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I'm an 18 year old senior but I don't do much on the weekends. I usually go home and sleep or play video games, but as of recently I've been looking more and more towards socializing with people, but I don't know how to ask them if they want to do anything.
Any suggestions? All replies are welcome.
I am literally in that exact same situation my friend, I have people I hang out with but I just dont know how I can ask them to hang with me outside of school. I really want some /adv/ on this topic as well
>>16436968
Do you have friends?
What you do is come up with the "anything" first. Saying that you don't do much on the weekends is basically starting this marathon by facing the wrong direction.
I have not had luck with online dating since breaking up with my ex some months ago. I feel like I could get back with my ex if I messaged her again, but she is also insane. Borderline personality disorder.
I know it was a toxic relationship, but I am very alone. I don't go out much, I met her by pure luck. If I don't get back with my crazy ex, what do I do? Wait months, years even, until I find someone? Or maybe never? I'm 25 years old, people my age are starting to have kids. My ex was my only friend too, so in losing her I lost my best friend. Should I contact her? Or should I avoid the poison and keep roughing it alone?
>>16436918
dont do it. trust me in this, op. i have experienced a similar situation, mine did not get any less crazy. personally, pussy is certainly not worth having to deal with someone with that particular disorder
If you hate yourself that much that you can't stand to be alone, try to get back with her. But be prepared to deal with the consequences.
>>16436918
no one wants to be with someone who just wants to be with anyone. the fact that you are thinking about going into something BAD because its better than being alone should tell you had little you think of yourself. if you dont enjoy a single moment alone, why would anyone enjoy a moment with you.
delete the dating apps, and date yourself. and i mean that in a serious way. force yourself to see a movie alone. go eat a dinner alone. do things you wanted to do on dates that girls never wanted to do.
then take the time to SAVOR those moments. once you take a moment to acknowledge how good that burger is on your tongue, that movie is on your eyes, or that video game is on your brain, you begin to appreciate the moments as they are happening. you condition yourself.
try this to start. stop what you are doing right now. and take a deep breath in through your nose. then out. now think about how fucking awful it was to have a cold before. be grateful you can breath through your nose.
its like that, but instead you get to appreciate time on your own more, so you dont feel bad when you are alone.
Savor it anon.
I'm getting these weird bumps on my forearms could they be pimples? They seem to be spreading to my elbow
Is it itchy? Looks like a rash
>>16436905
It doesn't itch or anything it just looks nasty
Could just be soap, bounce sheets or just skin irritation. Some soaps irritate the fuck out of my skin, rashes look the same as mine and they don't itch either.
What does it mean when a girl has never been in a relationship before but says she's not ready for a relationship?
>>16436879
That you're ugly and she's waiting for chad.
>>16436882
/thread
>>16436882
this
try another female this ones not interested
So I won $20 on a scratch-off lottery card, but the lady behind the register gave me $50 instead.
I took the money and bolted out of there, but now I feel like a fucking scumbag.
Am I stupid for feeling this type of guilt?
No, it shows that you are, deep down, a decent human being.
You know what you have to do now...
>>16436833
You should return it if you feel bad about it. You'll feel better and the lady will have some respect for you for doing so and might even give you a new lotto card for being honest.
>>16436854
>>16436858
It's far past that point. This happened about 5 hours ago.
I drove home convincing myself that this was just part of the whole process of luck.
What can I do to repent for what I've done? Should I use this $30 to my advantage or should I do something else with it?
Alright. I need some advice. I fucked up.
Okay so I work at a gas station, this gas station has a food attachment to its which is where I work. We make food for the warmer, and for calls.
I close here a lot and honestly I get sick and tired of doing dishes. So I decided to throw some away here and there. Long story short they found out. They don't KNOW it's me, but they're pretty damn sure. There are no cameras that could see me putting the pans in the garbage. Only cameras showing me taking the garbage out. Basically. How fucked am I? Can they prove it? The boss doesn't know that I know she's on to me. Do I keep quiet and play stupid? Or do I tell her that someone told me I'm suspect number one, and completely deny it?
I'm already applying for other jobs. Just want input.
Bump.
Seriously guys. Anyone?
Obviously you lack any sort of testicular fortitude because you wanted to pussy out of honest work and cheat. If you had anything swimming in your scrotum I would tell you to own up to being a piece of shit, but you obviously won't have the nads to ever do that.
Don't even bother putting your current job on your resume, your manager will reveal the truth about the scum you are.
Don't act like you've never cut corners before. Ya I fucked up. I came here for advice. Not to be bashed on by a fucking keyboard warrior. Go the fuck away if you're not going to give sound advice, and just harass me. I'll take your comment as a vote towards own up to it. Thanks for the minimal input towards my post.
I've got the outfits, the moves, the looks, and a no-fucks-given attitude when it comes to grinding on strangers. I know I could rake in big money, but my boyfriend is worried for my safety and thinks it's a bad idea. Truth is I'm fine with it, I just love money and am completely fine with taking advantage of guys' lust to make lots of it. What should I do, /adv/? I wouldn't be a stripper unless he was cool with it, so how do I convince him it's alright?
Agree to allow him to sleep with one of your friends -- or any woman, really -- while you're out grinding on a pole. With enough effort I'm sure you can convince him to let you strip.
Give him 90% of what you take in.
>>16436814
The problem with that is he has no interest in doing that (and honestly I don't know that I'd be cool with it either). I think he is worried that I'm bored with him or something, even though I'm a freak with him in bed and make my affections for him very clear. I also don't plan on giving any bj's or tuggies to strangers, and although that limits my options, it is the "standard" in most clubs that you will be kicked out if you resort to prostitution.
> People are visual
You think you don't need to dress up and put on makeup cause you're a guy? Think fucking again.
If you want to be attractive you have to spend just as much time getting ready as the women you want, which means putting together a stylish outfit, getting rid of that monobrow, shaving and doing your hair (if you have any) or shaving it all off.
Biggest mistakes guys make is thinking they don't have to do anything special in the fashion department cause they're guys.
Even the fattest, ugliest men that for some reason are getting pussy, are getting it because they have good fashion sense and put on clothes that fit them well.
So go out there and buy some nice fucking clothes.
>>16436763
>buying things will make miserable and lonely people happy
OP you're an idiot. Yes it is immensely important to take care of yourself and your appearance, but you're a tool. I dress like a god damn fashionista every day of my life and I am browsing 4chan and drinking on a Friday night.
asdasd
>>16436763
>> People are visual
I wonder how blind people get dates.
Why shouldn't I kill myself /adv/?
I have no friends, no life, hate my job, hate myself, am getting fat, have had depression and other issues for my entire life, will never find a woman who loves me, and will never find a place that I belong and can call home
I have a million reasons to kill myself, and I can't come up with anything that indicates that I shouldn't
And if I should kill myself, what's the best method?
>>16436670
do whatever but stop being such a little bitch
if you want to live, live
if not, die
stop trying to find meaning in life or justification in ending it dummy
>>16436693
Well what do you do?
>>16436670
these people can offer better answers than /adv/
Are you in crisis? Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at +1 (800) 273-8255.
The problem isn't that I'm mad, even though I
really am. It's just how should I tell my parents? It is my first time being fired, and I just don't know how to tell them. They were pretty proud of me, and they knew I was having troubles. So how do I tell them?
>>16436652
Just do it. They should console you, you're the one affected by it.
could always lie
>>16436652
Be totally straight with them, they'll understand, it would have happened to them too and it's just a fact of life. Should you do this though, make it obvious that you are working towards finding another job which and that you'll learn from your mistakes.
What did you do to get fired? This is all anon so there is no reason to lie and people aren't very judgemental on adv unless you are a full on cunt.
Good luck mate!
Hey guys rate my girlfriend that I got, as a result from /adv/'s advice
>>16436607
reasonablyattractive/10
now gtfo and fuck her right in the pussy
Asked guy out, was pretty sure he liked me, we play csgo a lot, have similar music taste, and he's really awesome, and he said yes, but later that night he messaged me on FB saying he gave me the wrong impression, and that he doesn't do relationships. I'm still really into him, and it's been about a month since this has happened. We are still good friends. What.can I do?
>>16436579
give him heads
Heads?
Give him many heads.
i dont know what to major in for college and im super sad
i hear FWD cars suck ass but there are no RWD in the price range, i just want to beat takumi
my life is wreck
guys
>>16436541
i just made some steak for dinner and it was great
>>16436909
What kind of steak? How did you marinate it or season it? How did you cook it? And I swear to God it better not have been well done.
So lastnight me and my gf had drinks with my neighbour last night who are around 50 years old. My neighbour's wife took my girlfriend into the next room and it sounded like she was talking about me. I told my neighbour that if shes speaking shit about me its going to get back to me.
My neighbours response to that was "well what can you offer her? your going to be in college for the next 3-4 years and your 25", I asked what he was trying to imply and why it was his position to make that comment he just trailed off....
I find out later on that the neighbours wife said that im not the guy for her, i dont see things half way as she does bla bla as if she knew about our relationship when realistically she knows nothing and have met twice.
By my neighbours response (ie: what can you offer her?) it seems that this whole scenario was orchestrated/premeditated
Are my neighbours trying to cause trouble between me and my partner? he's tried to manipulate me to leave her and join the army almost in a "you listen to me, join the army i know whats best" manner ,
He's been trying this for over a year now, what does it sound like hes trying to do??
Cut people like that out of your life.
>>16436513
Yeah if your neighbors think you're a loser you shouldn't hang out with them. You should talk to your girlfriend and find out what she thinks about you and your relationship. If she wants out, thats fine. If she doesn't want out, you should explain to her that they are trying to sabotage your relationship, and that its best for both of you to not hang out with negative people.
Bet they're trying to pave the road for their grandson who has a crush on her. Usually people don't give this much of a fuck.
I want to die.
>Parents can not afford for me to go to college
>I work for a year and only can make enough to go to bad college learn on my own and dedicate myself.
>Job market is shit can not get a job whenever people see the college I went to they look not sure about me.
>Parents pay for both of my brothers college somehow they can afford it now
>Brothers go to a really good university
>Brothers already getting job offers and they are not even done their schooling
>Boyfriend wants me to move out with him in the next year because he is in the military
>End up working a shitty retail job because tired of being unemployed and need to save up to move out on my own
>Work my butt off for min wage
>People at work always asking me why I am working there when I could be doing more with my life
>Can not go to a better college because boyfriend in military and getting transferred in the next year.
>Had dreams of being a concept artist when I was a kid now the only thing I look forward to is modding skyrim.
>All goals feel dissatisfying because it is not what I want to do with my life.
>Retail company I work at is really good but I am in fucken retail
>Parents and boyfriend say I should stay with that company and work my way up, do not want to.
I want to die.
>>16436455
How about pursuing what you want to do? Employers care shit tons more about portfolios/projects/and experience then some degree.
Teach yourself art software and graphic design or whatever they fuck you said you wanted to do. Get really good at it and then start doing freelance work.
>>16436455
Learn 2 code m8
>>16436669
Yes but working as an artist starting out is not going to pay the bills. I will be stuck in retail if I do that and that is why I have not went for concept art. I am thinking something like software engineer. I have a lot of health problems and would preffer to work from home.
