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>>15516073
Girls:
How much does a physical disability make you shy away from a guy. If he is confident and able to handle himself does that make it less of a problem. Specifically missing and arm.
>>15516099
That is one circumstance where I think it would definitely have to go from friends to relationship if we had chemistry and attraction.
>>15516099
A fair bit. I have no idea how to act around someone missing body parts since I have little to no experience with it so I'd probably behave autisticly.
An arm wouldn't bother me as much missing legs, though.
So I lost my first kiss on sunday to a girl I don't know that long. There was no love involved. I feel really really bad now. What do I do?
It's not such a big deal jcismemust look forward to the nice girls you'll meet in the future! You'll have many better kisses so who cares what your first was like :D?
There is nothing significant about a first kiss.
There is nothing you're "losing"
>>15506127
>>15506089
Well I care more about a kiss than about having sex tbh, so I consider it a big loss.
Alright, just like the title says, my boyfriend would rather play WOW than have sex.
We live together and are expecting our first baby and everything is great between us. I just fucking hate bed time. I enjoy cuddling with him and falling asleep with him but he sits at his computer and plays wow until 1, sometimes 2 in the morning. I get that everyone has hobbies but his hobbie is sitting at the computer from when he gets home to when he goes to bed playing wow. I tried to initiate the sex tonight but he would rather play wow and drink. It's getting to the point where I don't feel like he's attracted to me. I told him the other day that I was going to order a vibrator and he got his feelings hurt and I didn't end up ordering it.
I've brought it up and he just throws a hissy fit and then continues to do it. How do I put my foot down?
Pic related, how I feel.
>>15501288
tell him to meet you at the Goldshire Inn
>>15501288
He takes you for granted. You should consider breaking up or cheating, if you're fine with cheating.
Seriously, you shouldn't keep staying in a relationship where you are so much neglected. It's not your responsibility to "put your foot down" on this issue. If he is in a relationship with you it should go without saying that he should be attracted to you and desire sexual activities.
>>15501288
order a vibrator and satisfy your needs. you can do that or log into his account sell everything and delete everything on his toons, then delete his toons, then change password on acct. I mean, he will get everything back eventually but it will be a pain on the ass and you can watch him go crazy a little and enjoy the show (:
I want to make a life changing decision but I don't have the willpower to do it. The deadline to make this change is in two weeks and I afraid I won't get my shit together and end up living an unhappy life. Where can I find someone that will help me?
>>15499103
Do it, faggot.
>>15499116
The problem is it's not just a pull the trigger choice. I want to study in a different country but the whole process of moving, applying, being alone, leaving my GF and not being certain of my fate is confusing and scary.
>>15499121
Dump your gf. That's a start.
>>15463994
I am 39 and agree with most of what he says. He states some things as absolutes that I don't think are, but he may also just be trying to exaggerate a bit for effect.
>>15463994
Oh thank you all knowing Op for bestowing upon us these pearls of wisdom which are your opinion only and full of shit.
That thing about "honor" is bullshit.
There's this guy that i dated. Things didn't end well. I taught him everything about women, what to tell them to make them fall for him. Some months later he has a new girlfriend. He is also really ugly and i never thought he would get someone but he did. I feel used and that he only didn't get a girlfriend even sooner because he couldn't. I have full frontal nudes of him and he has none of me. I want to leak his nudes to her, to his family, to everyone that knows him. I could also leak it somewhere and eventually he would bump on them. I'm asking if there are law penalties for doing this. We aren't american. Please no hate, i feel used by that asshole. So much for his love that he imediatelly finds someone else.
Jealous of happiness eh?
>>15454777
Do it. Make him pay for what he did. Send it to his girlfriend too.
Since you're the only one who has these pictures and provided he trusted them to you in private, yes you will be in fucking trouble if you send them
I matched on tinder with this girl I've met and talked to a few times before, and she's pretty cute and funny. I'm not really sure what do do now though.
Like I have her number in my phone and she came to one of my fraternity's parties last week and we talked for a little while. Should I just wait to see if she'll message me or should I send some flirty message?
>>15419744
bump
Ask her to the next one.
>>15419744
since you're in a fraternity just drug and rape her like they did to you when you joined
Help me write a Valentine's Day card for my waifu
Dear nigress,
You so fine, you so fine you blow my mind.
Your bum chin and nigger white teeth
Make me want to jizz buckets in my sheath
So happy v day bb gurl
You know you are my world
>>15386321
10/10
>>15386309
Roses are red,
violets are blue,
everything you said,
I want to leave you.
violets are blue,
roses are red,
feminist man hater,
you're fucked in the head,
Roses are red,
violets are blue,
I want to have sex,
Just not with you,
Flowers are wonderful,
and bodies are beautiful,
but when it comes to you,
personalities are awful
Didn't see one
I want to love and be loved.
>>15379753
Me too.
I'm know as a whore but I'm an 18 year old virgin guy, And no one believes me.
What do people talk about?
I'm a 20 year old kissless virgin. I've been talking with a girl on snapchat and skype for a couple of days. I've only gotten this far because she thinks I'm cute and by showing her my dick. She is getting pissed off because I'm not talking to her constantly but its just because I have no idea what to say. Normally I dont talk to anyone ever so I am complexly clueless.
>>15373866
How did you meet her?
>>15373884
omegle.
>>15373866
Is talking to her something that you WANT to do? Aside from "oh hey there's some attractive girl who wants to talk to me".
Is there any chance of actually meeting her and having a real relationship with her, or is this just some bored girl looking for some online guy to entertain her until she can find something better to do?
I talk about whatever the fuck I want to talk about. I talk about stuff that I think is interesting, or I ask other people what they're up to and about what they think about things.
Are hijabi girls pretty much out of bounds? There's a petite girl that wears a hijab in my class and we take the same bus home. I want to talk to her but there's pretty much a 99% chance she'll reject me due to religious reasons, right?
What ethnicity dude?
Islam is not a race.
>>15359844
What does this have to do about race? My race?
>>15359851
Her ethnicity. I'm middle eastern, don't be intimidated by her headdress.
Islam is different in each country. Where she from?
How do you stay focused for studying?
Was planning to finish reading the 150 pages needed for my test tomorrow yesterday night, somehow it's nearly 1700 today and I'm still only at page 90.
>>15351266
Try to do a pause of five minutes every 20-30 minutes or so.
>>15351266
lol 150 pages in a day?
It takes me at least 3 minutes to read a page. That's 450 minutes or 7.5 hours. It would never happen.
Reading everything never helps anyway.
>>15351270
>3 minutes to read a page
What the fuck? How did you get into college
Hey /adv/
Look like I'm stuck in work for another few hours without much to do.
So let's use the time to have a nice GoodGuyGreg's Advice Thread.
>Review
I'm a 24 year old regular guy from the Czech republic.
I've had the luck of having such life experience that taught me how to behave in many social situations.
I grew up in a hotel, which forced me to make new friends very quickly.
The high school I attended, with a 1:9: guys to girls ratio, taught me how to deal with girls.
The journalism course I attended in university taught me how to talk with anyone about pretty much anything.
I'm here to attempt to give socializing, dating, relationship, pick-up and nonverbal communication advice.
>Ask me anything
Hey Greg.
Do you think it's bad to show weakness to a girl? Not all the time, of course.
>>15343656
Depends on what weakness.
>>15343660
I suppose things like making mistakes, clumsiness or admitting you didn't mean to do something.
Alright ladies that have given birth, time for some hard questions:
What happens to your vagina after birth? I know it's 6 weeks until you can have sex again, and I know things will never be "the same" as internet articles say. But will it be forever loose? Ugly and saggy? Pls help I'm freaking out.
>>15324261
>nothing will never be the same
>loose
>ugly
>saggy
All of that is complete horseshit and you need to stop looking at retarded websites.
>>15324275
Literally every article that is forthright says that vaginas are permanently changed. There will be tearing which will result in scar tissue. The tightness will never come back even with a lot of kegels.
I have given birth twice vaginally. Immediately after birth and for longer than six weeks you are kind of blown out the frame. But you do kegels religiously and as far as muscle rigidity and performance you return to normal or even better than normal due to knew knowledge of your pelvic floor. I believe I can confidently say that because I purchased a medical set of pelvic weights prior to the event to be used after because I am the sort of weirdo who wants to objectively know if it is back to normal. But in action I can also crank the cum right out of the husband so that is good too. He maybe is just being nice but says all is great. Glad I had the measurements as well.
Visually is the only discernable difference. Obviously I am also the sick fuck who spent a lot if time looking at it in a mirror so I am very familiar with the subtleties. It looks very much the same, not ugly now. But the area where the hymen was and entrance of th vaginal area looks folded differently. Not inherently worse or better but different. My husband does not see a difference but again could be being nice. I see a difference but nothing serious.
But seriously 3mos post birth that shit is fucked. Give it time to come around. My first child was born face up which often cannot be birthed vaginally and the doctor didn't notice so I ripped mightily. Looked so fucking horrifying but turned out okay. And I pissed when I sneezed for weeks but kegels fixed it.
So if vaginal woes are worrying you, don't fret. Everything goes back to if not the exact same normal another perfectly great normal with kegels. It really is the last consideration you should have when it comes to parenthood.
My asshole though has never been the same! Poor asshole.
This thread is a follow-up thread from this thread here:
http://4archive.org/adv/thread/15313265#p15313531
A quick tl;dr if your too lazy to skim through the archived thread
>i break up with girl
>i regret decision
>we still talk
>give her advice on joining sorority
>vacation starts, she requests time
>give her time
>vacation ends
>i text her
>"fuck off loser" she says
>wtf
>text her again cause im pathetic
The next few images are the aftermath
My question for /adv/, I fucked up. How do I move on? I haven't eaten in days. Living off of sink water. It's really hard to sleep, let alone breathe. I usually take my mind off of things by gaming but, it's not working. I have to see this person every week for the next 3 years of my college life.
I'm already aware the situation is my fault, but why is attempting to fix the situation such a bad idea? The more I ignore it, the more the pain grows. If I couldn't fix the situation, at least allow me to receive closure. Too bad I'm still randomly crying from time to time.
