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Ey /adv, I came home from traveling super-horny and found an escort very close to me, in my price range. I've visited escorts before but am afraid of suddenly getting caught and also there's buyer's remorse. Should I through with it? I'm really horny.
I don't think it's worth it unless you know her.
Too many sting ops going on. I know most are just UC cops walking a beat but there's still some entrapment types. Thoroughly vet these girls before you ever meet.
>>16443112
I've also gone to Asian massage parlors, paranoid as I enter. The callgirls I've met were in response to ads and that's it. I've always assumed that law enforcement targets the providers rather than the customers?
My boyfriend woke up last night and peed in a bottle quietly instead of just going to the bathtoom. It kind of grosses me out. He left the bottle on the floor too. Should I clean it up and let him know that I knew he did this, or ignore it and let him think I don't know?
Is this a normal thing that guys do when they're too lazy to go to the bathroom?
>>16443012
On very cold nights, I do it too, but leave the bottle outside of the window, plus I live alone.
If he did only once, I would let it pass. If he does it more often, and it annoys you, let him know.
It's normally something people do to avoid leaving their rooms due to social anxiety.
If you and your bf live alone then I don't really know, it's probably best just to ask him about it and tell him not to do it again.
>>16443012
Sounds like its something your boyfriend does when he is feeling lazy.
What difference does it make? Tell him to stop if you don't like it
Hi /adv/
I just want some reassurance that I am doing the right thing.
My boyfriend has a pre existing porn addiction, as well as being selfish and inconsiderate, which I found came hand in hand with the addiction. He felt very entitled to his immediate desires and it was a constant uphill battle that made its way into our everyday life.
So today, I broke it off and told him although I still loved him, I couldn't stay in the relationship because it was taking a huge hit to my self esteem. He never wants to have sex (we average twice a month because I...
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>Have I done the right thing despite still loving him?
Yes.
>The conflict is that when does go through periods without porn, he is the best boyfriend I could ever ask for, but that is only when he is off the porn.
So, if you ignore his faults, he's the ideal boyfriend? Wow!
>>16442964
For one thing, you are projecting an image of the hypersexualized male. Every man cannot be held to the standard of adonis. Men are supposed to be sexual on call, which really screws with self esteem. You have to understand that is OK for your boyfriend to say no.
A lot of men watch pornography because it depicts a situation in which they are in control. It is not enough that you are a female. Male sexuality plays off of passive and active roles. But he's not going to be active if you demean him....
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>>16443038
you are an idiot. clearly it's not about him not being allowed tosay no the guy has issues breh
![male-and-female-relationship-sign[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/77HPQRL.jpg "male-and-female-relationship-sign[1].jpg")
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>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
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>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
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>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
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>>16442932
Guys, would you continue to have sex with a girl who was the best blowjob you ever had but was mediocre at sex?
>>16442944
Depends. Why is she bad at sex? It's presumably something that could be improved, and if so it's not a deal breaker.
what is something a girl can do that will make you instantly be attracted to her?
Noticed a female friend quickly look at my chest a few times while smiling a little
This is good shit, yeah?
You have something on your shirt. Change into a clean one.
>>16442910
Yeah, they're called pecs
>>16442901
Have you ever glanced at someones chest once in a while in conversation without really thinking about it?
How painful is it to hang yourself?
Depends on how far you drop from
>>16442820
I did it once and it did not hurt at all.
Depends on where you tie the noose, senpai.
Tie it around your tip and swing around the room like a monkey.
Why is there no one offering free advice on getting your ex back?
I just got dumped and I've been looking for advice on what to do. Literally every video or post I came across was ultimately trying to sell me a product. Is there no free advice on this topic? Or is it because getting your ex back is something that is so difficult that no one knows the right answer, and all of these programs are shams?
Because 99% of the time getting your ex back never works. Never.
You aren't the exception.
>>16442771
>no one knows the right answer
OP, here is something you should have learned a long time ago.
you ever hear the phrase 'pick up artist?' like someone who is really good at picking up women? he is an ARTIST. not a SCIENTIST.
honestly if you think there was a fool proof scientific method to relationships that we'd need to actually seek it out? it'd be plastered across every billboard. it would be part of 'the talk' right before explaining...
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Because there's such a huge demand from people in your situation, and it's a situation that produces desperateness it's exploited for these kind of money making schemes.
Look I'm in the same boat -- I want my ex back more than anything but even if that's the course of action you're set on, there's is no one-size-fits-all solution that can make it happen. It's going to be achieved through awfully slow and painful realizations about what went wrong in the relationship, and brute-force effort of attempting to correct it.
This is a thread dedicated to discussing non-monogamous relationships.
Open or semi-open relationships, threesomes, foursomes, "an arrangement" - whatever you want to call it.
IF anyone here have experience with this and want to share advice, or you have none and want to ask, this is the place.
Fuck off back to plebbit, C U C K.
I havnt
But i had a ex gf who had a secret relationship with my best friend and with my best friends gf...
It made me hit rock bottom :(
>>16442741
This tbhfam
Come and use our great experiemence anons
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>>16442648
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ONE simple trick to cure your depression.
you ever hear the phrase 'you have to enjoy the little things' ? this is probably the most true and insanely great advice you will ever hear. I used to be a hardcore depressive edgy cringey 'woe is me' wallow in my own misery bastard. this went on for YEARS and well into my adulthood. then one day I realized i wanted to stop being 'lonely'. i wanted to stop being sad about everything. all of life seemed so mundane. I can't remember how I learned this trick, but i did, and trust me it works.
you...
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I've been seeing a guy since spring and he is great- smart, funny, sweet. But he's really shy. We didn't kiss until several months of seeing each other and we while we've gotten more intimate, we still haven't had sex. Also, he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet, and last time we went out one of his friends (not a close one) I met for the first time blatantly asked if we two are dating and he shyly replied- yeah, I guess- but not in a demeaning way. I'm 100% sure he finds me attractive and is interested in me, but we never text or talk on facebook unless when making plans. And when we hang out I noticed sometimes he gets really quiet and stuck in his head and doesn't know what to say. And while he never holds my hand in public, he always tries to stay close to me and to be otherwise a sweet guy. So how could I make him feel more comfortable and open up to me without making him feel less of a man?
Feel free to ask any questions if necessary, any advice/experience stories will be appreciated.
>wanting a shy bf
Why would you want a pathetic beta male?
Drop that pussy and find a real man, a strong alpha.
>>16442646
i think the issue here is that you are operating under the assumption that all men WANT to act the same way, but being shy is the issue.
not all quiet people are shy and waiting to say something. some just dont have much to say so they'd rather listen.
in this case it sounds like your BF isn't all that shy. i mean a little shy maybe, but it sounds like hes just an independent guy who likes the casual approach.
me personally if someone says 'do you like me?' or 'are...
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>>16442646
He's getting laid somewhere else. Or gay
I need help, /adv/.
I've been with my GF for about 4 years now. We love each other, but I kinda have a problem with her sexual interests.
For about 3 years now, she has shown exagerated interest in my dick. You may think it's obviously a good thing (And you wouldn't be wrong), but I feel like it's going a bit too far. Here's how it started:
We were doing things that couples usually do when they have private time since the very beginning. Thing is, after a year or so, she has shown increasing interest in my dick.
It started by discretely...
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nice b8
seriously, if this is not bait then just set some boundaries, you don't have to please someone 100% of the time
if she gets depressed it's not your fault, it's her unrealistic goals that's making her so
>>16442640
I wouldn't define it as goals, I'd rather define it as some kind of addiction.
In the beginning, I was balls-deep into it, but I somehow grew tired of it.
She looks so proud everytime, I can't get myself to crush her thing. She somehow identifies sexuality as love, and the other way around.
I honestly thought this was some kind of deep roleplaying, but it seems that it's deeper than that.
So my mom is thinking (according to old retarded traditions) that our family have bad luck and spirits in our house are the reason of that. This started after my dad's death ( 6 years ago ) and now she's bringing some kind of "spirit woman thing/psychic" that's gonna "help" us chase the bad luck from our house. Now its fucking 100% obvious that my mom is going full retarded believing in this kind of shit and bringing that scammer to our house (literally 4 days a week) and that's costing her MONEY, and we've been in a financial crisis...
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>>16442511
I work for a psychic who deals with spirits a lot, and though i wasn't really a believer before, I have to say I'm pretty convinced. i see some freaky shit from time to time.
my boss charges a 500 dollar flat rate for these sorts of spirit releases, but if the person clearly cant afford it and needs help, we always do it anyway.
anywho if you want to reverse scam your mom, here is what you need to do
>get a friend who has a hippie dippie vibe, maybe go to...
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>>16442532
>your psychic and your mother chant together, and channel the dark energy into something like a regular glass cup
>then your moms duty is to go outside, and destroy the glass by shattering outside of the property line
>this sets your father free so he may return to his afterlife
>the spirits, trapped in the glass, are destroy with it, while your fathers spirit (seperated into the ring) is set...
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You could threaten to leave if you're that fed up with it.
But before you do I suggest finding cheaper ways to put your mother at ease instead of dismissing her entirely. Give this fake psychic lady the boot and tell your mom you want to cleanse the house some other way. Go find yourself a cheaper priest or clergy person or another more trustworthy paranormal investigator or psychic or shaman to bless your house and pronounce it clean without drawing out the process and bleeding your mum dry. Or go to /x/ and ask them some cheap do it yourself methods to cleanse...
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How to get into a top college in US if you are not Mexican/Jewish/Black/Asian or a woman...?
Have a rich daddy.
>>16442494
>straight As since kindergarden
>amazing portfolio of random shit you do to look impressive (jobs, sports, community service, etc)
>amazing adversity essay about how you got your olympic medal by saving a bus of school children from driving off a cliff
basically making yourself look amazingly impressive to have
>>16442506
this
unless you've been groomed for it, you probably won't make it
Had another dream involving sex with my mother and I feel sick. I don't want to be thinking of this, dreaming of this, nothing. Fuck this. It's disgusting. Someone please help.
>>16442446
That's weird. I also had a dream where I fucked your mom.
you have suppressed your gay urges and you are literally copulating (identifying) with your anima.
solution, come out and start sucking dicks.
>>16442451
lol
>>16442446
this happened to me a lot. not just my mom, but my dad, my brothers (i always puke after these ones) and even my boss.
im not sure what i can suggest other then trying to distract yourself so you don't dwell. unless you wanna go to thereapy, but i feel like there isn't really a cure there and it will just make you think about the issues more and cause you to have more dreams.
simply ignoring them and not dwelling...
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So my boyfriend is recently conversing with this girl who was his ex (they're "close" friends) because she's having some personal problems atm, her father died, and she reached out to my boyfriend for comfort. The first time my he told me, I let it slide since I kinda felt sorry for her and the time that he told me they've been talking on the phone I felt uneasy. I'm not comfortable with my boyfriend keeping touch with his ex but she's in a tough situation. I'm just worried that he might comply to whatever she asks since he feels so bad for her. We're currently in a secret relationship and nobody pretty much knows about us except our families.
What should I do? Should I just let it go? I trust him but I'll probably die of paranoia.
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>talking with his ex
>no one knows we're in a relationship
There's no way there's nothing shady going on here
How about talking to him about it?
>>16442438
> this girl who was his ex
First mistake
>(they're "close" friends
second mistake
> she's having some personal problems atm, her father died, and she reached out to my boyfriend for comfort.
third mistake
Yeah I would be concerned.
