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I was at the mall, this girl walks past me. She is so hot. Cute, slender body, nice makeup, etc. She walked by too fast but we made eye contact. Then I see her in front of the Starbucks line (this was in the foodcourt) I stopped her and told her she was too beautiful to go unnoticed. She seemed really cool about it. I made some physical contact by grabbing her waist and she didn't necessarily resist. I asked her if she lived around here she said yeah, I got her to give me her number, and we had small talk and then she said she had to leave to babysit. I tried to text and...
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>>16445574
>I acossted a girl at the mall, even put my hands on her uninvited
>She seemed really cool about it, but really she's just being nice and doesn't want to make a scene in a public place, because it would be highly embarassing
>Puts up with your unwarranted invasion of her personal space and gives up her phone number just hoping to get you away
>/adv/ why is she ignoring me?
Kill...
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She dealt with a werido without causing any ruckus.
She probably gave you a fake number.
Why would a random woman on the street start dating you just because you said she was cute? Really?
It just shows how shallow you are... you don't even know this girl and you somehow expect your relationship to mean something to her.
>>16445574
>its not like im ugly
prove it, post pics.
that being said, there can be a million reasons she wont respond. I gave my number to the flirtatious waiter today, but that doesn't mean hes going to call me. i get hit on by a dozen or so attractive guys a week, but just being attractive isn't enough anymore. if i gave a chance to everyone one of those guys, id be on 12 dates a week. thats way too much coffee, and i dont drink coffee at all, so you see my dilemma.
point...
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I was shopping around online looking for health insurance and to understand what health insurance costs for my future (I'm 21) and I didn't realize I put my information in a system or anything but now a bunch of health insurance companies keep calling me and I keep saying "Sorry, I didn't realize I had subscribed to anything or requested information. I have health insurance already and was just looking around, thank you."
Anything I can do here or should I just keep on answering the calls like this?
I don't know where it's coming...
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I know it's not like a big problem but bump.
That's what happens when you do those online things.
Often times, these sites ask you to put information and then they give you details. They use that information to call you and persuade you.
When they call them, you tell them you already have a good insurance and that you want to please be put on their don't call list.
Alternatively, just look at your damn phone and if you don't recognize the number, just don't pick up. They'll stop calling after awhile.
>>16445536
I don't know if it will help anything, but make sure your name and number on on the Do Not Call registry. That will help a little.
Otherwise, the place you did sign up at, do you know where it was? Can you contact them to take you off any mailing/subscriber lists? Unfortunately, if they already sold or shared your information with a third party, you're probably screwed. You just have to be persistent and ask to be removed from their call list. I know it doesn't help all the time, but it helps some times.
Since I can't find work or get any rides to the DMV, I'm being forced to work with my uncle in his landscaping job where he jams all his tools on the back of his truck since he doesn't want a trailer for them. It's extremely shitty and I don't get paid, once in a blue moon he might buy me a hoagie or something. When I ask him what's the point, he flips out and rants about my mother working. The problem is my mother doesn't really give a fuck that I'm out with him and the rationale is that "I need something to do." This has been...
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>>16445494
Tell your uncle you're not going to work for free anymore. Bottom line. You need money to be able to afford, at the very least, a bicycle so you can try to better your life with other jobs. (also to put away money to move out cause your family sucks).
>>16445507
Ask your uncle to drive you to the DMV in his big boy truck or alternatively stop being such a fucking pushover and tell him you need a wage to make something out of your life.
Get a real job.
Any guys with thinning hair around?
What are you doing to help maintain it?
Are you taking any medications like minoxidil or finasteride?
Have you tried using a volumizing shampoo? Did it help?
Help a balding brother out!
I won't I'll shave it all off when it gets bad enough.
>>16445477
cut it short
make the rest of your body look better
dont be a bitch about it
My hair is thinning and would like suggestions as well
For starters though I switched from Head and Shoulders to a nicer shampoo, although I forget the name right now :\
So i want to write a small poem to a girl that will be my gf, despite long distance.
how does it sound?
>You and me, it should be
>what we have is special
>i think we can agree
>you're in my head 24/7
>i just want you
>that is my heaven
too cheesy?
it just depends, man.
Personally I think it's slightly cheesy in a cute as fuck way. ;_ ; be my sempai
>>16445428
you think so? if thats the case it should be alright.
shes into that stuff
Honestly, this place is full of insulting keyboard warriors. I can't tell if they're serious or not. So I would like to say that if your life is shit and all you do is insult and troll genuine posts then you deserve your hell.
On a serous note for those who are real.
With lack of honest opportunity. (Opportunity that does not involve taking it in the ass or sucking dick and selling drugs)
With the lack of decency in the workplace.
(Three hour shifts, being fired after whistleblowing or standing up for one's self)
Not to mention the countless...
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>>16445367
Posts like this is why I legitimately think schizophrenics should be gassed
>>16445367
Holy shit. Tip your fedora any harder and you'd cause a tsunami on the other side of the world.
Fucking fuck you're a gigantic faggot.
>>16445390
>>16445396
For you. ;)
Is it true that women find it unattractive when men are emotionally open with them?
Not like weeping woe-is-me tampon tier shit but like just talking about how they honestly feel about shit
I keep getting very polarized responses on this. Guys tell me it's a turn off, girls tell me it's good and healthy
thanks /adv/
>>16445336
Listen to guys on this one. Women bullshit to you to no end. Men know how women are. If you aren't a rich young brad pitt, keep it to yourself.
>>16445336
Huge turn-off.
As soon as you show any signs of weakness in front of a woman, she'll be instantly disgusted and won't really see you as a real man anymore. As soon as that happens she'll start ignoring you, grow cold, distant and find herself a real alpha male.
>>16445336
People in general don't like weakness
Ask a 25 year old white middle class American with a 20 year old half Asian girlfriend anything
>>16445330
>>16445330
Didn't you post this girl last week asking us to rate her and then got mad when we said she was average?
>>16445330
Half Asian oh no wonder. When you posted her last week I was going to say she looks like my doppelgänger except Latina. Does she know you're posting her? Don't think she'd be happy about it
>Option A: getting a job that will reward me with more money than I need in a country I will not enjoy
>Option B: getting a job in a country I enjoy and where I am more likely to be happy, but paid 25% less and where the salary growth will be non negligibly inferior than option A
I am stuck. If option B had a good income, I would run for it. But I am tired of low money income after all these years at university. I also feel like finally getting a decent apartment, fulfilling my hobbies like travelling and living a comfortable life with furniture that are not second handed or IKEA's cheapest model. And I will definitely have to forget about it should I go for B.
How much money are we talking for each? I'd go for option B unless the difference is really, really significant. You can budget carefully and save up money to allow for things like travel (which truthfully isn't that expensive if you know how to look for cheap flights and hotels) and nice furniture unless you're living paycheck to paycheck with B.
>>16445340
This is a 25% difference.
Option B leaves me enough margin to do little savings but it will require me to carefully drive my budget, where option A would allow fancier standards of living and more extra stuff.
The thing is also that I feels like "being exploited" because the workload of B is slightly heavier than the one of A though the final paycheck is thinner.
>>16445340
To be less cryptic
A is being an engineer in Germany 2500euro/month
B is also an engineering job but in Tokyo, for 2000 euros/month. We should consider that the price of "healthy" food is astronomic in Tokyo and that the apartment fee will be well more expensive.
Virgin broadband has blocked me from /b/ and I want to die.
I can't un-ban it by logging in since I don't have the login info as its my parents house. Any tech fags or LITERALLY ANYONE OUT THERE KNOW HOW to get rid of this without logging in or being tracked please put me out of my misery
>/b/
why don't you ask your parents for the login info
>>16445107
>involving either
>/b/
>not all of them
kek
>>16445107
Ask mum and dad for the login details and then tell them you need to unban your super secret internet club from the filter
Quick details, I'm an 18 year old dude, I guess. I can provide more info if you'd like, just ask.
Pic related, it's me.
It all started on a school lunch time.
It was around 2 PM, I was heading back to school with a recent acquaintance I met at school (we've only been together twice and he's 18 I think).
That's when 3 men said hi to him and approached us. He asked us if we had cigarrettes which I replied "No", since I only had rolling tobacco, stupid of me, I know. But in my country, we call cigarrettes and rolling...
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>>16445097
Go to their house and gut them, one by one.
Become A hero.
Now that I looked at your pic, forget it, you're juat some emo pansy.
Learn a martial art overnight and kick the shit out of one or two of them. You also might want to bring your samurai sword in case of additional attacks. Then go do the same to the police to show what a bunch of pussies they are too.
I wasn't able to socialise a lot around ages 8-18 thanks to a disability and being sick all the time. I came to resent the word 'nice'. Everyone described me as 'nice', but that just meant I wasn't funny, charismatic, outgoing, loyal etc. I was just 'nice', nobody wanted to be friends with someone who was just 'nice'. That's just me though. The only real social rules I abide by are to be kind to people and not be offensive. It means I'm not the loudest or most noticeable person in a room, but I like to think that people...
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I can relate a lot. Unlike you around 8-18 were my most sociable times and afterwards I got real quiet. I dont know what to tell you cause I still deal with it everyday and unfortunately I dont have a single friend anymore.
Its not that I'm a downer, but I, like you am reserved. I keep holding out hoping to meet some real friends with out changing much about me.
>>16444953
I'm really sorry to hear that. I keep trying to look on the bright side that I do get invited to things and that I have a boyfriend, but I do get paranoid that I'm only invited because I'm on my boyfriend's arm. My lack of ability to impact anyone's life makes me paranoid as hell about going out and making friends.
It's just been a big blow to my confidence. 'Nice' was always my demon, now I don't even have anything apparently. There's nothing that makes me 'me'.
>>16444955
I guess maybe you could try initiating conversation more. Its something you could practice and learn just to get people to open up and trust you more.
I'm not hyper and thats ok, but I think it hurts me social that i stay on sidelines too much.
How do i get over something very small my girlfriend did in the past?
She says she flashed and played with her boobs to a stranger on omegle.
This shit bugs the hell out of me, i can't stop thinking about it. I hate that she did it and i know it's in the past but it bugs me she did this for another guy. I think about it and wonder how it happened to the point of feeling like a kek, i'd never let my girlfriend sleep or do anything with another guy, but i want to know exactly what happened and how. Is this normal?
How do i just accept my girlfriend...
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>>16444943
There is nothing to accept, ditch the cunt.
>>16444943
This is a no bullshit answer, and if anyone argues with what I'm about to tell you, they will never be fully interested in embracing all aspects of a true commitment.
Listen very carefully.
Your girlfriend is a sexual being. Her sexuality is her own. She shares it with whom ever she wants. Consider yourself lucky that she only wants to share it with you. Treasure this, be the best that you can be in order to deserve her exclusivity to you.
>it bugs me she did this...
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>>16444964
Just fuck off with your progressive mentality.
This story has too many details to write in one post, so I'm just giving the nitty gritty:
Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly three years. We've lived together for the last two.
Around 3 months ago, my girlfriend (a Catholic) starts a conversation in bed about wanting to practice abstinence until marriage. Up until that point we had been having sex at least once a week. I agreed after we talked about it further.
Since then I've been fine, trying to stay true to the decision we made. This weekend she became overly physical though,...
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>>16444933
She thought she could make it, she was wrong. it was a stupid idea, be glad it's over.
your relationship is more fucked than mine. uhhh, that sounds like a whole lotta bullshit. like everything about that story is fucked.
sounds like she cheated on you, then the guy she was cheating with blew her off so she came back to you and was mad when you refused.
>>16444941
refrain from giving relationship advice, please
Please help me save my marriage.
My husband's friend who recently lost his job and apartment is sleeping on our couch for a week and I did something stupid. I think he was trying to seduce me.
Every morning my husband goes out to work at 8 something AM and I'm always sleeping, I wake up around 10 and his friend is still sleeping in the couch. Every morning after I woke up and walked by on the way to the kitchen he was sleeping shirtless and with just light boxer shorts with a huge erection. Every morning. I asked my husband if he saw anything weird before...
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>>16444917
> I was just on the verge of exploding and felt like I had to do it
>I feel like I was coerced without really wanting to.
pick one you fucking whore.
Your husband is a fucking C U C K
you are a dumb cunt that don't deserve to be loved.
Confess to your husband and invest in a chastity belt.
>>16444917
>I feel like I was coerced without really wanting to.
so if I were to just show you my dick, you'd feel obligated to start sucking and fucking it?
gtfo!
