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I have a group of friends, who hang out regularly, watch movies, chat, and just have little get togethers. Well one of our friends brought someone new into the group, and at first she seemed alright, extremely quiet, just huddled up and drew on a tablet hooked to a laptop and then started playing video games. The thing is, later in the night I started to notice things about her, especially when she chimed in to discussions we had. She seemed very, behind the times, not just with her gaming choices but her views as well, and the women of our group tried to talk with her, and discuss our views on the matter, but she didn't seem to care, nor see any issue with the topics we were bringing up. The men in our group, who usually are very progressive, almost seemed to regress, suddenly trying to defend her, as if her lack of caring at a near sociopathic level was acceptable. Could she tear our friend group apart? I have texted to my friends that maybe we should keep her out of the group, its been three get togethers with her and the story is the same... is it rational to think maybe she isn't a good fit for us?
You seem jelly as fuck, OP. Quit being a whiny bitch.
>>16434715
what? this has nothing to do with jealousy
It is rational to think that OP. Just because a friend brought her into the group doesnt mean she is also compatible. Since you like the group you have( without the new girl) i would say organise a meeting without her . define what everyone wants and likes and tell them your thoughts about this girl. Do they share the same opinion? Do they think you are just jealous or they too are uneasy about it? And go from there
So basically i have to give a 10-15 minute presentation on a power point project and i feel like i'm gonna have a heart attack. What can i do to calm down? I present in a few weeks.
>>16434471
that's a lengthy presentation are you doing it alone?
also pro tip: no one gives a shit about you or your presentation, they're worried about their own
offer to go first srs
>>16434476
this desu senpai
>>16434476
>that's a lengthy presentation are you doing it alone?
yea by myself. i get nervous to the point of twitching a bit and it sucks. I just want to run away but i can't. I have to sit there and talk...for 10 minutes.....while everyone stares at me....
Should I worry if a lymph node is still inflamed three months after an infection?
define inflamed. single lymph node? how big? what kind of infection? does it hurt? is it mobile?
well you aren't providing me with any more history, and i'm going to bed. buddy it could be cancer or it could just be a persistent lymph node. three months is a little worrying. go see a doc. good luck.
>>16434280
It's just one, small, painful sometimes, throat infection (under jaw), mobile.
If you've ever had a broken heart or some other similar experience, have you been able to move on yet? If so, what happened that made you realise you were ok again? If not, do you think you'll ever be able to get over it? In both cases, what is your relationship now with the person who broke your heart?
I'm just interested in hearing a few stories here.
>>16432564
I haven't gotten over mine. It's been about a month and I haven't gotten over it. Probably will just end my life at some point honestly. I speak to her regularly.
>>16432567
>I speak to her regularly
Well, there's your problem.
You ignore that person and get over it gradually. Sometimes the pain springs up when you bump into them at a store or regular meeting place but it gets better gradually. It took me three years to finally get over her.
Do girls always play with hair or fix their hair when they find you attractive?
Oh fuck off with the shitty bait already, aren't you bored enough of the same replies? Get a fucking life, lad.
Ever since /adv/ appeared in the /r9k/ sticky, the trash from there has been shitposting here.
>>16431476
No, it means nothing.
What do you think is the most important way to make the world a better place?
If you could dedicate your life to changing one thing, what would it be?
eliminate all religion.
>What do you think is the most important way to make the world a better place?
Connecting every single human on the planet to the internet.
>If you could dedicate your life to changing one thing, what would it be?
Making a fully autonomous AI being.
>>16429034
>If you could dedicate your life to changing one thing
>If
>Implying I haven't.
To answer your question: I believe that global poverty is the problem which is both most severe and most tractable. If you pick the right charity, you can save a life or significantly improve hundreds for <$4000.
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