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So I recently broke up with my ex. We dated for just over. I hurt her and I know that. We spoke about getting back together, she said she needs time, but is willing to try next year. I know she has been spending time with other guys and has made new friends, I am just hoping that is a way to help with her self esteem.
I do know I really fucked up and I want her back in my life. It wasnt an ugly break up and we are really good friends.
My only question is, do I still message her? We spoke about getting back together next year. Both of us live in seperate towns...
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Just over a year*
Date other girls.
>>16512969
coz dating other girls is going to gain her trust?
I have already hooked up with/seen other girls since the break up and to be honest I couldnt care less about them, they may be considered better looking, but I really coudnt give a fuck. I just thought about her. She was so loyal and cared so much about me, gave everything to me and I wish I hadnt failed to see that. She is my best friend.
>Own small business
>It has grown quite sizable
>Needed a clerk to help me run some day to day operations and keep office hours and a schedule
>Interviewed a few applicants, eventually hired clerk, it's no longer a one man show
>Hired her fresh out of college
>Her degree is, in fact, deceptive
>She knows nothing
>She's...
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looks like a very dangerous situation to be in
she probably could sue you for taking advantage of it
Congratulation, you have a new secretary. Make sure to sleeve up and teach your new whore on retainer how to at least answer calls while your dick is recovering, and make sure to trade up for the newer model once you notice any signs of wear.
>>16512885
Feel free to correct me if im wrong but can you not face jail time for this?
I know the picture is alarming, but it was one of the only pictures I have on my computer.
I like a girl (big surprise, someone asking for relationship advice on /adv/) we go to the same school, we only have one class that's basically a study with 3 other people who're pretty alright as well. She is blond and blue eyed, very Christian that loves her seminary classes. My National Socialist side loves this, besides a few issues.
I do not believe in God, I do not intent to chance either my own or her beliefs if I engage in a relationship.
We live in separate...
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>>16512875
>I do not intent to chance either my own or her beliefs if I engage in a relationship
A relationship won't work out. Calling it now.
>>16512875
You know you could just dl a picture on the Internet and use that instead, right?
Is little miss Deus Vult even in interested in having anything to do with you or does she "dislike texting" because she's scared shitless of attracting your attention in fear of you boring her to death with your shitty political ideology/shooting up your school and her/both?
My girlfriend of 4.5 years out of the blue stopped talking to me. I didn't speak to her for a day then she unfriended me, next day she blocked me.
I tried to not do this but today i used the account of a family member that she hasnt blocked to tell her to unblock me so we can talk and she just blocked that account as well.
There was not talk of a breakup. Nothing just blocking me on fb. I feel like this is the worst thing anyone could do for a "breakup." I have no reason, nothing. Not a single fucking word after nearly 5 years of being together....
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>>16512765
What the hell did you do op?
Where is she and where are you?
uh this is really fucking weird after almost 5 years of a relationship OP
Did you have a fight or something?
Those of you who have stayed with a cheating S/O, how did you do it? Was it worth it?
>>16512746
You don't. It's not worth it. Get some self-respect anon, why are you even contemplating this?
>>16512747
They told they regretted it completely, would change, never do it again, and do anything to get another chance.
>>16512763
Anon let me ask you something. If you had a dog or an animal you really loved would you ever shoot it? No? Well, would you point an aimed gun at it just for fun?
Now then, imagine your ex being the dog and the gun being someone who you know is interested in you, would you hang out with them willingly knowing what kind of trouble it could potentially create?
My entire point is your ex doesn't respect you and didn't respect you by doing that. That will NEVER change anon, come to terms with...
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There's someone I like, but I'm kind of getting mixed messages in return. What do I do?
Give us an example
>>16512693
Well, on one occasion the person actually quite willingly held hands with me, and on another we sorta-cuddled through a significant part of a movie, but most of the time there's not a lot of interest in physical contact on their part.
>>16512700
(added note) I mean, like, they don't seem interested in any such thing at all.
Hello, I'm 25, I just finished engineering. I'm in the work force. I don't know where else to ask this, and sorry if my grammar or spelling is off.
after I graduated university a few months after, I was with a group of friends that did a lot of drugs. I havn't smoked pot or extacy since high school, and I never tried LSD, so I thought I'd try it.
I bought 3 hits, and two days later I did it with a girl I knew. I have never done it before. but basically it was fucked up, I remember a lot of it, and I tried to write down what was doing on....
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How long has it been since you tripped?
I think you had a rare reaction to it. You will probably remain this way the rest of your life, sorry.
Youve only done it one time?
I know people who have done it dozens of times and are completely fine. Ive done it a few times myself. I have had times where ive had some... negative revelations, or will get into kind of a funk after. But ill usually get over that within a few days or a week or so.
How long has it been since you tried it? What was so fucked up about it?
So I've been friends with this grill since childhood, and in the past few months had developed feelings for her. I tell her about them and she gives me a peck on the cheek and complements my eyes, nothing else. The following week, she at random times would lay her head on my chest, and this happened maybe 3 times. I had been very hesitant to her advances over their sporadic nature, but now she doesn't show any form of affection, and seems to be a lot more distant (barely talks to me when I'm present, single syllable replies on most msgs sent to her, will not stay...
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She's hurt that you didn't make a move. Either you have to grab your balls and go get her NOW or it will be a lost cause
>>16512566
Lmao you fucked up. She gave you openings and you didnt jump at them.
>>16512580
She probably thinks youre not interested and got depressed. As first anon said you need to go get her asap. For fucks sake dont go all crazy with words and how you feel. Physical contact man, invite her to do whatever it is you guys do and get physical like she did with you.
I have an attractive aunt (not by blood relation) by marriage that I've been very attracted to since I was a kid. I'm a bit drunk right now and sitting in her living room with her son. She and my mother don't like each other and even though I'm 24 the drama between them still tracks me down.
These feeling I've had for have gotten to the point that when helping her move furniture around once she pulled me into a room in a hurry to ask me to move a dresser and I almost had a heart attack and if she weren't so interested in moving things she probably...
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Avoiding incest seems like a good choice, even if you're not blood related. Also there's gotta be an uncomfortable age gap. Don't do it, you'll feel better when you're sober.
>>16512592
Also you're going to fuck up every relationship you have with all of your family members.
You are going to be that guy that fucked Aunt Sally. No one will like either of you.
>>16512562
depends does she show any interest?
>live in small town
>under 2k people here
>7 hours from a major city
>nothing here at all besides societies deformed rejects
>they all hate me for not being retarded or farming
>just want to leave and be with my own kind
>closest source of jobs is like a 60 mile commute
>no such thing as full time work
>my...
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>>16512491
OP you know what you need to do. Save your money and bite the god damn bullet and move out. I
>>16512512
How do I save that much money though with these crazy commutes and shit hours I feel like even if I leave itll be too expensive and I'll fuck up and have to come back
>>16512523
It only costs 1k-2k max to make a move like that. Just stop buying shit you don't absolutely need for a little while.
So I dont have facebook but I wanna try tinder. How should I start? I only wanna use it so i can match with girls, i dont want people to find me through facebook. And what kind of pics should I use, since I dont have many pics?
Thanks for helping a noob out
Don't bother unless you're at least a 9/10. It's shit.
>>16512471
better than being forever alone, it took me so long to took up the courage to at least try it, i dont see the harm other than my self esteem will be even more crushed
i dont know what number i rate, i think im at least a 7/10 though
outside isnt much of a problem, my neet inside is
>>16512466
you actually can't do tinder if you don't have a facebook.
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Alright guys, so im gonna go on a little rant, to get the advice i hope for.
two and a half months ago, i started my new job.
its at an upscale grocery store, where the pay is much better than what i was getting at my old job-
In the store, im working in customer service (showing people to shit they need, doing returns, etc), I am trained in stocking shelves, finding products in the back (very limited skill in our store), doing delivery audits, i run a register, i bag peoples shit..... and i was really excited to work in the cafe when i first started.
my backround.... i have 2 years of culinary school experience, four culinary jobs, military training (usmc med discharge), IT pursuits, and im a jack of all trade-
anyways, so at work, i got to work in the cafe-
with my experience, i figured i'd kick ass in the kitchen, and make a major difference, because i KNOW food. its simply what i do best. the thing is, there is ZERO, and i mean absolutely ZERO sanitary protocol, and the few staff members i work with have zero discipline and are very very VERY careless.
i asked three of my 8 managers (why arent i a manager, ffs) to please stop scheduling me in the cafe as i am losing all appreciation for culinary arts and cuisine.
"okay, we'll work on it"
the next week, i was removed entirely.
this week, i am removed entirely.
next week...... three fucking days of my 3 days in the store of the week (vacation) i am working cafe....
asked them, why is this- "oh, we just need someone in there"
i told them this isnt acceptable, period.
tonight, i just got my schedule for the following week....
FIVE FUCKING DAYS IN A ROW IN THE CAFE.
this is the shit that is pushing me to quit, and i NEED this job.
i just got a car, insurance, and a girlfriend, and groceries to buy.
this is BULLSHIT. WHAT DO.
ps: emailed one of 8 bosses that 11/10 trolled hard
You violated the chain of command, foo'
Maybe you should think of working in the cafe as an opportunity. If you're not happy with the hygiene, try to change things.
You're incredibly incoherent. Do you, or do you not want to work in the cafe? Also you're pretty entitled for someone who's been there only two and a half months
Told my ex I cheated on him almost a year ago. He broke up with me. We both have depression issues. This sent me over the edge I cut myself went to hospital. He hated me. A week later and we're talking again a little. Hanging out a little while he plays Vidya. I know we're over but I don't know whether he's still mad or just being nice so I don't kill myself...I wanna ask him to watch a movie but I don't wanna pressure him into hanging out with me..what do you think I should do?
You cheated on him. You deserve whatever happens, don't put the guilt on him of you killing yourself because you decided to be a whore. Let him leave you for fucks sake
Do stuff by your self like an adult.
You need to heal alone before you try dragging anyone else into your uncontrolled emotions.
>>16512233
>>16512256
Cunt apologists leave.
No better yet, kill yourselves.
OP you're a sick and deluded piece of shit. Everything is your fault.
Successfully matched with someone through Tinder.
My question is, I have no fucking idea what to text to keep her interested in me. How the fuck do I do this? Females if you're on please give me some input.
Welcome to tinder. Matching with someone isn't a big deal. Either using a corny pick up line, or start a conversation based on similar interests.
>>16512209
I just need some pointers on texting. I'm not too good at it.
Ok so here is 3 simple things you can do to keep her interested depending on the type of girl.
Disclaimer: I have never used tinder but I can pick up girls on kik super easy.
1. Send her selfies... Send her selfies of you being funny send her selfies of you doing something weird. Send her selfies though adjust depending on what kind of girl she is
2. Send her memes... This works especially if you use popular memes make sure you do ones that are not too dirty, too racist, or too political.
3. If all else fails send her songs... This gets them between the legs all...
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Simple question I feel the need to ask to some random anons. When a girl is blowing you, does the gagging they /may/ do turn you on? Do you find gagging hot in anyway and if so why/why not?
Tldr; is a girl gagging while sucking dick hot, why/why not.
Yeah it's hot because it usually means she's trying pretty hard to do a good job and the fact that she cares enough to try turns me the Fuck on.
>>16512172
Yeah kinda
Might get annoying if it keeps happening over and over
>>16512172
I'm just glad to be getting a blowjob.
