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What's with women and politics? If me and a guy argue, we're generally over it within the hour. But for some reason all the women I know carry a grudge over that stuff for a week easily.
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>>16315472 Just started dating? >cook for her I'm worrying late but will be seeing her after work? >her cooking for me Nothing to do on the weekend/we live together? >cook together
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>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? Some do, some don't.
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For boys and girls >I'm a 24 year old male >dating girl for past 1.5 years and she asks about making it official >I do it, even thought I'm not sure >I was never sure in my past relationship either >or about any girl
Anyways I ended up breaking up with her because I don't feel head over heals in love with her. I'm not obsessed and I've been looking for that I guess. But now I... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>16330695 Love is a chemical reaction in your brain, along with all other emotions. You will know when you truly love someone, that's something you can't question because its incentive.
I'm not going to devalue your feelings and say you weren't in love with her, but I believe what you're feeling is the similar feeling gamblers get when they decide to drop after a loosing streak. They wonder what would of happened if they continued, they believe it might of been their break through, when in reality... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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>>16336241 Not at all. Me falling for someone entirely depends on the girl. Them treating me like a human is a requirement for me to even spend time with them on the first place.
Due to the success of the last thread (and it, unfortunately, getting archived before I had a chance to respond to the most recent posts), we're starting with a fresh one. I'll be responding to the most recent posts in that thread first.
Helping people is my therapy. Recently went through a break-up, been becoming heavily invested in creative work the last two weeks and finding new things to love in life, been taking lot's of steps to improve my quality of life.
I'm currently a self sustaining person who's still figuring certain things... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Well for starters, if you haven't spoken to someone for 20 whole days and you're pseudo dating/see each other, it's safe to say it's pretty much over, and given how that conversation played it, I'd almost say let it be and continue on with your life.
The only way to really become more social and outgoing is forcing yourself into situations where... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Again I'm not really sure about this out of context. Sounds like it's just her making conversation with ease by restating what you said. Just don't overthink it and try what I've said :)
Common question from the previous thread. I'll refer you to >>15675352 so I don't end up typing the same thing and sounding like a broken record. If you want some more clarification I'll happily provide :)
Helping people is my therapy. Recently went through a break-up, been becoming heavily invested in creative work the last two weeks and finding new things to love in life, been taking lot's of steps to improve my quality of life.
I'm currently a self sustaining person who's still figuring certain things out in his own life, and would identify myself as an outgoing introvert. I'm very much a solitary person that does enjoy good company whom I can have meaningful or stimulating conversations with. I've had 3 serious relationships, dealt with all... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm in my senior year of high school (obv 18 pls no ban) and i've never had an intimate relationship with anyone (not even my parents, who have a fundamental cultural difference than me [born and raised in diff country, uneducated]). I recognized I didn't connect with people in my sophomore year and turned to philosophy, film, music to fill the gap of my humanity. But I feel helpless to the people around me, my friends (closeish), whom I turn to vent my frustrated thoughts on reality (mathematical ideas, political theories, etc). They all brush it off as me trying... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>15657801 Sorry I guess I need a question in there. As an introvert, when you have your periods of retreating from society and friends, how do you reintroduce yourself? Everyones moved on without you, and your pride prevents you from falling into the same cycle that caused you to withdraw in the first place. How can one truly connect intimately with another without hopping through all the societal progressions? Or if they need to (which I guess they do), how do they learn if they've never known how?
So I've offered some advice here and there on this board, and a few friends suggested I do this as an exercise. I've been enjoying helping people out with their issues and the good responses I've received for them. So let me give you a little background
I'm a 24 year old who's had a few privileges in his life, having been able to travel the world and see various countries, mix and communicate with many different people, become familiar with business, entertainment and other industries since I was younger and having parents that pretty much would... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I actually posted about this in /r9k/ but figured I might get some actual advice other than 'you ungrateful faggot'... because I already know and realize I'm a fucking asshole and ungrateful. So. Here we go.
>tfw you have a smoking hot girlfriend and all you want is a cute chubby to love and call your own
Seriously. I don't even find her physically attractive. She has an incredible personality and is very smart, so I stick around (plus it gives me an ego boost that all my friends are jealous of me). I'd dump... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My husband and I have been together for 4 years, but lately our sex life has been miserable. He likes everything I hate and he thinks everything I like is boring. His interests: Me playing with myself on webcam. Him playing with me on webcam. Making me watch someone else jerk off to me on webcam. Shoving inanimate objects in my ass. Fisting.
Things I like: Sex (basic/romantic/adventurous) Using toys. Fapping together. Him using toys and me watching.
He used to like dirty talking, but that always involved him asking the following... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Anonymous I Think This Lady's Making Eyes At Me, But I'm Kind of Messed Up Right Now2015-04-07 16:41:29 Post No.15590590 [Report]
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So, there's this attractive woman in one of my university lectures who I've met eyes with a few times. The guy who sits next to her puts up his hand in class a lot, so when I turn to look at him, I kind of look at her more, and then she'll look back...
At first, I made nothing of it, because I'm a creep anyway, so being caught staring at girls is nothing new. I didn't think that she might reciprocate the attraction.
But, the other day, I was putting my name on the sign up sheet for something, on which we could select from multiple time... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
1. Sounds like you really think she made the signals, but your low self-esteem wont let you admit it to yourself. Be honest with yourself. You think it was intentional, and you hope it was. You are afraid of being wrong, and that if you are, it will confirm that you are crazy (or at least don't understand people as much as you hope). Someone who wasn't there can't really judge whether she was sending signals or not, but it sounds like you think she did.
2. >I'm not even really interested in pursuing girls If you really mean that, you can use... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>15590590 >same way I've missed so many other chances with beautiful women due to my idiocy.
Just for fun, I'm going to recount some such examples of this from my past because why not regale the internet with tales of my betaness
>Be me >Have QT.314 in one of my lectures >One day, turn around and catch her staring at the back of my head >Instead of using... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>15590687 >If you really mean that, you can use it. Try to talk with her WITHOUT the pressure of flirting. If you are as far down as you make it seem, you need the practice.
That actually makes sense. I can use my lack of current interest to my advantage so that I come off as aloof rather than all nervous like I usually do.
> Sounds like you really think she made the signals, but your low self-esteem wont let you admit it to yourself.
That could... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'll drop my situation under the guise of anonymity for comments, and welcome others to do likewise here.
As some background, I'm in a semi-LDR, and get to see her about one weekend a month during the schoolyear.
Last night, I was on the phone with my GF, and we were both working on things while we talked. By the time I'd finished working, she seemed rather peeved that I wasn't as able to keep track of everything she said, as I'd been focussed on crunching numbers. I picked up on this, finished working, and tried turning my full attention... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
She wants the attention because she's brat. If she really didn't want you to read she wouldn't have put it on her tumblr.
She's just inciting argument for the sake of arguing. She's also manipulative and actively wants you to feel guilty/bad so she can have some sense of, I want to say authority but I can't think of the word I want.
My advice: If you haven't known this girl for very long, you should consider calling it quits. She will only get more toxic.
I'm so jaded. I hate every single person in this world. I can't stand anyone's happiness. When i see someone happy i feel depressed, when i see someone destroyed i feel satisfied. I have no good feelings for anyone. I just want to see everyone in ruins. Even my family disgusts me ( well, most of them are shit and don't care about me). I hate certain relatives because they help other people out, it makes me sick. I try to ruin people's lives as much as i can. I insult anonymously people i know. In my uni, the teachers would send the stuff to study to... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
How have you improved yourself this week/month/year? Lifting isn't life, a well-balanced human being is productive, has hobbies, pushes him/herself to succeed, is charismatic, and strives to live the best life they can. Share your successes, failures, methods, and everything in between.
The sticky is divided like so: >Recommended Readings. >Some tips to get your life back on track. >Study and Career. >To-do list habit.rpg (If you’re TOTALLY... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Material reading can be tricky. There will be trash here and there as we're not /lit/.
But we have to trust others. Image related has a detailed list that an Annon provided on a thread a while back. If you got time to kill, click on the image, and read the descriptions
As time goes, the /SIG/ has had a couple of books recommended. I’ve done my best to try to get talks of the authors of such books so you can get a ‘piece’ before you commit.
Google a bit about the book, if you think you can get something out of it, watch the talk. In my... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
You should at least have 3 hobbies/activities. -One that will pay the bills, gets food on your table -One that will keep you in shape. (lower you faggot) -One that you're passionate about and might be able to develop into a career. --------
If you're into lifting, taking the tips to better yourself should be simple; as you already have built some self-discipline.
Make peace with yourself and the way things are right now. Stop thinking the world owes you, how destiny ‘fucked you over’, how those guys have it easier. Accept things as they are, realize that life is cruel and your circumstances are the ones you were given. You can’t do shit about the starting point, but you can move forward.
Don’t focus in what was given to you, focus in what you’ll achieve.
Eliminate the things you dislike about yourself, about your life. Is as simple as, do you enjoy your job? No? Take steps to change the feeling. How are you gonna make that? You either make your job more enjoyable, or you change jobs. Simple. You want a girl? how do you plan to achieve that? Are you too socially inept? Work on that. Are you piss poor and can’t afford a decent living? Work on that too.
No matter who you are, where you are in your life, or how fucked up you think you are. You can improve your life. Take control. Move forward. Dreams keeps us alive, fighting for them makes us feel alive. About 5-7 years ago, I was a fucking train-wreck. Right now, I'm doing fairly well.
Get some discipline, set some goals and a way to achieve them. Cultivate yourself, learn stuff, get your shit together.
And realize, understand. None is coming to save you. You got to make your way through. You NEED to take CONTROL.
If you're still in School. For fuck sake pay attention.
MORE than half of actually doing good in school is attending, the other half is paying attention in class. So then do it. Or stop it altogether. If you’re in college and you’re not feeling it, take a semester to think things through. If you’re in high school, don’t think YOU NEED to enter college to be successful. There are other ways… Google just started hiring people who never went to college. WATCH this talk: http://youtu.be/iG9CE55wbtY
Some learning resources, focusing... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>have girlfriend >has broken trust to her but is picking back the pieces for her >one day talking to a friend asking about my sex life with her >answered truthfully, tells girlfriend about the story >becomes whiny and cries and tells me that she's just a "trophy" girl >i told her that she is not but still believes that she is one
i dunno what to do /adv/, i'm... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Thread needs more info. It's a big fucking difference whether you said how often you have sex on average, or whether you ever tried handcuffing or something, or that you described the way she acts when she cums or something about her intimate stuff she is horribly embarrassed about.
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