A few. My best friend is an old college buddy but I've also made close friends afterward. It was through the same formula I always give people when this question pops up:
- find 2+ new activities with low barrier to entry (cost, appeal, etc.)
- do those activities regularly (at least once a week) with the same group of people each time
- when you're comfortably familiar with people there, talk to them
- invite the pleasant ones to do other stuff with you (hence 2+ activities; use the other(s) as your invitation)
- keep doing stuff and talking

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No friends, no.

>>16455378

Thanks for the reply. Yeah, when I read that, it really resonates with what I see at college: Most of the people who hang out outside school also do stuff together on a regular basis. My hobbies, now that I think about it, are as indivudualistic as they come - music, VG, books.

I figure I'll start looking for some new stuff to do, even if I don't have that much freetime anymore. Also, excuse the spaghetti - never really bothered with this kind of stuff until recently.

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>>16455295
> So fast forward a year
> Things are going well still
> GF has stopped self harm completely because of me
> After around 2 years of being together relationship begins to die down and isn't what it is before
> Were more like best friends who occasionally do couple things
> Well recently I've noticed this girl
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First time starting a serious thread so I dont know what to expect

>>16455295
go for the dream girl, get into a fight with your gf, break up, try not to regret it, regret it really hard, be depressed about it, get over it, realize that she wasn't your dream girl and you didn't love your gf as much as yout thought

Learn to man up. As long as you're getting some, hair doesn't matter. Just ask her to trim it up.

>>16455217
I can't.... hairy pussy makes me want to puke

Deal with it. Trimmed is superior.

Even if she shaves every day, there will be stubble, and it'll hurt.
It's pretty common to give yourself tiny cuts when shaving, and considering what else is around the crotch area, cuts often become infected pimples or abcesses.
Ingrown hairs.
Increased sweatiness and chafing.

No, dumbass. She didn't give a flying fuck about you. Find someone who does.

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>>16455151
If she cheated on you, her attraction to you was already low. If she does come back around it will only be for her and the children's security.

If you love and respect yourself OP. Turn away and move on.

No, you should not forgive her. It hurts, I know, but she deceived you for a month at least. I would call that long term deception.

People who practice long term deception like that, don't do it for any other reason than, deep down, they enjoy deceiving someone.

In her life, you were here anchor point. Deceiving you was what was getting her off. If she really wanted your manager more than you, should would have left you for him.

But she didn't. What she enjoyed most about her affair was that she was deceiving you. She had a perceived power over...
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Is visiting him instead an option?

>>16455118
What if maybe it helps for solve problems in your family? At least now, if they focus on being nice to your boyfriend or maybe just tryng to look like a good family, they maybe solve their problems.
Idk, in the worst case your family fights but your boyfriend still there with you, so its kinda nice to have someone to be there when you need it.
Also sorry for mistakes, english is not my main language

>>16455154
It is an option which I'm conflicted about, as I don't want to leave my family for christmas in this state.

Personally, I would like to think that I wouldn't care, though I admit that I've never been tested on that (and am unlikely to be, since I am happily off the market).

But unfortunately, there ARE men who think this way. 4chan is certainly not a microcosm of the dating scene as a whole, but there are enough of them even on /adv/ to prove that they exist, and that's not even touching /pol/. Then again, many of these guys are people you wouldn't want to date anyway.

>>16455096
Not sure why'd you would come to /adv/ with this given its reputation but whatever.

There's nothing to really be done about it. Some people will care, others wont. Eventually people will forget or new people will come in and things will go back to normal for you.

>>16455096
>Is this actually true?
no its bullocks

What did you expect?

>>16455080
That he would answer...

Pretty unfair thing to ask and unfair of you to put him in that situation on the spot.

The reason why we have a 7 billion population is because we are much more compatible than you think. There will be another girl that is as "right" for you as she was. You won't find her as quickly if you're still crying over her two years later

>>16454890
2 years is a real long time to stay hung up pal. I broke up with my ex a month ago and it still pains me but there are definitely days I feel better. You need to put her out of yo life son

>block her on social media
>delete pictures/texts on phone
>get on with some extra curricular activities

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>>16454890
Learn from your mistakes dumbass!
That's what happens when you take shit for granted and I pretty sure you will do sum bullshit like that in your next relation ship, sooo try this,

Holla at her again to see how she feels ,
If she don't want nothin to do with you, then there you go!
Y wast your time?
Look for some one else now !
She isn't worried about you any moar
Soooo GET OVER SOMEONE WHO IS OVER YOU!

sounds like a drama-addict to me...
just see how it goes next time you see her, but more of that shit would be an indication of crazy.

>>16454899
I think I need some affirmation, just, hypothetically speaking, assuming there's no background to this,
is it fucking normal to not have even 5 minutes for a talk over the phone with your SO while you're at home, perhaps busy, but not doing any lectures or anything that would involve other people in an imperative manner? Fuck.

Don't feed the drama. Get over it, never bring it up, act as if it never happened next time you see her.
If she does it again, tell her that it's not ok, and if she doesn't listen, tell her that if she wants to continue this type of behaviour, she's free to go and act like this with someone else, but you won't accept it.
She'll either clean up her act and apologies, or she's not worth keeping around.

Did you at least make a move?
Does she know you're interested?

>>16454854
This girl only accepts my invitations when there are going to be other people coming.

I tried like 3 times to ask her casually to go for a drink or to see a movie and she always says that she's busy. But when I call her and say "hey me and "random common acquaintance" are going for a drink, wanna come?" she always accepts.

Hey OP, Its clear as day that she isnt interested, and when a womans says shes not interested, she means it, You should probably stop seeing her altogether. Get your mind away from her. Try taking up a hobby or meet some new people.

You're shit at foreplay

More foreplay.

She's not worked up enough. The vagina naturally expands the more aroused a girl is.

I think on average I'd spend about 15-45+ minutes of pure foreplay with most girls, just slowly escalating bit by bit.

Lube and get her really horny first. Also, let her ride you so she can controle speed and penetration

That's awefully horrible anon... I'm sorry.
Do you go to therapy? Cause shit like that would need a professional

>>16454802
Dude this shit is too heavy for a chinese moving pictures board. You need to see a professional who can actually help you not a bunch of nerds on the internet.

Bro, I'm so fucking sorry to hear that. As a grunt, i understand what you are talking about. I don't really know what encouraging words to give you because i understand your thinking on this situation, and I would feel the exact same way.

All you can do brother, just try your best to move on. I encourage you to visit your buddy, maybe it will give you some closure.

gross.

>>16454772

Shit man, that's confusing as fuck. Not gonna lie, I have NO idea how I would feel. I guess how ok with it you are is your call.

What exactly is it you need advice on? Do you find it gross that she's a whore? Do you mind having a sugar mama? Just enjoy it while it lasts, wear protection and don't get too attached emotionally.

F,

I love you. so much more than I thought I ever could for anyone. you were the only one who cared when I got out of the hospital, and I'll never forget that. even when you're off traveling across the country and so far away, I feel the exact same way. I think you might feel the same way too, but I'm too scared to find out. it's hard to tell someone they're the most precious thing in the world to you.. but I'm trying to build up the confidence to do it. I want you to know how I feel, even though I think you already do

- J

Dear H

Sorry for bothering you, I'll never text you or attempt conversation ever again. Should have known you wanted nothing to do with me.

P

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Dear B,

Not a day goes by i do not miss you brother, im sorry i could not be there to watch your son grow. I'm sorry we shall never shout eachother milky bars till the sun comes up and ridicule the world like the peaking ducks that we were born to be. Words do no justice to how disappointed i am in myself for not being around for you and yours. Slange va and may we meet in Valhalla if only to exchange beerily fluids whilst chincking our steins once more.

Yours sincerely,
R

Another bump

I realized I have lost much drawing skill that I used to have. I was bummed. When I thought about it more, I didn't feel so bad. I've learned a lot since I practiced drawing.

I can sharpen a chainsaw chain, sharpen $400 hair scissors, design and construct a shed, sew a backpack or a dress, build an electronic leadscrew, design a control panel, troubleshoot a motor drive, machine a necklace or a die, cook stir fry and clean the kitchen simultaneously, carve a wooden spoon, build a cabinet, do technical drawings, operate a cnc machine, rebuild a bicycle, forge...
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>>16454793
Thank you for your perspective, it's reassuring. I'd like more perspectives though.

Bumping again.