>>16518886
What kind of bad things did you write?

Why the fuck would you send awful things to her? And there are just some things that you can't look past in a partner, no matter how much they apologise. She knows your capable of abusing her, and for her, that's something she can't forgive.

>>16518892

Calm down, you don't even know what he said.

>>16518886

We don't even know what you said.

It's possible that you're abusive, or it's possible that you're being normal and your girlfriend is just hypersensitive and hates to be disagreed with.

Give some examples, talk about the conversation a few months ago when you said something "bad"

She might be shy and holding back her voice. Let her know what you like and hopefully she'll happily go along with it.

Give her some time to open up and become more comfortable. A lot of girls are really embarrassed by the sounds that they make. I wouldn't tell her to be louder, but if she makes a noise let her know that you find it sexy.

When you fuck her doggystyle, just slap her butt, pull her hair to get her head near your mouth, and then tell her stuff like "Yeah, let it go, scream of pleasure you little slut"

If she dont like, well she'll be boring In bed, i do not like quiet girls too OP.

Good luck

Please don't make the same mistake as I did anon. She killed the relationship by doing this and even if she regrets doing it now, she sure as hell wasn't regretting it while it was happening.

Trust that if you forgive her, she'll do it again. Cut your losses while you can mate, really sorry to hear this

I gave her a chance
She got better and tried to make up for it for a few months but then she started to change the story, lie again, being the same lying selfish victim acting cunt as she cant stand feeling bad about herself
So she made up more lies and then made up some more so she can just blame me and feel good about herself

Made me regret being there when she was a mess or when she came to me in tears, should have closed the door in her face

Took me months to figure out i cant forget it, took me more time to get over the anger, the rage, now i just feel...
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>>16518800
I was in the same boat once man. Leave her now. If you don't then your relationship will spiral to an even sadder end

what did you do?

>>16518797
She was a good friend throughout highschool, I was practically her best friend. Senior year rolls around and we were at a party. She is ABSOLUTELY plastered . Like many other times I brought her home but..I always had feelings for her and I made a move on her. She didn't want it but she was drunk out of her mind and I kept going....she forgave me though..

>>16518814
so you raped her

Everything is irrelevant. Everyone you are awkward around will forget about it and eventually die.

God speed.

I think your partially right about the finals thing. I mean, me being a fem myself, it wouldn't hurt to at least get a conversation going in a way where you can relate with the person your talking to. To be honest that's pretty much how I start my conversations myself. I start out with something relateable. But that's just me, I never really know what else to talk about after that point. I just kind of let the conversation flow where it wants to flow. I guess. I can't find any other way to explain it.

Okay. Pretend you've got a new job. You work in a room with one other guy. You're together all day. He seems kind of shy, introduces himself, but doesn't start a conversation. You're working together in silence all day.

You don't have any sexual interest in him, so obviously, you don't have any anxiety over whether or not he's sexually interested in you. You don't care. You don't even particularly care if he LIKES you or not, you don't need a new best friend.

But if you're stuck working together in a room all...
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And it's so confusing. If he doesn't like me or has no interest in me, why would he waste time staring at me? I don't want to aknowlege that he stares by looking at him because I feel like I'll make things awkward. I have such a hard time gauging how he might feel about me because he sends so many mixed signals.

He likes you or at least considers you interesting. Approach him

Op I feel you, I'm having mixed feelings about a guy at my work too. If you ever get the chance, try making small talk with this guy on a break or something. See where it takes you.

Yes. But they have to be capable of self-reflection and self-criticism, they have to be able to really admit and understand their flaws, mistakes, weaknesses, etc. I find that a LOT of people just can't seem to do that. They might be able to see that their actions hurt someone, they might feel bad about that, but they can't really look at THEMSELVES and say "yup, that part there is not great, I need to work on that."

>>16518645
but what if the part that has to change is the part that keeps making excuses not to change? I self reflect like a ma fucker and think about all the things that need changing, but when it comes down to actually doing something about it, I'll end up fuckin off

>>16518621
No. People cannot change on their own; it takes some kind of crisis or realization to change them. Sometimes its something unpredictable or trivial, or something they've seen hundreds of times but needed to see it one more time for it to "click"...sometimes its a drug or an stupid accident, but invariably the kind of change you are referring to comes from a perspective shift that relies on something in their environment hitting them in the right place at the right time

I think it would be best if you focused your energy on finding reasons to live.

don't kill yourself!!!! go eat a warm meal

Do it then you piece of shit instead of just throwing threats around about it

The ol' fap n pee

You fucked up son. This is actually a problem for a lot of guys, can't remember what its called, but men are really susceptible to it.

Basically make sure you DO NOT have to piss before you fap, and don't drink a bunch before a planned fap. The feeling will go away in 10-15 minutes senpai.

If it doesn't, then std.

>>16518401

I get this same thing sometimes. I even went to the doctor about it and they had no idea, because I have no STDs or anything.

I've learned to just take some pain killers and drink TONS more water to keep pissing to flush out whatever was wrong. Somehow, for me, that helped make it go away.

>>16518401
UTI

>>16518374
I did not say desu why did 4chan change my word into desu

>>16518374
>sexually active
>female
>18

Just talk to people in your class/job you aspie.

A decent looking girl is asking a place where the majority anon is under 22, has no friends, no sexual experience and generally a social retard advice on how to get friends, get laid and be more social? Can I get a top kek?

As for your answer, you are a girl. Getting a boyfriend is as simple as looking half way decent and staring at a guy you think is cute. He will approach and all you have to do is pretend to give a shit. Boom you get laid and have a boyfriend in one fair go. Hell if you meet his friends you might expand your social group as well.

Hey faggot this is for advice and so either ask a question or piss off. You are taking valuable front page space.

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So, basically, 95% of girls and boys?

I would recommend avoiding the military.

MOS is not age related as much as it is test score related (ASVAB).
If you have the ability to pick an MOS, you still need to go to school for that which means you need more time away from college.

I was in the Marine Corps. My MOS was ground radio repair. School was 9 months in 29 Palms, CA.
First duty station was in Okinawa.

Some of the guys in boot camp were radio operators. School was in the same place but was only 2 months long.

come on /adv/.

no one?

>>16518313

Thanks for the advice.

Avoiding Military all together? Even reserve?

Why is that? Because of my situation? Or for anyone?

Also, is it possible to handle a serious psychiatric disorder without therapy - only with medication?

This is firmly in the "talk to a lawyer" territory.

>Hi, I'm crazy.
>I want my medical records for no reason.

Fuck you I hope she messages your wife

>>16518213
She's Canadian, she'll probably apologise

>>16518213
Dunno what to tell you man. I'd prob just be upfront with your fwb, since that shit was always casual in the first place it isn't like she should be TOO upset, compared to your wife at least. Hopefully she isn't a 4chan moralfag and doesn't decide to go and shit up your life just cuz she can.

Don't take it SO hard, everyone's got their little flaws. Just be more aware of it in the future. Don't correct people in social settings. Really not a huge deal, though. Don't over-apologize or make a big deal out of it, just make more of an effort not to be that way.

Dont be like it, people will se that youve changed and wont bring it up and itll just be you who cringes at night thinking of all the "know it all" stuff youve said while your friends dont care, trust me, ive been there

>>16518221
In what way have you been a know-it-all?