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I currently have almost nothing going for me. I plan on taking all of this nothing, and turning it into something. I fear death, but I want to love my life to the fullest in grandiose fashion. I'm good looking and smart, but I'm only average height and girls don't even look at me. I have close to no real friends, and do nothing but play vidya and brood alone for long periods of time. I'm stuck in the shittiest college imaginable after failing out of a university because of severe depression. I won't go into my life story but I have seen some intensely...
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Pipe dream. Finish college, get yourself stabilized in getting a decent career and then come back to us with real problems.
We don't fix broken on /adv/
>>16522335
>I want people to look up to me and WANT to be in my presence
> do nothing but play vidya and brood alone for long periods of time
gee oh golly oh boy OP I wonder what could be the problem.
try getting out and going to social events/parties/clubs/bars/anything outside your house
>>16522351
>The advice board
Gf wants a 6k engagement ring from me. Told her that's not happening. She's super upset. Is she the right girl for me if she doesn't want to marry me over a stupid ring?
Am I being too harsh? The way I see it the money can be spent on our future and engagement rings just have sentimental value manufactured by Disney, movies and advertisement. It's highly irrational and shouldn't be an issue if we love each other.
I'm a poorfag btw.
Pic is Samaras
I feel like she's not mature enough to get married, and neither are you if your first thought at a sign of conflict is to come here to get validation you're right
You dodged a major bullet. What kind of girl asks for a ring with that much of a fucking price tag knowing your financial situation?
Don't even mention how expensive the wedding will be.
>>16522242
Been going on for months now. It's basically me vs her and her mother. Need some outsiders opinion, will try to provide info as objectively as possible.
We had this settled already btw. She agrees to a ring with fake diamonds for 400 bucks. Changed her mind now for reasons unknown.
I'm 22.
Only went to a couple of house parties.
Have had sex only a handful of times, all with the same girl.
Never traveled or went on any road trips.
Did I waste my youth? Should I feel bad? What do I do?
>>16521930
Join ISIL.
Seriously. Every generation strives to change the world. What's wrong with yours?
>I'm 22.
Great, I love even numbers.
>Only went to a couple of house parties.
...Ok? House parties aren't the epicenter of fun or worth...
>Have had sex only a handful of times, all with the same girl.
That's better than having sex with a rat.
>Never traveled or went on any road trips.
Fuck off. Travel is about your mind, not about where you go. So many fuckers go to Thailand and get drunk with...
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>>16521988
Wow, not OP but this is probably the best advise i've seen here in a while.
So to get out of my catch twenty two predicament I need to leave home with the limited funds I have in my bank (about $400). I want to move to Seattle. What's the best way to go about doing this soon.
Where's the catch 22?
>>16521806
The only way I can stay home is if I major in stem and after two and a half years of pursuing I finally have had enough. So I want to move out and the best way to move out is to work and save money, but if I work my parents will kick me out. So I want to leave home asap because I don't like the situation in placed in.
>>16521827
>The only way I can stay home is if I major in stem
Says who?
I caught herpes when I was younger and dumber from a one night stand from a girl I met at college.
How am I to find a wife and have kids and live a normal life with this virus? Feel like killing myself or becoming an asexual hermit.
How bad is it? What are your symptoms? dunno how the situation in america is, but if you are talking about the herpes simplex virus, approx. 85% of adults have it in their bodies and it only breaks out when the immune system is on low. Where i live, this isn't a biggie. Just don't do stuff if you have an outbreak and treat it right. Best is to be as healthy as possible so you don't get outbreaks.
well a billion Africans have no qualms about doing so, chicken pox vaccine is thought to virtually cure it
>>16521131
Most people have herpes. Unfortunately, most think they don't because most are asymptomatic. So lots of misinfo gets spread around. I'm sure you'll be able to find a wife.
Guys, how do you deal with being in love with your friend? Alternatively how to break the friendzone?
>tfw I'm 4/10 forever alone female
Be open, if he rejects you, move on.
>>16520564
He rejected me a year ago but still flirts and acts very clingy ;_;
>>16520568
Use roofies
For real though, be direct. Ask why he's giving mixed signals.
Been having a relationship with this girl for 2 years. She broke off for half a year now and I know she fucked other guys in that time.
Now she wants to cum back to me.
What do I do?
I can't stand the fact that she been sleeping around. The thought disgusts me.
I still have feelings for her but I also hate her.
I can really use some advice on this.
You tell her that it is over and that you moved on. Be brutally honest and then tell her we shouldn't talk anymore with each other. Why? Because if you continue talking to her as friends, you will remember all the feelings you had for her. If you two get back as a couple fights will occur and you two will break up again. Save yourself the drama and delete her number after you tell her you aren't interested.
>>16518982
Yeah, deep down I know your right.
But to be honest, I have not really moved on. Yes I have been dating other girls but I still kinda like my ex gf.
I like her and hate her the same time.
If I did not know she had been sleeping with other guys than I'd take her back no problem.
I feel weak for still having feelings for her.
Mate in all honesty.
If you truly love her. Then take her back without hesitation.
But if she isn't the one.
Then fuck her off and find the girl that is
![male-and-female-relationship-sign[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/4bvJDyI.jpg "male-and-female-relationship-sign[1].jpg")
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>Frog
>Also piss off.
I can't tell if you're complaining about Pepe or something else.
>>16529199
I don't know, I just copied and pasted a past thread. I took it out once while making a thread and someone complained.
Why does my girlfriend not show much affection in public but acts normal when we're alone?
My girlfriend told me that her senior year she got really depressed and fucked 20+ guys in a matter of 3-4 months. That was only a year ago. Obviously she gave me the speech about how she wish it never happened and how she would take it back if she could but it doesn't make me any less grossed out
Should I be worried?
>>16527830
Oh yeah and her reason for being depressed was that her boyfriend of 2 years up and moved to Japan with little notice and broke up with her
If that matters
Sorry man, you should probably break it off. If it grosses you out now, it always will. It's unhealthy for you to try and bury those feelings. I guarantee you that there is someone out there that you get along with just as well who hasn't fucked 25 guys out of "depression".
Anecdote - just got out of a relationship with a girl that did something similar. High school sweetheart of a few years breaks up with her, she goes to college, joins sorority, starts partying, fucks a ton of dudes, develops eating disorder, etc etc. There are people with enough...
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>>16527830
it's objectively not wrong for her to fuck guys but te reason might be a thing to consider
here she had a pretty valid reason to have some void and attempt to fill that with guys so i wouldn't worry about that too much.
If you're grossed out by it then it's upto you to try and see where that feel comes from, fear of disease or fear of her moving on. If you can't live with it then leave.
>don't watch porn
>>16527749
>don't let them come up for air unless they start to complain.
>>16527751
why?
Didn't see one.
Wasn't worthy of its own thread.
Am I a kek for listening to my friend/ex-girlfriend talk extensively about some guy she's on and off with when I walk with her to college? It bores the fuck out of me but she has an ego and I get the feeling she's baiting for me to display distaste for the situation so she can attribute it to me liking her.
Equally, am I insecure and going too much off of suspected emotion?
>>16525922
Did it seriously just censor that to "kek"? Rip
Fine, I meant "sucker"
Bamp
im just leave it here...
The more I see the real you, the more I fear for humanity.
When we talk again, I need you to slow down and block out everything except for me and what exists between us. When you write to me, don't say sorry and don't try to sound fancy or mature, none of that will make me feel better in any way if not make things worse. Just write how you feel and do it with unrestrained humility. I don't want a therapist or someone who simply agrees with me and apologizes. Go back and think about our past together, everything that is you and me, and only what is you and me. Please allow me your time for this.. I know you really do want...
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>>16517667
how the fuck could you do this to me
I deserve an explanation
Letter Thread
I wish I could write to you here again. I miss it.
Nope.
I won't give them the curtsy of my time. The past is over and I'm looking forward. You all should too.
Hurry up and confess to her so both of you can stop with your games. R.S, S.M, D.Q, M.S, N.M, Z.N, M.N, S.K are all things you've addressed her as, and all names I know only because of how she wanted to remind everyone of the two of you and your past. I have a pretty good memory of tge end of June 2014, the end of December 2014 and everything this year starting from March. If you confessed she would accept and you would be back to what you want. If you need a paypal present to undo your most recent mistake then say so and I'll have that be the final gift I give to...
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Last one is dead
Don't be dumb edition
>>16525845
If a guy (friend) messages me a lot even when i'm not online and therefore is sorta clingy does it mean he likes me?
>>16525851
Yes
Or you're very close friends
>>16525854
Is there a way to tell a difference when a guy is just being a really good friend from when hes romantically interested
Beta Thread
>post your current situation with the girl you like, as well as some context.
>anons try to give you advice
>>16523443
>mfw this is the NSA trying to find all the betas so they can round them up and put them in camps
took a girl from a beta
beat the pussy up till she couldn't walk
now she's 10 weeks pregnant
so bretty good
Been dating different girls recently, they're all gung-ho about the first date, texting me nonstop, but after that they disappear. What gives? Dates seem to go great. I'm honest and I 'be myself', I'm not a pushover or anything like that, I decide what we do on the dates. How come women expect you to click with them instantly, and if you don't, you're not worthy of speaking to ever again? What about taking the time to get to know someone better?
