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>used to dress cutesy, feminine, guys dug me and stuff
>got depressed
>cut hair short
>started dressing andro
>like people mistook me for a guy and I liked that
>fast forward several months
>still into guys but now they didn't like me
>still have really light, cute, girly aesthetic
>want to start looking female again
>ugly oblong face
>hair looks disgusting growing out
>most of my clothes are male cuts now
>uncomfortable seeing myself as a girl
>feel like a mutant
What do I do? how do I get over this? what if it's not better when I grow my hair out?
I swear I'm not "genderfluid" or anything I'm just really uncomfortable and don't know what's going on.
I'm in the same boat lmao, growing out your hair is hell
I feel more comfortable in "guy" clothes, though, so I'm probably going to stick to it, wearing girly clothes makes me feel ugly and autistic
you ain't gotta "see yourself as a girl", you're just a person who happens to be female
Wew lad
I think of all the times " I fucked up" has been in the subject libe, this us the most minor, pathetic , insecure , easy to solve, first world problems, spoiled brat bullshit I have ever seen.
Wew, lad.
Just curious, I have one older brother. There was a chance I might have had another sibling but the embryo died
Like having a girl living with you that in many a case carries most of your father's traits. Sexual notions are disgusting and never considered if that's what you were wondering.
>>16454622
I was wondering about how well people get along with their sisters, pros/cons of having to live with one, but thanks
>>16454608
>Pros/cons
They're a lot bitchier when they're in that "teen" phase. My sis used to be borderline evil, she cool now tho.
>I-incest..?
No, unless your subhuman it's not normal to feel anything, shit is weird bottom line. I feel like most people into it didn't have sisters so they don't understand what it's like and how weird it is.
>Finish one degree
>Go back to finish another degree in a different field
>25 male in a class with 19-20 year olds
>See out of the corner of my eye a blonde chick keep glancing my way in class
>Glances away rapidly if I look up too quickly
>It's so often that it can't be written off as nothing, so it is something
Really, this high school shit again? Am I imagining this, or do 19 year old chicks still do this?
>>16454573
>19
yeah and she probably wants it considering you're different from the majority
Buy her alcohol, date rape her.
>>16454576
So I should probably hit it.
>>16454577
I don't run that kind of show.
All my life I've been like the lion. I've been outcasted, sent on a journey of pain to become the strongest. So I can selfishly watch my pack and command them through fear to get what I want.
I am a power hungry predator...but I'm not sure if it's who I truly am. Am I just a self fulfilling prophecy? I met this pretty girl who's been sweet to me despite the barriers I put up on all. I liked her, but when I passed her and surprised her, she let out a terrified yelp. I felt like a silent horror movie killer like Jason Voorhees. I didn't like the way it felt. The man that I've become is not truly who I want to be around those I care for...this is really hard to think about
>>16454486
What the fuck, you're no lion.
So do you need some advice?
>>16454490
The story of male lions, their journies to reach maturity is like mine. It was a struggle, but now that it's complete I'm a selfish predator standing on a pile of bodies, with my mere presence enough to command others.
My boyfriend's high school sweetheart committed suicide when she was 16. Both me and him are 22 and he hasnt gotten over it. He's been seeing a therapist as long as I've met him but it doesn't seem to be getting better. The more I become closer to him the more I realize that he still loves her and he isn't willing to let go. It hurts me deeply and I hate to say that I'm jealous, but this is not about that. It's been 6 years and it's only getting worse. He's starting to come back late sometimes and I suspect that he's been visiting her grave. When we're out with mates hes always smily and happy but once we're back he seems so dissatisfied and lonely. Whenever i ask him whats up he tells me that he just cant let it go. Seeing him like this hurts.
What can I do?
>>16454339
stay with him until you just cant stand it anymore. then leave him.
>>16454339
Tits or gtfo?
>>16454350
It feels so selfish to leave him though.
>>16454354
hahaha look momma I posted something!! XD
This isn't /r9k/ or /b/. Fuck off.
Hey I need some quick advice
So I'm in my 1st semester of college right now, but I'm going to quit as soon as this semester is over. I came to the realization that college is not for me. Anyways, my question is, I think I'm failing or will fail my Russian 101 class, should I just drop that class now, or should I just stick it out for another 1.5 months? I really don't think I'm going to pass because I can't keep up with the class. It's a hard language and I'm not learning fast enough. So what should I do?
Bumping with Russian QT
Anyone?
If you aren't going to pass, drop it.
Hey guys. I haven't gotten laid in over a year. I'm guy. I'm not ugly. I go to the gym regularly so I look pretty good. But I like to stay humble. I'm pretty confident. And I'm not an asshole towards woman. But for some reason I just can't get laid. I need help
>not an asshole towards women
Theres your problem
>>16454256
This. The few times I've had something going with girls is when I mildly bully them a bit.
You don't need to be an asshole--I've been called the sweet/nice/whatever by every girl i've ever slept with/dated/whatever--you just need to not give a fuck and exude confidence.
That's not to say that giving zero fucks alone will get you laid, but being too try-hard and coming off as desperate will definitely block you.
pic related
How am I supposed to cope? I'm chronically sleep-deprived, haven't been to all of the lectures, and am awake at 04:38 trying to finish a problem set due for 09:00. And now I'm damned to be unsatisfied with my subject. I don't have time to cry about this but I did. How can I handle 6h of labs per week? How the fuck do I pay attention to circuit theory?
I regret my life decisions rather thoroughly... I should have done some fucking essay subjects. I knew I wanted to do physphil all along, really. Fuck. All my hopes rested on the switch.
Helpppp :(
I don't even know what I'm asking for.. I'm probably just going to stick with what I've chosen because I'm a hopeless coward.
How do I not feel like shit about choosing the wrong degree?
Fuck, I can not be bothered with today. Fuck labs, seriously. I need to sleep.. so badly..
Just finish your current degree and get a Master's or PhD in Philosophy. Come to the US if you have to.
>>16454184
That's at least another three years away.. it seems like such a huge and unnecessary length of time to spend doing something I half-don't-enjoy.
I might just resign myself to failure. At least then I can sleep.
The worst thing is not being able to read in my spare time due to either being too tired or having to work or seeing friends.
My university offers 'post-grad diplomas' that allow you to basically do nothing but a handful of papers from a major. Perhaps look into whether yours offers something like that so you can fulfil the philosophy requirements?
What reason could a girl have to suddenly become a huge bitch?
Here's the story (i tried asking yesterday but no replies):
This girl i've been having technological contact with for the past years but never meat suddenly went to a complete bitch. Trying to make me angry and insulting me over something stupid. And with something stupid I mean literally something stupid. An irrelevant opinion about clothing.
Now I know her for years and we always talk eventhough we've never met. I kinda like to have her as a contact but i'm not in love or anything. She may like/have liked me at some point but nothing serious. I would fuck her, not more.
But anyway I kinda need a female contact to talk to about whatever.
She really tries to make mad and keeps insulting and being a huge bitch compared to previous years and i'm thinking about a few things.
1) Ignoring it. Which will make me look and also feel like a weak faggot.
2) Cease contact and block her, which could be something i'll regret and I will be even more lonely since I dont have many people to talk to.
3) Get angry at her, possible scare/ruin it with her or make her block me.
What do?
>>16454148
Are you a faggot? I ask because only a faggot would think that cutting contact with someone who insults him and treats him like shit is something he might regret.
So what in the actual fuck is wrong with you, OP?
>>16454157
its not just 'an insult', its like went completely against me and trying to destroy me on purpose.
I can stand an insult or 2 but obviously its more than that
Ok guys, there is this girl who's a good friend of mine. She's witty, smart, funny and is joyful, her negative sides are that she can be naive, insecure, weird beause of her insecurity and inferiority complex.
I met her through my best friend two years ago. During those years we barely caught up with each other doing something. Last months ive been seeing her more in her town than in my city. (I live in a city, she lives in a small town 11-14km far from my place)
The thing is, lately whenever i wanted to meet her, she always wants me to go to her town, which makes me obliged to ask my best friend to sleep at his house (for him, this is no problem at all, to me it kind of bothers me so much always asking people if i can spend a nigbt at their place.) im 24 and have no car, i still study, transportation in belgium costs a lot. She, on the other hand, has a car (she's spoiled by her parents) and she can move anywhere, even coming to my city.
Now to bring the real issue to the topic. Everytime i ask her to do something together, its always at her dull dead town or if I ask her to hang out at my place she always insists on taking a friend with her. Why cant I enjoy my friendship with her alone? (i have no love/sexual intentions with her.) my assumption is that she's scared of something (maybe thinking that i want something with her)
Lately everytime time she texts or calling me asking asking what im doing and when I reply that i have no plans at the moment and suggest to do something together, she always tells me that that she's gonna see what she wants to do and that she leaves my suggestion as an option.
Ive got a feeling that she's becoming more meaningless to me. Could anyone give me some good advice?
She's just not all that into you.
>>16454230
What makes you think that?
We also often talk on fb and thats what eating. We always talk on fb and also the things she wants to do fun stuf together but it never came in practice.
>>16454129
I think it's pretty clear that she doesn't really like you or is not interested by you.
It might come off as her just being shy and insecure, but really when a girl says "i'm gonna leave your suggestion as an option" she's not saying it to be nice. It's really because she doesn't care about you, but if her friend has nothing else to do, they might show up.
Just forget about her, you already hate her dull dead town anyway.
Has anyone broken up with someone they love due to lack of sex?
Did you regret it?
>>16454096
I don't think this is what you're looking for, but I couldn't get hard for my ex. She just wasn't good looking enough for me, although I think most people would think she was wonderful.
I dunno, maybe it wasn't her looks. And, she would have done anything I asked.
I regret nothing.
>>16454096
whatever the answer, just remember that being single can lead to less sex for an even longer time. just think about it.
im pro independence but if this si the issue try to think about how big an issue it is and where its going.
though if you've already settled into a sexless routine and the good sex portion of the relationship is over, i do advise you move on if you cant et her going
>>16454314
It's good that you broke up with her.
My boyfriend refuses to break up despite our shitty sex life.
I am so bored with it and considering a break up.
>>16454321
He watches too much porn and masturbates daily. When I get home from work, he's already done for the day and not in the mood.
"Nice Guy"-dom is a terrible social pathology. You and I both agree on this.
But do you think it's worth asking WHY so many young men came into such a pathology?
Do you suppose, in different circumstances, these men might have turned out differently? Or do you think they were born that way?
I suspect they don't have sisters.
>>16454045
>But do you think it's worth asking WHY so many young men came into such a pathology?
Not particularly.
>Do you suppose, in different circumstances, these men might have turned out differently?
No, because they are not victims of circumstance: their wounds are entirely self-inflicted. This is not to say that they deliberateky chise to not be desirable, only that it is completely due to the consequences of their own deliberate actions. They do not deserve pity or study; they deserve only to be pressured yet harder until they grow the fuck up.
>>16454059
Isn't anything worth study? Or are some things so obvious you can be 100% about them all the time?
I got a C in Calculus II. Should I retake it before taking Caculus III, or would that be a waste of time?
Changing majors is totally out of the question.
>>16454006
Do not retake it
>>16454006
Don't retake it. That's a fine grade. Instead, evaluate why you did not do as well as you had hoped. Increase your study time, find tutors, etc. Figure out what went wrong so you can excel in the next class.
>>16454015
Why not?
balding and I'm fucking losing it. How do you fucks deal with this? I'd look horrible bald and it's too fucking early at 26. Getting angry at everyone and losing sleep fuck this is a nightmare
Have you tried any of the treatment options?
Current pic of hair?
I started balding at 21. Shortly after started giving myself very short clipper cuts and been doing that ever since 20years. That's me for life.
>>16454003
Bosley/hair transplants, wigs, etc.
Male here need advice on how to get laid.
Hit on women.
>Go to bar
>Look for lonely women
>???
>Profit!
>>16453947
1. Get $300 dollars
2. Go on backpages.com
3. Browse to your city
4. Contact servicewoman
5. Arrange meeting
6. Go to meeting
7. Excahge money
8. Put penis in servicewoman's vagina
fin
