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When I see her and give her a wave, she'll give me a huge happy smile
Am I all set?
>>16447872
>When I see her and give her a wave, she'll give me a huge happy smile
kek
sounds like lyrics from a taylor swift song
yeah I think you're all ready to finally say "hi"
good luck man
>>16447874
>>16447873
We've been talking heaps
She seemed pretty happy to see me
Alright /adv/ I need some help or something. I turned 19 this year and I dropped out of high school earlier this year. I'm at least 300 pounds and I'm not smart or good looking at all. Drawing is the only thing I really like to do but I'm not good and I have no motivation to improve. I don't know if I have depression but I assume I do. I haven't been to the doctor in years anyway. So basically I'm just a NEET mooching off my mother like a parasite. I know that it's highly unlikely that I'll fix myself and my life so should I just kill...
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>>16447821
Just get a job and lose some weight. Those aren't hard goals to obtain
>>16447828
I can't do that. I hate being around people because I know they're making fun of me. And any job I could get in my current state would be too hard for an idiot like me anyway.
>>16447821
Lose weight.
MyFitnessPal will be very handy. Don't expect it to happen easily, but if you change your lifestyle and dedicate yourself, it will work. Google 'calories in calories out' if you don't know the science of weight loss. Also, don't start any fad diets, as they are hard to sustain and you'll end up putting it all back on. Remember, calories in, calories out.
As for your other point, go out and get a job. Even if its a shitty job, get one. While you do that work on...
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I want the benefits of mental illness, but i'm not mentally ill. Which mental illness is the easiest one to fake? I suck at concentrating so maybe ADHD? Or maybe pretend to be an aspie since i act weird a lot? help me out faggots.
please fuck off if you think mental illness is funny, you piece of trash.
tourette's
and funniest too
uhh... what... why...
I can't count how many fb posts about how sexy beards are or tinder profiles saying they want a guy with a beard. Is facial hair really that attractive, or is this just a trend? I don't think it is and I think girls really mean they want a 10/10 with a beard like this pic.
Women screaming for manly men, or women wanting little hipster pricks.
And your picture is not a beard. It's some homo with facial hair. There's a difference. I have a beard. He has pubic hair on his face.
Also women love older men and beards make you look older than you are.
the aesthetic of a beard can be nice, but when it's actually go time and you're going down on a girl, it's fucking awful. Forget pash rash, it's fucking carpet burn. I prefer clean shaven any day.
>>16447602
beards are manly and thus attractive for womyn,
BUT they were worn by too many ugly dirty men in the past and thus were seen as dirty
NOW handsome men are sporting beards everywhere because it's hip
so now they're no longer associated with greasy hobo's but still seen as manly...
untill every ugly fedora starts sporting beards and hip guys shave again.
Are there really any REAL reasons not to kill yourself?
I'm starting to get tired of this nonsense.
>>16447591
i remember you - you are that jellyfish guy!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pY_Oex-Zk3c
john is trying to tell you something if you listen
>>16447591
In your intestines are millions of good bacteria - there are actually more of them than cells of you. They help in digesting your food for you, in return for a warm, nutrient-filled place to live. (If humans didn't exist, the bacteria would have to create us - and who's to say they didn't?)
So that is why you have to stay alive - to provide a nice warm shit-filled home for the friendly bacteria.
Is there a high probability that there is something critically wrong with me if no woman has ever shown interest in me? Or am I just unlucky? I'm 18.
To play the game means "you" gotta pick up the controller and learn it, especially if you're a dude. There might have been girls interested in you mildly enough that it flew under your radar. You just gotta go out and ask in a respectable fashion. See other threads about how to start up a relationship.
I dunno but I got asked to prom by 3 girls and went with 2 and danced with a 3rd
>>16447576
Don't be a dick, dude.
I’ve asked friends around me for advice, and now I feel like it’s time for me to get some outside advice, think you can help me out /adv/? So on the 30th I got to celebrate my one year anniversary with my boyfriend, and like anyone in a good relationship I was really happy. Though there was this ache in my heart from a dilemma the two of us have been talking about a few weeks in advance. My boyfriend had begun to develop feelings for a friend of ours. Instead of flipping shit as most other girls would have, to having their boyfriend tell them this; I just wanted him to be...
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OP
I’ve told him to go to her and tell her how he feels, and that he should try. I truly want him to be happy even if it means that I’m not with him, and even though my heart breaks to tell him that I can’t help but feel that it’s the right thing to do. Lately though I’m not so sure I’ll be able to move on. I’m not ready to say goodbye to him yet. We’ve agreed that we both want to remain good friends if all goes well with her, but I don’t know how much my heart will take seeing him with her.
Well OP, you sound like an incredible girl for putting up with that. I like the sounds that you would prefer him to be honest instead of hide this.
You also truly need to be blunt with yourself. Is that something you can't put up with much longer? Despite him being happy, he needs to make a choice.
>>16447534
>lacking this much self respect
So if i rob you but dress it up with pretty words while im robbing you its ok? OP you are literally plan b to him. If it doesnt work out with this girl or he fucks her and then decides he doesnt like her guess who he will come back to, "wow suddenly i realized that whole feeling...was from you!!"
Quit being a kek and have some self respect your boyfriend is a faggot of the highest order. Also if you love someone and you lost...
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Where should I take a girl out on a date? It's cold as shit and it gets dark at 4pm, so it has to be something indoors. Also, I'm not really into seeing a movie, because that's too basic and doesn't really allow for conversation. Any ideas?
Is there something wrong with dinner? Just devote your creative energies into choosing a place.
>>16447511
I was thinking dinner and then something fun before/after, too.
>>16447516
a/s/l
So I met this really cute girl the other day and we made out and had oral sex.
She texts me today and says she has Hepatitis B. What are the chances that I contracted it (I don't think I've had the vaccine for it)?
Would it be worth the risk of having protected sex with her; how likely will I get it and how bad would the symptoms be? Reading online, it seems that there's a chance I wouldn't have any symptoms and that I would become immune to it after 6 months. Also, I'm on 20mg Accutane daily, but am almost finished.
>>16447501
>I don't think I've had the vaccine for it
Do you live in some shitty African country or what
>>16447503
I've lived in upper-class China and Australia. I currently don't have access to my immunisation records.
>>16447501
There are no documented cases of it transferring through kissing, though it is theoretically possible.
Condoms are supposedly 99%+ effective, but you should get vaccinated lad.
Calling all detectives out there.
Something weird is happening with my girlfriend.
Since months, she's been occasionally looking up on Facebook girls I've been with before being with her and I have no idea why.
To put some context and a possible clue: One time we had this talk where I told her stories of girls I've been with (I said their names) and leaded it to tell her that I couldn't find any girl that makes me feel the same as she does, and that I only wanted to meet said women to forget about her because I had a crush on her for...
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Ugh your girlfriend sounds just like me
I'd rate just not know names my brain goes crazy and I just look these people up what feels like sub concioisly is fucked
Try and laugh off the jealousy, don't hide stuff from her and be honest
Try not to encourage any conversations about it and definitely don't name drop
Just focus on her and everything you love about her
I see your good intention with the comparison to other girls but try and avoid that because for insecure girls a comparison is still a comparison and it's anxiety inducing
Does...
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*rather
>>16447489
Yes, that is helpful and thank you so much.
But, I would like to know if there's a way I can "fix this". How can I help her get through this without actually talking about it?
I want to learn to mediate for religious reasons. Every time I try, however, my thoughts end up straying and I stop focusing on God and start focusing on other things (like, I don't know, school, work, stuff like that.)
Tips?
i kind of know what youre talking about. i feel sitting down crossed legged and whispering to yourself a worship song cant start to bring me closer, you just got to ask him to bring you into his presence. i feel it works best if i praise him and worship him, thats when i feel im closest to the council of god. think about all the things to be grateful for and just tell him how thankful you are for the spiritual and carnal gifts
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKRAWbq48OY
You should watch the entire thing, but skip to 24:25 if you want to try a small exercise.
Keep going. The mind likes to wander, it's not that you suck at meditation. Gently remind yourself that you're trying to focus, and bring your mind back to the point of your focus. The key is to not get judgemental about it. Soft and gentle.
In time your focus improves but you'll still have days where the mind is intent on wandering.
Btw is this Christian meditation? I'm interested in hearing more about that. Usually Christians like to separate meditation from prayer, though focused concentration is an important piece of any legitimate religious...
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I personally think its bullshit that they only go out with equal to or taller men. I think its purely based on confidence issues with the short male not wanting to look short next to his partner and taller women not wanting to look bigger than a guy.
Putting those two things aside I don't see how there can be any issue with it.
I never have actually tried.Could it be all b.s
>>16447332
You're very correct op. But then again it could be the woman's problem with you being shorter. Nothing personal, but she might not be over shallow aspects whereas you might be over them.
>>16447399
True
but that would contribute to my thoughts about it being a confidence issue. Im pretty sure shallowness comes from such..could be wrong.
has anyone ever use OKC?
how did you like it?
any tips
>>16447233
Not as good as finding someone irl.
My buddy used it to find his current lady friend. He said it worked fine for him. They started off messagin each other, then met.
Just like any other dating website.
theres an okc subreddit, i'd recommend getting your profile reviewed there to fine tune it
My bf has the opposite of a foot fetish. He always wants me to have socks on when we have sex. When I don't, he doesn't say anything but I can tell it kind of turns him off. I have pretty normal looking feet. He always keeps his socks on no matter what. I feel a lot more comfortable barefoot, what do I do?
>>16447208
Talk to him, not us.
>>16447213
He really has something against feet and he can't explain why
>>16447208
Sock fetish is a thing.
I need some help
I have a crush on my Spanish teacher
He's a cute guy 28 years old
Sorta built, has mustache, heavy Spanish accent, nice ass and bulge, plays soccer.
Long story short should I tell him about how I feel about him or keep it to myself
Also how do I get to know him better while not being an annoying student
do it after he's no longer your teacher. even if this magically turns out to work and you start hooking up, it could affect his career.
>>16447151
>should I tell him about how I feel about him or keep it to myself
Keep it to yourself.
>how do I get to know him better while not being an annoying student
You get to know him as a teacher and nothing else.
>>16447160
He's married that's why I'm asking
It doesn't seem right to tell him but my mind tells me different
