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So me and my buddies are having a problem with a 0/10 girl. She follows us around and we dont want to tell her to fuck off but we dont want her following us and hanging out with us. >what do I do /adv/?
Get a pretty girl to hang out with your group.
Double team her
>>16453221
We dont know anyone like that. Besides we dont want anyone new we just want her to fuck off. OP btw
this dude is pissed off I through his vapor cigarette out of the window on the bus? Now he and his friends are going to try and jump me what should I do?
Maybe you should have left his property alone?
>>16453079
Maybe he shouldn't bring his nasty smoke on the bus? What's happened has happened what should I do now?
>>16453084
Take your ass beating like you deserve. Maybe if we're lucky you'll end up a vegetable so you won't post stupid shit here anymore.
My mother is what people call a "Milf". I have years feeling very attracted to her. So i attracted to the point i make very weird things and masturbate thinking about her. But then i feel so guilty with myself. I don´t like the idea that she is my mother, but physically i am very attracted to her. How can i stop to have this sick desire? I want it to stop.
If that is your mom in the picture, I can see why.
I'd would totally have sex with her.
>>16453075
She is
>>16453067
Oedipus get outta here
This girl I know called me a pedo for dating a girl that's 4'9", I'm 6'6".
Does that make me pedo?
>>16452946
If the girl really is a child, then yes. Otherwise, you're just two freaks dating each other
No. You're a pedo if she's a child and you're an adult. Your friend is dumb, and maybe jealous.
>>16452946
Is she underage?
>Yes
Then yes you are.
>No
Then no you're not.
My girlfriend and I have a good relationship overall. We're happy together. We live 6 hours apart, and I drive to see her 3-4 days a week.
She lives in a house with a couple of room mates, and is a bit impulsive. She spends a lot of money on her bad habits, while having massive student loans. She has a room mate that encourages those bad habits, and is generally a pretty bad person.
This bad room mate wants to get a dog, a Collie no less, and I mentioned to my girlfriend that the room mate would never, ever be there to take care of the dog and it would essentially...
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>>16452794
>impulsive
>spends a lot of money on bad habits
>makes bad decisions
>admits being dumber than you
Why would you want to marry a woman like that? Are you sure you have sit and thought about this seriously and thorough?
>>16452800
>>admits being dumber than you
The thing is she is wrong. She is brilliant. She's had a bad life. Bad home life, bad first boyfriend, just bad luck. She struggles with helplessness.
>>16452809
Fine, my point still stands. Why would you want to marry such a woman?
A few weeks ago I posted a thread asking to help with a situation of domestic violence and psychological abuse. Thankfully. me and my mum acted on the advice and social services has been contacted and the situation is very close to being ended, thank you all for that.
However, I am left with some issues. I have a number of friends, some I have known for 12 years, and they are generally nice to me and are like I think friends should be for the most parts. Unfortunately, the ones who run parties and social events do not invite me along and I only really see them during...
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>>16452666
Thirdly, I have almost no confidence or self esteem, which of course gives other people bad vibes.
Honestly, while If I gave it more thought I think I could find a bunch of solutions (or simply wait less than a year when I will go to university), although honestly the fallout from the abuse and my parent's relationship I think may be clouding my judgement, and so I ask you lot what you think I should do.
So what should I do? Thank you again.
P.S : Sorry if I write like a fedora, I just finished...
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>>16452666
It'd be nice to get a response
Help
I want to major in English but everyone is discouraging me. So I've been thinking of double majoring with sociology. I want to be more into literary journalism, (like Tom Wolfe), but everyone keeps discouraging me about what that will mean for my future. So i'm really lost right now, and I don't know what classes I should take. What are you senpai getting a degree in?
>>16452535
I got a film degree. despite the reptuation that sort of degree gets, i didnt have anyone fighting me over it. even my strict military father wanted me to go for it, cuz its pretty much all I did with my life from 8th grade, so much so that he offered me the largest bedroom in the house (after his own of course) just so that I could film easier.
i graduated 2012, havent had much film work since then though, as it is a competitive industry thats hard to break into in any serious way. I happen to manage...
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>>16452545
Well i could go into peace corps, i hear also that its helpful if going into law. But its pretty limited which is what makes me extremely doubtful about the degree
>>16452545
also i would really like to become an author and perhaps even start up my own magazine one day
I feel like I ruined my body because I got fat and when I lost weight (slowly and with nutritious food and while lifting heavy weights while doing chest exercises) my tits deflated and got very saggy and empty.
I just think of how attractive I would be if I didn't gain weight in the first place and permanently damaged my body and ruined it
How do I accept the damage I've done?
>>16452483
Get a boob lift
I think this is an appropriate situation for plastic surgery. I'm losing weight right now too, and considering maybe doing a lift if they look really terrible.
Whats the use of losing all the weight if you look like a raisin with your clothes off.
>>16452483
It's still better then being fat. That's how you gotta think. It's to bad really but we can't have everything exactly the way we want it. Life sucks that way.
Hey,so when I was younger I never brush my teeth and not than I'm older their gross and yellow,what would be the best method to white my teeth? Other than going to a dentist. (My camera is shit so I found this image that matches my teeth the closet,the stained ones)
>>16452433
My teeth are yellow despite taking perfect care of them. Dentist says they couldn't be more healthy. White simply isn't the natural color of my teeth. Shit sucks.
>>16452464
White isn't the colour of anyone's natural teeth. Teeth naturally have a yellow tinge to them, the right OP picture is unnatural
I gonna assume my teeth are healthy too since I don't have any cavities, tooth aches, etc... I just don't like the colour of them and I want to whiten them without paying a fuck ton of money to get them professionally whitened.
Is 24 years too late to make yourself part of a new social circle?
How do people do it?
Look mom I posted it again!
>>16452434
>>16452426
nope. happens all the time. 24 is a pretty typical time to leave college for instance (between 22 and 25 is average depending on all the variables) and people are constantly moving places and starting careers and such.
getting into a new circle becomes harder to do, as does making friends, but both are possibly especially the latter.
as to how, its completely unique to each person.
a lot of people become friends with who they work with. others have chance encounters. others attend events...
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How do I find out my GPA for a college I graduated from and don't have a list of all the courses I took and the grades I got?
Call the records department.
>>16452418
How do you not know? Request an academic transcript
>>16452423
>How do you not know?
I was never told? It's not like they printed it on my Diploma.
>get a gf
>one time after we have sex she says my penis (6") is "perfect, not too big, not too small"
>well that's nice i guess, don't really need to be reminded that it isn't big but ok
>"my ex was HUGE, i'd hurt afterwards every time"
>didn't actually need to hear that
>"like 8 and a half inches long and REALLY thick, you can't even...
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Yes, dump the roastie and find yourself a non whore gf
>>16452380
>someone dates a guy and find sout he has a big penis
>she continues to dat ehim anyways, but is not happy because the big penis ruins sex
>she is a whore despite leaving him and appreciating men with smaller penises
jesus, do virgins really think like this>?
>>16452375
er.... stop? mines six and a half, and its often called big, even by guys with bigger cocks then mine (Faggot here). six inches is just barely over the average, so its like you're a B- student. whats wrong iwth that?
if you are going to let something that is a huge part of your life bum you out, an hero now, cuz ur cock aint going to get any bigger.
considering she appreciates it, calling it perfect (mine is often called perfect as well, because of how well proportioned it is) why are you...
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>Best friend and I we're inseparable
>We spend a lot of time just hanging out together
>As time goes by, I'm starting to feel slowly weird around him. Everytime the plan ends, I leave feeling like complete shit. As this progresses, I'm slowly becoming more unconfident, like my point of view never matters. Like I have no talent
>I start to hang out with more and different people. I start to get close to some people that were just acquaintances,...
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>>16452325
this isn't unusual. sometimes it happens after 20 years of a great friendship because things change. there is always the chance your friend needs help, but if he refuses to be helped you can't really stand by him.
we meet people and we use them to help us grow and develop, and at some point people stop helping each other grow and develop. at that time the friendships usually dissolve. as much as i want to believe the romantic idea of best friends for life, even the strongest ones have to end...
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>>16452325
I'm re-reading my thread, and I feel like it's incomplete. There's way too much shit I haven't explained.
>Last friday he tells me "Because you don't have a job and you're finishing your studies, and I have 2 jobs, I feel like we don't have much to talk about. I don't like movies and you don't like cinema..." After dropping that he just got back to the party and I left.
>It's been a while since...
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Bounce. You're trying to weigh action against the history of the friendship, as though that history hasn't yet paid its dividends. It has. You enjoyed years of a good and happy friendship with him. That enjoyment was the reward. Now the joy has ended and so has the time to keep fighting for the friendship. Yesterday it was good. Today it is not. Act on today.
I have what I guess is a fairly typical /adv/ story. I got close to a girl and eventually she became my best friend. She started to get very flirty, we fucked a few times but kept it 'casual' (even though we were hanging out all the time too), and I fell for her hard. Then out of the blue one day she dumped me in a bit of a shitty way. She was genuinely apologetic when she saw how hurt I was, but said she wanted us to still be friends (but nothing more). I couldn't handle that, especially when she started dating someone else, so one day I cut her from my life...
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>>16452313
Lie. Say you feel great and that things are going really well. She's probably checking up on you because she thinks you're still hung up on her.
Also, if you lie enough you might end up believing it. Heartbreak is fucking tough but when you remember that you're an individual that's got a life separate from the person you love(d), you'll become okay with being alone.
>>16452331
I already got a little bit obsessed with that via my Instagram account. I took a year off to go travelling, and made sure I took pictures of every incredible place I went to (because I knew she had always wanted to go travelling too). I'd sit by my phone and wait for her to 'like' it, and she usually would. I think that was a very unhealthy mindset though, and I'm trying to concentrate a bit more on actually enjoying things rather than pretending to enjoy things.
Generally speaking that's...
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>>16452353
Going through a heartbreak right now myself. It was a 2 year relationship that ended about a month ago, because of distance but mostly because she lost feelings for me.
It hurt and although she said she wants to "be friends" she doesn't message me at all.
BUT, she would look at every snapchat story I would post. That was my only 'contact' with her anymore, and in a weird way I liked seeing that she was still looking.
But I decided this was incredible toxic of me. I would...
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My father-in-law cheated on his wife with a woman ten years younger than her, and got her pregnant. They maybe knew each other for a month or two at the time. This woman is a former stripper, and an ex-con with three other children from three different fathers. All of the fathers are dead. Strange coincidence.
Father and mother in law went through a messy divorce, he has to pay out the nose for alimony now (which he sort of deserves, but not to the extent that he's paying). He gets mad that I still talk to his ex-wife and have a friendship with her. I've known...
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>>16452279
He's already been punished by the court. Don't make it worse.
I say do what your husband is doing, for his sake if anything.
>in-laws
It's not really YOUR family, it's not really your business what they do. You don't have to be friends with them. But it does seem a bit unreasonable to flat-out refuse to meet her. Just go, be at your husband's side so he doesn't have to deal with his crazy family alone. Presumably, he does the same for you at your own family functions.
Don't bring this woman into your life more than you need to, but don't make such a big show of your disapproval. The guy's not your father, he's...
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