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Did I just catch herpes?
It all started about 4-6 months ago when my girlfriend and I broke up. I slept with this trashy chick on a one night stand, and I don't even remember her name.
But, anyway the girlfriend and I patched things up, and we started sleeping together, then coincidently at the same time I took a bath with some strange bath salt powder stuff and shortly (the next day or two) my penis became really dry and peeling dead skin.
Beneath the dead skin that I peeled revealed raw cracking skin on my penis. There was a spot on the shaft, and...
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Go get tested, how is anybody supposed to know whats wrong with your wang. This is a job for a doctor, hopefully you haven't already given something to your girlfriend.
I would just get it checked out. It could be bad. Out it could just be a reaction. I'm not too sure of it is herpes but. I'm no professional
>>16517630
>I've continue to sleep with my girlfriend during all of this, she didn't seem too bothered, and she has yet to show any signs of the herpes STD.
Get tested, you fucking idiot. It's quick, easy, and in a lot of areas you can find clinics that do it for free.
It's kind of mind-blowing that you could be so callous about this, though. Herpes is a life sentence. You really don't care that you might be giving it to your girlfriend? Just because you're...
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What's a good way to make money in college?
getting a part time job
>>16517597
>getting a part time job
Not OP, but this is a waste of time. I had a part time job at Fred Meyer when I was in my freshman year. The amount of energy it takes to juggle college and a part time job, especially when assigned hours conflict with your already busy schedule, is exhausting. That being said, I don't have any advice for ya, OP.
>>16517594
Easy, start selling weed.
>19
>Have BF who is 21
>Been together 11 months now
>We mostly spend our weekends together, because were both students working full time, some times we get together in the middle of the week
>I get flirted with by other dudes a lot
>Mostly over my phone and social media
>Me and BF share a FB, was my idea, and he agreed
>Yesterday...
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>>16517346
It IS suspicious as fuck when you delete messages for shit like that. Personally I'd prefer seeing that my gf gave the guy a firm "fuck off with this shit", without budging or flirting back or anything like it. Plus, how can he from his perspective trust you if you remove the evidence and try to cover something up? The account is shared for a reason, and that is so both know what happens and stuff, right?
Bottom line, you caused a breach of trust between you two, and there's not much that can...
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>>16517346
It's obviously he doesn't trust you, and gets jelly rather easily. Either he controls you/who you talk with, or no one does..... Ditch him/10, find a better man.
>>16517360
He doesn't really get jelly too easily, just mostly upset when I deleted the messages of dudes flirting with me. He tells me it makes me look really shady.
>>16517357
>Hiding the truth is just another way to tell a lie in the eyes of many.
I guess. I'll try to talk to him later today.
When I sit down to study, I can't memorize anything. Sometimes I've cried because I just felt stupid.
However, now that I'm in college I do research that really amazes my professors. I'm usually inventing and creating. But I couldn't tell you how to factor polynomials, and I still can't despite hours of studying math, resulting in really poor test scores. I synthesize information really well and started school early because of testing I'd been administered and did really well on (at least that's what my parents said... did all of...
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>>16517281
Check if you have add or some variation of it. I do and i recognize the whole "can't memorize, can't into math" and so on. If you can handle the meds, use them. I almost can't, since i am unlucky enough to get hit with depression as a side effect... But go do a test for it senpai.
>>16517281
I'm the exact same way. A doctor would say we have ADHD. I take adderall for it. If you don't want to take meds for it then I don't know what to tell you. Studying or doing homework for a subject that I don't care about is nearly impossible without it.
>>16517289
Poster above. I take concerta. Does adderall help? Do you get depressive symptoms too?
My bf of four years was emotionally involved with someone else. I saw his texts and confronted him and he admitted to kissing her several times. At the time he wasn't apologetic, he didn't think it was a big deal, so I couldn't forgive him. After a few days, maybe it hit him? but he started apologising, he started accepting that he had wronged me. But because I was so hurt, so angry and scared to let myself back in I was torn between forgiving him or moving on in a different direction, so I took sometime off from him, and had a one night stand.
cont.
I didnt want to have sex with this guy. But I was drunk and basically let him have his way with me. I didn't say yes to him but I didnt say no either. He took his condom off when I wasn't looking and by the time I realised I didn't know how long he had been doing it without the condom, I am so worried cause he has exposed me to all sorts of risks. I could have said no to sex after that happened but I carried on and asked him to put one on. which he did but took it off again a little later. A week later my bf had been apologising, trying to make it right...
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>>16517244
break up with him
Now it has turned from me being angry at him to me consoling him for what I have done... The best decision is to move away from everything. But we love each other so much
Think im in boys.
What now?
>your
Delete.
>>16517084
What is the issue with your?
Lemme crack ur pussy up bby
I'll greentext the situation
>September, me and bf going to my hometown to catch up with my family
>meet my friend from highschool times, bf and her get along very well
>October, she comes to our city for concert and stays at our place for night (me and bf live together)
>we show her around the city, bf and her talk a lot, I feel a bit left behind
>we find out we are planning to go to the same place for New Year,...
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>>16517018
Flirt with her boyfriend and see how he reacts, if he go all crazy and jealous it's because he has some guilt, it's a red flag about what he is doing with your friend.
>>16517041
I already know he feels guilty about talking with her - he wouldn't be that secret with them and so crazy about his privacy. You have a point anyway, I guess if he flirts with her on the New Year party I'm gonna have good time with all boys except him.
>>16517041
Whoa man if he reacts its becuz thats normal not guilt. Theres some better way. Two wrong dont make a right u kno
Maybe a faggy question by 4chan standards, but I have never posted on this board.
Is it normal to not feel as "in love" with a more recent girlfriend than I did with my first love?
I can't tell if it's my brains just playing tricks on me because my ex was my first for literally everything in relationships, or if I'm just not as much "in love" with my more recent gf.
>>16517000
How long have you been together? How long were you with your ex for? How did your relationship with your ex end? And how long ago?
>>16517005
New gf: Getting close to 2 years in terms of how we "get along" with each other, but "Facebook official" about 6 months or so. We don't live together.
Ex gf: 4 years and we lived together. She dumped me out of the blue one day.
>>16517013
You're probably never going to love her the same if it's been 2 years. You can learn to live with it though.
If old girlfriend came back now & said she wanted you back, what would you do?
>Own Hitachi magic wand
>Use it almost every day
>Sensitivity goes down
>Move to Australia
>Can't use it
>Stuck with my less powerful shibari battery powered one
>Sensitivity went way up
>Cum in 60 seconds
>Yesterday I masturbated like 10 consecutive times
>Still...
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>>16516960
The solution to your problem is my dick.
Nah, but that's just how nerves n shit work.
>I have a vagina, give me attention. The thread
How about you and your thirsty betas take this shit to /soc/
This isn't advice
>>16516970
We're probably too far away in the first place
Also I tried having sex with one of my fwbs, it took ages to get me off. Didn't help that he teased me a lot. Then another fwb tried to properly get me off and then I had to use a vibrator to finish the job.
What's the easiest way to kill myself. Just please tell me. None of that counseling bullshit please.
By calling a suicide hotline
Get drunk, cut veins upwords your arm. Don't cut across your wrist as that can be fix'd, cut up from your wrist to your elbow and then there's no fixing that. It won't hurt at all, the more you're bleed the sleepier you'll get. You won't feel any pain and then you'll just go to sleep
Good luck!
Blow your brains out, that's how I'd do it
What is a good way to make ~400 euros in a few months? I really need some money to pay off debts and buy a cheap ass car. Any advice appreciated.
Steady employment.
>>16516864
Honestly, sucking cock.
>>16516866
Impossible. I'm stil in school, but will graduate in half a year.
Tell me /adv, does masturbation feel the same way, after you lose you virginity, and have few sexual encounters afterwards?
I mean like can a guy with some sexual experience get off with fap, or it doesn't feel the same way he did before?
Doesn't feel the same way. Fapping becomes a quick way to postpone the need to fuck whereas before fapping was an adventure.
>>16516743
Not true
>>16516738
Fapping is the same and after you have had sex enough its actually desireable to fap instead of fuck....
I'd say technically it fapping would feel the same but will be more disappointing and a "doing the bare minimum" feel where fucking feels on a different world better and is more rewarding with the intimate feeling you get when with your partner. Even if the sex is bad it'll feel better than fapping.
I moved to a new apartment and I cannot game of my internet. I am on wireless and the router is downstairs; I have a 100 dollar network card that is very good. I have 5 roommates, too.
My problem is very high ping in online gaming; usually rapid spikes to absurd numbers and an inconsistent connection. Often times, it goes down for 2 mins at a time. On speetest.net I see that my ping is always 8-15. My downspeed sometimes goes as low as .98mbps, and at other times between 27-40mbps.
Is my internet provider just shit? Is it having many users on the same connection?...
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call your service provider and ask them to take a look
also 5 roommates is definitely a factor, especially if all 5 are using it at the same time
>>16516707
Sounds like the provide.
If they see someone is with heavy usage they lower to speed to allow their other users, this comes about because they don't want to invest.
Okay, I will call them. What makes you guys think it's the provider if you don't mind me asking? Just so I can know for my own knowledge.
I was on a cabin trip this weekend with my father and my best friend. We were to sleep over just one night. At night he made us play strip poker, and got her to sit in just her blouse and panties. It was kind of exciting, but also very embarrassing. It seemed like she wanted to be bad just because, being as adult as possible just to impress him. I was mostly ignored. They remained flirting with each other, while I got tired of it all and went to sleep. I would never have imagined what would happen next. When they finally came to bed, there was a lot of fumbling around before...
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I had a view of everything that was going on, since their bed was like two meters away. She turned her head to see what was happening. He was pulling it back and fourth while he explained to her what was going to happen. That this was fully normal and natural for girls her age, that he would put it in her vagina as gentle as possible and keep it there. He had no condom, so he would get her the morning after pill. He put his face in her behind and started licking to make her ready, while she was completely embarrassed and just told him it tickled. Then he asked her to be completely...
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He was quite proud of what had happened, and showed me his penis, which was both slimy and had virginial blood on it. They turned off the light in order to go to bed, but it wasn't over yet, because he wanted to sleep with her in the missionary position also. This time it happened a bit more "civilized," and he managed to keep it going for the longest of time with her, while the bed was squeking under them. At some points he paused to kiss her, and then it started again, and I got incredibly tired of having to listen. Only when the morning light started coming...
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>>16516682
>>16516677
0/10 would not watch papa fuck again
Have about 4k and 2-3 months to spare. What should I do? Very depressed, saving is not an option.
Travel
Buy loads of drugs and go out rockstar style
>>16516662
specifics, going to somewhere just for going isn't really ideal.
