>>16446061
So today I finally told her that I can never get over her if she is still in my life, so I recommended we take a one week break from one another, no contact, so that we can evaluate how life would be without one another, and so that hopefully she will see the value I have in her life. I don't know what to do. I think of her twenty four hours a day and shake from fear that she won't love me again. Please help me in any way. I'm so stressed about this. I can answer any questions if I wasn't clear...
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>>16446061
Don't communicate with that bish, there's your advice. She appears to be toxic, lose those feelings for her. GO NOW!

>>16446061
If your mental health is in any way shape or form dear to you, you'll have to take some time without her in your life.
I know this is not what you like to hear but you knew you'd get this answer, right?
Girls do this a lot, keeping ex's around "as friends", for guys this usually doesn't work (at least not right away).

He looks so sad
Like he's in deep thought about the girl that got away

>>16446054
Or about the Hamburger he's going to eat back at the hotel.

How do I start re-using my old, untouched-for-six-years Facebook without looking like a complete autist?

Similarly, if I were to make an Instagram and Snapchat account, what should I put there to make it look good and not just an empty space in the world? Would people just enjoy some nature pictures from wherever I was walking around in?

>>16446015
I've been in the exact same situation. Trying to keep the friendship normal ended up ruining it. It was too late by the time I learned she had the exact same feelings for me and kept them equally secret.

Shit hurts like a motherfucker if you decide to hide this kind of stuff.

Is there a reason that you two couldn't be together?

>>16446030
well for starters he's 9/10 and i'm 2/10

>>16445968
Do you have the GPA and LSAT to get into a top 10 school?
Otherwise, it's probably not worth it

Unless you want to practice in Canada or something

>>16446101
Haven't taken the LSAT, but definitely not GPA to get into top ten.

Why wouldnt it be worth it?

>>16446109
because you're going to rack up ridiculous debt with few employment prospects?

>Shit was sooo cash!!

You're gonna pay with cash too bro.
Child support.

>>16445875
There is a risk. For some anecdotal evidence, I creampied my ex at least once a week for two and a half years and there was never a problem.

Congratulations btw

Are you me? I came inside my gf for the first time (in the 5 years we've been dating) Saturday night. It wasn't as good as I thought it would be though. My gf has an iud but I'm also worried and found myself researching abortion costs. Anyways I have no idea how to answer your question but thought I'd bump your thread with my story.

Dude it was an art event. Didn't you realize you ended up being part of performance art?

Women are cruel. Did you text her too late and now you're a dick who plays games or too early and you're desperate. Did you compliment her and it was seen as trying too hard or did you not and she sees you as disinterested.

Text her again in two days. Do not be pushy. Ever.

Not really but as close as i got was:

>Strangled myself a bit with a cat-5 cable i had made a snare out of.

>Took lots of sleeping pills..and other pills. Generally raided my medicine box.

Woke up the next day and my phone was next to me. The glass was broken and i had texted a bunch of people "asdf", and apparently thrown it into a wall afterwards.

>>16445903
why did you stop though?

>>16445934
Life sorta got better.
I also got prescribed pills against anxiety instead of anti-depressives.

>>16445741
lmao the shit that some people think about, I swear.

Its not out and out gay, guys do some weird stuff when they're young. I remember watching porn with mates. I never jerked off with them, but I used to sneak off during sleepovers to jack off in the bathroom.

If you are confident in your current sexuality why does it matter? Why do you want to bring it up if you have a girlfriend and haven't talked to the guy in a long time? Was he older than you? If not then why do you think he might have taken advantage of you?

>>16445761
No he is the same age as I . I thought he would take advantage because I was a really dumb teen. He would tell some lies about touching some girls boobs and I used to believe it. But I dont think that was the case.

I was thinking about talking with him because sometimes when I think about doing again it gets me excited. I don't have a lot of male friends and he was one of the few I was really close to. We know each other since kindergarten. And I know some folks may find it weird, but being naked and...
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death grip

stop fapping for a month

>>16445721

But literally just yesterday I fapped and had no problem getting off

Nerves. Keep fuckin, make sure she's happy and you'll get comfortable and it will be fine.

>>16445694

simply by moving on. every person has their own healing process and there is no trick to just make it end. but here are some tips.

>cut her out

she used you. plain and simple. she broke up with you but kept using your money. she just wants to be 'treated' in life and thats the real issue here. i mean i can only tell from the context she gave me, but isntead of saying 'hey that trip sounds fun, but i was hoping you and I could go on a trip to XX one day"...
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>>16445694

She wants to use you as a hotel plus gift card, while entangling you in her personal bullshit, and she broke up because you didn't spend money on her.

Can't you see the problem in that?

She does not belong in your life. Not with that kind of behaviour

>>16445716
You had it about right; I guess to give you a sense of time, my friends and I had planned this trip since about April, she was very much aware of it and was helping me plan it and all - the trip itself was for the end of June to the first week of July. She never once expressed disdain for my going and in fact was more concerned with my friends girlfriend and her attitude towards him going.. now my buddies' girlfriend was definitely upset about him spending money on the trip so I might just share your advice...
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Communicate.

>>16445710
I'm afraid I'd be going out of character somehow, if i do. he's in control, he's the dom, so how to introduce new stuff without changing that... I also don't want him to do stuff because i want him to, but because he wants to. I guess I can be very subtle about it?

I had a cumslut whore gf, she would get feisty and resist me because she liked it when I had to force fuck her.
So I was often covered in bruises and scratch marks, especially my chest because she would bite it fucking hard all the time.

she would for example sometimes climb on top and would fight my while I flipped her back down where she belonged.

anyway, I would choke her and bite her throat and stuff, put a collar and metal leash around her, wrap the chain around her neck and pull really tightly so she couldn't breathe, or around her body so it hurt. and she would keep asking for more, harder..and it had escalated to the point where if I grabbed or bit any harder I'm pretty sure we would be taking a trip to the hospital. Like it wasn't safe, might have needed to hide a body kind of shit. and I wasn't comfortable taking it as far as she wanted all the time.

I don't really know how this helps your situation but take away from it what you will

1, 3, or 7 are your best options. Everything else is desperate or petty and you're going to hate yourself. Or give it a couple of more days then send 3 or 7.

>>16445676

this is all more or less the same two choices OP. here is the thing: you are giving her wayyyy too much power. each of your responses are designed to ellicit a reaction or ask her permission.

if she can be either mad or infantile enough not to respond to you, why should you care about her enough that you and basically asking her permission to be single.

man up, and either say 'you got 1 hour to respond to me or were done' or simply 'were breaking up.

if you want her back, give...
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I feel like 2 would get a response though. I know how people work. Pretty much ignoring or letting them know they weren't that special will ring something inside of them.

>>16445671
(She said it was moments after I left the room and was still warm)

It's incredibly unlikely that she got pregnant from pouring your baby juice from the condom into her vag.
just like, really unlikely
she was probably cheating on you.
she sounds crazy so get a test done if she has the kid

Getting pregnant that way is not impossible, but it is very unlikely. I agree that getting a test done would be a good idea.

>>16445659
Uh. Lean in and kiss her after your next date?

Shit, OP. That was fucking hard.

Oh and I'm pretty sure I will never find such a wonderful girl, so this makes me even more afraid of losing her..

>>16445673
the problem is she seems to be very very careful with body contact. like the complete opposite of a slut if u know what I mean. typical "hard to get" girl. and I'm totally ok with that I want to go slow.. but how do I know when shes ready...

Well why do you think other people are interested and excited about women?

To be fair, there are also women who are apathetic towards men as well.

All of you are fucked to die alone.

>>16445648

All the >tfw no gf threads here and all the threads about how to get [x] girl, observing other guys. Don't get me wrong, I used to chase women before, but now I just don't see the point.