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This is a serious question. Is a non offending pedophile, ( still a pedophile ) that gross or weird to people? I mean what If the guy looks average, and is in his late teens?
Yes. My advice is for him to keep it to himself.
>>16455906
>does me looking average make me any better as pedophile
just keep it to yourself, and dont engage. most pedos are able to maintain adult relationships as well, but if not just dont go for it. its not worth it.
>>16455910
To never to anyone? Not even his best friend ?
Have you ever broken up with a long term partner when you were torn over whether it was the right thing to do? Not because of something they did wrong, or because there was someone else you were interested in. How did you feel when you ended it?
>>16455868
If you are young, this is normal. Do not drag it out for either of you. Just rip the bandage off.
A big stress reliever , like it sucked and it did hurt but it was for the best.
Sounds like someone made a commitment without first thinking about what they stood to get in return for it.
Relationships aren't Disney shit. Commitment is a huge sacrifice. If you make it on the back of hormones and fantasy, you'll find yourself having given up an awful lot without an understanding of why. Then you question the entire point of having done it in the first place.
It's one thing if you could say "I'm torn over whether this is worth it." At least then you could assess worth. Here you're talking in vagaries. Break...
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I want to find a liberal and highly educated jewish girl to settle down with. I want a wife that will be jealous, nag me and show me true desire.
Context:
Tall attractive black male
About to graduate liberal private uni
have mother issues
>>16455856
>find a single girl that meets these qualities
>ask her to marry you when time is right
>do all those things you listed
i think the bigger issue here is that you are expecting someone to fill specific role in a partner. i mean its fine if you want to hook up with this kinda chick or hang around a bit, but ur already talking about marriage. you aren ot going to 'find' your wife. you will meet her.
>>16455856
what the fuck? jews don't get married to outside jews unless they're rich or influential and if they do it's because they're so fucked up mentally or addicted to drugs, especially if it's to a black dude.
>>16455867
>they're so fucked up mentally or addicted to drugs, especially if it's to a black dude.
Awesome, now I know my audience. Now where to find them?
/adv/, how do you deal with the past? how do you deal with the apparent realization you have made great mistakes, even though you thought you had learned from them so long ago?
how do you deal with seeing signs that have been there for months and you weren't able to read until now?
it's haunting me to death, i'm beating myself so hard for not knowing better once again.
i feel like an opportunity has been given to me all this time and even though i kind of knew i had to grasp it, i didn't, or i didn't grasp it strong enough...
the...
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Same boat
>>16455846
>how do i deal with it
by dealing with it? everything you talk about is in the past. this is pretty much what life is built on. its the reason the president has grey hair. no matter how experienced we are, we area always a small fish in a big pond.
>>16455846
By accepting the fact that tomorrow is coming.
>Be me
>Date girl for a little over 10 months
>She's a total bro. Likes same music as you, loves vidya, smart, makes memes, cute, have great sex, very cuddly, and loyal.
>Start developing a fond attachment to a female friend you both know.
>She is also cute, sweet, and smart. Though not as into vidya, or music. Pretty heavy Christian.
>You still love gf in every way, but you can't...
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>The two of you want to be together soo bad, but she knows that you won't be happy unless you at least try to be with your friend.
>You don't want to leave your gf heartbroken because you know all the shit she's gone through and you don't want to she her fall back into that dark place.
>She is too sweet, too kind.
>Kinda wish you could have the two of them. Keep your gf and bring in your friend.
>But...
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>>16455787
Im sorry your a faggot who can't be happy with woman A. Want a cookie dumbass? The hell advice u need? Go post this on /b/ or some forum for bitches and hos.
>>16455791
It depends on who the fuck this friend is? Personally I can't relate.
I've been noticing lately more and more guys doing stupid things because they can't get laid. I can't tell if there are more sexually frustrated male virgins this generation or if those guys have just became more vocal about their situation thanks to the internet. Is sex really harder to get now than it was 10 or 20 years ago? Is this generation of women nitpickier about who they have sex with or are there just more undesirable men?
Thanks to feminism you have 20% of top males fucking 80% of women.
A normal guy has no chance in the pussy game, so he drops out and starts doing stupid shit since he has no chance with women either way.
>>16455717
Women are fucking nuts. Its a minefield. Feminist turned what was awesome in the 80's and 90's into a fucking trainwreck.
I suspect it's a combination of internet echo chamber and increased room for independence, which in the wrong hands can turn into isolation.
I can't speak for everyone else but I think I'm getting as much action as men of generations past. I'm not anything special either.
This is following on from a thread I made yesterday. Basically I used to have a close friend, over time things escalated and we slept together a few times, and then out of the blue one day she broke it off because she'd never really seen me as boyfriend material. She was genuinely sorry when she saw how hurt I was and wanted to stay friends, but although I tried this for a little while it was pretty clear I couldn't handle it, especially when she got a new boyfriend. I started avoiding her in real life and deleted her on all social media, and we've only spoken...
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Summary of last few messages:
Her: I'm glad you're doing well, just thought I'd message and see how you were
Me: It's nice to catch up and everything, but I'm not really sure why you want to check on me. Might be the best to leave the past in the past for good?
Her: If that's the way you feel.... I just got reminded that we used to get on. But anyway, I wish you all the best for the future
Me: It's not like I really want to say it or enjoy it, but I just don't see the point in staying in contact. We're...
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OP, you made the right decision.
I was put in a similar situation a few months ago with one of my eces and decided to see if things could maybe work out differently than the first time we dated.
A few weeks goby and everything is great. She comes over, we smoke, drink, play video games, eventually fuck, and I ask her if we could be together. She says yeah. Few weeks of sheer bliss. Out of nowhere, she's avoiding me. I go crazy for a few days until she messages me back. She's not ready for a relationship. Wants to take things slow. Okay, sure. Fast forward to...
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I'm not reading this, but you need to get over yourself.
