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/offyourchest/
Didn't see one in the catalogue.
basically I'm in love with you.
also, my pal is a fucking possesive fuckwit.
so everyone ended up crazier than I am, lmao.
I feel I need to prove my worth to my friends. Every time I see them. It just unsettles me if they don't show their approval of me, like they wouldn't care if I was there or not.
Seriously, I'm dealing with stage fright just because I'll see them soon.
Met a girl and now I feel melancholic all the time. It's a weird period where I don't know her that well and although we are talking, I'm anticipating finding out that she doesn't like me as much as I like her. Preparing for disappointment I already listened to Take Care last night.
How come guys hate single moms?
I don't hate them. I just don't date them, because I don't want to account for an extra person (or persons) in my love life. That's impossible if my date is a parent.
It's not even a bias against children, really. If I met a girl who was, say, the primary caretaker of a disabled parent, I wouldn't want to date her either. Ultimately the principle is that I don't care to make room for that many people in my life right now.
>>16418471
You single moms prioritize the kid first and foremost as you should. But it also means any guy who dates you is also going to have to deal with that kid, who may or may not be a little shit.
Unless they're widows, single mothers are stupid, selfish, irresponsible, leeches.
to those who may or may not read it.
A+C+N +$ -$ = 0 x0
>>16417766
J and +J
Don't be a salty scammer and don't be toxic to your friends and relatives that don't want a part of your life anymore. Be nice.
Thanks,
Your mom that gave birth to you
R, you honestly are great and I wish you saw yourself the way I see you. I miss you, text/message me soon.
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Asked in the last thread, and it wasn't answered before it started autosaging, so asking again.
Girls, would you find a double date with mutual friends as a first date to be an issue/off-putting/etc.?
>>16414937
I'm not a fan of double dates
>>16414937
why the fuck would you bring someone else along when you are supposed to get to know one person?
seems pointless
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and when we got together he told me he worked at a packing warehouse making a little above minimum wage. He lives in a tiny one bedroom apartment and lives like someone that's on that kind of salary so I never questioned it. I never really cared though because he was a really sweet guy and I liked being with him. My friends always criticized me because he dresses like a poor person and he never took me out anywhere fancy and seemed like he was going nowhere in life. Even my mom told me to find another guy but even though...
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>>16413284
>Am I overreacting, should I forgive him?
No, and no. I would be so fucking furious this fucking cunt wasted 3 years of my life.
I would rather be with a LITERAL homeless guy who never lies to me than someone like this. Jesus christ what a fucking creep.
He lied to you because he wanted to see if you weren't superficial and would accept him no matter what kind of person he is. Tell him that you feel hurt and your trust in him is hurt and why. He should understand, if he doesn't that another story. The whole I want to marry you thing strikes me as odd but he may have realized how much he hurt.
the inheritance part would be forgivable, but lying about what his job is is too much for me. christ, I mean, it's not even close. why'd he say warehouse packer and not electrician apprentice or something?
My bf told me he would fuck a 14 y/o if it was legal and her body was developed. He's 25.
I think young teens still have a child's capacity for decision making until at least 16 so this is really bothering me. When I started pressing him about it, he immediately changed into vague replies, saying he "doesn't know" if he actually would. Said the youngest he's ever fucked around with was 16 at age 24.
I can't help but see even that as predatory and it's making me feel sick. He's furious at me for hinting that he might be...
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There are pedo women too, this isn't a case of women functioning differently to men. It's not unusual for a man to be attracted to a 14 year old, but most of us just don't act on it.
Accusing someone of being a pedo is obviously not going to go down well with them as it can have huge repercussions if it gets around.
post-puberty is not pedo; you're a dumb cunt
>>16412126
It's fine that he'd be attracted to 14 year olds. What bothers me is the fact that he wouldn't feel wrong fucking a girl who still has a childish mind.
What about 16, is it okay if a 24 y/o actively knew and had sex with them?
He did say his age limit for real relationships is 18 but that does little to comfort me. I would not spread around that he was a pedo, I realize this can be a grey area but it's not okay to me.
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So 99.9% of women I know or have even met seem to hate metal. Whenever I ask them why, they usually just say it's too "angry".
Is this really such an issue? I always suspected there was more to it but didnt push the topic.
>>16411402
A guy's music taste isn't really a big deal to me, as long as he doesn't play it around me
>>16411417
That wasnt quite what I was getting at. I have some more mainstream music that I play when friends and family are around.
didn't see one in the catalog.
I'm just a clown, nothing else.
I finally got in contact with the ECT coordinator at a local hospital. 14 medications, CBT and DBT didn't work, so now it's time for something a little more invasive (and awesome).
I'm a little excited and a little scared. I just hope it works.
>psychiatrist says 50% long-term remission rate for people with treatment-resistant depression
>with those chances it could literally have a chance of amputating my arm and I would not give a fuck
None of my friends recognize mental illness as a real thing and i resent them all for it.
How much will having a flat chest kill my chances of getting a boyfriend?
About 75%. Plenty of chance still, you just have to put in a little more effort.
>>16408687
Depends on your face. If you're fine on the face and you're not a dude disguised as a lady, I guess you're fine.
B Cups tend to be less flat. If you're an A cup, I'm so sorry.
What are your other measurements?
I am 25 and male. Never had sex.. My issue is that I feel as if people don't take me seriously. People seem to be able to tell I am a virgin(some fucking how) without me saying anything to them about it.
Like imagine if I were in any position of leadership. Whoever I am leading wouldn't take me serious. How could anyone take a male who hasn't had sex with a woman before serious?
What do women think of this? Can you take a virgin male serious about anything?
What sucks mostly is that I am super depressed about this. I am depressed about how...
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No. I'm 30 and virgin, it's impossible to know or feel how an adult should feel. It's like being mentally retarded. The only option is suicide.
I have never had sex either and I feel like I am not even a real adult. Like a real adult could fuck his girlfriend in her asshole and not give a fuck. Am I even a adult?
My cousin killed himself on his 24'th birthday because he was a virgin lonely aspie... just like his twin borther, and me haha, but we're still alive for some reason.
Everyone takes it differently.
