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Since second grade I realized I was gonna die alone. Still feel crushes for girls. Still know I'm gonna die alone. My mom fucked me up to bad. I have no friends. I never get invited to anything. Nobody talks to me. I am alone. I don't feel connectjon to family at all. I feel like if mom died my life would get better. My parents want me to go to collage. I want to be free. I want to go anywhere away from here. Bay area ca. My question is: "When you were in high school did you feel like me?" If you did. What dd you do? Do Yu regret it? Not trying to be whiny...
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>>16457091
You do sound like a whiny bitch, which is probably why you don't have friends.
>>16457095
>12
Thought about that before.
run away from home and live with the homeless
http://strawpoll.me/5992297
Please vote on which portable dry cannabis vaporizer you would recommend, thank you!
General stoner thread, with focus on vapes.
Pics, stories, and testimony are welcome!
I am a frequent /adv/ and /r/ thread responder if it makes any difference to anyone. Much love ~
>>16457070
do you lift weights too? I've read conflicting data on how THC affects weightlifting because the science is young.
I want to relive my first dab. Moon Rock. It was called fucking Moon Rock. I should have known.
>>16457070
Your poll is missing the best one, the G Pen Pro.
I've used a few other ones (atmos blows), and this is the only one that can really vape flower on a regular use basis. The only problem with it is that the charge port on the device is so easy to break. I exchanged 3 before finally returning it. If you are not an all day smoker then it is the best choice. I personally don't think any of the vapes on the market currently can handle all day smokers.
>>16457108
I do... But honestly not that much weight and not often. I'm more of a pushup-pullup guy. I shall research this more.
Dab some DMT btw desu senpai.
>>16457118
I wish I could add that in there... Atmos does suck, I used one for dabbing and it was quite inefficient. I'm more of a once-to-twice a day smoker. Maybe bi-weekly social smoker. The only one I really used was the flight box and it was pretty cool. I shall research this though, thank you.
i just turned 18 today
if you could tell 18 year old you something what would you say
>tfw applying to colleges and don't have a real concrete idea of what i want to do
>tfw popular kid and able to hold myself in conversation but i dont identify with any of the people around me at all on a real level voluntarily spend whatever chance I can alone
>feel like im living a lie with different personalities 24/7
>just blend in whatever group of people...
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Try to get into classes you need as early as possible, beg if you have to because down the line you are gonna get fucked for a whole year.
I'm 23 almost 24
Literally the two most important things I found out - and wished I found out sooner - are as follows:
L I F T
I
F
T
and
R E A D
E
A
D
I'm not going to tell you why because you already know why. Just do them.
>>16457023
I'm 20 and failing half of my classes.
If I could talk to my 18 year old self, I would say "FOCUS ON SCHOOL YOU DUMBSHIT! FUCK EVERYONE ELSE! YOU'RE NOT STUPID YOU'RE JUST A LITTLE BITCH!"
And then I would slap and shake myself until I got the point.
No seriously, focus on your schooling. Everyone and everything else is entirely irrelevant. Get organized, study and make sure that you are getting the most out of the money put into your schooling. It's extremely...
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I've been thinking about it fot awhile, and I think I'm might tell my best friend I was molested as a child. No one knows besides anyone who reads this thread and possibly him. It's just always been in the back of my head, and I've always been too embarrassed to tell anyone. Honestly, I'm not sure how he will react. What if he thinks I'm some sort of freak, and just cuts contact with me? What if he laughs in my face or thinks I'm pathetic? I might just keep my mouth shut, I don't want to get family in trouble. I don't think I could...
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>I might just keep my mouth shut, I don't want to get family in trouble. I don't think I could ever forgive myself if he gets arrested
Sounds like you've got larger problems than what your friend would think.
On the upside, unless if your friend is an inhuman asshole they'll probably just be empathetic about it. People aren't going to have some weird negative reaction towards you for that.
>>16457014
>I've got larger problems
What are you trying to say ???
>>16457010
Was it by someone you still live with?
Random question.
How do you know you're intelligent? What defines intelligent?
How do you know you're smarter then everyone else, as in , how do you differentiate between yourself confirming a bias as opposed to an outside view. Obviously your view will be different?
What are some signs someone is intelligent in general? General knowledge on many topics? Or the ability to control ones self and think about everything rationally?
It just seems so confusing. I don't know where I stand. I'd like to think I'm smarter then most people...
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>>16456829
If you have to ask if you're smarter than everyone else then you aren't smarter.
>>16456829
there are different types of intelligence, you can have a 200+IQ but have minimum to none emotional intelligence
you can only tell if you are smart by how well you can manage yourself
Intelligence is a difficult thing to define like that. If you've got to stroke your mental dick over being superior to others I'd gloat about IQ scores and being hot shit at pattern recognition, that seems to be the poplar option.
Otherwise like most people you can go about not really caring once you realize that there will always be people who severely outclass you.
Im a senior in high school. I've done shitty all four years of high school, like really shitty, and now it's dawning on me that im about to be exposed to the real world. My grades are so shit and im afraid i wont get to go to college without taking student loans out and be in debt for the rest of my life, or that any college will even accept me anyway. I dont want to be a failure or have a shitty life. But tell me like it is; is it over for me? Will I even get to go to college and get a job? I dont want to be a loser or live with my parents
Go to drama school, I know you'll make a killing just from this post alone!
if i came off as an overdramatic bitch im sorry but i want to off myself for the last few months and im tired of worrying about this
Jobs could care less about your high school GPA just as long as you have an actual diploma! And community college accepts EVERYBODY.
is it tolerable to have a one night stand with a moderately ugly girl ?
did u guys ever do it ?
>>16456778
If you can find one willing to sleep with a moderately ugly guy.then why not?
yes, just think of it as community service. i've fucked a few beasts, but at the same time ive fucked way more average looking to hot girls.
Who cares sometimes you just wanna fuck with far less effort. Lower your standards for meaningless sex and watch you become happier
About a few hours ago I killed someone and disposed of the body in a trash truck but i didn't realize that someone followed me. I saw the person because I caught a fast movement behind the building like 13 yards away. I quickly ran back to my apartment and now I am sitting hear worrying if they will call the police or if they followed me back to my apartment.
13 yards, are you sure?
>>16456765
I'll take things that never happened for 1000, Alex.
They will call the police on you. I'm sorry, but you're done for. One witness is all it takes these days.
So my brother fucked up. Gotta type this one quick. My 11 year old brother threw a stuffed animal towards a busy 2 way street while walking home from school, ended up hitting some lady's windshield. He and his friends bolted the fuck out and she hunted them down.
She catches them and gets my moms info, calls her and tells her the situation and they meet up. By this point it's already clear that this lady is your typical obese, melodramatic bitch looking to fuck someone over. According to my mom her story was inconsistent when they met up and the lady was clearly...
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Why do you even need to be in this meeting? Just have your brother apologize, and stick to the story that he was not aiming the toy at her.
If there's no damage the lady can't do shit. I'd apologize in a way that makes it clear you're just glad nobody was hurt and there was no damage.
Give her a good meal and she should forget it
What is it like to kill someone?
>>16456709
I don't know. Kill someone and find out, I guess.
>Feeling of exileration followed by remorse, indifference, or joy depending on what kind of person you are
>Followed by police apprehension, life sentence, and lethal injection if you're a minority
Only way you don't get caught for murder in modern society is: A. You're a criminal mastermind, B. You have enough money and power to make people look the other way or C. Negligence and shitty cops.
Go bac k and look through the posts some guy just posted about this.
Last Thursday in school I had a panic attack but I didn't realise that's what was actually happening, I just thought I couldn't breathe properly for some other medical reason. As soon as I left the classroom it died down. Friday I went in and had the same thing happen the very next morning and realised something was up. I thought I was gonna pass out so I had to leave and call home. All weekend I was wondering what is causing these attacks and I talked to my parents about it. They gave me some advice but on the train in on Monday morning I felt an attack come...
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>>16456694
I've gotten panic attacks before. Going to a therapist is a good start. It might take a little time before you see any results though.
Sometimes taking deep, slow breaths can help. Knowing that I'm having a panic attack and that I'm not really going to die also helps a lot. Instead of trying to fight it, I just let it run its course and it seems to go away faster. Sometimes I can do that right where I am, and sometimes I have to go someplace quiet and less stressful, like a bathroom or something,...
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>>16456716
Some solid advice there, anon, thanks.
In relation to leaving the room to allow the panic to pass, alive done this but it only returns when I'm back in the situation. The only place I get panic attacks is in the classroom. I'm in my last year of school so missing this much school, in a school solely existing to help students achieve the best results possible is bad. The staff wouldn't be too happy if I missed much more, but my health is coming before my education in my mind.
I don't have firsthand experience with this so I can't help much, but it may be useful to look up "grounding techniques" so that you know what to do if/when you have another one, that way at least you're prepared and it won't be as scary. Ex: pic related and the following link
http://expertbeacon.com/grounding-techniques-you-have-your-next-panic-attack/#.VkUx2WSrS2w
anyone else get the overwhelming urge to shoot themselves in the head?
i get this feeling when i talk to my mom.
i hovered towards the ceiling once, then i black out.
ive had a bad haircut for over a year.
That's me:
>19 y/o
>balding
>low test (11cm dick that does not work, possibly sterile, 165cm tall)
>kissless virgin
>ugly
I really hate my parents because they did not care enough to take me to a doctor when there was something that could be done about this, despite my whole family being really tall with long hair.
I went to the doctor by myself when I turned 18 but there is nothing to be done about...
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>>16456630
anon
You have nothing to lose.
buy nice truck or wagon and just drive cross country
do wild shit with your appearance
do whatever you want
never look back
Some people are born retarded, disfigured, or physically crippled. You could be way worse off man, you are lucky that you have a life to live, enjoy it as much as you can.
Yes, some people have been born with better stock, but everyone has their own problems, just because you can't see it physically doesn't mean its not there.
You don't need a relationship or family to find joy in life, some of the happiest people out there are bum ugly, they own it more than any self-conscious "good looking" person will ever be.
Sorry if I'm rambling, but I wasn't exactly born pretty either, but that's not relevant in the grand scheme of things.
Be the best you can be and be comfortable with yourself, and nobody will be above you.
>>16456630
post a pic of yourself? let me see what you are working with here.
>i will never be close to anyone or have a family
why tho? its not like you need looks or hair for that.
I have a bit of a situation here.
I had a bunch of bonds that various people bought me over the course of my life, mostly when I was a kid (my grandma used to buy me a savings bond every year for my birthday, amongst others).
Well, I finally went to turn them in because it is a very significant amount of money, about 30 grand, and I found out that about 10k worth of the bonds had apparently already been cashed in. According to the bond office, a cheque had been sent to my Dad's house. I asked my Dad about this and he told me that he's cashed them in and...
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If he did it while you were a minor, there's probably nothing you can do.
It just cost you 10K monies to learn that your father is a horrid human being.
The bonds were supposedly reinvested in 2012, which would've made me 29 at the time.
>>16456555
Lawyer up.
So my sister who is 15 needs a new place to live. Our dad has been arrested so obviously she can't live with him anymore. She choose me to be her legal gurdian, and to live with. I'm not not entirely sure If I want to be. The problem isnt finacial, I'm in my late 20s and make over 90k a year , its just she'd come with allot of emotional baggage. She was molested as a kid an im not sure if I can deal with that. What should I do?
damaged goods
dump her OP
for your sake
Bet there is plenty of guy who'll put her up, just depends if you don't mind her ending up even more damaged?
>>16456550
How would she end up more damaged?
