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So im currently a very lonely 19 year old kissless virgin male. I feel burned out already with life and would love someone else in my life, since ive never really had anyone appreciate me for who i am.
I always hear stories of guys/girls who have had like 4 partners already by my age while in high school or some shit. I havent even had one, im average looking, dont dress like shit, can handle a casual conversation, yet here i am.
But i feel like thats all about to change, theres this girl i really like in one of my college classes. I want her so bad /adv/. Plz...
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My boyfriend asked me out, I said yes, now we've been together just over two years. Your situation literally requires no advice other than "ask her out"
but how did he ask you out? did he do it like some romantic movie moment, or was it just like "hey want to go out with me one day out of nowhere?>>16444294
i just dont understand how relationships form
how and when should i lead up to that moment?
>>16444301
He texted me "hey, do you want to grab dinner and a movie with me". Stop overthinking this
Anyone know what the fuck this is? Had it for a week now it's itchy as hell. Just developed another one on by back. Sides been achey all week. Going to GP later this week but if anyone can guess what it is it'll be helpful.
>>16444273
looks like allergic reaction. Walked in the forest / bushes or something?
Could be bed bugs
>>16444274
Nope. Only time I went out last week was to go to uni. Not in contact with anything new. Feels like a nettle rash though.
Iv been crushing on the exact same girl for 3 years now and i cant get over her.
Im forced to see her every other day cause of uni and the fact shes my best friends girlfriends best friend.
I cant talk to her to ask her out on a date or even just to say hi i just break down and cant think of any words to say.
Iv tried fucking other girls and dating other girls but i just keep coming back to her.
>she looks a lot like pic related
When people put all their desires onto one other person, then of course asking them out becomes pure anxiety...
As an old sumbich I can assure you that this gal has no idea you like her. Tell her and take the rejection if it is going to happen. After all, right now it is if you have been rejected.
I was in the same situation. I asked if she had a bf .told me no. ask girl out got a msg on fb from friend what I think and they are going out for a month.
Last week we had a class together and his bf was absent. She told me to have a good weekend. I replied well f y too
Soooo basically everyone at work has been bothering me since I've never watched the Star Wars films. I've heard of them and all, but I never really had the interest to watch them. BUT I do want to give them a chance so is there a certain order I should watch the films? Someone told me I should begin by watching 4,5,6 and then 1,2,3. Then others tell me to watch it in order. Im confused. You're help will be appreciated!!
>>16444168
The 1 2 3 are newer than 4 5 6 I'd say it's up to you, if you want to go in order it would make more sense where you can understand every detail of 4 5 6 if you were to watch them backwards you would see the movies in the order of original star wars fan did
>>16444168
in order of release
People who are fans will tell you to watch 4, 5, and 6. because those are the good films, and then watch 1, 2, 3--because if you start with 1, you might never watch 2.
People who tell you to watch 1, 2, and 3 first... it kind of makes sense in terms of chronology... but it also tends to be young kids who have their Nostalgia glasses on and don't realize that if you weren't a kid, those weren't particularly engaging on their own merit (especially Episode 1...).
>started taking antidepressants
>sex drive is at 0
I haven't fapped basically since I started taking them and I don't really have any intentions to. I don't know if this is something I should tell my doctor about though, it seems like it could be a problem because I no longer have any interest in women at all. What should I do?
>>16444149
Anything you think is a result of a drug prescribed to you by a doctor you should talk about with said doctor. Side effects for things are always shit, that's why doctors don't just hand out drugs like Halloween candy.
fix your depression by fixing the cause and not just masking it with that medication. Start taking cold showers everyday, exercise at least an hour a day, start eating better, spend at least 30 minutes outside in the sun everyday. Start doing some volunteer work. All of these things will help with your depression naturally and also have possessive health and mental benefits.
Is falling a central part of your life?
Is it acceptable if a 27 year old dates a 22 year old? How bad is it if the girl is the older one?
>>16444099
ugh thats acceptable
Just do it!>>16444099
Unless your a beta....
Either way is legal, which makes it acceptable in my book. I guess it depends on who you ask. I say don't ask and just do what you want.
Has anyone ever gotten fat intentionally?
I've been thinking about doing it and i was wondering if anyone had any advise or experience.
>>16444088
do you mind being fat forever?
>>16444091
I don't mind
>>16444100
Start loving food, then, man.
If fast food isn't doing it for you, check out some sole food and creole food. Still eat your veggies or something and get some vitamins in you.
My phone number and instagram got hacked because i refused to sell it to this dude.. idk if he hacked it himself but we were talking on 'kik' and he was even telling me the names of my mom and grandma lol… but i just started to get into coding about two weeks ago and don't know the first thing about hacking or where to even get started besides talking to people on image boards but i also just got into conspiracies a few weeks ago also lol but anyways, can anybody be of assistance? even to point me in the right direction of where to get started possibly/…....
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>lmao
>lmao
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>>16444089
funny? i don't like to think so for the fact that i was making a little bit of money off of it lol, but yeah to random people i suppose.
I can help, I need your kik and number?
my ex is a great guy, but he mistreats me a lot. He's not purposefully abusive towards me or anything, but he's cheated on me in the past and is extremely selfish.
He wants to date me (he broke up with me to hook up with another girl and then wanted to get back together)
I have trouble hating him and cutting him off in the way that I should because I love him still?
The emotion that I feel right now is a mixture of hating him and still caring about him.
He keeps trying to wiggle his way back in to my life, but whenever I give him a chance, he lets...
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>>16444067
Drop all contact with him. Never look back.
>>16444067
Bitch, you already know the answer.
>>16444067
>What is the best course of action here?
>>16444101
How do I get a boyfriend ? I kinda don't want to be alone for the rest of my pathetic life so dont be an SJW and reply with advice or some crap
>>16444027
Are you really fat?
no :v 134 pounds I just dont know how to talk to a guy
>>16444057
height? pic?
When I was a young girl, at about 6 years of age I was raped... Imagine a huge grown dick in my small undeveloped vagina... Yes, it was pretty painful. The guy got locked up afterwards, but inside, I am still deformed at 20 y/o.
I need to have regular sex in order to keep my vagina from ... "growing back", or to have a painless intercourse.
I met a guy, and he insisted we had sex. I had warned him before about my problem, I confided in him about this, telling him that if I hadnt had sex in a long time, I will need to prepare in advance and he said it...
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He wasnt a one night stand - we were meant to get in a relationship.**
>>16443989
>I need to have regular sex
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>>16443989
>I tried to talk to him, but he ignores me. What can I do? I cant afford the surgery to get this fixed...
Nothing is wrong with you, OP. But I think you made a mistake by giving in to a guy that insisted upon sex. Guys will say they understand just to get what they want, without ever really understanding what you've been through and what doing this too soon can do to you. Find someone that isn't in such a hurry and will be more than happy to walk through this with you.
Okay long story short.
4 years relationship
Bf goes on family holiday to canary islands every summer
Last summer meets a girl, starts a 'kissing relationship' with her because they get along so well.
comes back, doesnt tell me. everything goes normal. we have the time of our life.
Still texting the summer girl whilst hes with me.
I find out. confront. he admits. saying its not a big deal. ' I drew my line at kissing' 'nothing happened'
I can forgive that whilst he was away, he started having feelings for someone else. but I...
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>>16443979
adv, I'm being keked and I know I'm being keked. How do I stay with the person keking me without getting keked?
You dont.
No such thing as a "kissing relationship." He's just cheating.
anyone else /QuarterLifeCrisis/ here?
i'm 26 and lately i've been feeling incredibly self conscious and depressed, and i've got this strange feeling of desperation. I feel like im acting out all the time and it's almost like im watching myself do it at times and while a part of me realizes im acting out, I still can't stop myself from doing it. I can't figure out what exactly is wrong with me, but I just feel panicked all the time. I try doing activities that calm me down but it feels like it's all I do now and its just making everything...
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>>16443946
I'm quarter life crisis, all I do is work, I make good money but it doesn't feel worth it. Fuuuuuuuck.
I feel that way sometimes. I'm 23, almost 24 and I can't help but feel like my best years have passed me by and I'm never gonna get a gf. I spend almost all of my free time on the computer and I feel like I should be doing something better with my time, but I'm not sure what.
Lately I've been playing a lot of Call of Duty and that's been distracting me, but I know it'll come back once I get bored.
>>16443962
I quit my well paying job to follow my dream of being a writer, but now all I do is sit at home and mope because i'm too lazy to write, and what little I do write feels terrible, even though most people tell me its good. I guess i need discipline, but thats hard to develop while im going through what I said in OP
To any people who live in Britain, how accepting is society there in general , of pedophiles? No , not offending ones, just someone who is attracted. You would be only telling your best friend, or someone
>>16443880
By would you tell anyone that, anywhere?
>>16443891
I dunno.... What's so bad about it if I never would do anything to a child?
>>16443880
There's a stigma about that shit everywhere, the best advice I can give you is bottle that shit up and never let anyone find out, people will kick your ass if they find out. You can go and like whatever you want, but some things are better left unsaid
Sup..wanted to get some opinions about a situation I'm in. So I had a son at 17, she was 16. Told me she was taking birth control and I was dumb enough to trust her. Found out she was cheating on me the whole time, I broke up with her 6 months ago. Today my son kept babbling on about how her boyfriend is kissing her so I text her saying it's inappropriate. Long story short she goes off on a rant about how her new boyfriend spoils her, sex is better, etc. I stayed loyal to her for 2 years, would have done anything for her, but felt I was forced to leave her cause of...
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A) is it even your kid?
B) she's allowed to kiss her new boyfriend, and even have sex with him
>>16443853
Yes he's my son, I've had a DNA test done. Just wanted to know if you think she said all these things out of jealousy or what.. this shit hurts. Don't know how to get over it.
>>16443890
No, she did it out of retaliation to you saying it's inappropriate. There's nothing wrong with a kid seeing his mother kiss his father figure, don't be such a prude
