you want to proceed? A little more information would be helpful.
Do you regret what you did? Excited? Worried?
What's the deal, OP? Hand out some info, you hungover wreck. :)

>>16440967
Yeah, i kind of don't know where i want this to go. I guess in the direction of getting more sober time together. But i feel like it would be pretty awkward now, since we skipped a few steps due to alcohol. We do have a lot in common and i guess we match pretty well. Ah, i'm absolutely overthinking this, but i don't want to fuck this up even more cause we'll be seeing each other in the future anyways and i don't want this to make things weird for anybody.

Would it be any different than an eighteen year old male who'd slept with five girls by that age?

Right on the edge. You can either rein it in from here or dive on into full grossness.

>>16440919
What do you mean?

>>16440848
I'm a woman.

Let's get you laid.

Say, "lol, I wouldn't say that. Are you?"

Damn, Op. You could've been smooth af like "Oh, I can think of a few ways." You can still recover from that minor hiccup.

>>16440924
This. Try it out and see what happens.

>>16440787
Fuck you OP.

Good luck and god speed, I have no knowledge of such debased lifestyle choices. I hope it works out for you.

>>16440787
It's difficult to find a single girl for a 3some. They're called unicorns for good reason.

I used to do 3somes with my gal and my best advice is let her find the girl. It works out better.

>>16440787
Let it ride, the opportunity will present itself....

Creeps jump the gun.

"Hey, you wanna do anal?" Is best saved for the fifth time you have sex, not the first date.

"I think I love you" is best said once she is completely yours.

Creeps are guys who miss obvious social cues.

>>16440798
It's easy to not drop your spaghetti that hard though.