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Did I just catch herpes?
It all started about 4-6 months ago when my girlfriend and I broke up. I slept with this trashy chick on a one night stand, and I don't even remember her name.
But, anyway the girlfriend and I patched things up, and we started sleeping together, then coincidently at the same time I took a bath with some strange bath salt powder stuff and shortly (the next day or two) my penis became really dry and peeling dead skin.
Beneath the dead skin that I peeled revealed raw cracking skin on my penis. There was a spot on the shaft, and a small spot on the head, it all scabbed over with a yellowish crust, and the entire head was almost covered in it.
I peel during hot baths once in awhile, and it would come back overnight, or even with a few hours.
Eventually I started treating with neosporin, and it cleared up for the most part and things were back to normal after a month and a half.
I never got it checked, and I realize I should've but I couldn't get time off, and I didn't have money either. I'm planning on seeing a doctor about it this week, and hopefully getting some information. But, I saw a spot or two come back, almost look identical to a minor flea bite, honestly and they're in different spots of the penis head.
I've continue to sleep with my girlfriend during all of this, she didn't seem too bothered, and she has yet to show any signs of the herpes STD. So, that eases my mind a little, but the fact I just got another couple spots on my penis head alarms me all over again.
Go get tested, how is anybody supposed to know whats wrong with your wang. This is a job for a doctor, hopefully you haven't already given something to your girlfriend.
I would just get it checked out. It could be bad. Out it could just be a reaction. I'm not too sure of it is herpes but. I'm no professional
>>16517630
>I've continue to sleep with my girlfriend during all of this, she didn't seem too bothered, and she has yet to show any signs of the herpes STD.
Get tested, you fucking idiot. It's quick, easy, and in a lot of areas you can find clinics that do it for free.
It's kind of mind-blowing that you could be so callous about this, though. Herpes is a life sentence. You really don't care that you might be giving it to your girlfriend? Just because you're too lazy to go in for a test? Examine your priorities, man
What's a good way to make money in college?
getting a part time job
>>16517597
>getting a part time job
Not OP, but this is a waste of time. I had a part time job at Fred Meyer when I was in my freshman year. The amount of energy it takes to juggle college and a part time job, especially when assigned hours conflict with your already busy schedule, is exhausting. That being said, I don't have any advice for ya, OP.
>>16517594
Easy, start selling weed.
>19
>Have BF who is 21
>Been together 11 months now
>We mostly spend our weekends together, because were both students working full time, some times we get together in the middle of the week
>I get flirted with by other dudes a lot
>Mostly over my phone and social media
>Me and BF share a FB, was my idea, and he agreed
>Yesterday an old friend of mine started flirting with me
>Told him to talk to me when he wasn't horny
>Talk to him later that day
>Ask him if he wants to hang on skype
>Is all like "yeah, but I'm naked all you'd see is my junk"
>"No thanks"
>"What? It isn't like you wouldn't like it lmao"
>BF happens to see it, right as I was deleting the messages
>Gets upset
>Tell him he used to be a very good friend, and he is just horny right now
>Tells me he doesn't care and that shit doesn't fly with him, and asked why I was making excuses for him and deleting his messages
>Told him I deleted them because I didn't want him to see that and get upset
So he told me it was more suspicious I was trying to hide it, and deleting the messages. But I told him he always gets super upset when this stuff happens, which is why I delete them.
Now my BF is basically ignoring me since he dropped me off yesterday. I've never cheated on him, and I don't understand why he is so upset about this. What do I do?
>>16517346
It IS suspicious as fuck when you delete messages for shit like that. Personally I'd prefer seeing that my gf gave the guy a firm "fuck off with this shit", without budging or flirting back or anything like it. Plus, how can he from his perspective trust you if you remove the evidence and try to cover something up? The account is shared for a reason, and that is so both know what happens and stuff, right?
Bottom line, you caused a breach of trust between you two, and there's not much that can be done. Trust is hard to build but easy to break. Give him some space and talk it out after a day or so.
And more importantly; learn from this. Hiding the truth is just another way to tell a lie in the eyes of many.
>>16517346
It's obviously he doesn't trust you, and gets jelly rather easily. Either he controls you/who you talk with, or no one does..... Ditch him/10, find a better man.
>>16517360
He doesn't really get jelly too easily, just mostly upset when I deleted the messages of dudes flirting with me. He tells me it makes me look really shady.
>>16517357
>Hiding the truth is just another way to tell a lie in the eyes of many.
I guess. I'll try to talk to him later today.
When I sit down to study, I can't memorize anything. Sometimes I've cried because I just felt stupid.
However, now that I'm in college I do research that really amazes my professors. I'm usually inventing and creating. But I couldn't tell you how to factor polynomials, and I still can't despite hours of studying math, resulting in really poor test scores. I synthesize information really well and started school early because of testing I'd been administered and did really well on (at least that's what my parents said... did all of that when i was three or four so i don't remember the specifics much at all).
How do I improve my performance at school? I have been diagnosed with autism (aspergers before they changed the criteria), but I can't afford therapy, even that even is the problem [is it?]. idk. pls help, I'm tired of this.
>>16517281
Check if you have add or some variation of it. I do and i recognize the whole "can't memorize, can't into math" and so on. If you can handle the meds, use them. I almost can't, since i am unlucky enough to get hit with depression as a side effect... But go do a test for it senpai.
>>16517281
I'm the exact same way. A doctor would say we have ADHD. I take adderall for it. If you don't want to take meds for it then I don't know what to tell you. Studying or doing homework for a subject that I don't care about is nearly impossible without it.
>>16517289
Poster above. I take concerta. Does adderall help? Do you get depressive symptoms too?
My bf of four years was emotionally involved with someone else. I saw his texts and confronted him and he admitted to kissing her several times. At the time he wasn't apologetic, he didn't think it was a big deal, so I couldn't forgive him. After a few days, maybe it hit him? but he started apologising, he started accepting that he had wronged me. But because I was so hurt, so angry and scared to let myself back in I was torn between forgiving him or moving on in a different direction, so I took sometime off from him, and had a one night stand.
cont.
I didnt want to have sex with this guy. But I was drunk and basically let him have his way with me. I didn't say yes to him but I didnt say no either. He took his condom off when I wasn't looking and by the time I realised I didn't know how long he had been doing it without the condom, I am so worried cause he has exposed me to all sorts of risks. I could have said no to sex after that happened but I carried on and asked him to put one on. which he did but took it off again a little later. A week later my bf had been apologising, trying to make it right so I went to see him and old emotions just came back and we ended up being together, the next day I told him about what happened, and hes been asking me all these questions about where the douchebag touched me, what he did, light on or off. This is hurting me so much and I know its hurting him to be wth a girl with such low self esteem. I just feel completey destroyed.
>>16517244
break up with him
Now it has turned from me being angry at him to me consoling him for what I have done... The best decision is to move away from everything. But we love each other so much
Think im in boys.
What now?
>your
Delete.
>>16517084
What is the issue with your?
Lemme crack ur pussy up bby
I'll greentext the situation
>September, me and bf going to my hometown to catch up with my family
>meet my friend from highschool times, bf and her get along very well
>October, she comes to our city for concert and stays at our place for night (me and bf live together)
>we show her around the city, bf and her talk a lot, I feel a bit left behind
>we find out we are planning to go to the same place for New Year, bf who wasn't very fond of the idea now is excited
>fast forward to now. they text a lot, write long elaborates via FB
>ask bf what they are talking about, he replies with short topic-around answers
>ask her what they are talking about, she says it's nothing intimate like she already knew I'm jealous
>can't hold my curiousness and jealousy, spot a moment when he leaves his FB open, read what they are talking about
>he suggested they write "letters", very intimate talks about philosophy, literature, music, feelings, he compliments her all the time
>tell bf I asked her what they are talking about, he goes crazy and why the hell I check his messages
>tell him I didn't and I'm not an idiot and all I know is from her cause she's my friend
Some facts: she is living 200km from us, has a bf and they get along well too. Me and her didn't have a good contact for couple of past years because we moved to different cities.
I feel miserable for controlling him but at the same time... I could have these interesting talks with him as well, we used to talk a lot but when they met we stopped. In fact I wanted to share letters like this with him much sooner than they met, but he never wanted to.
I wish we didn't go there for the New Year because I know he's going to spend all the time with her and I'm gonna just drink myself unconscious so that I don't have to watch them falling in love. Too bad accommodation is already paid.
It's not I'm afraid to lose him, just why he doesn't pay this much attention to me, why he doesn't want to have this deep connection with me?
>>16517018
Flirt with her boyfriend and see how he reacts, if he go all crazy and jealous it's because he has some guilt, it's a red flag about what he is doing with your friend.
>>16517041
I already know he feels guilty about talking with her - he wouldn't be that secret with them and so crazy about his privacy. You have a point anyway, I guess if he flirts with her on the New Year party I'm gonna have good time with all boys except him.
>>16517041
Whoa man if he reacts its becuz thats normal not guilt. Theres some better way. Two wrong dont make a right u kno
Maybe a faggy question by 4chan standards, but I have never posted on this board.
Is it normal to not feel as "in love" with a more recent girlfriend than I did with my first love?
I can't tell if it's my brains just playing tricks on me because my ex was my first for literally everything in relationships, or if I'm just not as much "in love" with my more recent gf.
>>16517000
How long have you been together? How long were you with your ex for? How did your relationship with your ex end? And how long ago?
>>16517005
New gf: Getting close to 2 years in terms of how we "get along" with each other, but "Facebook official" about 6 months or so. We don't live together.
Ex gf: 4 years and we lived together. She dumped me out of the blue one day.
>>16517013
You're probably never going to love her the same if it's been 2 years. You can learn to live with it though.
If old girlfriend came back now & said she wanted you back, what would you do?
>Own Hitachi magic wand
>Use it almost every day
>Sensitivity goes down
>Move to Australia
>Can't use it
>Stuck with my less powerful shibari battery powered one
>Sensitivity went way up
>Cum in 60 seconds
>Yesterday I masturbated like 10 consecutive times
>Still the same level of sensitivity
>I do not stop until it literally exhausts me
How the fuck? What is this?
>>16516960
The solution to your problem is my dick.
Nah, but that's just how nerves n shit work.
>I have a vagina, give me attention. The thread
How about you and your thirsty betas take this shit to /soc/
This isn't advice
>>16516970
We're probably too far away in the first place
Also I tried having sex with one of my fwbs, it took ages to get me off. Didn't help that he teased me a lot. Then another fwb tried to properly get me off and then I had to use a vibrator to finish the job.
What's the easiest way to kill myself. Just please tell me. None of that counseling bullshit please.
By calling a suicide hotline
Get drunk, cut veins upwords your arm. Don't cut across your wrist as that can be fix'd, cut up from your wrist to your elbow and then there's no fixing that. It won't hurt at all, the more you're bleed the sleepier you'll get. You won't feel any pain and then you'll just go to sleep
Good luck!
Blow your brains out, that's how I'd do it
What is a good way to make ~400 euros in a few months? I really need some money to pay off debts and buy a cheap ass car. Any advice appreciated.
Steady employment.
>>16516864
Honestly, sucking cock.
>>16516866
Impossible. I'm stil in school, but will graduate in half a year.
Tell me /adv, does masturbation feel the same way, after you lose you virginity, and have few sexual encounters afterwards?
I mean like can a guy with some sexual experience get off with fap, or it doesn't feel the same way he did before?
Doesn't feel the same way. Fapping becomes a quick way to postpone the need to fuck whereas before fapping was an adventure.
>>16516743
Not true
>>16516738
Fapping is the same and after you have had sex enough its actually desireable to fap instead of fuck....
I'd say technically it fapping would feel the same but will be more disappointing and a "doing the bare minimum" feel where fucking feels on a different world better and is more rewarding with the intimate feeling you get when with your partner. Even if the sex is bad it'll feel better than fapping.
I moved to a new apartment and I cannot game of my internet. I am on wireless and the router is downstairs; I have a 100 dollar network card that is very good. I have 5 roommates, too.
My problem is very high ping in online gaming; usually rapid spikes to absurd numbers and an inconsistent connection. Often times, it goes down for 2 mins at a time. On speetest.net I see that my ping is always 8-15. My downspeed sometimes goes as low as .98mbps, and at other times between 27-40mbps.
Is my internet provider just shit? Is it having many users on the same connection? Wireless?
What can be deduced from all of this?
call your service provider and ask them to take a look
also 5 roommates is definitely a factor, especially if all 5 are using it at the same time
>>16516707
Sounds like the provide.
If they see someone is with heavy usage they lower to speed to allow their other users, this comes about because they don't want to invest.
Okay, I will call them. What makes you guys think it's the provider if you don't mind me asking? Just so I can know for my own knowledge.
I was on a cabin trip this weekend with my father and my best friend. We were to sleep over just one night. At night he made us play strip poker, and got her to sit in just her blouse and panties. It was kind of exciting, but also very embarrassing. It seemed like she wanted to be bad just because, being as adult as possible just to impress him. I was mostly ignored. They remained flirting with each other, while I got tired of it all and went to sleep. I would never have imagined what would happen next. When they finally came to bed, there was a lot of fumbling around before it got very quiet. My father asked if I wanted to see something cool. I asked what it was, and he turned on the light. At that point he was behind her in the bed at the opposite end of the room. She was standing on all fours with her behind lifted towards him, and she was completely naked. She is known to be somewhat of a "bad girl," but I would have never thought she would do something like this. My father I know is kind of piggish, but he is still married. He asked her alot of questions while touching her butt. She told her how beautiful she was, and asked how many boyfriends she had been with and what they had done. Well, she had never done "it" before. He said he could help taking her virginity, and that it would be easier for a future boyfriend. She said that he could do whatever he wanted to. With that, he got in a hurry getting off his boxers, and of course had an erection. This in front of both of us.
I had a view of everything that was going on, since their bed was like two meters away. She turned her head to see what was happening. He was pulling it back and fourth while he explained to her what was going to happen. That this was fully normal and natural for girls her age, that he would put it in her vagina as gentle as possible and keep it there. He had no condom, so he would get her the morning after pill. He put his face in her behind and started licking to make her ready, while she was completely embarrassed and just told him it tickled. Then he asked her to be completely still, in order for him to put it in. Her girly parts were just a plump line or something, and seemed too tiny for anything like that fitting in. After some poking he found the right spot and started pushing. She tensed and shouted a big ow. Then he was on his way in, and she kept shouting ow and ouch until he was inside of her and completely pressed up against her butt. Up until then he had tried to appear cool and collected, but at that point it turned to be too much. He held on to her hips, leaned back and his face was completely red. In a way it was his turn to moan and be making sounds, while she just arched her back and looked proud. He was even cursing and said things about her vagina and how "easy" she had been, something she related to by just lifting her nose and closing her eyes. This went on for a while, him holding her firm and stroking it gently in and out, and her arching her back like a cat and just taking it. In a way, she was the dominating part. At the end he couldn't hold back any longer, so he thrusted as hard as he could against her butt and released his mess inside her. When he was done moaning and being pressed up against her, he smacked her hard and pulled out. There was the "shhhh" sound of air coming out of her, and then she hid underneat the blanket.
He was quite proud of what had happened, and showed me his penis, which was both slimy and had virginial blood on it. They turned off the light in order to go to bed, but it wasn't over yet, because he wanted to sleep with her in the missionary position also. This time it happened a bit more "civilized," and he managed to keep it going for the longest of time with her, while the bed was squeking under them. At some points he paused to kiss her, and then it started again, and I got incredibly tired of having to listen. Only when the morning light started coming through the window they were done, making it possible to sleep for some hours. The day after was really awkward, to put it that way. She had to sit on two pillows because she was sore, while he was making us breakfast. He was making scrambled eggs, and of course had to come with the joke of how she wanted her eggs. We made away with our chores, and she was bow-legged all the time. Then we had to drive into town to get her the morning after pills, and she was dropped of with her family. Both of them wanted to keep what had happened a secret. He still insisted he had made it "easier" for her to have a boyfriend. When we were alone, he asked me if I had more friends he could sleep with.
>>16516682
>>16516677
0/10 would not watch papa fuck again
Have about 4k and 2-3 months to spare. What should I do? Very depressed, saving is not an option.
Travel
Buy loads of drugs and go out rockstar style
>>16516662
specifics, going to somewhere just for going isn't really ideal.
