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A "friend" of mine just stole fifty bucks off me. Should i stomp his guts out or what?
Consider it a $50 lesson on not associating with shitty people in the future.
Just reposess $50 out of him if you see him around again.
>>16457637
ask him to lend you 50 dollars to see how he responds
I'm having some issues with my mother browsing my computer. I know its her, but she won't admit to doing it unless I provide proof, and even if I do get it it might be a mixed bag as to whether or not she admits it. I've put a password and a lock screen on my computer but I'm wondering if anyone would have some sort of recommendation for a program that uses my webcam to record.
My mother is a terrible awful person and the circumstances as to why I'm still living here are things I'd like to remain unknown, so just some webcam advice would be good.
>>16457552
dont even start stuff like this. i know you dont want to hear this, but instead of reacting to your mother spying on you with spying on your mother i would recommend solving your mysterious problems and moving out asap.
>>16457592
It's not an option currently.
>Doesn't live on their own
>Also doesn't know computers well enough to know how to secure one
I'd suggest getting your shit together and moving out. If you "can't", I'd suggest you quit being underage and b& and quit whining about it in the meanwhile.
I met the girl of my dreams over steam, but I think one of my friends is trying to steal her away from me. What do I do?
>>16457532
Remember she's only the girl of your dreams if you're the guy of her dreams.
>>16457551
So should I stop pursuing her? should I be mad at my friend, he knows I like her.
I really like her a lot.
My girlfriend doesn't think I prioritize her enough.
I'm very new to this, she's my first girlfriend. We live about 20 minutes away so we can't hang out all the time. Besides that, we're both pretty busy. Our schedules don't mesh well. We usually hang out on the weekends and the one day a week we can both fit it in.
But she feels as though it's not enough. I've made a few comments that I didn't mean to make before. Her happiness is the most important thing to me but I need balance in my life. It's not that I prioritize...
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Twice a week isn't really enough time for a relationship. Sounds like you don't really have time for a serious relationship.
You're still trying to be independent and she's trying to be more together.
>>16457537
we text all day every day though. I call her pretty often. I didn't tonight and that's what sparked this conversation.
We've planned so many things together, every weekend until Christmas we have things to do.
I just feel as though relationships aren't easy. It would be easy to just say "I don't have time for this" and give up. I feel strongly about her to fight for this. But I guess I'm scared that she's scared.
>>16457547
There isn't some set number of interactions you need per week, it's however many it takes to make both people feel right.
So I have this girlfriend i met on WoW, but every guy who finds out that she is a girl fucking talks to her. SHe's a nice gal,that's why she replies back, but im getting fucking annoyed and tired that she has to talk to every guy who talks to her. WHat do i fucking do, i am losing my fucking god damn piece of shit mind.
You do not have a girlfriend. Just rest easy senpai
Trust her. There's no point in being with her if you can't and you literally met her doing this hobby so it would be nuts to expect her to stop. And yes she may be doing precisely the same flirtation she did with you, that's why you had better hope this isn't a long distance relationship. Chances are if she ate up the attention you initially gave her she eats up all the attention they still give her. If she was reserved and only became your gf after getting to know you on there then you have a speck of hope she's not going to meet someone else the same way.
OP here
i dont fucking know anymore, yeah i met her doing this hobby and we hit it off quickly.
Yes, we're long distance and we've talked literally every day on skype since we met. but it bugs me that she is fucking typing to other guys , fucking that typing sound on the other end annoys me the fuck out so much that i cant just chill with her anymore knowing that she is not 100% there.
My girlfriend's fundie Christian neighbour started sending her creepy messages in the vein of pic attached, upon further inspection of his Facebook page, he's been writing public statuses about her, how he's watching her, and how he wants to make a good Christian wife out of her. What do? I'm living interstate until next year when we've planned on moving in together.
Posting more of the stuff he's saying for context.
She should call the police non emergency line and tell them about this. They will go talk to the guy and tell him he is harassing her and to knock it off. Then he will either knock it off or he won't but if he won't you'll have begun the process necessary to document that he is a threat and she will be that much safer anyhow because further action from him will be illegal.
Plus probably block him.
What are some ways to tell if someone working service is being friendly/flirty for a tip or if they're into you?
There's this girl I see often who works at a cafe and she always greets me with a warm smile, asks me how I am, calls me pet names, etc.
I'm inclined to pass it off as what it normally is, just a girl being good at her job, but today she took her break outside where it was just me and her. That struck me as unusual because I know I give off a vibe that people tend to avoid, like I basically just have issues with personal space and sort...
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Print this
Write your # on the back
"Forget it" at the cash register after she rings you up
>>16457485
Fantastically autistic idea for my very autistic thread job well done man.
hm
Does it make me a bad person if I messaged a girl on OK cupid, found out she had a bf through Facebook snooping and then continued to pursue her just to see if I could get her to cheat?
Like the girl isn't even attractive, she's well below my usual standards. But I'm just really drawn to fucking this girl, just because she's been in this relationship for like 2 years
>>16457469
You really need us to answer that?
That's a weird validation to be seeking here.
>>16457505
I just need some outside perspective on this.
How do I convince my fiancé to stop doing porn? She's only done 17 films so up until about a month or so ago she isn't too well known. We are both 19 and in sophomore year at our college. She has sexual abuse issues her dad and uncle went to jail for molesting her her mom got her into porn she's done tons of videos. I knew about it before I met her I've now dated her for 8 months. She is pregnant with our child I want to marry her. She is my best friend and we have lots of fun together. She went to Vegas to film for back room casting couch and ever since...
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>>16457438
....what's her moms name?
My girlfriend just recently wanted to start becoming a cam whore. And i know that is nothing like your situation, but to her to greatest reason she chose not to was for her eventual career. To her caming would be a waste of her time. Yea, it would make her a good amount of money that she desperately needs, but in the end, it would be a distraction from what she really wants to do.
>>16457468
Janice
I'll answer all your stupid fucking questions to the best of my ability. Ain't gonna sugarcoat nothin.
Relationships issues?
Depressed?
Boring?
No love life?
Bring it on faggots and fagguettes, I am your source for real talk advice until I get bored.
What is the meaning of my life?
where do i start with texting girls
>>16457432
How the fuck am I supposed to know? Answer these questions faggot
What do you like to do
What are you good at
What kinds of people do you think would benefit from those fuckin things
>>16457437
Purchasing a cell phone
>be me
>girlfriends going through my phone
>thinking shes just using google maps (She does that a lot)
>Who is 'anon' ? (there is literally an entry that says 'anon' in my phone)
>hes a guy who calls my phone some nights and tells me stories til i fall asleep
what the fuck do i tell her? she already thinks im way too fucking weird.
Hes a dude you met at a party or some shit, wouldnt tell you his real name, and was gonna sell you something (make some shit up) but it fell through recently?
>>16457422
maybe. i dont go to parties and my girlfriend is well aware of that fact (and throws it in my face fairly often) but i think something similar might work.
>>16457410
"It's my long back school friend. We used to think we were anonymous hackers so we call each other anon. He lives in another country so its morning for him when he calls. That time it's night for us. You should speak to him once, he's really good (just a expression, don't make her speak to him)."
I'm seriously considering meeting up with a husband and wife couple, to join them in some physical trysts. They sound like interesting, well-rounded people. I'm 20, I've been in relationships but am a virgin. Is there anything I should consider before saying yes?
There are many things you should consider before hand. What worries you most?
>>16457470
Well, what's a good way to gauge how ok they will be with my needs? I'm kind of scared of penetration and don't know how enjoyable a 3some would be without it. I don't want to be selfish and waste their time if they don't end up getting what they really want from it.
>>16457481
Wait, are you a guy or girl?
I'm a girl, and I can't stop masturbating, Any advice on how I can stop please. I really dont want to do it anymore. I feel awful and sick. Idk..I mostly do it when I feel really depressed or lonely. I just really want to stop the habit, i feel like it isnt right.
Hey, im a guy with the same problems to the point that it ruined sex. Honestly the best thing I can suggest is finding other ways to express sadness. I used long walks so I couldn't jack off as much.
Im not completly past it either. Especially when feel depressed. Hope what little I have helps
mastUrbating
with a 'u'
>>16457319
I usually don't masturbate when they are people in the house or people to have sex with.
Surround yourself with friends or get a boyfriend?
Maybe cut back on computer time and pick up a new hobby.
I understand how you are feeling and have been through that. You can do it, femanon. Take control of your body, limit yourself.
Hey guys, not sure what to do and wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience.
I've been diagnosed with depression, though this is not my first episode. Usually I would feel better after treatment and drop the medication and a year later relapse into depression again. This time I've been on Citalopram for most of this year. Initially it was really effective, but now all of a sudden I'm having panic attacks and anxiety, which never used to be a problem before. It also seems to be getting worse.
Is this typical with SSRIs? Should I change...
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I was under the impression that people knew that these psychiatric medicines are bad for you long-term.
Maybe start doing some work and try to lead a normal life or kill yourself.
>>16457223
I took paxil for about a year and it wasnt hard to get off of but it was the weirdest feeling ive ever felt going cold turkey. I dont know what they do and I guess it depends on what youre taking them for but my experience was they are terrible.
>>16457233
>Maybe start doing some work and try to lead a normal life
Well, that is the attempt. Depression on one hand disrupts the hell out of my sleep and eating habits. On the other hand, now suddenly having random intense panic attacks is not much better for "leading a normal life."
If anything these are concerns for disrupting my work and normal life.
I'd just like to figure out why im so undesirable to women.
inb4 next elliot rodgers
I've never had relationship and cant figure out why
tips and suggestions plz /adv/
i also changed my hairstyle since last posts
Don't have any facial hair unless if you can actually grow decent facial hair.
Otherwise it just comes down to confidence and your ability to hold conversation.
How many women have you asked out?
>that greasy gelled back hair
>that peach fuzz facial hair
>that massive ogre nose
terrible style bud, sorry
