>>16452246
That sounds like the symptoms of early stage ovarian cancer

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ovarian_cancer

>>16452246
ok first of all, your fiance is a fucking creep and he pretty much raped you.
if the pregnancy tests are coming out negative then you're probably fine, if you're really worried about it, go to a doctor.
but holy shit your fiance is a whole other story. my suggestion is to bail and never look back

>>16452256
>le drunk sex is rape
Nice meme

>>16452210
if you're a racist you probably shouldn't be dating someone who is black, just so you know

I can't tell if this is bait or not, but in case you are serious.
No anon, love who you love, society is wrong not you. Unless you started dating this girl purely because you felt desperate and didn't actually have any feelings for her then you should break it off and find someone you like. It doesn't matter who that person is, what race, gender or anything else, it only matters that you are happy with them and them mutually so.

>>16452210
If you don't like black people, don't date them. If you break up with someone because of your racist friends, that's shitty.

>>16452183
HAHAHAHAHAH SORRY BUT I DIED LAUGHING

why exactly do you want to stop fapping? What is your current situation on a day to day basis?

>>16452201
I have no job. No gf. I whack it about three times a day. Slowly slipping into neckbeard territory.

>>16452170
But him being this protective seems kind of sketchy, doesn't it? I'm a strong believer that if I need to find something out I will without digging around. He leaves his phone unlocked around me sometimes and I never look through it because I'm not a digger.

My point with this is I told him I think it's wrong of him to give me no right with his things, especially since we live together and he has access to my things without issue. It's a trust and respect thing to me. He absolutely...
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>>16452175
So what do you guys think? I'm not an oppressive person, I'm actually pretty easy going. But this is worrying to me, and I don't think I'm unreasonable in my opinion. I'm more than willing to work to some middle ground, because 98% of a relationship is compromise and you can't avoid that, but he doesn't want to talk at all. I'm not sure what to do here.

>>16452188
He sounds kind of unbearable. You can maintain your privacy in a relationship but him snatching his tablet from you is just downright childish and extremely sketchy.
The fact that he can't talk about it either is weird too. If you guys are going to be in a serious relationship you're going to have to learn to talk to each other.
If you're doing all the compromise and he's just reaping the benefits, it's a one sided relationship that's pretty much going to lead to nowhere.
Be honest with him OP. If he can't compromise on such a trivial matter then maybe he isn't the person you should be with.

Just one bump...sorry I know I was vague... will probably just post again in a couple weeks but still, this is consuming my mind ;\

>>16452164
I don't know your relations anon, but breaking is understandable. Consider the possible outcomes though, best case you two talk a little and get reminded about why it was a good idea in the first place to break up. Next best she feels the same and you get back together, is this a good idea? You have to answer that yourself. Worst outcome she gets annoyed and angry at you. Which might leave you with some more closure, but also make you feel bad.
It's ok to break, everybody has these feelings, but think...
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>>16452164
You will not stop feeling bad until you finally break it off/get back together. These lingering thoughts will remain with you. There are times in your life where you are faced with hard decisions mate and this is one of those times.

Quit pulling her along, give her a solid answer. Give yourself a day to really think of what YOU want, in the end thats all that matters. It will hurt not doubt, but you will get over it along with she.

Missing someone is completely normal, it means you had a connection....
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>>16452159
>Highschool
Fuck off.

Your life depends on it, so fucking do it and don't be a piece of shit like me

If you half-ass this shit it's going to be a foundation for insecurity and self doubt for the rest of you life.

So instead of doing that, make sure you give it your all and then you're going to be able to look back at this time with pride and feel like it meant something, that you did your best.

You're always gonna get a job if you don't fail completely, but for your own sake, don't waste your oportunities, or you're gonna end up with a regret and "what if?".

Because most kids fucking suck and more than likely you wouldn't have a perfect angel of a child like mine.

Why not adopt? You can still raise kids and have a family, just as you've dreamed of. The actual childbirth part, not so much, but is that worth mourning?

>>16452099
It's different. I'd rather die alone than raise the child of someone else.

Bump,

Tldr, I'm afraid my girlfriend is fed up with my drinking and she doesn't want to be with me

>>16452056
Not a mind reader

Shut down the device you're on, and go ask her

> I want to stop drinking all together but as a 23 yr old that's pretty tough to do.

It really isn't though. Just don't put you yourself in a situation where you may binge drink. Or just have some damn self control. If you really care about her, you would slow down on the drinking

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She told me I made her bed smell horrible (i had showered and soaped my entire body before) and that she had to buy new sheets. She was also unable to sleep in her own bed for two whole days. She may have PTSD. When I came back into her room she was terrified and since i stood between her and the door she thought that I was going to force myself on her.

She doesn't know whether she'll ever stop hating me but honestly she doesn't care. I said ok to all of this. Showed her I was deleting her number from my phone and left.

Well I don't know how...
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>>>/trash/

You quite possibly banged one of the most fucked up chicks I ever met.

You're calling us autists when you're the one posting something like this? Fuck off.

>>16451916
>>16451916
u wanna fite about it or what
im not calling you autist but lets be real 4chan is full of losers, hard to find "normies"

pls answer

Yeah, but it's half and half with its social stigma.

Full shave = hygenic and looked after
No shave = hairier but more manly

The above are what people legitimately believe.

As far as I know, general consensus:
>bald
Weird and oddly childlike, but some girls do prefer it because, well, pubes get in the way
>trimmed
Most girls prefer this, as it is a nice middle ground
>bush
An equally small amount prefer this as bald, because pubes get in the way of blowjobs and look unkempt

trimming/shaving was started by dicklets and pornography so that they can pretend their penis is bigger

no woman actually cares at all

>>16451788
so this is pretty much every relationship as it winds down.

Unfortunately there is no easy way around it.

You will feel guilty, mainly because you are not a sociopath.

But remember OP, the person that loves you wants to be loved in return. If you can not provide that, then you are really doing them no favors.

That said, there is no reason to rush into anything. Maybe try spending more time apart and making the time you are together a little more special. See how that goes.

May I...
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>>16451805
>How old are you?
>How long have you been dating?
>Do you live together?
>If so, for how long?

34yo
1 1/2 years
Yes
for 1 year

>>16451813
How old if your partner and does she want children?

>>16451722
>Don't act as a doormat
>But always act as a chivalrous knight

I will never understand women.

>The bond and trust between me and my close friends is stronger than that of any couple I've met. We can insult each other, play pranks on each other, laugh about each other as much as we want, we don't require proof that we're friends, we never question it. Being there for each other feels like the natural way things should be.
One of the biggest reasons I only date friends and my longest relationshipo was my best friend of several years. It didn't work out, but we realized we just work better as friends so we went right back to it after a few months cooling down period.

I have trust and commitment issues as it is, I simply cannot get into someone unless I spend enough time around them that I know I can lower my guard, so to speak. I've had one night stands but sex for me is pretty carnal so I actually avoid any such things with a girl I might be interested in. Once my mind catalogs her as good to go for sexual thoughts and deviancy, I can't have feelings for her.

Fucking hate dating too, what an awkward and uncomfortable courtship ritual. Pay out the ass and dress up in some monkey suit so you can play a game of emotional poker where you try and win over some girl. It seems absolutely ludicrous to me. Rather befriend the girl and hang out with my friends, go urban exploring, bbqs, swimming, hiking, movie nights and all that. That's how you see the real someone, when they're truly comfortable around you and others. Makes for a longer-lived relationship IMO.

>>16451897
>awkward and uncomfortable courtship ritual
>play a game of emotional poker
Exactly this. Where do I find the girls who are equally tired of this socially constructed bullshit?

>>16452161
I can't tell you, my method (that is, befriending girls and integrating them into my friend-group) has a way of both bypassing that and mostly attracting likeminded individuals. The ones that don't really fit tend to break away eventually.

As should be obvious, I feel at my most comfortable around my friends, so when a new girl is brought I don't feel awkward or anything because they are on my home turf so to speak. This makes me treat them as a friend, like I've known them for a while and I'm naturally very playful and a jokester, so it tends to disarm them.

The best thing to keep in mind is that you interact with them as if you want to make a proper friend, not hook up with them. Proper friends you joke with, playfully insult them, give them a good ribbing when they say or do something stupid, laugh at them, get serious when they need advice and all that. From my experience and if done correctly, they don't see you as an emotional pincushion. That only happens when you serve them hand and foot.

Different people have different levels of comfort when it comes to nudity.

I'm a dude, and I'm one of those guys who doesn't ever wear shorts (unless running/swimming), always wears a belt, only wears long sleeve button up shirts, wears undershirts. Essentially there's like none of my skin showing (and I'm in California btw)

But If you've ever seen me naked, IDGAF and will walk around naked around you because you've already seen it.

I've got a female friend who's got the same DGAF view. And with me in particular,...
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You communicate to her that this is not ok by saying "this is not something that is ok in a healthy relationship, and its not somethimg that i should have to tell another adult to stop doing"

Then you walk away and never look back. As someone who is to old to put up with that shit, you dont have time to cater to people like this.

Well ah'll tell u whut, the 'friendzoned' guy is gonna git yer girlfriend preggers, their gonna git married, then yer gonna git her preggers with her next kid, friendzoned guy and her will git divorced, you'll marry her and adopt the first kid, and then her ex-bf will git her preggers with her third kid, and then she gonna find Jesus and divorce you to marry the preacher.

But its all okay, cause you ain't gay!