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I want a relationship but I hate sex. Wat do?
>>16459177
Find someone who hates sex too.
>>16459180
Where do I find a sane, healthy 18-25-year-old man who hates sex?
>>16459201
I don't know, I hate sex and I know that after a while in a relationship my hormones with kick in and ill want sex. Its life and its hard to go against its will.
I seriously try my hardest not to get horny and its still comes around.
Its going to be hard to find someone would will never want sex.
Maybe its not a real relationship that you want but to only make friends.
Cocaine
I make a cocaine joke on social media
Girl I know messages me this letting me know she snorts Coke (yes she's hot)
I joke about it telling her I don't snitch and how she'll have tons of energy...
I want to message her to tell her to take it easy with that shut but don't want to come off like a dad or judging I'd feel terrible if she overdosed and I didn't say anything. Should I just forget it or say something?
Any advice is appreciated
>>16459128
Invite her round to do a line.
She'll suck your cock.
>>16459165
I don't do Coke never have done Coke I don't judge but I'll probably make a joke and tell her to be safe or something
>>16459128
The coke is probably an outlet for deeper issues so you're not gunna fix her by telling her to stop
How do you stop doing self-destructive shit?
>>16459066
thats some nice lasagna
>>16459066
By killing yourself.
>>16459066
seek help man you probably have nobody to talk to
op here
i got caught street racing
apparently i'm going to be under review
my roommates may report me for not cleaning, not stocking the fridge despite the fact that i dont fucking live with them
my life is over
this isn't your personal blog
start a rant thread or go find one to rant in
>>16458981
im asking for advice
>getting caught street racing
shake my head to be honest
at least you go to princeton, family
i dunno if this is the right place to ask, but what i'm asking for is still advice so..
My cousin wants me to drive her somewhere. It's a 30minute drive with no traffic and who knows how long with traffic. I really don't want to drive her because of how time consuming this is and how boring it's going to be to sit in traffic. i already tried getting out of it by saying ' i have to go to school, ill try to be back by (the time she wanted to leave)'
then she pushed the time back by saying, oh thats fine we can leave later then.
how the fuck do I get out of this? This going to be like 1h30m to 2h at least and i dont wanna do this
tldr; don't want to drive someone somewhere because of time consumption, how do i get out of it.
"I've changed my mind, I won't be able to drive you. Good luck finding a ride."
What will happen if you say thay, OP?
>>16458946
What you really need to do mate is be a man about it. If you make excuses, she'll think that you actually want to do it and she'll try to find ways to fix the problem - like saying you can go later when you said you were busy at the time.
Remember, she holds no authority over you, and you have no responsibility to her. You're not doing anything wrong by not taking her. You don't have to justify yourself to her. Just firmly but politley tell her you're not going to do it, don't let yourself get drawn in to an argument over why you're not going to do it. Tell her no, and if she presses the issue tell her she'll have to find someone else to drive her.
>>16458971
>not doing anything wrong
aside from being a dickhead
So I may have to make a report to the police but I want some advice on it first.
I recently started (and gave up) online dating but I had already started talking to one guy before I decided to delete my account. I chose to continue talking to him because even though everything else wasn't working out, he seemed nice enough. He was very polite, had a job, he lives about an hour and a half away but he said he wouldn't mind coming in every now and then to see me.
So after two or three particularly uninspiring dates I'm losing interest. We shoot a couple of texts back and forth but at one point I get busy and I don't respond for about a day. He asks me what the deal is and finally I tell him that "I enjoy spending time with you but I don't think this is working out the way we had planned"
Keep in mind i haven't been mooching off of him or anything. He drove once, I drove once, he paid for dinner once, I paid for dinner once. He bought me tickets to see music once but I was ready to pay and he told me to put my wallet away.
Anyways after I tell him this he says "Oh that's unfortunate, it was nice knowing you"
hours later he decides it's not okay and starts losing his shit. Saying that life has been a series of disappointments for him and "thanks for being another one" "you never wanted to be my friend" all of this heartbroken jazz.
I tell him he needs to simmer down, I don't owe him anything and it sucks that his life has been hard but I'm not interested. He goes on that I "wasted 24 hours of his time" and "ruined his weekend"
Finally I block his cell number. The next morning, come to find out he used a throwaway email to start messaging me again, saying how I'm a jerk for stringing him on and how he hopes it bites me in the ass. I tell him he needs to stop contacting me and still, I don't owe him shit (cont)
>>16458798
Anyways he stops for a while, except for one text something about him buying a dog blanket for my pup and having to throw it away now (I never asked him to buy shit) I tell him to do whatever he wants, I never asked him for anything
Then I just recently got a text asking if we could meet up at the local starbucks in TWENTY MINUTES or an hour or whatever (like I said he lives over an hour away)
I told him no, I don't feel safe and I already told him to stop contacting me.
He hasn't said anything particularly threatening yet but I definitely don't feel safe. Is this something that warrants a police report? I deleted all but the last two texts about him wanting to meet up because I thought he was done with his bullshit nonsense but I suppose he isn't. I live in a small town and i'm afraid he may find where I live.
>I tell him he needs to simmer down
No. When this happens, you immediately disengage and block.
At this point you need to start collecting everything for when he does say or do something threatening. Then you immediately go to the police.
>>16458811
>Is this something that warrants a police report?
possibly some kind of harassment but since you
> I deleted all but
did this what evidence is there ?
save all that stuff
How do I stop fantasizing about being handicapped?
By getting handicapped.
make it a reality
>>16458745
How do I do that without risking accidentally killing myself?
I can't deal with blindness.
I have 2 problems with 4chan
1) The skin keeps resetting. I want it to be tomorrow skin but everytime it goes back to the annoying red and blue skin depending on board. Why is this?
2) I cant post from phone. Captcha keeps saying it is wrong eventhough I did it correctly. I have set it to legacy captcha but I still get image captchas. They keep saying its wrong, even after 30 to 50 tries, so its definately a bug.
Anyone can help me?
Anyone??
GODDAMNIT WHY DOESNT ANYONE REPLY
Yeah 4chan sucks. It's full of edgy kids and the mods delete threads and ban people just because they have the buttons, I think.
Why else does 4chan suck?
So im a 19 year old, i struggle just to get girls interested in me
This girl i really like in my class, im not sure if she likes me back.
i emailed her (i know, i know kinda cheap right) if she wanted to go out this veteransday and she replied
>Oh! Thanks for the offer but I'm going to be busy for most of tomorrow because of my art history project. Sorry!
and then >I gotcha. I'll let you know though I'm going probably be busy these next couple weeks because of class and work.
>girl also said she wasnt looking for a boyfriend RIGHT NOW. (but i feel as if though she is testing me to see how badly i want her..... not sure
im not sure how to read these signals, is she legite busy or is she brushing me off nicely.
while i havent asked her out in person(which i regret since i shouldve to begin with) i feel like third time is the charm.
i was thinking of just saying this, at the end of the semester
>hey anon i dont think you really understood me, but i am actually interested in you. Since the semester is almost over i thought we could hang out.
>girl is nice through text but always says that she's busy with coursework/anything else
Forget it, she's completely not into you and is trying to let you down gently. Happened to me last week.
And don't get me started on the "not looking for a bf RIGHT NOW'. This translates to "I wouldn't mind a bf but I sure as hell don't want YOU as one".
Delete her number and find a new skirt to chase.
>>16458671
>hey anon i dont think you really understood me, but i am actually interested in you. Since the semester is almost over i thought we could hang out.
Beta as fuck m8
She wants nothing to do with you and probably sees you as some random creep who won't stop bothering her and ignores what she believes to be obvious hints that she's not interested.
This is op, so basically there is no coming back from this?
Is it better to die in your 20s or waste 60 years achieving nothing in life?
To live.
You don't know that you won't achieve jack shit.
die in your 20s.
unless your parents really care about you.
>>16458662
My parents had kids out of obligation to contribute to the most useless generation in world history. I was a failure from the start, stupid, not talented or even interested in anything, I haven't achieved anything and my existence is a shame spot on this planet.
where do i find short term or month to month rentals?
i'll probably only need it until january or something
any keywords i'm missing on craigslist? there's very very few options
AirBnB.
>>16458668
ainbnb is nightly and ruinously expensive though if you're going for multi-month rentals
>>16458678
>ainbnb is nightly
Did you think of maybe not opening your mouth until you were absolutely sure of what you were about to say?
My friend sent me this letter a guy wrote her. what does /adv/ think about it, any advice for this guy?
Lots of "y" desu. Good writing hand too. But yeah, same stuff, do the usual "aww you're such a good friend :)", that" ll do the trick.
>>16458625
This is pathetic.
>>16458625
m'lady/10. If the girl is into that, then great, but otherwise this kid is fuuuuuuuucked.
How do you stop feeling guilty about achieving nothing in life?
>>16458580
find something you want to do, do it, congrats you're an achiever. Start small, build your way up.
Be the best non-achiever you can be.
OWN IT!
>>16458580
Start with the smallest things. Breathe in deeply. Tada
Are there any colleges NOT overrun by SJWs? What about overseas?
Try a military academy. That's about as non-SJW as you're going to get.
>>16458576
probably only schools that are:
>in very conservative areas
>small (population sub 5K)
>religious institutions
or any combo of those 3 parameters
>>16458576
yes?
SWJs seem to be everywhere but less so in the Asian continent
Would you get back with an ex who left you who is interested in you again? Bonus points: she's mentally ill. But I loved her so much, she was basically perfect aside from her being mentally ill and the part where she left me.
Any time.
Just say the word.
Im her humble servant and provider.
She won't be mentally ill forever. If you can work through it and you truly care about her, it's a possibility.
What ended the relationship previously matters. If those issues are no longer present, it may be able to work.
I'd pretend to, anal Fuck her as much as I can. Then when she stops letting me use her I'd dump the slur. ;)
