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So I'm done trying to get a gf. It will never happen, it's out of my control.
Now how do I stop being sad all the time? I don't want to die but I am tired of being so sad and lonely.
>>16506873
Bang dudes instead.
How badly do you want to be a success? I can make it happen if your willing to read a book.
>>16506881
I don't care about being a success, I just don't want to be sad anymore
>>16506879
I'm not gay
Is there any point to online dating as a 30 year old dude who isn't very attractive? I get that it's a numbers game, but the rate of response I get for the volume of messages I send out is beyond abysmal.
I feel like I'm just wasting my time and the lack of responses has been steadily chipping away at my self esteem for awhile now. I think the only reason I haven't stopped is because I want to start a family and I'm not getting any younger. I'd try to meet women the "normal" way, but I my friends don't have any single friends...
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>>16506810
bump
Find hobbies and a larger group of friends, increase the total amount of people you interact with throughout the week and that alone will increase your chances of meeting new women.
poor results with online dating? Then you sir should put more effort into looking more attractive. Go to the gym and quit the fastfood and sodapop
I want my first time having sex to be by a man who is rough alpha male. I don't want some submissive pussyfooting whimp to be all soft and nice with my body.
How to make this happen? I'm not pretty enough to attract alpha males for relationships (yeah I don't want to fuck without a relationship).
>>16506572
the kind of man youre after will not get into a relationship without fucking you first.
>>16506576
You don't know that. How about giving some constructive advice, if you're capable?
>>16506576
This
>haven't fapped in a week and two days.
>so horny
>trying to take a break from it to make sex better
>can't think of anything else
>my mind keeps reminding me where all my sex toys are, and how good they feel
>it's hard
>sofuckinghard.com
>I can hear my genitals yelling at me in Arnold's voice, saying that...
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>>16506548
;Q
>>16506597
ugh... this is torture haha I love it. gimme more
I'm so fucking HORNY
>last year of high school
>buried in school work
>the whole graduation thing has me scared
>suffer from s.a.d almost every winter
>dog of ten years is really fucking sick and can't eat anything
>gotten so weak, he has to be carried up stairs when he gets taken out to piss
>probably going to have to put him down soon
>friends...
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>>16506364
you're a stupid pathetic person dude
i'm in my last year of high school too
grow the fuck up
these are honestly your biggest worries in life?
>s.a.d
oh my god
>>16506395
What's wrong with being bummed out about a dog you've had since you were 8 dying? Why the fuck would that make someone pathetic? Plus, you can agree with me that the whole prospect of graduation makes you anxious too, right?
>>16506923
nah
Assuming she would let you pump your semen inside her and produce a child of your own, would you date a single mom /adv/? I got a reply on a dating site from the girl in this pic, she is 31 years old and has 3 kids.
Here is another pic of her.
You date, you become attached to her children.
You will have no legal rights to them, if/when you break up you will never have contact with the kids again and it can really fuck you up. I'd highly advise against it. You would also have to deal with having your life limited by the whims of the children's biological father. Like good luck needing to move your family out of state.
yeah why not
I'm afraid of taking the first step.
I'm in a rough situation but I'm am lucky enough to have the resources to get myself out of it.
But I'm afraid of failing again like the last time I tried to fix my life, it took an enormous amount of effort and I had to try again and again.
I'd need to go back to school to get a degree, I don't know what to pick, I'm afraid of making the wrong choice, and I'm afraid I won't be up to the task.
I need to cut out the toxic people in my life, my father wich is leeching off of me and simply putting me down, as long as I'm near him I won't accomplish anything.
But how do I do that? he's my family, and there's no other way to solve this by removing him defintely and permanently.
I would like to go live on my own but there's nothing I can afford with the jobs I'm able to get.
Maybe I could live off my savings for a year or two as long as I get a job and I manage to complete my education,
but I'm afraid of making the wrong choice, what's the first thing I should do?
If I fail this time there's nothing to fall back to because I'm willingly removing that safety net, because I'm stuck into it.
How long would it take then?
side from the education aspect, how long will it take to find a stable job? how long till I muster the courage to leave my house?
Should I rent a camera or an appartment?
I feel lost but I need to take a step in the right direction.
Can you please give me some advice?
>>16505573
How old OP? My first idea was go move to a university and take a loan out until you finish. Get a degree in something you are decent at. Once you invest in a loan you will force yourself to finish
>>16505589
stupidest fucking advice in the world
are you american or some shit?
>>16505573
learn a fucking trade or even better a skill and start a low cost business and make more money than 99% of all the college cunts.
Who the fuck knows why people want to make money for other people these days.
>>16505589
25 next year.
>University
I wish, I still need 2 years to get my hs degree.
And I think I should have enough savings to survive on them for a year or two if I can get a low income job.
I don't really want to get a loan because I'm already afraid in the future I might have to burden myself with those my father is already taking.
He has something like 5-6 loans with different banks and he's paying something like 600€ a month, and when I say "he"...
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i've been dry all my life. i try and try, girl after girl, friendzone after friendzone to no avail at all. my standards get lower and lower each year yet this doesn't help either. im still rather young, but the fact that i still haven't had my first kiss is beyond embarrassing.
i'm beginning to think life is useless and has no meaning, but idk.
what should i do to fix this life-long problem, /adv/?
>>16507836
theraphy?
you do know you have to be +18 to be on this board right?
if you are apologies please continue with details maybe we can help
>>16507836
Not sure where to start. Are you fat/ugly?
I acted on my urge and hooked up with a trans, the whole thing last less then 5 mins and I am literally sick to my stomach when I look at myself and have been thinking about killing myself. I was a virgin before i met her and I did this to see if I was gay/bi whatever turns out im far from either and am disgusted with myself ( even though what I did was gay). The worst part is I have a fiancee and child and am scared of losing them. I only sucked it for about 20 seconds and am frail I caught HIV haven't kissed my son or girl since yesterday and am thinking of ending it...
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>>16507643
Hold on, you're a virgin with a fiance who had a child?
Fuck's wrong with you?
>>16507662
>I was a virgin before i met her
>>16507666
him*
I was joking but she said yes and started hugging me. WTF do I do?
>>16507495
Welp, time to buy a ring
Shouldn't have been too beta to tell her it was a joke right away. It's too late now, you're pretty much fucked.
>>16507495
Kill her. It's the only way.
I went on a date with this one girl a long time ago. It was a weird date. She was pretty bitchy too. Should I give her another chance or just put her in my "friendzone" forever?
>>16507413
How long ago was this? Did you like her?
>>16507451
Months ago. I did yes, although as I said, kinda bitchy. I don't really feel like thinking about it anymore. I don't like thinking in general, you know,
>>16507456
Woa, dude months ago? Did she reciprocate by any chance, play games at all? Maybe you should just let this go. Try dating one of her friends instead.
Women are so ugly
Can anyone explain to me what is it that men see in them?
Warm hotpockets, also op is a faggot.
>>16507349
wait, so i'm betting $20 you're a bitter twink or an angry fatty, which is it
i'm sorry that straight guy doesn't like you anon you're gonna have to deal with the fact that some men don't like cock
>>16507355
I know they don't, but I don't understand it
I'm trying to understand the appeal here
So I was dating this guy for about half a year, then he dumps me. A few months later we have sex and nearly get back together but he says it was a mistake the next day. Last night we had sex again, but today he hasn't even messaged me. What's going on? inb4 im fat/ugly. im not, pic related = me
>>16507240
So how did you hurt him? Girls are usually the ones who break up
>>16507240
He is using you as a cumdumpster.
>>16507245
He left me for another girl but then decided against it and that he regretted it.
Hello /adv/
i have a relatively simple question to ask you.
I like this girl (pic related) but i have some problems getting into the friendly chat.
We are in the same class, we talk sometimes but it's often verry limited or for a few seconds about something school related and nothing more.
Yesterday i wrote to her, but it was only 2 messages and then she ended the conversation basicly. i dont know if she doesn't want to talk or what is going on?
What could i ask her about or what could be a good way to start a conversation without it being...
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>>16507174
Anyone?
>>16507174
I have no idea why people do this. "I really like this grill so I'm going to post a pic of her on 4chin, because nothing bad will ever come of that".
>>16507191
Newfags never learn.
Please tell me how I should handle this situation. I'm a retard.
>be 20, 21 in just 11 days
>have best friend ryan who i've known for like 15 years now
>have a thing for his 17 year old sister suzy
>we've flirted whenever we've seen each other for at least the last 6 or 7 years
>we've never done anything
>i'm into her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way
>friend gave me his blessings to pursue her romantically one day
>apparently his family is on board with this too
>this even includes some extended family, because i get invited to all their holiday and family-related get-togethers
>hang out with ryan on wednesday night after i get home from college
>he tells me that the night before, he, his dad, and suzy, plus a few of her friends, were talking about how we seem really into each other
>she says she thinks of me as an older brother, nothing more
>nobody is convinced
>they keep telling her that we should be a thing
If it matters any, her dad has actually done the same thing to me. The pressure from him to date his daughter made me feel pretty weird about the whole thing. My friend is completely uninvested in whether I do anything about this or not
>after ryan fills me in, we go upstairs to hang out with suzy and her friends
>same friends were over the night before
>we're all drinking
>not really talking with suzy as much as I normally would
>ryan and i talking with suzy's one friend who's also really into beer
I don't know jack about beer, but Ryan likes to brew his own stuff. I was only talking to them instead of Suzy because she seemed like she didn't want to talk to me so much. Truthfully, neither did I at the time. Knowing that there was pressure for us to get together made things a little weird.
>suzy and her other friend kind of keeping to themselves on the other end of the table
>pretty good time overall
1/2
Tell Suzy you need to talk to her alone. Find a quiet place without friends, neutral territory.
Tell her all you've written here. Explain you'd like to know how she feels about the situation. Let her know you'd be happy with either outcome but don't want to continue with the weird stand off caused by others interference.
>i go back after thanksgiving to chill with ryan and one other friend
>we're just having a few beers and finishing off leftovers while we catch up
>ryan brings up the suzy thing to see what our other friend thought
>they both tell me that i should just talk to her about it since they think it's pretty obvious that she's into me too
>i'm not as sure about this, but i've had enough beer to feign confidence...
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>>16507176
You really don't think that'd be a strange thing to ask of somebody? I'm usually not so blunt, but if you think it'll work I'll give it a shot
